She is a sovereign being and can make her own decisions.
She will be the only one to bear the direct consequences no matter who she listens to.
stevestifler: A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.
As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?
1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with 2. Her parents that gave birth to her 3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually 4. Her husband 5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
BolaAThubv: You definitely used the wrong word which would in turn become a red flag for people like us. You need to edit and rephrase. So you don't create a wrong impression
A list that Teachers and sponsors can read, pick and run with.
CaveAdullam: Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it.
Don't have a blog yet. Even the first post was supposed to be a WhatsApp status post. But I just kept writing and writing and writing, then, boom.
The structure for REAL education is there already. The important thing now is teaching the right topic and stimulating the learners. As sleeper cells terrorists or suicide bombers are taught.
The advantages and disadvantages of poor living due to poor education are there for the learners to observe for themselves. At least they are already on the disadvantaged side. All the teacher needs to do is to hold it like a mirror to their face so that they won't get distracted.
I choose not to stand for any of things you listed.
I am comfortable not being a good person in your books.
What’s next?
EnlightenedUFO: I know there's hardship everywhere in Nigeria but in the larger picture as a human being, if you don't agree with any on this list, you may need to question your life choices.
I didn't explicitly propose a solution because it was a rant according to the title.
The first solution is a large-scale massive education of the masses. Africans go to school, but they are not educated.
The education should be one that aggravates their anger every year till they finish learning. Symposium: A history of Africa and the cause of her problems. The dangerous activities of kinsmen.
An education that must be similar across boards, uniting people of different cultures and religions. Happening almost simultaneously around the continent like the shining sun.
Holy anger generated through learning the reality of the African identity and the state of Africa.
(Many good) elites must also be part of the game. Because money and connection are needed to run the show. It's all about the common good of the whole.
Soldiers need thorough education.
All security arms need thorough education.
Thugs need thorough education.
Proper education, not college degrees will erase these problems gradually.
Education wouldn't pose much of a problem because the schools and religious centers are there. What's needed is to infiltrate them with the sought-after elixir.
Education is the best solution I can think of right now. Probably, other better ideas are unknown.
CaveAdullam: The problem with being an African is that the errors and trials you would have experienced in your early teenage years till the mid-20s, to become fully grounded from 25, or let's say 30...is what you will start experiencing from your 30s. .
Gistmedia10: Dramatic CCTV footage has emerged showing a man narrowly evading a group of armed assailants in a heart-stopping escape. The incident unfolded in the city center, as the man found himself pursued by a group of individuals believed to be assassins. In a move straight out of a movie scene, the man swiftly daubs something on his clothes. Moments later, he strategically laid down on the sidewalk, quickly transforming his appearance to that of a disheveled homeless person.
The ruse proved successful as the assassins, deceived by the disguise, passed by without a second glance, their intended target hidden in plain sight.
dangoteinlaw: Chai see what tinubu has caused, we warned you all but you failed to listen. Everyone is selling off their precious properties just to escape what tinubu has caused this country.
Painful part is they have convinced the majority that the hardship was caused buy the previous govt and somehow someway buhari is the reason for their problems meanwhile the real devil is right in their face.
GentleLaw: Since bread became a problem to eat due to high price, I withdrew myself from it but this morning because I had some visitors I decided to buy bread so we could take tea together.
Guess what? 3 of us couldn't even cut it twice and the nylon was empty.
This size of loaf of bread was never more than N200 became APC came to power and 9 years on, it's now N1400. You can now calculate how many percentage APC governments have added hardship to Nigerians.
Well, let's continue to advocate based on tribal and religious lines. We are all suffering it.
Mind you, your sister might be the weight holding him back. Once you cause a breakup, the guy may start prospering, and then you become the enemy in your sister’s eyes.
Leave well enough alone.
lacapine: Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?
My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.
Broveens42: It's almost becoming a norm in Owerri where Landlords upgrade their buildings or face rejection. But what surprises most, is the way imolites are building their personal houses everyday, especially at the outskirts of the city center. I did an interview the last time on project sites, I was quite surprised most were civil servants whose children were still in school. Some were retirees who had started their projects when they were in active service. Imolites who stay abroad also build houses in Owerri, even when they do have magnificent structures in their villages; maybe hotel bills are becoming more expensive and could play a major role, or some do such for luxury and relaxation from frequent visitation of villagers/kinsmen.
People are becoming more of landlords than tenants in Owerri
Pic 1: world Bank didn't have this view 2 years ago Pic 2: wetheral didn't have this view 4 years ago Pic 3: okigwe road
NairaOcean: In a joyous celebration of love and commitment, popular gospel artiste Moses Bliss exchanged vows today in a private civil wedding ceremony. The event, which took place on February 27, was attended by close family and friends of the couple.
Photos from the intimate affair reveal the beaming couple, Moses Bliss and his now-wife, standing side by side, radiating happiness. The bride looked stunning in an elegant white gown, while the groom was dashing in a classic black suit.
Haljardon: Like I have Been wanting to ask , Cus Since I began to Step into my Early 20's, a Lot Of Older ladies usually Late 20's and early 30's have Begun Drawing into my Light.
With 80% Giving Greenlight to Smash So Easily, something that Happens on a Small Percentage Of Younger ladies don't do.
Unlike Negative people who always see the negative.
adioolayi: Everything is not opposition...deep down, you know what the past government did was to issue a white paper on Orosanye's report....non implemented it.
Atleast, wait and see if Tinubu will implement or not...what we have seen now is not issuing of white paper..but a clear directive to implement
Lumarstone: To what an end? Of what impact does that his brave decisions have on Nigerians as at today 26/2/2024? Please never you try to defend leadership failure at it's peak. Is this how oversea first class account scholar handle economy of a nation like ours?
This man has made former PMB led immediate past Government to be a saint.
Family › Re: Whom Should A Woman Listen To First? by GodHimself(m): 4:59pm On Mar 06, 2024
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