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King44:
na must to remember date na story wey no dey credible nahin witness dey remember every single date as long as their narration is crucible

koyyess:
I see you have refused to use your head.

It is obvious you are very passionate about this story because you and the man have the same IQ and behave like blind bats. That is why you both make horrible decisions when it comes to relationships/marriage.

If you knew the essence of dating/courtship, you wouldn't have displayed your ignorance here.

At least, you would have been smart enough to weigh the pros and cons to know why child marriage 'generally' is a bad idea.

Look up again at the term 'generally'.

Ode.

koyyess:
Where did you read that she got married at 18 or 19?

Even if individuals are considered adults at 18 years, does that make each and every 18 year old female mature enough or ready for the rigors that comes with marriage and parenting?

Besides, this is his side of his story which you obviously believe which means you are the one being subjective here.

What are you saying?

Use your head for once before I start insulting the living day light out of you.

koyyess:
“I also have evidence on how my wife invited her lover from Abuja and had a session with him in a hotel in Bompai, which name I will not reveal. She did this precisely on 26th April, 2016 while being married. She was at the hotel from 10:13 a.m and stayed up to 12:16 pm. And the CCTV camera of that hotel captured this information I’m talking about."




Take note of the date up there. She is currently 21 years if I am not mistaking. How old was she in 2016?

Do you know when they got married?

A lot of males at that age including you were busy experimenting with sex left and right. No one caged you with marriage. So why are you making noise?

Use your head negroe.

While I don't condone promiscuous behavior, I do not think 'marriage' cures it.

Again, he should have married his mate instead of a child.

koyyess:
Effect of child marriage.

Next time, marry your mate. Leave teenagers to out grow their youthful exuberance before they can decide whether to marry or not.

The era of using 'marriage' to tame/cage females should be over by now.

It doesn't work.

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

frozen70:
Just call her and say sorry to her

Sheust have been expecting your call

Then take her for shopping and assure her that she will be fine

Love is sweet and deep when you find the right person, I think she is in love and that's what you are yet to understand

With time, the relationship will fezeel out

victorian:
Yes I'm stil doing fiance.

We are not in a hurry to marry and divorce.

We didn't complain to you.

U can wail all night, I have better things to do with my time and my companion

Cry me a river all night

I'm done answering you! Keep wailing!


Lol


Yen yen yen yen yen yen

Lol.

The floor is yours,

Mr Wailing faulty machine ! Hahahahahahahahahah

You think I have your time, all night? You must be daft!


Byeee and keep ranting all night and all week!

victorian:
That's where u are wrong

I have a man, you think I'm single like yourself? I'm at my fiance place, if you must know.

Because I don't demand from my man, does not mean I'm not in a relationship.

You think I'm broke like your gf u tried to make kill herself because of 100k? Lol

You that's talking you don't even have a woman anymore.

Are you not useless already? Your broke fiance rejected you!

Her family rejected you. Even wanted to beat you up into pulp!!!!

You are a shameless man . Very useless!

You are not even meant to be called a man

You are good for nothing miscreant!

Broke useless monkey! .

Don't go fix your life, so a woman can pity you and start all. Over again to date you.

That's if any woman would even want you.

At your age, you are breaking up, because of 100k!!!! lol

Ode!

Shame on you! Very Useless man! Ordinary 100k, u wan to kill person pickin.


*spits*

victorian:
Honestly I'm done with topic yesterday
It's rather unfortunate some late readers are all geared up for insults today and Mehn this is Monday, first working day of July.
For Christ sakes I'm not ready to jinx this month with curses and insults.
I have a Buisness outside Nairaland I need to attend to.
With clients around me. I can't leave them and be exchanging insults online

Abeg, I have bills to pay Biko. Insults wil not pay my bills out there. Half of the year is gone already. I will now start the remaining half of this year with people who have no target to achieve for this year? I can't. December is just around the corner.
The year is moving fast. I can't waste 24hrs or more on back and forth insults.

Lol

I have plans Abeg.

I have said enough on the topic. That's it for me.

Thanks for understanding jare

victorian:
Honestly I'm done with topic yesterday
It's rather unfortunate some late readers are all geared up for insults today and Mehn this is Monday, first working day of July.
For Christ sakes I'm not ready to jinx this month with curses and insults.
I have a Buisness outside Nairaland I need to attend to.
With clients around me. I can't leave them and be exchanging insults online

Abeg, I have bills to pay Biko. Insults wil not pay my bills out there. Half of the year is gone already. I will now start the remaining half of this year with people who have no target to achieve for this year? I can't. December is just around the corner.
The year is moving fast. I can't waste 24hrs or more on back and forth insults.

Lol

I have plans Abeg.

I have said enough on the topic. That's it for me.

Thanks for understanding jare

biacan:
If not that Nigerian men are useless those ladies will never engage in such act

Zane2point4:
So you didn't get entertained?
Since you started watching football, what did you gain?
The fact is every one has there own life to live, dont live your uncle's life for him.

victorian:
For his fiancee to have blocked him?

Shes not a stranger he met in a club, on a street somewhere or online .
She started out as his gf before graduating to the level of fiancee( knowing the way most Nigerian men behave, they likely date a babe for years or so before proposing marriage, thats most Nigerian men in quote)
Which means, he knows where she stays and everything about her
For his fiancee to block him on whatsapp, knowing fully well he can still trace her to her home, means he must have Insulted her life, and possibly her family too due to anger on his part.
So it's only natural to. Click block on such insultive messages.

I'm not saying what she did is right but for Christ sakes, no one wants to be insulted endlessly on chats or even face to face because of money over a failed biz.

If you keep raining insults on me as my bf or fiance on whatsapp ? I wil block you. That's me. Then come home and rain the insult more on my face.

So fine, she blocked him on whatsapp. He can easily go to her house and continue from where he stopped.

So why should blocking in whatsapp be an issue between a couple?

victorian:
For his fiancee to have blocked him?

Shes not a stranger he met in a club, on a street somewhere or online .
She started out as his gf before graduating to the level of fiancee( knowing the way most Nigerian men behave, they likely date a babe for years or so before proposing marriage, thats most Nigerian men in quote)
Which means, he knows where she stays and everything about her
For his fiancee to block him on whatsapp, knowing fully well he can still trace her to her home, means he must have Insulted her life, and possibly her family too due to anger on his part.
So it's only natural to. Click block on such insultive messages.

I'm not saying what she did is right but for Christ sakes, no one wants to be insulted endlessly on chats or even face to face because of money over a failed biz.

If you keep raining insults on me as my bf or fiance on whatsapp ? I wil block you. That's me. Then come home and rain the insult more on my face.

So fine, she blocked him on whatsapp. He can easily go to her house and continue from where he stopped.

So why should blocking in whatsapp be an issue between a couple?

BiggyB242:
The girl is a pyscho. Run far away, I think she will do something crazy again if you eventually reconcile her. Don't start what you can't finish. Don't fall for an emotional blackmail

victorian:
Wow!

You are realy obsessed with her.

You are even waiting for her this week, begging you to accept her back.


And if she doesn't contact you? What will u do? Have sleepless nights Shey?

This guy is a mor.onnn, Mehn!

He's waiting for her to contact him! Can u imagine?

Lol, I can't believe this!

So you cannot move on with your life?

Na today I know say you be really Ekpa! Infact the "follow come" brand type of Ekpa!

Keep waiting for her call or message o! Infact go and sleep at her door step!

Nonsense!

victorian:
Initially she told you the truth, she gave some of the money to help her dad.
Do u think if ones dad need financial help from his daughter or son, the child just look away and lie she doesn't have?
If you have the heart not to help your parents when they are in need ?she doesn't have such heart.

That's one

Then two! She blocked you whatsapp when u started talking trash to her. Because I wonder how she will just block u like that, if u were not insultive to her and her family.

OK. Fine she blocked you. So because she blocked u, due to your insults, u feel it was right to arrest her?

Smiles, Na WA o

Anyways thank God, her brothers have paid you back your almighty 100k!

Go your way! And let her breathe and live-in peace.

Then lastly I'm not looking at any man to give me 100k or more, cos I know most men value money more than their lives and the life of the woman they claim they love and fucvk everyday. So that's not my focus at all.

I look this good and fresh not because of any man! But because of God's favour in my life and biz.

If I depend on man, I'm finished for life. God forbid I depend on man for upkeep and survival. How much will boyfriend give me that wil make me have this peace and content I have today? How much? Do you think I look up to boyfriend?
Smhhhhh. Boyfriend of these days, that all they have to offer is just sex! Is that what I will be looking up to?

Abeg bounce off! Carry your troubles away from her life! Thank God it's over between both of you. Smhhhhh.

Move on! Leave her alone! Why you even created this thread sef baffles me.

You've gotten your money. So what's your problem again?

Jgoldie:
I repeat I will never ever attempt suicide because of a man.....like who does that....all because of loveeeee.......I spit on love...I shit on love....e no go better for love.....100k....God punish poverty.....girls pls pls try n be independent so that 100k will be like change...

victorian:
I have gone through your previous thread

But wait! Because of 100k!
100k! Ha!

You want to arrest Your fiance!

I can Imagine the destructive words u must have said to her, for her to attempt suicide!

What is 100k to someone's life!

Do u think 100k will bring her back. To. Life assuming she succeeded and killed her self.
A family friend of. Mine, the husband took loan of 3million! I say 3million ,out of it bought a Jeep for the wife and set up her biz. Her bizness flopped! Yes they quarrelled for a while.. But they settled. She's still driving the jeep, they are still together, he didn't arrest or divorce her and she didn't attempt suicide
He has even paid off the debt.

What is 100k for God sake?

Men doing shopping in Dubai for their wives and kids, never past this your terrible 100k? Men buying cars for their gfs are still. Alive today waxing strong Withthe babes. Is your head different from theirs?

Must you make a babe kill herself because of 100k?
Haba!

If you know u cannot give a certain amount and remove eye to your supposedly fiance then don't give at all. Hold your money! Swallow it! Jesus!

Honestly u dey make. Me vex! I swear!

victorian:
Sorry to say this Op, for to try committing suicide cos of money u gave her for biz and she messes up, mean u must have said some horrible things to her.

Which is very bad. Not every body, one invest money on succeed in Buisness. Married men who have invested Millions of naira in their wives Buisness and the Buisness crumpled, Shey those married men av divorced their wives abi? Cos I know of one couple like that. They are still. Together waxing strong.
You dont make your fiance, a woman u once say several times I love you and promise heaven and earth to but because of money break up with her. Not everyone is a genius in spinning money into money making machine.

Thank God her brothers have refunded your money back.
You will let her rest. She no longer owes you!
Smmhhhh. I pity women who goes too deep in relationship. Honestly I pity them.

So please go your way and let her heal and be with a man who knows what it means to handle the ups and downs of a relationship.
Later in life, both of your paths will cross and u wil see how well she will turn out to be with her own kids and husband. It's just a matter of time .

She will be fine.

That's why I don't give my heart into love issues. Just pure waste of time.

Especially when money is involved.. Only few matured men knows what it takes to stand firm in the midst of counting losses. And you call yourself godoverevery.

You don't know the meaning of that name at all.

Kennyprince:
Guy you did on wrong. Sorry to say but your ex or should i say girlfriend messed up big time. She started the whole drama in the first place.

I don't know why when you invest in girls they mess up that much.

majamajic:
1897 item for 40m
that's at the rate of 21k for one item ?
is it not too cheap for 21k for one item ?
how they arrived at 40 million for 1897 jewelries

Ryan03:
So you expect women to respect you because? Respect is reciprocal, you Cant demand for what you Cant give. I have met different women, once you meet one who lack manners, you cut her off, its not by force. Women are bad so are men, we have few good people in the world so just stop this women talk

desvi:
yeah, your very existence depends on women

now tell us who depends on you for survival?

delishpot:
I have seen men who say it esp drunk ones