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ChuksBlaze: wats up ppl

Na you be this??

psoto: Guess she'll be here τ̅☺ clarify that later in the day. I can't speak on that cos I don't have evidence τ̅☺ back it up.

...Then she shouldn't have been supported at all ma'am...We await her clarification...

psoto: Nope I'm not. I'm not denying that communication is very important I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ every marriage or relationship. My first comment on this matter was that the man got what ego-ridden men should get I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ that situation. Looking at it sincerely, as regards the communication aspect, if that man really had an important thing τ̅☺ do at that time, he should have broken the communication gap. It could even have helped resolve the whole issue.

Okay, lets agree the man was 'ego-ridden' it doesn't mean the woman should be 'ego-driven'...And should that qualify him ALONE as 'Unfortunate and Unserious'??

Yes, I've been looking at it sincerely since 10:00pm...Why was it the man that overslept & not the woman??...Why was the story trying to show that the woman was wiser IF the writer actually wants to pass the moral lesson across to everybody without favoritism??...

Feel me??

psoto: But lady P says the women work harder. Are you subtly saying she's lying?

Women work harder??...If this is a joke please stop it o cos you're already killing me with laughter!.....Rotfl!!!

Maybe she meant during pregnancy!...

You feel me??

psoto: No. I'm concerned about the home too. As a matter of fact, I'm concerned more concerned about the way she handles the home front and official tinz too.
Like I said earlier, women shouldn't be proud of being the breadwinner of their families but their input also counts.

I know their inputs count...But when it comes to the extreme, which is more expendable??...The husband's or the wife's??

psoto: You got the example right, it is clear enough. Do you think men of all tribes nationwide are hardworking? If you do, then you must be sitting on a long thing!

I'm always sitting on a long thing my sister, it makes me inquisitive...Can you give me examples of tribes whose women are more hardworking than their men??...Even if you come up with one, it'll still be 1 out of many...

Feel me??

psoto: Nope, we aren't saying women should be proud of being the breadwinners of their homes, we're only trying τ̅☺ say that a woman's income is important τ̅☺ the couple's welfare just the same way the man's is also important.

Exactly!...And I'm trying to maintain that, failure of the man to deliver would most likely jeopardize the home than if its the other way round...No one would raise eyebrows if a lady stays at home while husband goes to work, but what kind of parents would give out the hand of their hardworking daughter to a jobless man??...Questions would be asked!

You feel me??

psoto: Nah...feel free τ̅☺ contribute dear, its a general open topic.
GC, lady P has given a very good example. FADINUS, is that true?

You're kidding right??...Men are less hardworking than women, in which part of the country does that happen??...Perhaps I didn't get her example well sha...

Feel me??

psoto: As far as this debate is concerned, I can't feel you at all. So far a woman is working, no matter how much she earns, it affects the welfare of the couple, or at least the lady. I'm not using nollywood script, I'm using real life scenarios.
Another side τ̅☺ it is that the woman has every reason τ̅☺ wake up late (even though she doesn't). She goes through the stress of office work and comes home τ̅☺ meet domestic work too and you think she won't be tired? Rara o, body no be stone. But against all odds, she still wakes up early τ̅☺ get τ̅☺ work.
Also, who on earth oversleeps purposely just τ̅☺ get sacked? Such a person could have easily tendered a resignation letter instead of the shame and embarrassment of getting sacked.

Really, from all you are saying...You only care about upholding the reputation of a woman...You are less concerned about the Home...Do you know how shameful it is for a woman to be the breadwinner of a family??...

All your illustrations suit a single lady best, not a married one...

You feel me??

psoto: No we don't!
Well, as far as this story is concerned, it only happened τ̅☺ be that the man was the unfortunate one and unserious at that.

You see now??...Trying to digress from the moral of the story; 'Communication is very important in every Marriage'...by shifting the onus on the man alone...

Feel me??

princessmia: sorry to pop into this, but that depends on what part of the country u r from. No disrespect to Fadinus, but MOST times, our men are less hardworking than the females. Making the women the general breadwinner.

P.S: datz y foreign men (especially northern) like marrying our women

Of kois!....That must be the 'Hollywood' aspect...How many of you ladies can be proud of it if you're the breadwinner in your homes??...

princessmia: GC! What is ur own now?! I sleep n wake up at odd times. Wen its tym to fast, I'm d 1st to wake. I wake up at odd times coz I don't sleep deep. Lol. Don't fear. My kids can't b late for school n my hubby won't b late for work. For now, as 1st Lady rightly put it, I'm jobless n can sleep weneva n however I want!

ROUND 2: SLEEP!

No no, PRINCESS please don't misread me...It was ignited by DAHRACH's joke, pointing that communication is very important in every marriage...Normally, if the joke were to be unbiased, both the Husband & Wife should have lost something...But it was shifted on the man alone...

And my question was, why didn't it happen the other way round??....I was only trying prove the validity of my question...Coincidentally, your sleep post came in & I grabbed it as a leverage...

Contrarily, I can still counter myself by saying; If PRINCESS sleeps early, then she'll wake up earlier than her husband...If she sleeps most times during the day, then the intensity of her sleep in the night would have been reduced hence, she'll wake up before her husband...

The scenario can be modified from various angles, but what I'm trying to maintain is that it could have been the wife that overslept while the husband left her a note...

You feel me??

psoto: No, I don't feel you at all! The presumption that the wife getting fired won't affect the welfare of the couple is very false. What if she is the major bread winner? What if the both of them are still managing even with the wife working. For all you care, the wife might even be more hardworking than the husband.

Hmmmm, please lets look at this from the 'Real Life' scenario and not 'Nollywood' aspect...If a woman would be a bread winner, its gonna be 1 out of 50 homes & our case study shouldn't be based on such rarity...If both of them are managing, them more reasons why the man can, least likely, oversleep cos he knows what's at stake...Woman more hardworking?? C'mon! That's 1 out of 70 homes!...Feel me??

psoto: That is because she is currently jobless and not married!

Ermmmm....What makes you think she won't get used to it oooo??

psoto: Then that will be for house wives, cos women too go τ̅☺ work (just in case you've forgotten).

Yeah, I remember now though its very rare...Even with that, its still permissible for the woman to be fired any day cos it won't affect the welfare of the couple...That's why she can, most likely, oversleep...But that must never happen to the man...that's why he can, least likely, oversleep...You feel me??

psoto: Does she sleep this early everyday?

...But you know she sleeps a lot...Remember; #mortal kombat voice# round 'X' sleep??....X may be any number oooo!

psoto: Hello sir! Please wake up. Often times, in most homes, the woman wakes up before the man. Who gets d children ready for school and cooks for the family?

No, I'm not talking about couples with kids...Most busy men don't eat before going to work...

Dahrach: princess..so soon..y naa

psoto: Good night pweety face buh why so soon?

@DAHRACH, can you see now oooo!....If she were to be the woman & I was the man, who do you think will oversleep??....Na the woman ooo!

Dahrach: y must it b d other way round..

Because it was supposed to be the woman who overslept!...They do that a lot...The man must have left her a note...But the moral lesson still remains the same sha...

Dahrach: Everytime I read this story, I just LOL...

Husband & Wife Not Talking......

A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. The next week the man realized that he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 a.m. for an early morning business flight to Chicago.

Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (AND LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, "Please wake me at 5:00 AM and laid it on her nightstand. The next morning the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 a.m. and that he had missed his flight.

Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn't woken him up when he noticed a piece of paper on his nightstand. The paper said, "It is 5:00 a.m. Wake up."

Now who is Wiser? Husband or Wife........

Moral: Communication is very important in every Marriage. Let's endeavor to give our marriages the best shot

Hehehhehehehee....Lmao!...Why wasn't it the other way round??

psoto: Railway ke? Long thing! Sincerely, I just saw a train moving in this country for the first time in ‎​♏v̶̲̥̅ life last year. You can imagine! And it was sheer luck cos I was also I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ transit at that time.

Heeeee!....Last year??...Are you serious??...Me I still tried oo, there is a railroad beside my secondary school...We used to see trains sometimes then, Bodija Oju-irin in Ibadan...I dunno if it still happens now sha...

psoto: Its not so cold here in Abeokuta.

Haaaa, then it means it hasn't rained there today??...

psoto: Seriously, was still staring at ‎​♏v̶̲̥̅ momsi's picture during her service days today. ‎​♏v̶̲̥̅ dad served in Jalingo and according τ̅☺ him, he enjoyed it. That was when Nigeria was still Nigeria, they even enjoyed the night trips in luxurious buses (now that's like taking a luxurious risk). Everything is just degenerating in this country. May God revive Nigeria.

heheheheheehee...They really enjoyed ooo!...My dad couldn't afford that, most of his trips were via railway....Good old days!...Which of our railways are still functioning now??.....May GOD revive our country!

.......Quiet House.....Is it because of the cold??...Its so cold in Iwo right now...

psoto: I'll be happy o. But I'll wish more that NYSC goes back τ̅☺ the way it was before, cos its aims are not been achieved again. Anything short of that, I'll be happy, because a lot of lives are being lost while serving this our so-called fatherland that isn't worth it.

Hmmmmm.....Gone are those days when NYSC was still N.Y.S.C.....I still have my dad's khaki pictures of when he was serving....He served in the north then, was there anything like Boko Haram?? I don't think so...I think they used to pay them, was it 3naira or 5naira?? I'm not sure but I sha know it was a very ridiculous amount...yet, they enjoyed it!

If NYSC were still the way it used to be, I'm sure my papa would frown at influencing...Now, he is the one that keeps bothering me to let him know when our number comes out in order to follow it up...

It is well!

psoto: The freedom is another thing again. Really if I'm τ̅☺ talk about this thing, it will be a long story. Nigeria is just a place where tinz don't work and that's why most of us a excited about going for NYSC cos of the freedom, experience and the peanut allowee. May God help this country...God Bless Nigeria.

A longer story paapaa!...May GOD help us ooooo!....

Dahrach: good nd u?

Same here...Good as always...

........Roll Call things........

OGBECHE.........absent
ABBASUFI........absent
RIDWAN............absent
CHUKS..............absent.....& WANTED!
HORBASCO...........absent
BREZZYBONE......absent
YEMCOGUY.........Absent
WOLEBS.............Absent
BOUNTYMAN.......Absent!
PRODAM...........Absent!!
KIKELOMO.........Absent!!
MHOZZIS...........Absent!!!
FEMOINT...........Absent!!!!


I'm beginning to get worried about BOUNTY again......It is well!

psoto: House mates, I have a question, just being curious...
What if NYSC announces tomorrow that the whole programme has been scrapped, no more service year...How will you feel? Excited or disappointed?
#Just Asking...

And yeah, I forgot to include this as one of the reasons why I'll be sad...I'll miss the 'Allowee' cos I need it...But still, I'm ready to sacrifice it for my freedom...

FADDY & DAHRACH are around now....I see you!...How una dey??

psoto: Twas just there jawe. No highlights.
There's been light since I woke up this morning, uninterrupted and I managed τ̅☺ grab a one hour nap, which doesn't happen often...
It feels so good not τ̅☺ have τ̅☺ go out everyday.
How was yours?

Normal daily routine as usual ooo....No highlights too...Woke up in the morning, ate...left for farm, worked...came back home, napped...And I thank GOD I didn't get into trouble sha!

psoto: Buh it wasn't that bad naa...Besides it didn't last for the whole 24hrs. Oya come τ̅☺ mummy...#BigHug

Hehehehehehe....I catch am!....GOD bless you again!!!