₦airaland Forum

kentoski:
Most likely because of poverty and ignorance, they don't know that having a child out of wedlock is not the end of life, and they probably don't have the resources to empower her, so the next option is to marry her off. Sad!

WORD!!! Nigerian parents should learn to accept the fact that it takes great courage on their children's part to bear "out-of-wedlock" pregnancy, instead of resorting to abortion... It's not the end of the world

haladadon:
downs syndrome guy needs love too.

no slay queen will marry the downs syndrome guy.

note: a down syndrome guy can look older than his age.

Down syndrome or not, that guy is way older...

dollytino4real:
yes n.a. even jiji

That one go sweet die...

dollytino4real:
yes n.a., online marriage n online pack into my online house

And we go transfer kids through Xender or Gmail?

rainylad:
The guy na afonja cone-head...Do not be deceived.

I thought as much...

See face like Osama...
This young man will go places with this character...
Places like Kuje prison and co...

ArmaniUhuru:
Why you go UnCloth 7 years old girl and touch her private part?


Her private part na motorcycle parts?

Chai, this one funny die... You just made me laugh

dollytino4real:
u pay dowry first n.a. abi n.a. baby father u wan be

Lol... Yep, dowry first... But how do we arrange for that? Or, will it be done online? ...

[quote author= post=75309398]We TRUE IGBOS are for Sai Baba.
We thank him for all the good works he is doing in our region.
Carry us dey go for another 4 years Daddy.
We dey behind you gidigba!
(Chineke na-agozi Buhari : God bless Buhari.)

To all the lovers of Sai Baba,
WELCOME to the month of FeBuhari.
It will end in praise! [/quote]Guy, so you're now Igbo? There's nothing we won't see on Nairaland... Lest I forget, your Igbo translation is incorrect...

dollytino4real:
ok wen

By special arrangements, anytime you wish...

dollytino4real:
ok thank u

I go like pack come your house sef...

TimBri:
The story teller.....I don't know you!

You don't need to know her... Stop forming rubbish on SM, it's obvious you are not the Timi she's talking about...

dollytino4real:
n.a. woman dey pack go husband house but 9ja own n.a. husband dey pack go meet wife but maka why

All na same, whether the man pack go wife house or the other way round, pack na pack... Whether Fish swallow Jonah or Jonah swallow the fish, what's more important is that a swallow occurred

raymondFirstborn:
the N8m does not cover land.Construction of the building only

But here's your previous post...

raymondFirstborn:
what does N8m not cover

Fencing,

land

cooling system

kitchen wares.

any extra item would be an additional cost

raymondFirstborn:
what does N8m not cover

Fencing,

land

cooling system

kitchen wares.

any extra item would be an additional cost

In which part of the country will the land be acquired?

At 19, you're still aspiring to be like CR7 or Neymar... Guy receive sense.
It's time to start acting on your aspirations already... Do somrsomet to push you to their level

lilmax:
smh

I do not think poverty can make people stupid to this extent

Which one is stupidity again?

dollytino4real:
let them stay here in 9ja not flying to Yankee

How e take concern you? Or are you feeling pained?

In other news, all na hustle, my guy, congrats...

BillgatesMaigad:
I feel like blessing someone on this platform with small cash.

Come bless me Abeg

Georgekyrian:
Do Buhari know this, if he does he won’t be behaving like rat that already ate a marginal line

ValCon888:
The only thing buhari know is grazing route in the precolonial era.

Must every thread be turned into politics?

Eberejesus111:
Bless your soul child. God is always willing to love you till death. God won't hold this wrong against you and may your family be strong because the joy of the lord is their strength. Love you child.

My brother, always say the truth... The true God is not, and fan never be partial. His word states that he has reserved a punishment for sins. She died a sinner, as can be seen by how she took her life. She showed disregard for the precious gift of life, and you think God won't hold it against him? Think again

Lotechi:
yea sure.......but what happens when one mistakenly gets pregnant and knows that the child's wellbeing is not in the very least guaranteed? Having in mind that it takes about 20 to 24 weeks for a complete human to form in the womb.

Mistakenly gets pregnant? You walk the walk... It's wrong to deny it a chance just because you think it's wellbeing isn't guaranteed...

Lotechi:
I'm just against humans suffering.
I'm pro life. But I still believe that parents should have enough to take care of any life being created.

Same here... However, abortion is rather an inhumane way of ensuring that. I think "pre-pregnancy" birth control methods are better, morally...

Lotechi:
I really do not know the spiritual implication of abortion though but [s]I believe that instead of bringing a child to suffer in the world, it is better to abort. [/s]That is if the mistake has already been made.

Murde on the other hand is taking a life that is equal to yours and every being has equal right to live.

But a child's life isn't equal to yours? SMH...

Forreellinc:
she no even fine sef

You must not comment... What's the correlation between the post and your comment? She is not a bride or beauty pageant for crying out loud, she is a victim of circumstances... What she needs is your kindness, not your opinion...

Paxie55:
Nonsense.


This was the reason I spat on one foolish guy yesterday.

Ah... What really did he do? What's the degree of his mess-up?

An abortion is done intentionally to cause the death of an unborn child. It is not an accident or the result of a natural reaction of the human body. From the time of conception, a child is not just another part of the mother’s body. The child is a separate person.

XxSabrinaxX:
Abortion is not on the same level of murder. It is not a crime, because there are valid, justifiable reasons to have one. Said reasons include, but are not limited to:

1. Stillbirth: The baby has died in the womb, and rather than forcing the mother to endure the rest of the pregnancy, with possible serious side effects due to dead tissue, the doctors recommend an abortion or induced labor to get it out.
2. Non-viable: The foetus will not survive outside of the womb, or the chances of living are so minuscule as to be almost impossible. Again, rather than forcing the mother through a pregnancy that will only result in a dead body, an abortion is obtained.
3. Rape/Incest: Already traumatised by severe abuse, the pregnant person has no desire to be further traumatised by carrying and birthing a living reminder of their attacker. Nor do they want to give said abuser a chance to sue for joint custody or family visitation, which happens far more often that most sane people would think.
4. Serious Health Risks/Complications: Pregnancies are not easy. The maternal mortality rate is much lower than it used to be, but ectopic pregnancies, mothers too young to safely bear a child without serious consequences to their health, people with pre-existing medical conditions that could be fatally enhanced by pregnancy, etc. still exist.

I know people who are in the last category. To carry a pregnancy to term, one would have to completely forego life-saving medication. They would most likely not survive long enough for the foetus to reach viability. They can take all the precautions in the world, but abstinence is the only 100% effective form of birth control. If they became pregnant, they would get an abortion, because not getting one would gain them nothing but a coffin and six feet of dirt.

You can't say that preserving one's life should be considered a crime.

Nice points you have ma'am, but let's re-evaluate them.
1. Stillbirth: Abortion is the "cessation of the development of a fetus" A dead fetus cannot be aborted, it can only be removed through induced labour. Note, you don't abort a dead fetus... It has to be alive for it to be aborted.
2. Non-viable: Even if the chance of living is 10%, it is still wrong to abort. Just like choosing terminate the life of a patient who is in ICU and has 10% survival chance. However, if the pregnancy could somehow be of harm to the expecting mother, and the doctors have determined that there is no chance for survival, morally, it's not wrong... Though it's tantamount to murder
3. Rape/Incest:[/b]This is a no-no. If you're raped, you should go to a hospital immediately for proper treatment. If however after, you get pregnant, that is not an excuse to end the .life of the fetus... Remember, it is not the fetus' fault that you got raped... Secondly, no court of law would grant joint custody to a rapist or abuser... As for incest, it is only selfish that you enjoyed a timeout with a family member and refuse to bear the consequences... If you're Raped, sue the rapist and submit yourself to the hospital as soon as possible...
[b]4. Serious Health Risks/Complications: Yes, it's not a crime to save one's life, but it is however wrong to take a life you did not give. There are various forms of birth control, both temporary and permanent that does not involve abortion, when one knows that she is not able to carry pregnancy to the full term for health reasons, why not go for birth controls rather than waiting to terminate the fetus...
You however failed to the reason which accounts for about 80% of Abortions... "Unwanted or Unplanned-for" pregnancy... Most young girls today take as "The way to go" in order to continue in their depraved lifestyles... That too is murder

Heathen777:
Abortion can't be likened to murder, because a fetus isn't a developed human being.

If I should chip in something, Biblically speaking, God views the fetus same way he views an adult...
In his law to ancient Israel, acceptable punishment for causing harm to your fellow man was "tooth for tooth, eye for eye, and life for life" At Exodus 21:22-24, God applied that punishment to harm caused to the fetus in a pregnant woman... It reads, (NWT 2015) "“22 If men should struggle with each other and they hurt a pregnant woman and she gives birth prematurely but no fatality results, the offender must pay the damages imposed on him by the husband of the woman; and he must pay it through the judges. 23 But if a fatality does occur, then you must give life for life, 24 eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, 25 burn for burn, wound for wound, blow for blow." So, it is obvious that God, the creator of human life views the life of an unborn child as precious as that of a full-fledged human... Therefore, from the Biblical and even the moral point of view, Abortion is the same as Murder...

budaatum:
It's my body. If I want to kill off a part or all of it, your opinion does not count.

It's part of your body, yes... But the owner will surely ask you of it....

samuelchimmy:
Really, I have an icloud locked iPhone 7, do you think you can hack it without knowing the email or the password... Business

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samuelchimmy:
Try hacking an icloud locked iPhone..... My advice it's a waste of time don't try it....

Nothing is impossible