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Cheating husband + fat pocket = Nagging/wahala
Broke husband - cheating = Nagging/wahala
Broke husband + cheating =

Make the best out of your situation. The grass always looks greener on another man's turf.

voodoo85:
right... me... i wouldn't tolerate him at all. if such thing happens- rock&roll- door is open. men need to understand once and for all- if u want someone younger, someone with nicer booobs and ass, even if its for one night- u always can have it, but don't come back. who do u think i am? a trash? a doormat ? that u could clean your feet? fuuuck no. i wish all women would have self respect and wouldn't turn a blind eye to his adventures. and saying that oh 99% nigerian men r cheating- no need to make it a norm! if he cheated on u- r we talking about love between u 2? maybe u r talking about love but not him. if u r telling that u r staying with jst because of the kids- u r fooling yourself. yours and his relationship will change after his cheat and am sure kids will feel bad in family where parents don't talk with each other, dropping harsh comments etc.

Talk is cheap! Nairaland is an anonymous forum. peeps can rant all day, while concealing their true identity. I bet more than half the people who spew these sturvs here can't walk the talk.

Don't be deceived.

babyosisi:
Nne eh
If not that I am born again and trying to stay on the straight and narrow sometimes I want to advise the wife of a cheating husband to just go out and cheat to her heart's desire
What nonsense
There are a zillion men out there that can give her a good time
She may actually feel much better afterwards
For how long will somebody pray ?
You are praying,your man is shining Congo at Sheraton
You go night vigil shouting die die die,he is at Hilton and both him and the Okpeke are very much alive
You are jumping from one prayer house to another looking haggard and emaciated ,he is jumping from one bed to another happy
Why can't the Holy Spirit just allow women take matters into their own hands eh

Sorry folks
My flesh was speaking

No! it is ekwensu that is speaking. very bad advice!

Been following this thread. the best posts have come from women. Interesting to see how they react differently.

...following

can the APC apologists supporters at least debunk these statements? especially on the bolded part?

For example, I have challenged the apologists of APC to publish the list of names and the religions of all their political appointees in the Southwest especially the following- the governors, SSGs, Speakers, Finance Commissioners in all the APC controlled states in the southwest.

Thats his own cup of tea...someone should please let him know that a bag of cement is now #1,000. na where e concern me be dat.

it could be sinusitis. I just suffered a bout of it. Had taken anti-malaria drugs, ran further tests for malaria and typhoid, nothing. Went to my GP and she recommended rest. I knew for sure it wasn't rest as my head was heavy and I had a splitting headache. I eventually figured out that it could be sinusitis and I started some home remedies. First check your BP and of that's ok, see your GP.

Naija no dey carry last..

http://fcbusiness.co.uk/news/article/newsitem=3522/title=manchester+united+announce+chi+as+official+soft+drinks+partner+in+nigeria

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-2812380/Manchester-United-sign-soft-drinks-partner-Nigeria-Chinese-wellness-partner-global-noodle-tie-in.html

GLORY GLORY MAN UTD!!

Crazy world we live in...Real Ni99as don't die, they multiply! If you kill yourself, who go loose?

It could be true. I had this discussion with my colleague yesterday. We should understand that traffic between the two routes is presently low. its not summer, + there is ebola outbreak in west Africa as well as in Texas (where Houston is located). People aren't travelling as much as before between these two locations. This could be the main reason behind the reduced fare.

There's something called 'how to manage your success'. Unfortunately, Linda got this wrong. I hope she comes back and learns from this whole episode.

Life isn't fair and fair isn't life. I wish she saw the handwriting on the wall. . .Part of the problem was that she kept thinking 'small' whereas the brand lindaikeji had gone global. Other enterprising minds in a society like the US would have done a IPO years ago. Use the 'jobberman' story as a classic example. Great Job! great minds.

Let me quickly remind some folks here. This is the USA we are talking about here. Trust me, they'll contain it. Don't forget that they have contingency arrangements for biological warfare. This can be easily deployed as a framework for containing this virus.

Just tells you the world we live in today. It was only gonna be a matter of time. Even the number of volunteers from the USA alone that have come to help out with Ebola in Africa will be enough source for concern when they return home? One begins to wonder if the American government could have done anything to prevent this. I pray they contain it too and realize that in today's world, one nation's problem is everyone's challenge.

Won't be surprised of this makes the front page. Is this news? What constitutes news?!

That book by Alabi Isama should also make the list. Is it the 'tragedy of victory' or something close to it.

By far the most informative and useful topic to have graced the front page of Nairaland in ages in my opinion. Nigeria as a country still has a long way to go in managing depression. Truth is, we are almost already living like people in the western world. the influx of hand held gadgets, computers and gaming into our lifestyle hasn't helped either as people are becoming more recluse in a more interconnected world. By far the most important post here is not to hold too firmly to mundane things as their loss could trigger depression . Human beings react differently in different situations. The key is to know thyself and manage yourself appropriately. Life is short and should be enjoyed!

I've always known that noodles wasn't a healthy meal because it is processed carbohydrates. well, moderation is the key.

Great Great Job! I bet the National Archives in Ibadan and the National Commission for Museums and Monuments do not have these photos. You'll find more history about Nigeria in museums/private collections in Europe than in Nigeria. I was very disappointed to say the least when i visited the museum at Onikan, Lagos recently.

"obowunmi" got me thinking really...

popular Nigerian singer Cynthia Morgan. Before and after fame. Bleacherreport.ng

How come no one has mentioned the toyota fortuner? its a 7-seater and it really suits our terrain in Africa.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toyota_Fortuner

Pope Francis said last night that war is ultimately caused by selfishness, which can be overcome only though expressions of fraternity and never with violence.

Speaking at a prayer vigil for peace in Syria in St Peter’s Square, he said: “Leave behind the self-interest that hardens your heart, overcome the indifference that makes your heart insensitive towards others, conquer your deadly reasoning, and open yourself to dialogue and reconciliation.”

The Pope had called the prayer vigil less than a week earlier, as the central event of a worldwide day of fasting and prayer for peace in Syria, the Middle East and the world. Around 100,000 people attended the event.

The Vatican called the vigil an unprecedented papal gesture for peace, by virtue of its scale and prominence of location. It took place the same day that US Secretary of State John Kerry met European leaders to make President Barack Obama’s case for a military strike on the government of Syria’s president Bashar al-Assad, as punishment for the alleged use of chemical weapons in the ongoing civil war there.

The Pope’s address, which took up about 15 minutes of the four-hour liturgy, did not refer to contemporary events but spoke in biblical terms about the nature of war, whose origins he traced to the fall of Adam and the first murder, by Cain of his brother Abel.

Answering Cain’s famous question to God – “Am I my brother’s keeper?” – the Pope replied: “Yes, you are your brother’s keeper! To be human means to care for one another.

“We bring about the rebirth of Cain in every act of violence and in every war,” the Pope said. “All of us!”

War’s ultimate source, Pope Francis said, is the original sin of disobedience.

“When man thinks only of himself, his own interests and places himself in the centre, when he permits himself to be captivated by the idols of dominion and power, when he puts himself in God’s place, then all relationships are broken and everything is ruined,” the Pope said. “Then the door opens to violence, indifference and conflict.”

The Pope concluded on a hopeful note, asking the crowd: “Can we get out of this spiral of sorrow and death? Can we learn once again to walk and live in the ways of peace?”

“Yes, it is possible for everyone!” he said, drawing applause, and he then invoked the image of Christ’s redemptive sacrifice as the ultimate symbol of peace.

“How I wish that all men and women of good will would look to the cross, if only for a moment,” he said. “There, we can see God’s reply: violence is not answered with violence, death is not answered with the language of death. In the silence of the cross, the uproar of weapons ceases and the language of reconciliation, forgiveness, dialogue and peace is spoken.”

The Pope’s words were followed by a period of Eucharistic adoration, including several stretches when all present stood or knelt in silence, without any musical accompaniment.

At other times, as during the praying of the rosary in the first half of the vigil, prayers and readings alternated with choir music or performances on the harp and other string instruments.

During the adoration, people representing five different countries or regions with direct or indirect links to the Syrian conflict – Egypt, the Holy Land, Russia, the United States and Syria itself – brought up incense to burn in a brazier beside the altar.

The ancient icon of Mary known as Salus Populi Romani (“health of the Roman people”), which had been transported for the occasion from Rome’s Basilica of St Mary Major, stood on an easel beside the altar. The icon has special importance for Pope Francis, who went to pray before it on the first morning of his pontificate in March.

The atmosphere in the square was solemn, with none of the festivity of a Sunday Angelus or Wednesday public audience. Security guards confiscated flags, though some Syrian flags could be seen on the periphery of the square.

Many in the congregation clapped and cheered when Pope Francis came out of the basilica at 7pm, but soon fell silent when they noticed his serious demeanor and his failure to wave or smile.

At the end of the liturgy, just before 11pm, after the Pope had returned to the basilica, the crowd applauded again. Pope Francis came out to offer a few final words, thanking the congregation for their company and asking them to continue praying for peace.

“Good night and have a good rest,” he said.

http://www.catholicherald.co.uk/news/2013/09/08/pope-francis-prays-that-syria-will-escape-spiral-of-sorrow-and-death/

African Magic on DSTV!

somehow I don't believe this guy! He sounds to me a liar!

madame tussauds tinz!

see blow-by-blow eye witness report my gawd!

Good job @OP.

is this a scene from a Nigerian home video? I'll like to watch the entire movie pls.