seunjungle1: It was OBJ that cause the insecurity we are facing right? All of your arguments are bias and lack fact.. You better revisit history if you've forgot or you don't even know
Learn to ask questions.
1. You breed insecurity when you dont allow the votes of people to count and institutionalise rigging through the use of the Armed forces.
2. You breed insecurity when you dont allow the rule of law.
3. You breed insecurity when you institutionalised corruption. The 3rd third agenda and the bribery of the lawmakers.
4. You breed insecurity when you manipulates the masses against a government simply because of selfish interest. " anything but Jonathan "
5. You breed insecurity when you violates human right. The Odi massacre. Summary execution of Mohammed Yusuf etc.
I can go on and on, Obj refused to strengthen the foundation of our democracy. Once again learn to dialogue.
boman2014: Former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode is of the opinion that if former President ''Olusegun Obasanjo had been in power today, Boko Haram would have been history.''
Sharing his opinion via his Twitter handle, FFK wrote
OLUENTA1: Hello Nairalanders I need to hear from different people what to do and maybe if there is any advise at all or guidance to the issue/incidence that occured between me and my fiancee
Let me go straight to the story and I will try to make it short and explanatory.
My fiancee happened to have this ex that obviously they had a good time together and infact she left the guy for me and during one of our conversation I got to know that finances during her time with him was a big issue and at one time or twice she cheated on him to sleep with men that could take care of the finances
We started our relationship and I quickly noticed the challenges with this with her but on my own part I can take care of her finances. Anyway, We have been together for more than 2 years and also we are planning to get engaged traditional soon.
The unthinkable happened during one of my inquisitive quest of checking her WhatsApp messages when I saw her telling her closest buddy that she was chatting with her ex the other time and that they were talking about how many times they had sex and also if she ever meet the guy again she will sleep with him.
Well, as it is I am feeling been cheated on and secondly, i can't imagine that she will still have this feeling for the ex so much that she could say that she can still sleep with the ex again.
The question now is, do I still need to continue the relationship with her? and also call off the engagement? Because it seemed she can't be loyal or maybe the she loves the guy more than me and any given opportunity she will always go back to the ex
If you know you dont want to live unhappily married life just walk away because sometimes once debe is always debe. All you can do these days is to marry a woman who have conscience and the fear of God.
LindaIkejiNews: Popular controversial blogger now evangelist, Kemi Olunloyo has been called out by her biological son simply identified as Eni on his 33th birthday.
According to the post, Kemi Olunloyo’s son made on his official instagram page, the controversial blogger has been disowned by her son as he called her ‘former biological mother’. He said his former mother i.e. Kemi Olunloyo is full of illicit affairs and doing all sort of bad things to people. He also called her a LovePeddler in the post.
Please I'm going through a state of mental confusion.
Currently i have approximately 20 million and 300 thousand naira in my bank account.
I have two thoughts.
1) I am 25 years old but I'm not a university graduate, i only have ND (National deploma) from a polytechnic In Edo state, Auchi precisely.
I would have become a graduate years ago but after my "ND" years ago, i refused to go back to school and i decided to hustle for money.
Most of my classmates in school back then are all graduates but all the same, looking at my bank account now, i have no regrets.
So this is what i plan on doing.
1) Can i further my Education In any university in the United States with the money and plan on staying back after my degree, for the fact that I'm 25. Will that be advisable?
2) should i stay back in Nigeria and use part of the money to build a house In my hometown in Benin and use the rest for business?
3) Is there a chance of going to USA and start all over again, look for job. Will the money be enough to rent a house, foot some bills untill i see a job in the USA.
Note i choose USA only because it's my dream country, I'm not scared of the traveling ban because I'm 100% confident that it will be taken away few months from now.
Please i won't be replying any mention or questions.
All i want is to take note of good advice.
I already know a reliable traveling agent.
Please other suggestions are welcomed apart from mine.
Please help
Look for a school in Canada or Australia, you will be fine.
The excuse he is giving shows he dabbles into activism without proper understanding. It's normal to see some of those you are fighting for to insults you, infacts if 9 out of 10 insults you, you dont care.
An activist is ready to die for an ideal eg Sarowiwa, Ghandi etc, yes they can retreat but never gives up.
Political activist shouldn't be mirroring as an activist.
obembet: Veteran Nigerian actor, Pete Edochie has said any man who kneels down to propose to a girl is an idiot.
In our contemporary world, it is common knowledge that men who ask their women to become their wives kneel down to do it. However, veteran actor, Pete Edochie, does not think any man should kneel down before any girl to propose.
In a video making the rounds online, the respected actor is seen speaking to a man behind the camera, giving his reasons why no man should propose on his knees.
"Any man who gets down on his knee to propose to a girl is not just an idiot but a bloody fool, he's a compound buffoon" the actor declared.
When the man recording the conversation asked why, Edochie explained that if a man kneels down to propose to his woman, it means that the girl has taken over the family.
DEROX: Oga noo I swear am a Yoruba boy studying law 200level Madonna rite now am in school they must not even catch me with this phone as am using it in toilet the skull is very worse am even planning on writing this jamb
That's serious o, but i truly know someone who is very good that graduated from there
bigpriik: Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.
Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.
Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.
There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life
1)Determination to be successful
let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful
2) Strife to be a better man
I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.
3) Confidence boost and self esteem
Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.
You better change it to having a good girlfriend and besides many have done all these things without a girlfriend.
AlexReports: Vivian Lam Foundation Visits The Internally Displaced Persons In IDP Camp With Cash Donations And Food In Abuja
The founder of Vivian Lam Foundation on Valentine’s Day ,14th February took her team to the internally displaced persons (IDPs) Camp in Waru District area of abuja, Nigeria.
According to source. We were told , the program is an annual program Tagged “Hope to the Hopeless” which the founder started since 2016 when the foundation was first launched. ever since then, it has become a routine where she celebrates every 14th Feb, with either the IDPs or orphanage homes. Vivian Lam has visited more than 6 IDPs Camps in Nigeria.
On this year’s valentine, it was the turn of a community called WARU In abuja, although the community which does not possess the structure of a conventional IDP Camp, rather, the displaced families are spread within other families in the community they reside with , while rebuilding their lives was very hospitable and showed great excitement toward the Love visit.
Ms Lam and her team was able to assess the situation on the ground after having an interactive section with the leaders of the Camp. The woman leader , Halita who told them that, they are over 2,000 people living in the Camp , excluding the new born children. Although they did not meet all of them because most of the women had earlier gone to the farm.
However the team also withessed first hand deplorable situation in the Camp , and poor living health conditions especially among the women and children as majority of the internally displaced persons are women and children.
Vivian Lam foundation donated food items, toiletries and money as her sigh of love and affection for them.
On the part of the leaders of the camp, thank Vivian and her team for finding them worthy of spending the special day with them. Also there was a prayer section for her.
The founder of vivian Lam foundation in return thanked the community for their warm reception and expressed that she was encouraged by their drive and warmth spirit even in the midst of their poor living condition.
Biodun556: Fraudsters are making research on daily basis. Beware!
This is an old trick now, solutions never trust anybody that calls you, before you pick the calls let the word scammer be ringing in your brain even if na known numbers.
Psalme91: It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .
Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
See your mouth, accusing God abi, Its the man that determines the sex of a child scientifically. Spirituality God can change it to the one He wanted based on the assignment He has for them.
You have no idea of what those who are yet to have going through, you better appreciate God, be thankful and start training your children.
Leave that ignoramus man, give your children the best moral, spiritual and educational training, Tell me will Ngozi Okonjo Iweala papa will say he regret having her, will Alakija papa complain ? Go and checkout several great women that men are ten times better than men.
We are in the era that the gender of a child doesnt matter anymore so cheer up and brace up for your husband ignorance.
Mynd44: Nigerians have always asked if it's right for a police officer to search mobile phones during a routine stop and search exercise on the road.
The Lagos State Police PRO, Dolapo Badmus has told us the answer.
In her words she said:
"Your phone is private, it's your private property because people do alot of private stuffs on their mobile phones so it's wrong. Police officers have no right to do that except there is a reasonable ground to do so".
Although this has always been a matter of public records, officers of the Nigerian pokice have acted like they don’t know and even when citizens that tell them, they are harassed or beaten
That is life for you the living, nobody send you, only your wife and children and in some cases nobody. All those smiling with you now will ben Johnson when problem comes. $30k that these politicans will spend in a night. If it were to be them or their children they wont delay. God please help the masses.
You failed to state anything that you have done that was wrong but I will be objective with you.
1. Foundation is very important in every building and same with marriage, the builder have no choice but to follow the foundation unless he is ready to make drastic change.
2. Marriage is a place of training especially the woman.
3. No woman will smile when you give out money without telling them before doing it especially to such a person you called an idiot.
4. No woman will be happy when you report her to an outsider, a lot of times we are damaging our marriages when we report to third parties.
5. You have no idea what some persons are going through in their homes if not you wont tell them about your family.
6. A house is built by wisdom and becomes strong through good sense. Proverbs 24:3 NLT
7. Get this man books on marriages. Bisi Adewale. Just browse the internet and possible attend one his seminars with your wife.
8. Finally my brother den no dey carry woman matter for mind o, make yourself happy.
200,000 will be better 150 from the North while 50 from the South, it's time to save the North, its achievable, it was done in Syria and it will be done in Nigeria by God's grace.