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Unigrad:
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Mine is blank ...what does it mean .

My was when I was in the village helping my grandma. After school one faithful day I went to tap robber ...I am from Delta. When I left for the bush to tap robber that evening , there's this little pit u hv to jump to the other side , my people as I jump there was a might snake close to where I jumped to with head facing my direction..na so this snake quickly turn and jumped in to a fish pond close by ,my dear the sound of the water from the fish pond when the snake enter was like a grown up human jumping to swim ...there and then I knew God is not through with me . I doubt I would hv been able to survive that mighty snake bite ...like the snake turned and jumped into a pond snake that will bite thinking u are a threat .....God is indeed faithful

LeoThaGreat:
Dear OP,
Though your question is directed at Urhobo people, I feel urged to make a contribution.
I will urge you to share your father's properties EQUALLY with your sisters, there's no length too far females can't go when they feel cheated. There's no share you will get that wouldn't multiply if you are shrewd.
The world we live in is tough for both genders, don't deprive your sisters of a fair additional means of income.
Abeg

Thanks but it can't be shared equally. I am a single young man among my three sist two are married left alone one ....after preference is giving to me ,the other unmarried comes in before the two married noted can't be shared equally I hv more responsibility compare to them thanks ..

RedDesQ:
According to the principles that guides the clan.. It's solely to your conscience to guide you. You aren't guided by any principles to share by percentage, or quota.

You are to trust your soul and spirit and exercise your will in justice and fairness. This has always been how it works. You are to however do it in a way you carry them along and not make them feel delegated to..


I advice you list the properties first. And then go to your senior sisters place and tell them one by one, you would like to hear their expectations.

Make sure dey speak all their mind


Make sure you don't speak a word


When they finish bearing all their mind. Tell them you've heard them and that you need a month you will get back to them


After your fact finding mission and careful thinking, the spirit of truth and uprightness will direct you.


If you feel you have sisters you like to share assests with but the husbands will abuse it, there's a way to go about it. Don't give such everything once, but in bits like monthly salary for ten years. This way, a greedy in law will not have direct access to everything once.

In all, your sisters are your first children


Truth, Fairness, Justice and Uprightness remains the guiding principle.

Lovely ..thank you Sir .

My dad is late and his properties are about to be shared among the two gate (wives) in urhobo we call it gate . In my mother's side I am the only son with three girls two married one not married.

We are still struggling on how they will share it between the two gate my sist which is married is already acting like we both hv same right in our share when we hv our parts . To me , I am sure female owning properties in urhobo is out of fairness and not right not that I am thinking of taking all the properties that's far from me cause I am trying even before my dad died. Even when my dad was alive but sick in hospital she brought up talk like this but my dad countered her by telling her girls don't hv right to properties her in law an urhobo man conquered to it .

Now she feels our share may come in three months time....she's so hard on it ,I am telling her I can't eat ur father properties alone cause me self get conscience. It will be shared but not it's done out of fairness not right ....I hv the right to say take this and leave this some greedy brothers will eat it all. But no,I can't having a struggling sists and do that ...more so, I hv told her I will consider my elder sister that's not married to her ..

Pls any urhobo man or woman here ...shed more light how it's done pls ..

Please I want to get a set of chair for my seating room ...when I told my sist that I want to get leather chair she said it get pilled with time but I love the nature of it compare to normal clothes chair ...

Please fam those with experience kindly educate us on which is durable and preferably just so we might hv intended buyers reading too...


Cc:Mynd 44

Cc:Suen

captainking:
Woji...
Sure light here.. 20 hours daily..

How much for one bedroom

Good morning fam! I know I am not suppose to post her but I need quick feed back ...



Please where in portharcourt can one get affordable house like a one bedroom flat with constant power supply like 16 hour a day ....



Mydd44

Most of the commentators don't hv car ...3k will fix it ..don't paint anything.....just tell the panel beater to fix it properly..the paint side should be the part u tell ur friend u mistakenly scratch his car ..he will see it not serious and he won't be annoyed...more so, that number na follow come no be d type paint de commot for body ....

Good morning fello , I know this not the best place to post this ,but I want it to gain quick recognition reason I hv to post it here ...



Anyone with a good knowledge of bitcon should help so many of us that wish to know out ...


The pros and the con !!! I have tried reading online but no tangible explanation..thanks

Good morning fello , I am a realist , I tend to analyze anything my money must go through ..a friend of mine approached me and gave me a flyer regarding a platform that pays this and that ..pix Bellow ..pls if u hv a knowledge regarding this pls share to help me and others...he said he has been since last year November

These men openly put them self in danger at times ...I saw that man's car yesterday in portharcourt....Lexus 330 ......plate number DELTA SSANU .....I mean no escort just that yet he exposed himself with that plate number ...I just drove pass .....I was behind him driving

TMSMedia:
"I Now Understand Why People Treat Domestic Staff Like Sh*t" - Wakanow CEO Narrates Experience With His Chef

The CEO of Wakanow, Bayo Adedeji took to his Facebook handle to narrate his experience with his chef which made him change his perception about Nigerian domestic staff, IgbereTV reports.

According to him, he treats his chef well, pays him a reasonable monthly salary and even adds additional cash as transport allowance.

He found out that the food bill was going high despite the fact that he was not entertaining guests due to the pandemic.

Mr Adedeji said he then decided to go shopping himself but only two weeks after, he was shocked to find that some of the supplies had finished. He was later disappointed as he caught his chef moving some foodstuff from his house.

Read his post below.


https://www.facebook.com/100003833955897/posts/1974076099396836/?app=fbl

Good evening Sir , if u are reading this just know my advice is from a first hand experience of a catering company I am presently working at ..(industrial catering )...it's a tradition for chef to go home with food item , not that he did it to cause u pain but he felt he's family should enjoy what he's enjoying...some of them don't mind preserving portion of food meant for them just for their family to eat ....tho, he went extreme I must say ......I don't think he was doing it to run u down but he just felt u are capable and provided he can deliver good meals with less items other ones that was supposed to be added should be taken home ....in my company,the chef goes home with 100k but u won't believe they sell items at work work 30k least and goes home with 5 big Ghana must go bag ...and, u know how chef can be so annoying they always go home with expensive items ...some times I do advice them to be contented but they will laugh and say cause u are not a chef ...if u ask me I will say give him a second chance with strong warning ..thank u Sir

[quote author=Estrella366 post=97257340]Hello Nairalander, I would like to know the circumstances that could make it possible for a person who is yet to visit any of the NIMC offices or outlets either online or offline for the purpose of registering for the NIN get the NIN?

I have never made any prior efforts to register for the NIN stuff, however out of curiosity I tried entering the NIMC's NIN registration verification code *346# via my Etisalat phone number and to my surprise the system returned a positive answer with an eleven digit NIN.

So what are the possible technical reasons for this?

Thanks for your suggested answers.

Update##
I tried to see if I could verify the number on the NIMC website and di scovered that the site is down with message reading indicating




Those who use valid passport to update their seem doesn't hv issue ...voters card , drivers license etc ..cause I checked mine and it's okay whereas I used my driver license to update mine

Good evening house ! I am pained that the recent end Sars protest haven't changed anything and so many innocent soul are gone . But I put it to the police and Army , the day any part of the military or para military will stand up and protest for a better Nigeria their and then Nigeria will be great ..

Most time I get happy seeing them been killed by bandit and Boko Haram not because I hate them totally or I enjoy it but I feel it will be a wake up call for the sensitive ones to speak and stand up for a better country where they will be fully equipped.

To the average military men or para military men know this and know peace ...your work as an average army man or average police man can't save your family or generation from poverty ,I know you took an oath not to protest against the government but truth be told ,Nigeria is fast slipping our hands into few number of persons and with this ,the future of our generation is in great danger . I put it to you ,speak up else your children will one day ask, if this is the country my dad or mom comfortable serve as a military man or woman? They will be ashamed of you .

We have seen doctors who took oath to save life go on strike , lecturers and many more even though many will claim they are fighting for their stomach at least they fought for them self !!

Police and military men are waiting for civilian citizen to fight for their welfare and salary, yet on a command from the government to kill those who are trying to fight for their welfare they won't hesitate to shot !! If u are a police man or military man reading this,I say shame on you .

If there will be any future protest , no body should dare add police welfare as demand please ,cause we can't be crying more than the berief ..



A life of a professor haven't guarantee the success of his generation how much more you average police man or military man ! Don't be scared of any punishment ,as I am so sure the government can't sack or punishment 400 police or military men talk more of a million police or military men . Please save this Nation as a military or police man .


Cc Seun


Pardon my blunders

Make sure ur breakfast is 80 percent protein ...e.g moimio or take fried eggs enough with Hollandia yought .....
Noon eat enough eba ..night take beans or any rich protein...could be soya milk ....I made mention of moimoi and beans cause it's affordable..note buy them and buy from different place so u won't get tired of eating them ....like today u buy from mama gift , tomorrow from someone else but if u know how to prepare fine ...or find different girls to give u different taste..



Once in a week ,get German yought (ice cream)..it's 1800 a cup ..if u can afford it every day with ur normal meal .u won't only get chubby chicks u will add weight ..it's so rich ...u will find it in market square and everyday supermarket

Pls just tell me the nature of biz u were doing ,maybe I could invest in my environment here..thanks

mannasseh:
Good day a Friends sister's car was snatched in port Harcourt River state Nigeria.
The car is an ...

An ASH TOYOTA COROLLA WITH THE PLATE NUMBER "FST 977 EP"

It was snatched from a female Driver by Arm Robbers along NTA -okpara link Road, port Harcourt. ON WEDNESDAY 4TH NOVEMBER
An appeal is made to the general public to please call the number above if the car is located or found anywhere, please help a mother and sister who has been Traumatized by this unfortunate event 09073350499.

Take heart bro , I almost fell victim same place Monday abi tuesday self I cant recall .I was driving saw some guys gather all of a sudden , one just rushed to me and said stop stop stop I did stop but I used my lock he tried to open the door it was locked ..I then asked him what is it he said bad boys ....I just laughed and drive off while saying thief ..its common in that place

OZOnNengiTheory:
Curse, curse, and curse, that's all we know how to do.

So annoying. And shows the maturity level of many of us.

We need to calm down please. Advise your loved ones to stay indoors for now please. It may get messier. Please don't try to resist this people called army. They only follow orders, they don't look at numbers or anything.

For the sake or your parents or loved ones in general, please let's stay safe for now.

U passed a message but something tells me u benefit a thing from channels tv ..But let me remind u , even if remain calm before this country will get working there's no how it won't get bloody . U and I knows it won't be easy to collect back our country from oppressors . If u ask me now we are United about our goals and almost all Southerners are in one passage we shouldn't relent . Cause the next time we Wana try this , they will be discouragement thus reminding us how the last one went before we backed out or there might be regional division.

gentlezypher:
how did you go about it please

Long story Bros ..tho,I got my phone

gentlezypher:
were you successful?

Yes but police stood for the thief maybe they were bribed

#tag let ask for forgiveness from GEJ ..


If u have his picture and anything to say about him pls post below ...



GEJ pls i am deeply sorry for all my criticism.


Let the movement begin

ZeroShenanigan:
I'm above mid thirties, finished NYSC 2015 and i just secured a government teaching job after spending more than 3 years teaching in private schools. I met my wife earlier 2019, she was in her final year in school, we dated throughout the year and planned to get married after she graduated. She graduated and we make a move for our introduction, then we suggested to have the marriage before she go for her Nysc so as to enable her serve in our home state as I already have a rented apartment to start a small family.

As we were planning for the marriage, we were also planning her NYSC. She was required to have a medical certificate for the NYSC which of course required blood test including genotype. She came back with the result of her genotype as AS. That was the only time I remember to take genotype issue serious. Even if I have some little knowledge about it before, I decided to research more about it on the internet and also met some of my friends who are medically inclined. I came to realize my own genotype test is also important at that moment. I might have done the test in school but I didn't pay attention to it usefulness so I don't remember the result.

I don't usually fall sick except for normal malaria when there is mosquito bite, never had a drip line in my body for once, never slept in a hospital bed, I don't have any reason to take note of my genotype or blood test.

Her results then prompt me to have my own test done too which came out to be AS also. By these periods we have convinced our families to choose a date for the marriage so that we can have the wedding before her NYSC. Marriage is to hold in a week time when I got my own genotype result.
From my further findings about AS and AS couple, I discovered how risky it is for their offsprings. I tried to explain to her but she turned a deaf ear, she alleged me of trying to break her heart at that critical period. She reported to her sisters they tried to blame me but I make them all realized it's not my fault because throughout my visitation and introduction to their family nobody has ever ask us about genotype. I am an orphan, I don't have any closer family to guide me except for my sisters who can't wait for me to get married because of my age, they also had never thought of it as well.

My wife sisters gave us some examples of older couples who were both AS with only one or no sickler among their children. My wife also made a threat of killing herself or she kill me if the marriage didn't hold. She even suggested we proceed with the marriage and break up after few weeks of marriage because of the shame that may follow if we stop the marriage or maybe she was desperate because of the marriage certificate, I don't know. I maintained my stand of backing off the marriage but she reported to my sisters also. Her sisters and my sisters later tried to encourage us to go ahead with prayers since we have chosen the date. We were advised not to disclose our genotype result to anyone again because people will discourage us.

Even though I was skeptical about the marriage, it later commenced with less spending because the Nikkah was held in a mosque and a tent for refreshments.
After the marriage we tried to talk about it, and she told me, she was afraid, may be she was pregnant before the marriage that's why she insisted on going ahead with the marriage. She also revealed to me that she was not happy with the decision as well, means she also know the implications but she have to avoid the shame of stopping the marriage after inviting guests to the occasion.

During these period genotype before the marriage, my love for her reduced drastically because of her desperation and her refusal to understand the risk we are about to take. I tried to avoid pregnancy from our first month of marriage but I later gave up and she conceived immediately. Now she is closer to her delivery. We hardly talk or play together inside. We only discuss about feeding, maternity and things to get for the coming baby.
I discovered we quarrel over little things that can be over looked by lovers. I'm not happy in the marriage, I spend most of time watching TV or stay outside all day because of unresolved issues.

I'm planning to arrange for a divorce after she delivered the baby because this is my first baby and I would love to have 2 or 3 kids more. I can't take the risk of allowing any of my children to be a sickler.
Advise is needed if my plan for divorce is a good one and do I stand a chance of loosing anything?

Dont be offended sir , please how much is ur pay( salary ) when u started the gvt teaching job and how long did it take for the recruitment process for the teaching job .

Please i need a sincere answer cause i am currently working in a private company where i earn 50 k but i am on a neck of one commissioner for education for a job , i suspect he will give me a teaching job since he is a commissioner for education and secondly ....he only requsted for my name , phone no. Date of birth , account details and qualification ..its 1 month plus he said the recruitment is ongoing ...so, i wish to know my fate reasons i asked my question pls kindly answer

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I am indeed speechless by your love but i can't fail 2 acknowledge your grace upon my life .. On dis day Some years ago u brought I your son; Golor lucky into dis world 2 fulfil purpose n ever since it has been #AmazingGrace .. Indeed u are God all by yourself .... #HappiestBirthday 2 me ..
#LatePost
#IndeedI'mReallyGorgeous..
#GodAlltheWay


Suen
Fyniestboi
Mynd44

Dear country men /women .

Do u all know that Cross river state is currently carrying out local government election regardless of Covid 19 ? Please who do we offend in this country ? Same state that short down religious activities and schools just partially lifted the ban on religious activities to 50 member per service still had the mind to conduct election .....though the governor tried by not suffering his people during this lock down cause business went on like normal and every sector like market and the rest was still normal just schools and churches got affected and i am so sure if not for Fg they would not hv short down anywhere . My concern is why would Fg allow this election to go on nor INEC ? And, one can easily deduce why Cross river insist on no single case so they can carry out their election freely ..

If u hv been following news u will observe Edo and ogun election have more momentum (talk about ) in fact date has been fixed for primary yet no date for resumption of school .

The other time Wike locked us for almost a week total lock down but lifted the ban on the basis of he wants to inuaguarate pdp exco and socail distancing was not observe ...NCDC /Fg said nothing ...



Who do they want to kill people with hunger and job loss for no reason ? If political activities can go on why cant other aspect ...


Burials and weddings are on hold but lga election is going on in cross river who did we offend in this country ....yes they have no case but thats not an excuse for election if they insist it is , then they should allow weddings, burials ,school and church activities to go on there biko.


Pls pardon my typo

Its obvious Wizkid is the greatest ,since both including him as part of it ,without ommittion from any.....


Wizkid and 2face remain my greatest

Jewel Abigail

Oluromantic:
Yes it's possible. You have the connection already. Just pray along or support with juju if you're the traditional type. Goodluck

I am praying , tho he keep assuring that he doesnt promise what he cant do. Most humble Commissioner .he chair the forum of all the commissioner within his appointment .

Enwhen:
You have said alot , but I will respond to few...I don't really know when rivers started their lockdown, but I know Lagos started first around March , even before the president order for shutdown ....I aggree with u that the govt doesn't have us in heart , but nobody will release the name of a covid 19 , patient to u...the third case in Nigeria and in Lagos , was mistakenly let known and the family and their biz are facing it now... Presently in Lagos , many people are infected and are treating at home mostly for those that has no health issue apart from the corona virus ...so don't be angry with Gov Wike as long as the law is applicable to everybody which is what Gov Wike is doing , look at Bauchi , Kano , Kastina 100 are dieing within a week, most zof their patients are runing from isolation centre , many are coming to the south , Kaduna State , Gov El -Rufia monitors the boundary to ensure compliance check the news and many Almajiri runing to Kaduna was caught and were tested positive and they were sent back to their states, many were caught in Anambra, many Enugu many in Rivers , cross Rivers , my questions for u is that , what Wike is doing is it bad ?, Should he allow people from outside Rivers to bring corona inside for u pple ?...why are they sending almajir to the south in this lockdown ??... See any Gov that fails to protect his pple.during this lockdown , will have himself blame...many pple are sharing their problem to other states and ur Gov is trying to protect u , and u are complaining before u dont know the info they have .....see before corona issue , Lagos State govt had ban bikes and Keke because of this same issue , even during this lockdown , many Almajiri have been sent back , many tested positive and they are treating them...Lagos State just don't want to voice out because is in the ruling party, what Wike is doing most state includinh Lagos govt knows about it and knows it's the best for u pple, before u nailed Wike to the cross for enforcing lockdown, pls wait a little for another one month to see what he trying to save u from.... Even tho they are not bothered about u, if u the virus hit rivers hard , they will have less to steal becuae they will spend much , the federal govt is not releasing any money for the virus , even Gov of Kano that was thinking he can get money with the virus , he is now using money from the dollar he stole to treat pple.and is sending most of his infected patients to the south ...wise ooo

Why not close and monitor the borders and allow flexible movement within the state ? Why shut two most economical local government down then allow the rest ...why lock people for almost two months with no incentive ...for the sake of knowledge before the president announced lock down Rivers state was already locked

Enwhen:
Are u saying Rivers State was shut down before corona entered Nigeria through Lagos ?...Lagos has been in lockdown before Rivers had it first case ....we went for more than a month shut down without any palliatives from any govt, we only saw on news that they share without seeing anything even though they claimed to share only to the old pple , almost all of them did't get the palliative...many pple in lag had to go to rich pple area to get something to eat ...what Wike is doing is the best , u pple should bear with him , no doubt our govt bleeped up for not helping us with incentives , but should they allow us. We will die on the streets...just within a shut while the lockdown has been relax in Lagos , go check how the number of cases has increase, u will see more when it's 14 days after relaxation of lockdown... Wike is only trying to enforce the law for everybody and that's the best , because of our president has done same at the onset , there would be a single case in Nigeria , but they allow those big names to enter with the virus before shutdown and today the poor pple are the ones suffering it...if Wike decide to seat in govt house and allow the police force alone, corona will hit u hard , because police will collect money and allow everyone enter...hope u are aware of Almajiris from northern states coming to the south during this lockdown ?...most of them have tested positive for the virus just imagine if they have entered Rivers ....Bro everything is not politics oo...this is a real issue that we all must come together to fight .

Stop being ignorant !!! Rivers state locked down before Lag , Abj and Ogun . And, if u ever think our gvt care about u that brings to ur more foolishness ...when did our so called leaders care ? If u like die de dont care there is more to this covid 19 stuff ...why aint they announcing the names of the positive patient and the area so we could do our contact tracing our self ..just like that of Atiku son and the governor of bauchi cried out that hes positive ..if they announce ur friend is positive wouldnt it be easy for u to identify ur self should u had come in contact with him /her ?


Rivers state is going 2months lock down now make ur findings .....when did wike start caring ? Or federal gvt start caring .....d thousands way de die for boko haram waiting them de do ...moreso , let me brief u , in pandemic people will die , we just have to live with measures to stay alive and who die along the line dies its like war ......U.S said , and i quote ;If we continue with lock down they will be nothing like U.S again.