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I am in a very big dilemma. I am a married with 2 lovely kids. I don’t feel happy in my marriage because I can not say that I am madly in love with my young wife. She is very much in love with me but I am very tired of my marriage.
I met my wife while doing my youth service in south south Nigeria. She took to me and I tried to avoid any closeness but it didn’t work. We eventually started a sexual relationship with resulted in her getting pregnant for me. I married her so as not to allow her to abort and kill an innocent child a boy. I thought I will love her in the future. We later had another child a girl. Though I have never cheated on her but I don’t think I love her that much. I tend to be in love with another woman though I am not cheating on my wife. I want to ask her if she can approve me to go into polygamy for I believe that will only save of union. I care so much for those innocent and lovely children of mine.

Yeah, it will reduce unemployment and as well help some people to get jobs. So let the party begin. Hope Bok Haram will not carry out mass recruitment of their own.

Just in time for Christmas, Viktor and Aneta Urich of Grande Prairie, Alberta, welcomed their 100th grandchild, the Daily Herald-Tribune reported.

The Urichs, who are in their early 60s, have 16 children. Their eldest son, Heinrich - father of newborn Henry - has nine kids younger than 12.

"We get along fine," Heinrich Urich told the Herald-Tribune. "It's not boring. There's always something interesting going on."

The Urichs aren't the first to hit the 100-grandkid milestone. Bai Ulan, a widow from the Philippines, was recently photographed with some of her 107 grandchildren, 138 great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren.

The average U.S. family size is 3.19, according to 2009 Census estimates.

For the Urichs, having 100 grandchildren - half with names like Henry and half with traditional Russian names - can be a little confusing.

"There are a few hard years, but when the children grow up, it gets easier," Viktor Urich told the Herald-Tribune.

And with such a big family, it's tough to get everyone together. But the Urichs plan on two reunions per year - one on each grandparent's birthday.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/canadian-couple-welcomes-100th-grandchild-172813603.html

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LANCASTER, Texas (AP) — Family friends say a Texas man accused of killing six relatives in a Christmas Day murder-suicide was struggling financially and didn't like that his estranged wife was doing well.

Authorities say 56-year-old Aziz Yazdanpanah (ah-ZEEZ' YAWZ'-dahn-pahn-aw) was dressed as Santa when he fatally shot his estranged wife, their two teenage children and three other relatives Sunday inside an apartment in the Dallas-Fort Worth suburb of Grapevine.

After a private burial for the six victims Thursday, family friend Azar Shahbazi (AH'-zahr shah-BAH'-zee) said she believed Yazdanpanah was upset because his wife "was doing good on her own."

The wife's brother, Ali Rahmaty (AH'-lee rah-MAH'-tee), says he'd been financially supporting the family. He says Yazdanpanah had been unemployed for more than a decade, but says he never thought Yazdanpanah would become violent.
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This year has been filled with its share of sudden and surprising divorces in the entertainment and political world, but this split may take the cake.

A 99-year-old Italian man filed for divorce from his 96-year-old wife of 77 years after he found letters from an affair she had 60 years ago.

The man, identified in court papers as Antonio C., discovered the letters exchanged between his wife and a former flame in an old chest of drawers days before Christmas, according to the Telegraph. He confronted his wife, Rosa C., who reportedly admitted to the affair, and tried to convince him to stick with their marriage.

But despite the nearly eight decades that they spent building a life together, a scorned Antonio C., moved ahead with the divorce. (Guess he never heard of "let bygones be bygones." The letters were the latest woes in the couple's long marriage during which they had five kids, 12 grandchildren and one great-grandchild together, according to UPI.

Originally from Sardinia, Antonio C. reportedly met Rosa C. in the 1930s while he served as part of the Italian Carabinieri in her native Naples. The Italian press pointed to the couple's southern blood as the catalyst for the breakup, the Telegraph noted.

Once Antonio and Rosa C.'s divorce is finalized, they will become the oldest divorcees, according to the Telegraph, taking the title from fellow Brits Bertie and Jessie Wood, both aged 98, who called it quits in 2009 after 36 years of marriage.

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/italian-man-99-divorcing-wife-77-years-over-234816942.html

Look guys, if you are not in Bayelsa, you will not know what we are talking about. Sylva is a bad jack and he show a great wickedness to Bayelsans. I dont care how he was pushed out. My point is that his pushing out is the best for Bayelsa. He achieved nothing and stole a whole lot of money.
He knows that the court and mumu EFCC will move him around for sometime after he is pushed out completely. How can he threaten to kill the President of Nigeria ad a stupid jugde is busy giving paper signed which they call injunction or something. That is bullshit or Bull POO or Bull Pee. Wack them.
I am in love with a daughter of ones of his commisioners but that doesn't change any thing. She is not happy with what is happening but I am.

Nobody knows this Jack in Bayelsa State. Many people do not even know him as a Bayelsan. It will be very diffcult for him. He cant even meet up with the politics in Bayelsa. He has no structure and nobody to fight and even die for him.

I had the same situation but have already given up on making sure the marriage works. I have given up waiting for the marriage to break up. I only pity my two innocent children. The only situation now is the so call girl I married now realized that I am tire and is now the person trying to make the marriage work.
DONT HOLD A WOMAN WITH TWO HANDS UNLESS YOU WANT TO DIE YOUNG OF HEART ATTACK. ,

They give heavy sex while the so call good girls pretend and give little or no sex. Sex some times works for the men. One of them caught my heart with heavy sex. I married her and we had 2 children. Now she is not interested in the sex thing again and I am getting frustrated and is looking towards another bad girl to meet up with my routine sex.

They should make him to vomit if defecating is not helping matter. They should test his sweat as well. Drug give money ok

Ben Bruce is not the type of Jack that can survive Bayelsa Politics. In as much as many people dont like Sylva Timipre, they are very much ready to collect government cash from him and at the same time run errand for him.
Up to 99% of wealthy Bayelsans got and are still getting their cash from government purse. Ben Bruce cannot dig that. A lot of violence can as well be seen in the political setting in BY. All the politicians in BY have their boys that are ready to do dirty jobs for them. Bruce do not have any gang connection here. The so called repentant militants are calling the shots here and the government of Sylva might get their great support.
I don't really see much about the influence of Ben Bruce in BY.

I met one man in a Cyber Cafe in Yenagoa. He saw me going through some political news in Nigeria and started telling me something I though as funny but wish to share it.

He said that Nigeria's problem is that we did not leave the COMMON WEALTH OF NATION. He said that the COMMONWEALTH is encircled around the queen of Coast that has evil intentions. He is of the view that things will only move well in Nigeria if we should leave the COMMON WEALTH and stop paying allegiance to the Queen of England.
He said that USA saw the spiritual implications of any allegiance to the queen under COMMON WEALTH and acted fast. He said he as a Bayelsan has adviced GEJ to pull Nigeria out COMMON WEALTH. That things will start moving well if Nigeria leaves COMMON WEALTH. Please be the judge.

I think Zamfara should take it all. They started with Sharia and they will end with Sharia. Bayelsa has two major problem. One is bad politicians and the second is very difficult terrain.

Grip of evil
Mugger jailed for squeezing disabled victim's testicles
SUN REPORTER
A WOMAN who robbed a disabled man at a cash point while squeezing his testicles was jailed for four years today.
Natasha Dignum, 30, attacked the cerebral palsy sufferer in his mobility scooter just after he had withdrawn £60.
CCTV captured the moment the redhead leaned over him and grabbed his private parts before threatening him with a hypodermic needle and snatching the money.
The 35-year-old victim, from Stockport, told how Dignum approached him at the ATM, asking for a spare pound.
When he refused to give her any money she clutched his genitals and raided his pockets.
She told him: "I have a needle in my pocket and I will use it."
Groping
The man also revealed the assault on July 15 left him feeling "sexually violated".
In a statement he said: "I was unable to sleep in the same bed as my wife for three days afterwards. I just couldn't let my wife touch me. Even now our love life is non-existent.
"When the girl who robbed me grabbed my testicles I felt it was sexual. I'm reluctant to go out and I'm upset I was unable to defend myself through having cerebral palsy."
The robbery in Openshaw, Greater Manchester, was one of a string of similar attacks.
A court heard Dignum specifically targeted lone men, using her sick groping technique and leaving them in agony while stealing their wallets.

Sick , Dignum leans over her victim to squeeze his privates
Cavendish
She admitted robbery at Manchester Crown Court after a judge said she was using sex to "disorientate" her victims.
Dignum's lawyer claimed she carried out the robbery to feed a crack cocaine addiction.


But Judge Martin Rudland told her: "You targeted a vulnerable man in a particularly unpleasant offence which had a marked effect on him.
"You clearly have developed a means whereby you repeatedly approach people who might be vulnerable to suddenly try and take money from them by disorientating them, not least by a sexual approach."
After the case Det Con Rachel Eaton, of Greater Manchester Police, said: "This shocking incident has had a profound effect upon the man. It has really affected his confidence and quality of life, as he no longer feels able to go out alone.
"Dignum not only stole his money, but also his independence. I can only hope that seeing Dignum behind bars and brought to justice for this truly appalling crime will help restore some of this man's confidence."


http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3893103/Grip-of-evil.html

You people should tell him to use this God giving oppotunity to confess all he and his cohorts did in this country. This will help him to make heaven and at the same time see God he has always claimed to be serving.