TeskyMan:

[size=15pt] We always DESIRE a "Bad Girl" level of Exposure as wife/house material and at the same time want a "Good Girl" with no sexually promiscuous past i.e. Clean babe. Its NOT possible.

Lets face the TRUTH.

I'm out, [/size]

Duke007:

@poster,becos there are too many bad guys out there than d gud ones and like the law of atraction:like pole attracts each other while different pole repels.

BABE!:

I disagree with all my heart. Pls come back.

What do you mean by a "bad girl level of exposure"? Do you mean her skills in bed?  She's a "bad girl" doesn't mean she's good in bed  o--

lindabon:

Truth be told, its just an unfair world. A ho may get tired of the whole sleeping around thing at some point and might decide to settle down to a commited relationship after realizing that the previous lifestyle they lived was completely void. But a woman that is introduced into the world on her wedding night, might just have the thought that she has been missing the goodies of life, and at that point, she decides to go wild and taste the waters. The world is never fair; ideologies like "good will always triumph over evil" are carved to advocate good deeds. Not all bad people are punished, to make matters worse, most bad people keep getting the best life can offer.  So no matter how we want to glorify good deeds by attaching future punishments to evil, most times, bad people die without as much as suffering anything for the evil ways the lived. _{You might wanna talk about the punishment after death, but then again, where are the evidence for the existence of the afterlife ?}

The laws  "no evil deed can ever go unpunished" are man made and wretched. Lets just face the harsh reality and leave certain things that cannot be changed/controlled. The more you try to condemn and judge life's mysteries, the more headache you give yourself.  

[size=18pt]There are plenty of wankers who aren't getting paid back for their misdeeds; It sucks big time, but what can one do?   [/size]

2buff:


Which one are you?  

I'm a very good bad girl.

TeskyMan:

[size=15pt]Hello friend,

The bolded part is a lie from the pit of hell. Let no man deceive him or herself, what you sow, you will reap. God is not mocked dear, there is none of the wankers as you have said, who will not pay for their misdeeds. The truth is when they are paying for their misdeeds you will/might not know and they wouldn't inform you tho. Grace of God differs from person to person. Some people its 2 yrs, some 4yrs, some 10yrs some 20yrs but the truth it - You will reap your misdeed. But one thing we do not know is how it will come back hurting us ( i mean in what form) and 2. what time it will come? No man knows except God.

Change your way now!!!. I'm not saying this for fun, I'm saying it because its the TRUTH. I know a whole lot of guyz who were into yahoo yahoo in the early 2000, one way or the other they changed and repented of their ways. My dear, they are paying for it dearly. The truth is no one will tell - I was opportune to know and see it when it's happen because I was one of them. Thank God for his grace.

What you sow, no matter how smart you are - you will reap. It's a bitter truth which most people does not care about.

Chikena.[/size]

BABE!:

I'm a very good bad girl.

Cuddler:

idem isong ke fi. ka ufong wed or ufog abasi. wan awag do

newintexas:

Your definition of bad girl means she is true to herself, while the good girl might just be a pretender and people that gets close to her see the true pic and don't want to deal with her

passyjango:

First of all, you cannot base a theory on just one observation. Where is your statistics to support your claim? A number of good girls marry even before 22 years. Yes granted, some guys could be foolish enough to marry bad girls, but what proportion of men do these represent and what are the results of such marriages. We often focus on the wedding, but the wedding is just the first day of the marriage.

In Addition, just because a girl made a silly mistake at age 12 and had a child should not define her life. That does not make her bad. Just because she was wild as a teenager and took time to grow-up should not define her as bad. Some people spend their twenties as teenagers, we don't all mature at the same age. She may even be sweeter (in a good way) than the good sister you talk about.

To me, a bad person is someone who is unforgiving, cunning, vindictive, selfish and manipulative and only a fool will want to have a long term relationship with such a person just because they are good in bed. A bad person will always want to have his/her way no matter who gets hurt. She may be a virgin or an old cargo; a church goer, born-again, or an atheist; a club goer or a cinema goer.

What makes us good or bad is in our character and the circles we belong. If the only thing that matters to us is our self then we are bad.

2buff:

LOL I'm sure everyone has at least 1 person that pops up in their mind when they read [b]ALL [/b]these qualities verbatim . . . and chances are it's a woman.   

To me, a bad person is someone who is unforgiving, cunning, vindictive, selfish and manipulative

goodjack:

They give heavy sex while the so call good girls pretend and give little or no sex. Sex some times works for the men. One of them caught my heart with heavy sex. I married her and we had 2 children. Now she is not interested in the sex thing again and I am getting frustrated and is looking towards another bad girl to meet up with my routine sex.

2buff:

^^ Hope finishing with puberty helps

pro01:

I've never quite understood this deceitful talk about unforgiveness and vindictiveness. That has NOTHING to do with a person's 'goodness' or 'badness'. Honestly, only the worst offenders  would talk about that. What caused the offence in the first place that warranted the vindictiveness? ? ? ? In my book, the initial offence is ALWAYS to be blamed, while the unforgiving retaliation is righteous, fair, and totally blameless. . .especially where the offender is remorseless and unapologetic. Unforgiveness and vindictiveness is as natural as pee-ing and poo-ing. If you don't want to be 'unforgived', then don't offend in the first place. I can't bruise your chin and then rant about your unforgiveness when you retaliate by plucking out my eye. Law of Moses reigns supreme. Otherwise, there'll be no need for Hell-fire since God would forgive us all and admit us all into heaven regardless of our atrocities.

lovelydoll:

good girls you are rare , i would say am somewhat of a good girl not entirely,but close i am a virgin,but know a lottt about sex.now a days you will not find a virgin tht has no clue about fhucking.

plus i have a boyfriend and i have had  a few marriage proposals from guys who were only 26 ,i am 19.

passyjango:

I think that is the mistake some people make, they think that just because a girl is good she does not know anything about sex. I know I saw on Manswers on Sony Max that girls who are bookish are better in bed than club girls who are sometimes even too drunk to perform.

It is just that the so called bad girls market themselves better. They create and propagate the fallacy that they are better in bed than the good ones. Being good in bed is about knowing the sensitive parts of the body of the opposite sex and how to sensitise them. You could still be doing it everyday without knowing this.