₦airaland Forum

ZINNYBANKS:
Your problem abeg how person fit see like N50m before the end of January legitimately ..

Only in your dream. Imagine it n pray you dream it.

To butress the op, Nigerian men lacked empathy. Empathy ll place them in the position of not questioning a lady that they are dating or married about finances, gifts, sex etc.
They don't realise that relationship is responsibility. They ll say what your father can't give you, you dey ask from me.
Why you come toast me (woo)?
As I come gree, am I not entitled to your resources?
They also lacked empathy of hurting their wives or female partners deliberately with cheating. They don't put themselves in women's shoe that how ll I feel if she's the one cheating?
Abeg make I no tok talk in order not to be misquoted. 😂 😂 😂😂😂😂😂💕💕😘😘😘😘😂

Magnoliaa:


Why you wan cause violence this chill night?

The violence is needed for cleansing of the minds of the reprobate dirty boys here that can't feed themselves but talk anyhow here against females.

Infact all should v left if they had their way.
I said I no dey enjoy Nigeria.
Nothing good is coming out. Only hear, hatred, hardship and bad economy.

oyin44:
Every one was surprised today the way the people of jigawa state came out in their millions to support tinubu. ..


It was too massive.. any way, .l am 100% certain tinubu will win..the love is much

I v not seen light in my office since last week Thursday. This alone is making me angry with Buhari.
The man jilted Nigerians and he has spoiled market for Tinubu cos I can't vote for APC with good conscience.
Now that I v penciled my choice to LP or APC, I need to think deeply before February 14 to know my choice.
I want to vote without emotions.
Meanwhile, all other APC grassroot people must suffer. They ll lose our massively, including their governors. They must suffer for Buhari's hardship!

Bobdaddy0007:
Dey can only offer u sex that's why I hate women who can offer men only sex 😒

You and the mumu Lifeemetu are suffering from immaturity.
You might v encountered same kind of female but we v billions of ambition-less men who offer only sex too. Who you date is a reflection of yourself.
Cos you too came here now with the mumuboy op to bash women as if your lives better pass those you are dating or that of billions of accomplished women worldwide.
Before you create topic or post, think deeply so that you won't be creating a bashing thread for yourself, dear op n your mumu-complice.

Thermodynamics:
"Send your family away" That's exactly what the OP's girlfriend is saying.
Strong woman or bad woman?

I don't need a toxic, self-centred, do for me all the time kind of women please.
And I definitely don't need a feminist as well, these are not strong women, these are toxic women.

This isn't toxicity. When you marry, your first priority is your wife just as your wife's priority is you the husband. Visitations and other family engagements must be limited to accommodate more of your wife's comfort. Except you are the super rich. Take for example, a man accommodating his kins in a room self contain apartment or room n parlour. There ll be clashes. But if the man built a mansion or at least 3 bedroom flat, everyone ll be in his/her room or quarters.
I m a realist and I avoid future issues as I sight them from infant.

MansoryMX:
But women brothers, sisters, friends and mama can visits as they like abi? And when we men set boundaries it becomes a war. Na wa

I m not against visiting. It must not be too much.

EbenezerTriumph:
what's your former moniker?

Water n garri

toujurs:
If you are not willing to suffer for love, then you aren't matured yet for a serious relationship.

yenyenyen

Collins4u1:
too much visiting from relative of whose family.

How are you sure the gf is not making a bad choice dating the guy, waiting for a disaster so she can become another version of the Op sister.

You v a point o. I advise the girl to not lose guard at all.

BigDick70inch:
ode!!!!
wouldn't be surprised u the said girlfriend.....

Oponu. Won't be surprised you reasoned that way.

WibusJaga:
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The man is definitely confusing G.O.A.T. with the animal goat.

Or maybe he will be OK with ATG (All Time Greatest)

You v sense. Make CR7 change to ATG. Make only Messi people dey suffer hell torment from Mike Bamiloye

Thermodynamics:
I rather be a toy controlled by my family who genuinely love and would stand by me during difficult times, than to be a simp to one self-centred woman who will run away at the slightest sign of distresse, I'll quickly do away with any woman wife/girlfriend before I do away with any member of my family.

Family man calm down. No one is saying you should send your kins away. But you ll likely lack a strong woman by your side.

Nehyooh:
The truth here is that the girlfriend seems not to be accommodating, stylishly dictating to the guy. Agreed, let say the older sister was unlucky with the man, her condition is apparent enough, so what's wrong if she stay with her brother for the mean time? The girlfriend is not even yet a wife, but still left her parents house and decided to be cohabitating with a guy she's not married to yet.

I don't tolerate nonsense!
Why will just an ordinary girlfriend be saying/doing rubbish towards my siblings that I've known for years before I come across her.

What's the assurance that the so called "girlfriend" is even faithful to the guy?

NB: Not every girlfriend becomes "future wife"
Good characters is one of the top traits responsible man look for in a lady. The girlfriend seems authoritative!

She's a good gf

Positiveme2020:
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My family is No.1 , no gf can come between me and my siblings.

See his mouth like family mouth! 👄

Thermodynamics:
Stop supporting rubbish, if the girl was the op girlfriend's sister wouldn't she offer the same help? Women do not like too much visiting but if it's the woman's family member she can harbour them forever, you women are very very selfish creatures, you only think of how this will benefit you all the time, it's all about me me me, if I'm the OP I'll kick out that self-centred bìtch of a girlfriend out of my life.

If the OP marry that yeye girl him own don finish.

Ymis the girl responsible for his sister's predicament? You no even talk of the irresponsible man that's maltreating the sister. Men like you are toys controlled by families.

Aliou007:
Shut up abeg.

You are the I e to shut up!
😡 Angry 😡💢💢💢💢😡😡😡😡😡

cedricksly:
lol for boyfriend and girl matter that isn't even fiancee yet, Talkless marriage... If the said girlfriend dey stay her own house she rent with her money and not living 90% in his boyfriend house this kind talk for no show up. If she is tired she should stay in her own house where nobody will disturb her.. This same person tomorrow if them marry her, Na her type family dey give the husband person to train.. THE YOUNG MAN HAS RIGHT TO ACCOMMODATE HIS FAMILY MEMBER AS IT DEEM IT FIT UNTIL HE IS MARRIED, PROVIDED HE IS COOL WITH IT AND DOESN'T CONSIDER IT A Burden. Then dey talk apartment na 1 room ur mind self go. Are there not mutiple room apartment other than 1 room? She only has right to complain if they were roommates or legally married. I once accommodated my then girlfriend sister & husband for 1year 3 months, we need help at one point of our lives, and till date I do not regret accommodating them because the house was filled with Reciprocated respect and the man was 101% responsible... Infact when me and the mumu girl broke up, I hide it from the couple so they don't feel unwelcome, they found out 7months later... Life no hard, Na we dey over complicate tinx

But saw nothing wrong as his sister became a baby mama. Remove the log from your eyes first.

Positiveme2020:
Not in all cases. There is probability.
For me My immediate family comes first in whatever I do.

Marry from your family.

akube34:
na una go still say, until marriage, una Dey single but for men now he should consider person wey him never marry

What's this one saying❓❓
Do I know you❓
Have we met before❓

betshopagent:
you're part of the problem.Female Antichrist

👿 👿 😈 To slap you dey hungry me!

Autobot05:
You must be always hungry ... you always attach finance

I m not hungry. I can feed you boy. But Money 💰 answereth all things.

Be like say this one dey ment! Me that hasn't gotten it cos INEC say it never ready nko

MoneyMustBMade:
You're very stupid

Look at this small stupid useless child am even advicing here abusing me for no reason

End time children, see this small girl o?

You are very mad.💢💢💢😡😡😡😡😡😡
See this old foo l am advising too.
End time man.♂️

Justified. She's 100% justified.👍
You men don't realise that women don't like too much visiting from relatives. It brings unnecessary clashes. Moreso, will you lie that you don't v sex with your girlfriend? When your sister is around, will you be comfortable to sleep with her in her presence or you share different rooms?
Your sister is suffering from bad choice in her relationship life.
Assist your sister in getting apartment and settling down asap.
Your girlfriend is your future wife, you won't marry your sister.

When 2 cannot divide 4 again.
😂
Simply, when he doesn't do those lovely 💕 😘 things he's doing in the past. Person wey dey call, talk to you steady, buy gifts, 🎁 🧧 affection etc come dey diminish abi he dey form busy but has time for others.
Na man suppose chase me, ⏩ no be me go dey chase. ⏩ ⏩ I ll never suffer for love, amen.

MoneyMustBMade:
If you like go and tell man that you have body to offer and come and disturb us that men are scum and see bad reply from men.

You still lacked sense. If I v body to offer a man that ll be my husband, I v given him a great gift that money can't buy.
It doesn't relegate me as sex offer alone cos I m a career lady. So I can be useful to my future husband in many ways.
Meanwhile, if you don't v sense, don't quote me again! 😡

MoneyMustBMade:
To be honest his not mistaken by saying that you're useless.

Sometimes if you don't know what to say you keep quiet

I always defend woman but your see with all this stupid comments of woman here, am very disappointed. No wonder men they use una do punching bag.

To be honest I rlly thank God for my wife, She is very intelligent. You need to bring peace and ideas for a man's life not body for Christ sake.

Men can get pussy any were but not good woman and wise woman(wife)

Pls make una woman stop replying rubbish here

My wife brought blessings into my life not body and time.

You points justified women's brutality. What did I post that made the idio t you are supporting to post such?
You are the one that's more useless for not knowing the crux of the matter.

Reinamaria:
I love Nigerians, I swear! 😂😂😂

Before nko, Nigerians are crazy 💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢💢 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

PerfectStranger:
Dey don give una new emoji, una go loiter the whole comment section anyhow 🤣

We ll litter nairaland with it 💕 💕😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 💜💜❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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