₦airaland Forum

goooze:
As a nation we will get there. We need more of your type not the myopic ones that easily get their brain off equilibrium with chant of ordinary letters "APC,PDP,QQQ,KKK etc

Atom007:
Nations interest is d key. What profit a man gaining d whole world losses his soul? Power is nothing wen ur ppu have no means of survival. Enough word to all both APC n PDP

orion7:
the wounds 're extensive.

regardless I have seen worse.

when I did my house job at irrua specialist teaching hospital. I saw prof Ewan Alufohai arrange shattered bones ( I mean the leg was crushed to pieces) the man spent hours in the theatre fixing the leg.

all this man needs is a good surgeon. And he will walk again albeit with a gait

iammo:
"Christianity " simply means to be christlike. Romans who are Christ like introduced Catholic and Christ like British introduced Anglican, Americans who are Christ like introduced Pentecostal similarly CAC reflects yoruba culture in someways including praying style... hence all denomination are Christ like only difference is infussion of little cultural practice of it's originator

Itzogunsakin:
I am here to write about my experience. I don't know where to go or what to do except to give up everything as I feel very sad, and in pain. I was seeking answers but in my case, it's different and I truly need help.

We have been married about 22 years ago. We were so in love and so close to each other. He was my first true boyfriend that I dated seriously and married. He was very good to me. After the unexpected first pregnancy, things started to go downhill. I found myself not having help at home, having to deal with work, baby etc. I have lost my libido and got tired often as I had to juggle so much without much help. But we managed and I didn't think there was problem. I am the hard working type and trusted him with all my heart.

Then we had 2nd child and I continued to work hard. We both had our share of stresss. He started his own business and went thru hard times initially. I was not able to help him as I have to work hard to support the family as I was having stable income. He advised me to start my own too and in summary, I did and went thru lots of struggle and hard work. I become successful and continued to support the family. For many years, I supported the children's education till university, I managed to upgrade our homes and paid it off. There is a heavy price to pay for being so hard working and doing better than my husband. I don't have a choice as he does not provide me any financial support. He went thru hard times and claimed I was not helpful and was not available for him during his darkest hours.

This led to him falling for his loyal staff who is obviously younger, prettier and made him feel better. He admitted his affair after I confronted him as I finally felt the changes in him. He stopped being intimate with me, he got impatient with me, he let me pay for most bills on my own and many more. I refused to believe as I trusted him as he says he is under so much stress and asked for me to understand him. I always prayed hard for the family and him and waited for him to overcome his problems and to love me back as before. I believe in him so much that I shared all my own financial rewards with him, the properties that I paid for and literally everything I have. I am not an angel but I resisted cheating behind him as I believed he won't and I wanted to keep my marriage wow.

Now I am so lost, am so depressed that I want to sleep forever and never to face fhe cruelty of what he has done to me. I worked so hard for our retirement, saving much I can in our joint accounts and looking forward to grow old with him. Despite him having changes last many years, I continued to pray for him and for us to be happy. Despite my instincts that I am being used and being cheated, I chose to trust him and went all out to reach out to him, to love and to care for him. But he always avoided and gave excuses to be away.

During the confrontation about his cheating, he admitted loving her so much, and he also wants to marry her eventually as he needs her and she is much better than me. It broke me to pieces. He apologised for the pain but he can't stop the affair and can't stop loving her. He even admitted he is conflicted as he loves the family so much and he still loves me but he said it's different love now. He still admits he wants to be with her.

I have been made to feel very unattractive and bad to the extent to I am losing my self confidence. I am a successful Profesional and doing well in my work. I juggled and worked hard and do not depend on him financially. I actually supplemented him in the many family expenses. I feel so lonely all these years but I chose to believe him and living in denial that he has lost his love for me.

I only know I love him as I have always been faithful. I am so heartbroken that I do not want to continue my professional work although I am doing well. I am now choosing to end everything I have. I have lost my will to live and to go on. I share too much with my husband as I put his name in all I have. Be it bank accounts properties. He would not hesitate to let me make most payments but he does not directly use my money.

i want to end it all and go to sleep forever. My heart is empty, my dreams are crushed, my values are betrayed, I can't love another man again. My tears have dried up. I have lots of friends and acquaintances but none I feel comfortable to talk to as I have been the one being looked up to and giving advices.

My life has collapsed.

eleojo23:
It's funny how some religious leaders will condemn prosperity and still stand on the alter to lament that the members are poor and the church doesn't have money to execute projects.

How will the church have money when you've told the people that money is evil and that having riches is some sought of sin?


I wonder if these people listen to themselves at all.

overall90:
Who would have believed that less than two years into this administration, that the sai baba chanters are the ones doing this