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Are we not all from Adam and Eve? So we are all related after all. This will guide your friend in taking a decision it now depends if his/her conscience allows.

You've been scammed I don't think they are related she's possibly one of the adopted sister in the neighborhood.

I still can't explain the rationale behind somebody refusing to buy "ojolowo bread" at N250 besides his house then take Okada N300 to shoprite to buy N700 bread at shoprite is this also the government's fault?

Safitu:
The man is not under any spell. The reality is that a lot of men endure cheating from their wives contrary to what you read on social media. Do you know what marriage entails? It’s not just a ceremony, it’s a physical and spiritual bonding, a soul tie that becomes extremely difficult to get out of, especially after many years and reproducing together. It just takes a lot of strength and grace to walk out. A lot of men do not come out to confess the problems their wives put on them because it’s a huge dent to their ego. Just pray that you marry a virtuous woman because it’s not easy.

God bless you my sister. Kids advicing divorce every time there is a crack in marriage. Please get it straight, 80% of marriage you see has a problem but everybody tries to find a unique cushion effect to their unique problems.

mikeuz:
And you came to Nairaland for advice. My dear wrong place.wrong move. If you are real, please seek advice somewhere else. Many of the people here don’t have boyfriend or girlfriend, not talking of wife or husband, or are even fathers or mothers. Many are social media kids, many are frustrated. Please seek for advice from respectable persons you know.

You've heard it all. Many will advice you on what they have little or no experience about. Problem in marriage comes in phases as the marriage progresses, who told you the only problem you face anything n marriage is a cheating husband? I know some marriages(Christian home) where the wife would have even pray the husband cheats than the treatment she's getting. All these advice of divorcing him might bit really be the best remember every marriage has its own challenges

Bigcowhorn:
Once a man passes 30 his sex system begins to slow unless he was very active when younger.


This case looks more like heart failure and lack of essential vitamins and minerals

You can't fvck and not fortify you body ni, you dey mad?

I like you comment. I expect Doctor's comments to do justice to the topic but he didn't go deep enough. Madam do you understand how a man get an erection? Flow (high pressure pump from the heart) of blood to a man's male organ and a signal interpretation from the brain I doubt if this is the chemistry in a woman. However, anythibg that has to do with pumping of blood from the heart to a particular part of the body can fail anytime this explained why we have cardiac arest cases.

I don't like commenting on marriage issues because I believe its a different stroke for different folks but I want to highlight the following;
1. Men take care of your homes in the best way you can but enjoy yourself as well. The day you start depriving yourself of your enjoyment all in the name of being a good or homely husband believe me you have reduced your lifespan by a quarter.
2. Remember you have you own destiny to fulfill as an individual aside your children and also aside satisfying a wife that believes putting family worries on your head makes you the best man on earth.
3. Wives you want to own it all. Remember, you've once enjoy all these things you are accusing the man of. You have children that needs to be given future to now, you owns and control the children because before any man will reap 5% of its labour on children you've already reaped 70% out of the mans...with yours still 100% intact.
4. Have anybody ever asked him or herself why we have lots of widows when its time to get dividends of parenthood? Its either the man has finished himself with struggling and worries about how to make the future right for his family and satisfying a wife without actually "enjoying himself to keep his body and soul together or possible being killed by the so called wife so as to enjoy everything alone.
5. Wives you go to the UK,US, CANADA to do " omugo" and refuse to come home on time in the name of I'm taking care of my grand child leaving this man to the hands of the maid to take care of.
6. Men get this right, women will always be enemy to whatever you derive pleasure from differently from her it doesn't need to be only cheating.
In conclusion, men please stop this ego of I am the man of tge house. women owns their children they have greater influence on them than you even in the time of enjoying what you've laboured for therefore, take care of you home by giving your family a good future but enjoy yourself now because there no guarantee for you getting that in the future unless you are lucky to have children that's is not under the influence of women manipulation.

didirelly:
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Please kindly enlighten us about the salt issue

Salt is known to be a spiritual cleanser and it avert bad luck and obstacles to achieving success. Salt bath(either adding little salt to your water or scrubbing with salt without using soap or any perfumes) is encouraged. It could be once monthly or twice in a month pray a normal prayer, no incantation or rituals. Goggle about the spiritual use of salt.

There are lots of mysteries about God that the bible did not explain. And the same bible tells us that "the way of man is different from the way of men" Ask any pastor to explain the verse "my people perish for lack of knowledge" to you they will refer to this "knowledge" as knowibg the word of God it is a lie . The knowledge is very deep and its beyond human comprehension it includes reincarnation, seeing a dead person having a family somewhere far away, praying in certain way by calling God's real name to avert or prevent certain evil occurrences, Some of these pastors knows all these things but they won't tell you the truth. Can you believe that certain things you come in contact with everyday e.g "salt" has a lot spiritual usefulness if you have the knowledge of how it works? If you do it your pastor will tell you it's not Godly whereas it's being mentioned several times in the bible the important of salt.

uuzba:
How many youth have you employed for any work at all?

d 6 graduates in different capacity

Jwonder:
This rape case has really showed the kind of Christian's we have in nigerian, half baked, they don't know the scripture and are only christians by mouth..
Nathaniel said it's a family matter and they were too dumb to understand that under the body of Christ we are one family, we are brothers and Christians in Christ, he even gave scriptures to back all he said but none of them bothered to even go through the scriptures...

I weep for Christianity in nigerian, i blame the fake pastors who won't teach their members to read the Bible and ask the Holy spirit for a better understanding, rather they encourage Sunday medicine, Bible app carrying Christan.
What Nathaniel Bassey wrote is only meant to be understood by believers, if you are truly a Christian you will pick up your Bible, read those passages before you comment.

I PRAY GOD GIVES US A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF HIS WORD

I like your comments but don't blame any pastor for not teaching their followers how to read the bible but rather blame the gullible and hypocritic followers that have turned their pastors to god and believe every rubbish spewed out by them hook, line and sinker.

donbachi:
Nobody came out in protest of this..as if rape is worst than murder.

Hippocrates everywhere! All the yeyebritis I mean "all yeyebrities won't see this, you can only see I stand by the rapee dakolo tell me the worst among the two" rape or murder? Mind you I don't support both but I'm an advocate of judgement after proper and in biased investigation

zeuss:
protestesting an allegation that is not substantiated? useless wicked idiots. ..why waste time instead of filing a rape charge in a police station or sueing to court. ...idiots with their band of evil mindless mob.....daily herdsmen are raping, kidnapping and murdering people all over the country not a sound from this jobless hyper activists

That is to show how retarded the brain of some youth has become I'm just surprise about the whole thing nobody is supporting rape but things should be allowed to be done the way they are suppose to.please divert the protest to killings by the Fulani heardsmem

Let both of them swear with gods of our ancestors you will get the truth immediately and stop making all these god of men a mouth peace for issues they are all guilty of.

Who's CAN and who's PFN? Different letters same people whose major concern is their pockets, people with Private jets and schools established for the rich with exorbitant school fees. CAN and PFN should be registered as a political party just like APC and PDP same people,same mind in different clothing.

Hey kid, don't be surprise if the right have already gotten maried to a right woman somewhere. How would you know the right man if he comes is it through his pocket or him being a puppet? I'm not surprised these two things are what a woman looks for in a man to make him an I deal man for them. 1. Pocket- means security and protection 2. Puppet-means a caring husband that washes pant and dishes.

GodSaklek:
A big battle against all foreign religions and their nonsense gods is coming, all foreign religions must find their way out of Africa soon, they have done more damages than good,we are far behind as a Continent,it doesn't give room for us to think with our brain,it takes away our senses,strength and ability to find solutions to our little problems,it scammed us our hard earned money and leaves us in poverty,our country,our Continent are struggling to survive,people are running out of the Continent, enough is enough,religions gives us no good but a bad leaders who will loots our national treasuries and share it with those suppose religion leaders,the later will rape our kids, our sisters and our women and killed our people in the name of one nonsense foreign gods, they are scared to criticised our bad leaders so that they won't close down there business empire(church), they lie to people, collect part of their salaries and use it to build schools that non of their members will not have access to,they spent the tithes and offering lavishly,use it to buy jet and a latest ride, and Use the remaining to carry olosho in abroad...

@ RemiTinubu

Your wisdom will never be depleted. I have said this before and thank God we are gradually seeing the dark side of this so called foreign teachings, the emancipation of mental slavery of Africans will definitely be achieved but before then don't expect anything good from the continent.

No words from the wife she's either a partner in crime who's fully aware of the husband's escapades or a puppet that have allowed money and eordly luxury to becloud her sense of reasoning.

Saltoflife:
Punch received.

Edit1. Have you wondered if a woman becomes a president? In nigeria we know women care alot and cannot be as stingy and uncaring as most men in position of power.
Technically it's not out of context to say out treatment of women is the course of our backwardness. ..

President indeed! Please rate in percentage the performance of those that have handled sensitive position in Nigeria I will start my argument from there.

israelmao:
I will continue to say that arresting these guys cannot fix the problems,Yahoo business gained more ascendancy and became more rampant because youth unemployment is alarming that is not to make an excuse for them but honestly Nigerian worsening economy is one of the contributory factors.FG can just gather those that have been arrested so far and train them in positive ventures that are ICT-related and also patronize their services or products as the case may be.This is one out of a thousand ways to refocus or redirect their minds from fraudulent acts.

There is no time in the history of this country that youths were gainfully employed. Fraud is never an excuse for lack of employment lots of graduate including ladies are taking up other skillful jobs to make ends meet. Let me burst your brain I was so surprised at the amount a lady (chemistry graduate) makes every month in her shoes manufacturing shop as a result of weekly contribution please,advice the male to learn welding or automobile if they won't make ends meet. To worsen the whole situation, most of them are unemployable because they having nothing upstairs stop the blame and tell the truth to their face .

As many of you that are supporting Yahaya bello, may God almighty turn your life to what Kogi state is turned to under his governances. Please say a loud amen if you are sure of what you are supporting.

Tajbol4splend:
The major reason why most women are single in their late 30s is their search for perfection, perfection for the right place to meet, perfection for the right time to meet, perfection for the right personality, you should also try make these things right yourself, they don't have to come perfectly right because even to some people, you are also not the perfectly right person, you can't be 30 and not have had suitors, but you are not open to them, which makes them go, they all go, including the perfect ones that seem horrible, my being open means trying getting to know someone but most of them follow their first impressions which are mostly wrong, how about you watch and assess someone, how about giving him a chance, you don't have to get stuck, you can say your goodbye if you don't like what you see, it's better than staying afar trying to know someone using instinct, it's a mirage situation that's not achievable.

Not always true!

Raalsalghul:
Gbam.
You've said it all.
There are many reasons a guy will remain single into his late thirties.
For a lady, I can't fathom any reason unless its by choice.

I mean despite the "hellos from random strangers", "Calls from guys you didn't give your number", "DMs from social media".

And before, they start giving excuses of being with a particular partner for donkey years, I'd put it to them that they didn't quite set their goals and timelines.

Again I repeat, unless it's by choice. I find it unbelievable.

Certain situations can seems unbelievable until you experienced it personally. I know of a very respectful and beautiful aunty that was ready to " do all" just to get married I grew up with her I can tell much about her youthful days so, things happens sometimes that you don't just have any explanation to why it happened.

Mr vice president I think you are a pastor please prove yand back your statement with scripture

Anonnymous:
RIP TO HIM.

Happy Fathers' Day Nairaland.

You asked for 10k and your dad told you he will give you in the morning before he leaves for work, this is after he has thoroughly scrutinised what you needed the money for, all the questions he asked is already making you angry. Through out the night the man couldn't sleep because he was thinking of how togive you his last 10k. Morning came and he called you into the room to give you 9k instead of 10k and you squeezed your face in discontent and reluctantly said thank you after complaining it's not complete. Your mum after seeing this will not say anything but will meet you in your room where your dad isn't and give you 2k from her own money and say "don't mind him, use this one to complete it" smile from nowhere will enclave your face, you quickly go to facebook and whatsapp to write "I have the best mum in the world, I love my mum". Now your dad had gone out again with just 1k in his pocket home and abroad to top up fuel or use as transport to work. He will never let you see this because he is a MAN. Always try to appreciate your Dad for no reason because you won't know how your life would have turned out without a fatherly figure in it..

Dads are priceless too o!...

HAPPY FATHERS' DAY

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God bless you for this wrote up

Op, those days can't be reversed unless if God's words about end time won't be fulfilled. Those days can't be reversed unless you go back to your religion and culture as an african and discard a borrowed culture that allows indesent dressing and lack of respect for moral values. Also go back to your religion that you can't swear with its God if you are found guilty of any offence because of fear of immediate judgment by thunder possibly,that might scare the hell out of those polithiefians that swear with a religion book and still go against what they swear to. Discard a borrowed teachings or culture via religion that allows women to climb the podium and spew thrash about "no man dictate to you what to wear"because of freedom and equity

Are you guilty of this? Our major problem is altitude if corrected other things will fall in place remember it start from you as an individual and as a family.

Are you guilty of this? Our major problem is attitude if we can change it other things will fall in place remember it starts from you!

Some topics are not worthy of comment but for the sake our beloved mothers,sisters,daughters and the entire female we share love with I will say the Op is f----cked

Fathers not always available when its time to enjoy fruit of labour he's either bed ridden with ailment or late Na woman world we come serve? Lesson to fathers"take care of you family but enjoy yourself to the fullest "

SillyMods:
So, MKO had always been the "bigger boy" which OBJ didn't like even as far back as then?

No wonder OBJ hates anything that has to do with Abiola.

Unfortunately for him, the name MKO Abiola lives on even in death. With his own sterling record of being a former military HOS and civilian president twice, he may never attain the status MKO Abiola has now achieved in Nigeria.

I won't be surprised if down the line, MKO Abiola's image is embedded in one of our currency notes to spite the useless man further.

Kudos to PMB for seriously dealing with Baba Iyabo while he's alive.

common sense is not common.

aaronson:
The revolution

We are almost there.