Kendumazy:


Will you take my advice? Shit happens in this life. Not until, when you started seeing everything as risk which end result you can't predict, you will live life better. Forget about all the emotional abuse etc. As a man you have every right to verbally abuse her in as much as she is the one that triggers it and she seems never ready to stop. You can as well verbal abuse her. Na blood dey run in your vein too. The strength to keep been silent over verbal abuse from a second party is a gift. Not everyone is gifted in such area. The ability to settle every abuses in a relationship is what keep most marriages till date most especially the ones both parties contributed to the abuse. Your wife triggers your anger which made you reacted but she is not ready to look at things in that way that she is also the cause.
Bro, life isn't hard! In as much as her mum is alive, there's little or nothing you can do. She will continue to control her daughter. Do you know why the woman keeps doing that shit as well? Because, you too, you give her the chance.
See, ignore them. Work on your life. The little you have, Send your kid upkeep to her via bank account for record purposes. Don't dwell much on the nonsense they are doing. You have tried enough. Go out there and make yourself happy. Trust me, when they see that, you don't send them again. Your wife will gradually come back to her senses and probably start fighting for her freedom from her mother. In short, stop being a sissy!

Op please I kneel and beg you FOLLOW this advice 100%

Yuceeluv:
Awwnn...

Inbox?

Yuceeluv:
Awwnn...

Can I inbox u?

Yuceeluv:
This one is scary...With this type of husband, you will just be a prisoner in your own home.

You will be a queen in our home

ebujany:
Well, as a rivers man. I wish the judgement goes against Rivers state APC so we will have a peacefully election here otherwise, many will die in the course of this so called election

As a Rivers Man i reject that prayer. APC shouldn't loose this case. Both should test their porpularity.

Baffupdrizz:
Disregard every other pieces of mis-advice and take this one first:

• What you are having is called a dead bedroom situation. In reality, it's not as if the "sex is too much" as your wife says, the sex WITH YOU is too much.

• It might break your heart to hear from me that your wife no longer finds you sexually attractive as you used to be, and merely providing for her doesn't get her wet.

• You are headed down a path of total disconnection with your wife, in fact, it will get worse if you continue to pester her about the issue as she will find you irritating and desperate.

RECOMMENDATIONS:

1. Start Lifting, and pick up a new hobby that develops your physical well-being.

2. Send me a pm

3. Pay me for my services as it is not free of charge.

You just download my mind. Oga take this advice. Discuss from January to December it will NEVER make her attracted to you. Only your actions can save you. FOCUS ON YOURSELF.

ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

Brother this is my candid advice stop asking her for sex, behave as if u aint bordered, focus on yourself, children and career. She is acting cold.


Now it doesn't matter if she is your girlfriend or wife all women act cold at some point. Man up and focus on yourself, dont ask her for sex, find a way to dose your sexual urge. Be happy around her behave the way u would if she was giving you much sex, dont start pampering her just act normal within you and around her. Make her wonder, let her ask herself questions like where is this man having his sexual satisfaction from? Who is he seeing? Make her wonder that YOU CAN DO ABSOLUTELY FINE WITHOUT HER. DONT BE RUDE, ANGRY AND BITTER TOWARDS HER. LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE A MAN.

SoniaBillion:
I need a serious man within the age of 27 and above for a serious relationship. No jokes.

Ok. Start by replying my dm

Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

Hello, can we know ourselves.

SOLARPOWER1:


This guy you are in trouble in the hands of this girl o. All the things HARDDON is saying are not even entering your head at all. Calm down my brother; we know you and this girl have had good times before but can't you see those days are gone? Look at the way she is even talking to you (" that you should go and Jump in a well" ) like a piece of rag, with zero respect.With all these she is doing, I can see your intention for this girl is still geared towards marriage; my brother you want to kill yourself abi?

Calm down, spend time to think properly, you are more than this as a man.

Currently am not in talking terms. Its painful but i have moved on. Bro no girl will repeat this act on me again, thanks for your concern am moving on with my life.

Thegeneralqueen:
Excuse me......? if you don't take care of her needs who will...... please spare me that trash

Her needs? Oh it is now her needs. What about the man's sexual needs? After marriage abi while her own should be before marriage. I call that hypocrisy.
Aunty please read and read very well a man that will marry you will mary you with or without sex.

HARDDON:





How old are you?

And have u even read this thread from beginning?

My brother leave age cause am in my late twenties
I have read it from the beginning n was already into her.
Most stuffs where about getting a lady to worship u, which was doing n i never knew when the tables turned.

goosast:


@Harddon, after you replied my comment. I contacted her and ask her why she avoiding me, she stylishly ignored the question . she promise to come to school n spend time with me giving one week , you know why because she is having a carry course to write. So i asked her if she never had any carry over she wont border to see me, she replied she knew i will say that but refuse to give an answer. So i asked her if i have been wasting my time then she replied that "i dont know what i am saying" she repeated that statement more than 5 times. I just quietly end the call. I was angry so i called her aunty i explained her behavoiur towards me telling the aunty that she is making up excuses not to visit me and see my mum. Immediately the aunty started telling me that their uncle she stays with in the north is strict, doesnt give her chance even refuse her travelling to see them in their home town. I called her n tell her if she knew what she meant by i dont know what i am saying this time around she repeated this statement over 15 times telling if she wanted to leave me she would have left me like 3 times, that she loves me that is why she is with me. I should not ask her if she is wasting my time. To Crown it all she told me if i wish to get angry i sshould get angry and even jump into a well she said that about three times all this happened yesterday and she never call throughout that day. Now today she is calling n i have answered her. I need the best response for her. Mind you some of her stuffs are in my house. I never mean to bore you, just trying to provide you with details. Thanks for your Patience

I mean she was calling, i havent answered her yet. I know she will still call. Her stuffs are in my place n i have promise to assist with part payment of her fees. I think i have a chance to messed her life up. How do i go about it?

goosast:

She contacted me today. She will be having a carry over course to write and she wants me to help her with some cash to pay some fees. But i aint gonna help her out even if i wanted and promise her. Now i know she aint worth my stress again. Thanks brother.

@Harddon, after you replied my comment. I contacted her and ask her why she avoiding me, she stylishly ignored the question . she promise to come to school n spend time with me giving one week , you know why because she is having a carry course to write. So i asked her if she never had any carry over she wont border to see me, she replied she knew i will say that but refuse to give an answer. So i asked her if i have been wasting my time then she replied that "i dont know what i am saying" she repeated that statement more than 5 times. I just quietly end the call. I was angry so i called her aunty i explained her behavoiur towards me telling the aunty that she is making up excuses not to visit me and see my mum. Immediately the aunty started telling me that their uncle she stays with in the north is strict, doesnt give her chance even refuse her travelling to see them in their home town. I called her n tell her if she knew what she meant by i dont know what i am saying this time around she repeated this statement over 15 times telling if she wanted to leave me she would have left me like 3 times, that she loves me that is why she is with me. I should not ask her if she is wasting my time. To Crown it all she told me if i wish to get angry i sshould get angry and even jump into a well she said that about three times all this happened yesterday and she never call throughout that day. Now today she is calling n i have answered her. I need the best response for her. Mind you some of her stuffs are in my house. I never mean to bore you, just trying to provide you with details. Thanks for your Patience

HARDDON:
@goosast

You are mos def wasting your time on someone that is long gone. Long gone from your world. From the warm embrace of your thoughts. Gone

I am very sure she's found someone over there that she is trying so hard to keep secret while tagging you along.

It's a case of eating her cake yet having it.

There is no love for you anywhere. The earlier the better you realise this and move on with your sexy life. You already know in ur heart of hearts.

Should you doubt me, put it to test: don't contact her for 3weeks and see if she wud contact you.

She contacted me today. She will be having a carry over course to write and she wants me to help her with some cash to pay some fees. But i aint gonna help her out even if i wanted and promise her. Now i know she aint worth my stress again. Thanks brother.

Harddon, i have been with this lady for almost two years and our romance has been going on smoothly. I am working while she is a student who just started her one year IT and our distance isnt close i am down south, while she is up north. Ever since she started her compulsory one year IT, this distance has been a big barrier. Before we do call, text ourselves frequently. But of recent, we hardly call and text the way we do. Anytime i try to visit her, she will bring up excuse, discouraging me telling me she is busy, her schedule is tight, meanwhile she has not gotten a place yet for her IT. We where in the same school together during the time our romance was good, like i said i am working while she was a student. I try as much as possible to always book appointments either in her location or mine, yet she will bring up excuse. I have talked to her about this infact i have lost count. I have even followed her to see her family and present my intention of marrying her. I am getting fed up cause we have been for months without seeing and even if i want her to visit or i visit. She will make up excuse and our communication is seriously dying. She seems not bordered but she always claim she is affected too that she misses me, but i doubt. What can u decipher from my story, i need ur advice. Thanks

Lorbar:


1. Watching Quantico
2. Loving too hard

Hello

ibkkk:
My miracle is on its way,by God's grace.

Wait o! You mean the person just came and proposed just like that?
Congrats,sha.I pray it lasts.

Hello

Politics is all about interest, you might be in Kano and i in Rivers, if we share same political interest we form a group (mutualistic political relationship). Before voting we might distribute a list to our supporters as a form of reminder to vote our names and interest, urging them (our members) to vote inline with our group's interest. In this PDP convention going on,their is a list called UNITY LIST which is urging members within the interest group to vote names on that list signifying that those names on the list share same political interest. So nobody is imposing or forcing any candidate on anyone.

Politics is all about interest, you might be in Kano and i in Rivers, if we share same political interest we form a group (mutualistic political relationship). Before voting we might distribute a list to our supporters as a form of reminder to vote our names and interest, urging them (our members) to vote inline with our group's interest. In this PDP convention going on,their is a list called UNITY LIST which is urging members within the interest group to vote names on that list signifying that those names on the list share same political interest. So nobody is imposing or forcing any candidate on anyone.

Politics is all about interest, you might be in Kano and i in Rivers, if we share same political interest we form a group (mutualistic political relationship). Before voting we might distribute a list to our supporters as a form of reminder to vote our names and interest, urging them (our members) to vote inline with our group's interest. In this PDP convention going on,their is a list called UNITY LIST which is urging members within the interest group to vote names on that list signifying that those names on the list share same political interest. So nobody is imposing or forcing any candidate on anyone.

TheManofTomorrow:
Not all of them are scammers and the one you just exposed isn't a scammer op. I assure you. MTN(131) sent the message to u and its legit. that message cant be doctored except its from another number. That's the message I received to after I received dat a from one of them too (not from nairaland tho). Confirm first before trying so hard toxsoil other peoples name and bring their means of livelihood to the ground. Click the code and if u phone isn't still browsing, then your phone have issues

My 2cents

He is a scammer i noticed the msg is from ·131 not 131 be observant of the decimal point before 131.

yeyerolling:
U deserve to be scammed. Buy data from ur network provider

If u dont know what to say shut up.

I write to inform the general house of Nairaland not to patronise online data dealers. I was just scamed of some money. Especially this one with whatsapp cont +234 706 054 8444. You will see them on Nairaland advertising their business trying to convice you its legal that no scam but they are bloody scamers. They have different prices of data like N1500 for 4G, 2500 for 9G and so on. They will call you with different number from the ones being displayed.
This is their account numbers they display for payments.
This is the fake alert they will send to your phone after purchase.
This is one of their numerous phone numbers 09037596757. Pls mod forward to front page to exposed this bastards. Thanks.

barbiecue:
Datz his biz

We should have our own bizness

mazimee:
this guy have no idea what God did for him.

There are other ways God can do things for him without losing his job.

barbiecue:
I can't wait 4 my turn o

Lets work something out.

Sandydayziz:
Surely' many are mad few are roaming!!!

Hello

Amarabae:
lols, owerri a rural area?
Stop smoking that thing,
Enugu,Lagos and Abuja made it to top 100 resilient cities in the world by rating of an international organisation and you call it rural area?
ph city is cool but overrated, i hate arguing with people who dont travel,
I have been to 9 African cities and 4 western world cities,
so chill out!
Even abuja that is our best naija city will be overshadowed when paired with libreville that I visited last year august

Nobody is asking you about Abuja or Lagos, all i am saying is dont make the mistake of comparing PH to Enugu or Owerri. Pls stop telling us about how many cities you have been to, cause dont EVER think you travel more i as well travel alot so relax i know Enugu inside out as for Owerri leave story.

Amarabae:
its obvious that you hardly travel out,
am a rivers indigene btw and I my likely be older than you,
so chill,
Enugu city beats ph both in planning and beauty,
owerri is more alluring to the eyes than ph o,
the garden city is no longer the same as then and its massively overrted.
That dirty aba road is the rallying point of ph,
A huge urban renewal is needed
btw Abuja remin the best city,
so go figure!

I travel far more than you can imagine, anyways no need argueing with you cause i know there is nothing to talk about. Drop that age stuff, cause i know my experience in various Nigerian cities i have been to and i still travel out till tomorrow. I am a Riverian and i hardly spend one month in my state. So even your Abuja i bet you dont know jack like i do.

Amarabae:
Enugu city is more beautiful and well planned than ph,
owerri now is more attractive to the eyes than ph,
calabar is an old bae but Abuja is the most beautiful.
I love abj

Enugu? More beautiful and attractive than PH in ur dreams, Owerri attractive than PH to your eyes only. Just let it slide cause i know these places you mention well.

Basic123:
No portharcourt without Igbo!



Igbo(s) made the city.

Pls make Onitsha, Awka, Enugu, Abakiliki, Umuahia, Owerri more develop since they are mostly inhabited by Igbos