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Romance › Re: I Want To Act Porn by goran3310(m): 3:15pm On Nov 04, 2025
Come. Come, let’s talk.
Romance › Re: I Want To Act Porn by goran3310(m): 3:13pm On Nov 04, 2025
illicit:
Now you are talking sense

Can u share ur pics here
F u.c k off, you animal.
Romance › Re: I Want To Act Porn by goran3310(m): 3:12pm On Nov 04, 2025
Ilamina:
undecided i am so sad

This is not how I planned my life
No.Don't do it.
Why are you sad?
Life is hard. It begins with crying and ends in agony.
Life is deeply unpredictable — as if you’re walking alone through a forest on a moonless night.
That’s why you must be strong.
But you’re not. Why aren’t you?
Plans are worthless. Plans are not to be imagined or dreamed about.
I’m not here to save you. You must save yourself — I can only help you a little.
Romance › Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by goran3310(m): 12:18am On Nov 04, 2025
emmaodet:
I am also surprise that a man will feel comfortable in such scenario.
It speaks of low quality and a man who has been pushed down the sexual ladder by mother nature.
In all my dealings, have never seen a lady who feels comfortable playing the second role. They may accept it but believe me, on the long run, they don't like it and will ask where is this relationship heading to? or what will be my end benefit.
No quality man will be comfortable in that role and i repeat it again.
If a rich man likes a woman, he will totally snatch it away from the main man instead of hiding to sleep with her.
He doesn't mind adding her as the second or third wife at home but he won't be sneaking in or out of her apartment. That is left for the men down the sexual ladder.
Quality men have ego and high self esteem. A senator or army general will not hide in the wardrobe or toilet or sneak out through the windown for another man, it is a bruise on his ego but a low quality man will gladly do that while boasting about it.
Exactly. Just like that.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 9:15pm On Nov 03, 2025
pansophist:
You spoke like a proper Balkan grin

You’re Serbian right ?
Yes.I am a Serb.A Slav.Of Orthodox faith.
Romance › Re: Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend by goran3310(m): 7:19pm On Nov 03, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
Because you are weak and low-quality.
It’s the same as if a woman wrote why she prefers being a mistress rather than a wife.
You are weak. You cannot offer anything more than what any biological man can. Your genetic legacy is not fit for use or continuation of the species. You have no character. You have no values. What kind of offspring would you leave behind? What qualities would that offspring inherit from you?
Not even in my worst nightmare can I imagine myself in that humiliating role.
Romance › Re: Canada-based Nigerian Man Called Out For Dumping Nigerian Woman He Dated For 3ys by goran3310(m): 5:31pm On Nov 03, 2025
Infatuation and passion always last for about three years, while love lasts a lifetime—or until a decision changes.
Love is a decision. A conscious decision. Such a decision requires a person of strong character.
For this reason, relationships realistically last around three years and then end in either a breakup or marriage.
Or marriages fall apart after three years for the same reasons. Passion and infatuation are not love.
There are clearly defined characteristics that distinguish a human from an animal.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 9:44pm On Oct 31, 2025
pansophist:
You spoke like a proper Balkan grin

You’re Serbian right ?
❤️🇷🇸🙂
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 7:57pm On Oct 31, 2025
pansophist:
Good points.

If you want a child, don’t you think a woman in her 40’s poses significant challenge for child bearing ?
A marriage without children is not a marriage.
A family without children is not a family.
That’s reality and the only truth.
Well, she’ll have to have a child one way or another. There’s artificial insemination, various medications to maintain pregnancy. She’ll have to. Without children, everything else loses its meaning.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 7:52pm On Oct 31, 2025
We4all:
Lol.. If you ever marry a woman in her 40s, you want a woman who is high quality. The question is, are you high quality enough for her to find you desirable? You don't need her money, but looking for someone at the peak of her career. In other words, you are looking for a woman who will stand as the perfect guarantor if you ever need a loan from a bank.

The honest truth is, no woman in her 40s who is at the peak of her career would want to settle for less. So, don't think so highly of yourself to think you are the prize. Go for your 20 year olds and widows with hundreds of body counts, and let single old cargos live in peace. If only you know what most widows do in the dark...
You must be a woman. You twist things, spin them, and make hypotheses without any real basis.
Yes, I am good enough.
Of course I’m looking for a woman who’s at the peak of some kind of career. I’m looking for a real reason why she spent her best years — I don’t want a loser.
A perfect guarantor?
And what am I to her, then?
I’m supposed to be her perfect guarantor as well.
You’re putting the emphasis on money, but you’re not mentioning the character and qualities behind that money — and those traits are actually the only things that matter.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 11:45am On Oct 31, 2025
pansophist:
Can you give examples of those “truly exceptional qualities”?
For me. Personally, for me—and likewise for any man who is QUALITY—money from a woman is not needed. I don’t need her status. I don’t need anything material. A person who is 40 years old and hasn’t been married must be extremely educated. For example, some kind of doctor + specialist in neurosurgery. At the very top of her field. Or some entrepreneur who has dedicated her life to business and now wants to fulfill herself on a family level.

I need proof that she is high-quality and worth it.
That she hasn’t gone from man to man, spending the best years of her life satisfying her selfish needs, and then, after turning 40+, decided to retire and settle down. To find a fool she can ride.

Also:
Divorced women are out of the question. They didn’t get divorced by accident. Especially divorced women with children. I will not raise someone else’s children—absolutely not.

All of the above does not apply to widows. In that case, the children are not a problem because those children have no living father, and she is not alone by choice.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 9:30am On Oct 31, 2025
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 9:21am On Oct 31, 2025
emmaodet:
grin grin grin grin
Goran ....you like firing too many bullets bro
I’m a very emotional person by nature, and I’ve been hurt far too many times.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 2:51am On Oct 31, 2025
Women in general get married expecting a man to fix their life and their mistakes. To fill in their shortcomings.
That’s not a problem if the woman is 20–24 years old.
But with every passing year, those problems and shortcomings grow. A woman over 40 has her whole life behind her — a life full of traumas, disappointments, failures, frustrations. She dumps all of that in front of a man and expects him to solve it. That’s completely wrong.

Watch this couple over time — in at most two years, everything will fall apart.
A man enters a relationship or marriage to start a family and have children. To make a woman happy and to be happy himself in that marriage.
Yes — we men also want to be happy. Unbelievable, isn’t it?

A woman over 30 already has difficulties conceiving, and those over 40 have very small, almost negligible chances.
I honestly don’t know what an ordinary woman in her 40s or 50s can offer me — unless she possesses some truly exceptional qualities.
Celebrities › Re: They Called Me Old Cargo But I'm Now Married - Eve Esin by goran3310(m): 7:47pm On Oct 30, 2025
Last night I ran away from one like that — about the same age, never married either.
I stayed for half an hour out of basic decency, for the first date.
I don’t even know why. Maybe just to traumatize myself.
People like that carry their whole life with them — all their disappointments, all their problems.
They lay it all out in front of you already on the first date.
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls, White Men Are The Future by goran3310(m): 8:11am On Oct 30, 2025
qwertz

Romance › Re: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by goran3310(m): 5:23am On Oct 30, 2025
Poverty turns a man into a thief — and a woman into a who.re.

Don’t get into a relationship with someone who’s poor.
Or if you do, test and verify her right away to see if she’s worth it.
There’s gold in the mud sometimes — but it’s rare, and that’s why it’s valuable.
At the first sign that she’s hungry, that she needs this or that — turn around and walk away.It’s not a matter of money. It’s a matter of how her mind is wired.
And no one needs wiring like that.
Romance › Re: When She's Gone, What Should You Do? by goran3310(m): 5:10am On Oct 30, 2025
It depends on who she was, what she was, and what kind of person she was.

When she leaves, it can be liberating — but it can also be a complete disaster.
As I said, it all depends on how much she’s truly worth — inside and out.
That fake macho act is ridiculous.
It all depends on who someone is — and what they really are.
Romance › Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by goran3310(m): 9:19pm On Oct 29, 2025
Gotocourt:
She go pass your power after marriage. Go for 25/26
Here comes the smart guy.
You’re giving him such “wise” advice.
Are you guaranteeing that everything will turn out well and that he’ll be happy?
Romance › Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by goran3310(m): 9:16pm On Oct 29, 2025
Vikto17:
Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...

My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger...
we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want...
please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks
Come on, don’t be an idiot. Just don’t be an idiot.
Stop looking for flaws and mistakes in everything. Do you ever ask yourself what’s wrong with you? Or do you think you’re perfect?
You’re going to end up doing something stupid and screw up your own life.
Of course, you’ll realize it too late.
You’ve been warned.

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