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Screwcode1:
2021 I opened a unisex salon I spend roughly 1.5m making it a luxury standard salon, from tiling the shop, wiring and lighting it, to Acuboarding it, I was happy and proud having such at my age, others buying car cruising I used mine for something tangible, my girlfriend which I regret having till today, I handled my shop over to manage, I trained her to learn hair making, pedicure anything salon business in order to manage the shop, I put in 50k in paid ad on fb, to attract customers, God I’m so foolish to let my blessings slip away from me, my iPhone 12 Pro Max, this girl lost out of carelessness, and out of frustration this girl said she won’t be in shop again, I sold my shop for mere 400k, sold my car, 😭 was I hypnotized, life has been hard for me, this girl was my downfall I can’t write everything down, today to setup that shop will cost 4million plus. I didn’t know about salon but I invested in it, set it up for her thinking she’s the one to build with me, I’m still fighting to bounce back

Omoawoke:
Please my brothers, stop asking this dumb question!

If you don’t know what a girl brings to your table, it means your head is not correct… make we tell ourselves the truth
You can have all the wealth and success in the world, but that space that a woman fills in your life cannot be bought with money.
Before we even discount the yansh and breast and sweet kpekus she blesses you with, I know you will say any girl can offer that. Then go and get any girl !!!

Bros, she go born for you, give you a home to come back from work and rest. (That’s with all things being equal sha assuming a normal condition, not talking of paternity fraud and useless girls )
That’s enough table itself…..



Try making all the success in the world and be alone. You can fuvk all the beautiful girls in the world but you will still be alone. When you go to your vacations alone and have nobody to celebrate your happy moments with you or the challenging moments…
Then you see people with their families enjoying a good family moment while all you have is yourself….
So bros, go out there and hustle and bring the money home and let the woman enjoy the money with you. Leave person daughter, no kill am!

Gideonski:
But seriously why are women like this? Let me tell you what I mean:
There's this girl that lives in the same compound as me that I guess she's around her late teenage years or possibly early twenties. She's a very wild girl and I suspected she's into hookup based on her careless dressing and men often dropping her off in their cars early in the morning after night outs. Her friendly nature made us to get along quickly as neighbours. One day she came to me to borrow money, and I innocently gave her. I waited for her to return the money but she never did, and when I asked her about it, she gave all types of silly excuses that made me realise that she didn't want to pay back.
The worst thing is that she would only come to me when she needed something either financially or in items of which I would give to her out of the sake of being just nice.
As time went on I started feeling stupid and used.
Even when her friend came over and started living with her, the friend started knocking my door to ask for stuff within a few weeks! She must have told her about "the nice guy who never says no!". One day I decided that enough was enough and I told them that I will not be borrowing them my stuff and they should buy whatever they need for themselves.
We didn't talk to each other like before but I liked it that way.
This made me realise something about women :
1. Women don't respect nice guys, they only pretend to like them because of what they get from them.
2. Any money you give to a woman is gone. 90% of them will never think of paying you back even when they have it. This is why most guys demand sex before rendering help to ladies. They believe the sex is the only thing tangible that can come out of it. Some sort of a collateral.
In all you do, learn how to say no to ladies that only take from you and never give. That is a parasitic relationship.
My neighbour banged the hell out of a lady that asked him for 2k. He knew she would never pay him back.
They might start to hate you when you stand your ground but it is better to be hated for saying NO than to be loved(If it is real) for being a FOOL.

AngelicBeing:
Lol at white women with black child, 🤣 meanwhile l will tell Godona what you said and l will show your diary to Godana, hahaha 🤣

Obnoxious2001:
There are lot of apk and outlet that allows you save in usd.

Mind you the idea of the saving in usd is to avoid depreciation. So you can save in naira as well, but you have to ensure your naira savings or investment is able to yield 30%+( a yield over the present inflation rate).

Tallesty1:
The same environment shaped all of us, but somehow only women are labeled as bad. I’m not sure how or why people reason that way.

Yahoo boys and fraudsters created the entitlement we see in some Nigerian women today; and it’s not even present in all of them.

But instead of acknowledging that we enabled this behavior, we prefer to blame women.