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Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders fam.
Majority of people here have idea about my story and if you don't, you can go through my previous post to get a glimpse.

This month made it one year and seven months have been Separated and living apart from my ex wife due to infidelity and cheating from my ex wife part. Since then, my two daughter aged 8 and 7 had been living with her and I do take responsibility of them until this January 2024 when my wife took my kids to her father and step mom place because there was this course she was order to go for 6months officially outside lagos state. I was so angry because she never seek my permission or approval before taking them there and because of this, I stop sending money or paying their fees till now. I saw it as a act of disrespect if I the father can't be informed of where my kids are been taking to for a long period of time. She already took them there before informing me.

She was supposed to finish her course outside the state by June and since then, she never called me to inform me she is back until yesterday when I put a call to her and she told me she got back since June. I asked about the kids and to my shock, she told me the kids are still there with her father and step mom. How can you leave the kids at your parents place while the father and mother are available, I got so upset and the discussion resulted to insult and curse on phone. She told me she had a serious issue at work and she couldn't combine the kids stress to what she is going through presently. To be honest, I was even thinking to reconcile with her cos of the kids despite she cheated but the way she behave and talks on phone shows she is not remorse or even care if the family is back together or ready for any reconciliation despite the fact she was at fault. Now my kids are my focus but I don't know how to go about this.

The information I got from her dad was that he will not release the kids to either me or her on less the money he had spent on them is refunded back to him. This is already looking like a kidnap and abduction case which I told her that if she doesn't pick those kids before weekend, I will file a case of child kidnap and abduction against her and her father. Pls I need advice on how to go about this and those that have first class experience with such should assist with advice. Thank you all

KnowledgePower7:
Call your pastor and ask him

If we need money or material things
we come to you our prophet to pray for us
To get money and materials we need.

You bless us and tell us to pray to God
We enter heavy prayer session to God
Praying that God give us money and materials
At the end We all shout Amen in faith.
Then prophet bless us and we go back home


But when the prophet needs money
To build or expand the church
Prophet will ask congregation to donate

WHY CANT PROPHET PRAY to God to provide the money that he will use to expand the church??

If we need money
Prophet tell us that God will give us money
We shout Amen

But if Prophet need money
Prophet tell us to donate money for church
Sow seed or pay tithe.

Why can't prophet no pray to God to give him the money and materials he needs to expand church. Instead he is collecting money from us.

Walai:
A girl I have been toasted unsuccessfully for years and gave up on her last year suddenly became lovey-dovey, calling, initiating texts and codedly inviting herself to my crib.
I nearly fell for her antics because of her big breast (my weak point) but my sixth sense made me to calm down a little and observe before I strike .
I did a preliminary observation and discovered her landlord increased her rent to 700k and demanded immediate payment . She currently get issue with her rich boyfriend (sugar daddy).

Like this I for join the list of house rent contributors.

1Sharon:
Most women in Africa are not fat.