This is one too many
Benue youth should organise themselves and take their destinies into their own hands

ahnie:
You have played your part by talking to him.try place your self in his shoes?

Imagine your mum and sibling cannot visit youin your home,you paid the rentage,to add salt to injury,she's even saucy and took it a step farther by locking the kitchen.

Which right thinking man in his right senses will tolerate that?
Let's be frank with ourselves and keep hypocrisy aside.

The man is even lucky his family hasn't even cut ties with him yet and his mental health is still somehow intact,if it were to be some men,dem for don beat craze out from the woman .nor be every body Sabi tolerate nonsense.


The woman has use her hand to scatter her home,so it's absolutely no fault from the man,pls let the man breeeet.
Let his flat, furniture,his mum and his mental health breeeeeeet.

Just like you, I'm not against his actions. He has given enough room for change but seems the wife is not sensible enough. She will learn the hard way

Truth is that the dude has already taken the action.
Pls mods don't take this to front page.

I have this dude staying in the compound behind my house. We weren't friends in the beginning ( I no even Sabi hob nob for my area) but we got talking and became a bit close when I got to learn that he is from my region.

We went out this evening for a drink as we usually do some Sunday evenings and after a couple of beers, he opened up that he is leaving the neighborhood. He is married with a son and works but he is moving out alone. I never really suspected he was having marital issues because he seems a very decent, knowledgeable and calm guy from his outlook on life. The wife also seems like a nice person.

Here is the issue. Dude is the first born and has lost his dad few years back but the mum is still alive. She lives in same city somewhere else but mostly stays alone as the other children are grown and has left home.

The wife hates seeing the mother and the other siblings whenever they come VISITING. She always raises hell. ( Note that they don't cause any trouble of any sort) This guy has talked severally to the wife but she has remained adamant to the point where whenever the mum or siblings visits, she shuts down the kitchen and the man has resorted to buying food from restaurants.

he opened up that he has gotten a flat somewhere and furniture will be coming in by the week. He is moving out alone. His only worry is his son. He loves the boy so much and he is worried how the son will take it

I feel unhappy but he has already taken his position. After telling me( we talked for hours) , I was in a pensive mood as I really don't know what to tell him. Not that it will change anything as he has committed so much financially. He bought every thing again from scratch

Let me call two ladies who are objective enough and balanced in their opinion to weigh in on this issue.

Cc: frozen70, ahnie.
Your opinions are needed

damosky12:


I get that. But then, in this Nigeria, no one pays 450k for a job that doesn't have a really sellable skill. That skill that he sells to his current employer can bail him out anytime o. Except the skill is going out of fashion (and that's not the issue here).

My bro, I have folks who work in banks and earn between 350k to 500k. Are you saying was they re dropped they immediately transit to another job?
This man is looking for a back up skill

LegallyBlunt:
Good day everyone. For a couple of weeks now, there has been issues where I worship.

Mostly between the Pastor and his assistant (presently former assistant). They had a falling out, which escalated to a point where the assistant stopped his duties.

Now, I managed to ask questions about the issue and the Pastor gave his version. I also got to know about the assistant's version.

However, here's the issue - they're not in speaking terms! Isn't that malice? Isn't that dangerous, and a deviation from what Christians ought to do? Are they not in danger of hell and manipulation from the devil and agents of sin?

What's even more painful is that the church just continues like there's no issue on ground. It's sad, really.

Let me hear both sides

Kingsasian:
We have these in warri as well

Where?

aboyaji:


Please, my advice is don't overdo. Don't try to bear all the family problems else you'll be undervalued in the long-run. It's the same in every family. I'm a victim.

As you're carrying everyone along, remain ahead by far. Don't stop developing yourself at the expense of others.

Tnx bro

donproject2:


Think of any investment, little or medium-scale. Talking on skill, I am a techy, not more I can add than to tell you to learn a tech stream.

Can you suggest some areas please

damosky12:


I thought as much. God bless you.

If he has a job that pays something as huge as 450k as he claims to do, he definitely must have some skills or some top-notch expertise/certification...

You guys don't get it. Working for others is a risk. U can get dropped. He wants a skill as back up

aboyaji:
Why?

Just give yourself like a year and half and save like 200k from it. You should be getting like 3.5m as savings.

Use it to set up phone accessories shop where you don't add much gain to your sales. You could opt for wholesales.

You just opened my eyes to that saving formula.
Just that my overhead much sha ( not directly though but as a first son/child, what can I do,)

leisuretym:


Chief, how much is the gladiator shoe, I need it to kunFu my neighbor that use to park his car by my gate every sunday morning because he want to go to church , any discount?

Chai! You get mouth

O boy people get mind o. How can you post that shoes alongside a 10k price?!!!

Haba!!

AYOGHANDI:
Bro, flee from Mercedes Benz if your pockets are not deep. I have driven 4 models of Mercedes-Benz and i enjoyed all with the exception of W203 C180 (Not the Kompressor). In less than 3 years, i spent more than the cost of purchasing it on maintenance. Starting from the gear box, Air Conditioner issues, Electrical problems here and there. At a point, my wife asked me if i was sure that witches were not driving the car at night.

Lol. Fear catch me
Ok. The problem was just with one of them?

henroo2003:
This bearer is not a fraudster. She has been on this platform for some time now. I wonder how people will be tagging her fraudster without any evidence. I need evidence of people she has duped. There is always misunderstanding in business which is always resolved. Yes, she may have issue with communication but that doesn't make her a fraudster. I am not in support of any of her rude attitude but it annoys me tagging her unnecessarily. I am a regular registered member of over 10years. I will appeal to those who she had step on their toes to please forgive and let it slide. I stand for peace and progress.

I completely understand you and I'm not happy she is so tagged.but she brought this upon her self. She would have sorted all these grey areas and addressed aggrieved customers but she completely ignored everyone until it snowballed into this. She was too proud, aloof and ignorant of the damage as a business person. This has ruined her business records here. Quite a pity though

This one neat die!
Money where art thou?!

spyder880:
How time flies!

It's already 30 days since we started this project. About 24 days was used to dismantle the old building on this site, and now we have the old building fully removed, we are set to speed up and move this project to completion.

My workers are already on site and working, more building materials will be purchased and moved to site as from tomorrow, more emphasis on going fast but with good quality output.

Countdown to the finish of this building is hereby activated, we have 120 days to build this house,

Let's go there.............

Just thinking of a wrecking Ball machine that will level that house in hours.
Kudos my brother. you are doing great

Octopusssy:

He did. The second is an old picture

Look at the age of his son. Between the first picture and the second, considering how the boy has grown

What a name!

bluebay:

Gettout. You lie too much . Car matters . Do you think you can go for a business meeting seeking for a contract and you appear with a keke or Uber ? My brother , in Olathe oil and Gas industry, you asset physically is a guarantee to deal with you .

There are people with real wealth who don't own cars bro. I personally know a family friend with twin two storey building in warri and other thriving businesses yet he owns no car.
People like that dey

Or is it the man that owns a storey building, another two storey building, a plaza, a duplex in Benin and a massive bungalow in his village yet drives around in Benz 190?
U Neva see people!
These are folks I know very well. The last person I mentioned dashed me money to do my safety training back then

Cc Dshocker

If you take everything coming out from a woman's mouth too personal, you will die before your time. On the flip side, in the midst of the gibberish she vomits, there are messages and snippets of truth. It is recorded- "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh"( culled from the Holy book).

My advice for all men. Keep developing yourself, keep upgrading yourself, keep upgrading your net worth. Guard your heart and sanity and be prepared for anything. A woman can love you crazily today and still dump your azz tomorrow. Very funny beings.
Love them but prepare for any eventuality.

Lastly, set up your self for ultimate retirement. Get a house built and feather your nest( keep some retirement money) just in case you find yourself alone at old age, so you don't die a broken man

Niggah didn't age one bit

EleventhWeirdo:
Hmm

How do we resolve this conflict between Ilorin customary law that forbids idolatry/polytheism and the fundamental freedoms of religious association upheld by the Nigerian constitution?

Simple! The constitution prevails. That's the standard

PattyMike:

Normally German cars have more expensive parts compared to Japanese cars, as long as u maintain properly u won’t have any serious expenses. But me I don’t know ur pocket, all I will say is for a hustling guy that just needs something for the road I wouldn’t advice Mercedes. because if e start, u will spend if u can’t afford to spend extensively u will want to manage, management is the worst thing u can do to a Mercedes.

Enuf sense full this your message. Noted bro
I can't lie, I just kept remembering the sheer driving pleasure of a Mercedes Benz. But I will pass for now

PattyMike:


The W203 is the first car I used in my life. For reliability, you’ll mostly spend on electrical issues and it doesn’t have a good resale value mostly cus people tend to run from Benz. If I were to choose this or the Honda EOD I’ll pick the Benz. The best thing about the Benz was the handling, riding comfort and how it sits firm on the road, it’ll enter shallow gallop on top speed and won’t waver like uncle big daddy.

Thanks boss. How was parts and maintenance? Was it expenses,? You mentioned electrical issues, is it really a notable problem?
I know lots of folks have this cult-like following for Benz. Once you use it, you never go back.
I used the 190 for years and I can attest to the handling and balance

EngGandalf:
NIGERIANS are acting like the ISRAELITES… you want to get to the promise land without sacrificing anything…
Tell me anywhere in the world where a govt comes in and in a space of a month everything gets better….

Is the hatred, ignorance or what ?
If Jesus come down to rule. Una go complain..
you’re all living a fantasy. You think abroad is a fantasy, that’s why you want NIGERIA to be a fantasy…

Wake to reality please.. whatever we face in Nigeria, every country in the world faces it too.. just skin color differs

Can you see how foolish you sound? So the poor should keep sacrificing. What happens to them? Can't their huge allowances and money be cut?
Do you know what Nigeria would have been if only we have reasonable leaders and people?

Abeg who get thst meme of South Korea's Kim Jung um pointing to someone and saying " and who talk say this one get sense?"
Pls help me with the meme

RoadMozart:
Honda is ok. Haven't driven it yet but I can attest to the benz.

If you maintain it well you'll not regret. C klasse is a No-nonsense car. Any small negligence like this, na to spend pass wetin you go use do Honda leg.

Appreciate bro

baba4thegehs:
I currently use the Accord 2007, It's very reliable esp when you do regular maintenance.

Fuel economy is very decent compared to the Benz, a friend recently complained how his car suck fuel he use this same C class

I don't drive daily though, tires popped put just once and it was due to my own negligence as I already saw the signs.

Given the current economic realities I'd say go for the Honda accord, parts are cheap, decent on gas and also durable.

Makes sure you get a car with sound engine and have it checked a trusted mechanic, with regular maintenance you won't have any issues.

Ok. Thanks bro

Guess I will go ahead with what the brother up there recommended.

182 views and no comments. Shuo!

Pls kindly share your experiences

kingreign:


Easier,more reliable, parts and technician are easily to come across, bigger interior.

Thanks boss

kingreign:


Get the accord i4

Any special reason boss,?

Honda accord