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Hello Nairalanders, how much does tuition fees cost in University of Ibadan and Ilorin for 2024 session? Aside the tuitions, also including a full year funding, how much would it cost, in consideration that the students are freshers and lives in the states where the schools are? Thanks everyone.

segzysexy:
Spot on. You sound like someone who resides in Europe.

This is me

segzysexy:
Many Africans (potential deportees) in Germany are solely relying on government benefits. Some of them have more than six children and have been receiving substantial social benefits for each child from the government. A significant portion of these parents seems to be focused on collecting funds from the government, but in return, the government isn’t benefiting from their contributions, as they often choose to remain inactive and become a burden. I don’t blame the German government for this situation.
Let them face the consequences of their actions.

It’s very hard to see a single or married African lady in most European countries, they’re majorly single parents with no skill, highly dependent on their host government. They don’t strive to improve. Oyinbo go go work, African ladies will always live on government money. The worst is that they orchestrated the dilemma because of money. They prefer to have kids with multiple men to claim government stipends. Other races like Indians don’t face such issue. This is a cultural issue that needs to be addressed in the African community. Many of them have been in these countries for more than 20 years as leeches.

The worst is that many of them will collect the money and still go on begging spree from supermarket to supermarket despite the money the government gives them.

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Your case is easy. Don't tell your friend what you first. Just make him understand you have someone something to show him. Book another session and choose the wife account on the escort site. Insist she's the one you want.

Your friend should be closer to where the action will begin, snap the proof or let him see it himself. That's if it's true. Don't tell him first to be a rabble rouser if it's not too true. Make him know until you have solid proof.

I suspect you're not legally married to her, the reason for the boldness to go away with your children. Please, do the right thing first.

I think we're not seeing it as a loophole the FG is trying to create to manipulate the judiciary of the states. One of such things that made this happen is the Amotekun law passed.

With this new so-called financial autonomy backed and funded by the FG, it's easier for the FG to force the State legislators to bend to her rules than the State, thereby subverting the will of the people and the State.

This is no brainier than the same old tactics of divide-and-conquer rule.

Are you forbidden to sell in more than 2 to 3 markets around the area? If not, then shift your selling bases as needed. When you've met a sales quota in a market move to another one.

Option 2: tell your customers to meet you at home for extra sales. Have something printed with your contacts details. Buy the onions and keep them in a safe place of your house or store.

Doing these wouldn't allow you break their laws.

I wouldn't want to belabor other's advise about going to church and livng your new life in Christ.

In the Bible, no one believed Paul when he said he'd repented until they begin to see the fruit, when the new coverts said "... See, he who once persecuted us is now preaching the gospel."

It's your newness in Christ that you should begin to pursue to shine, please, let the past be the past. You don't have a control over it but your future.

Since you've dropped out of school at a early age, I believe your education level will be limited. I'm sure that'll be a starting point. Get good education first as you continue to pursue your calling in God. You're not too old to become a graduate. I started mine degree program when I was 33.

Please, write your stories and encourage others. I'm sure the reason why no one will be ready to listen to you is because you've got little to next to nothing to offer them. I perceive you might be the hope of the family to raise them up, the more reason why they'll be angry with you.

Your Uncle might be far better off financially than you and in many ways. If he's not ready to listen to you now, because it's only a word of mouth they can see, act out your salvation by turning your life around.

Turn your situation around and offer value to those you'd offended. I'm sure you'll be accepted then.

You'll have to provide a solid evidence for your wife to be convinced that it's true. So, get a camera and record the evidence. Discuss with your wife about it and provide the evidence why you want her to leave.

The question you should ask is why would the man want to buy another food for a boy when others haven't tasted anything?

There's more to the story than the info we have at present. It's either the man doubts the legitimacy of the children, because I'm sure no man would hate his own blood to deliberately starve them to death.

She ought to understand that the home she has now, someone (the boy's Mom) create the convenient life she's envying the boy from enjoying.

The man who could afford to spend $300 on a dish, would that be a problem for him to give to the woman?

sassysure:
Do u u understand what they were saying?

A boy who is smiling when two adults are fighting is no good. So don't call him innocent.
The anger is on the boy.
Man want to buy food for the boy again despite the fact he has already eaten while her children stays hungry.
Look at that boy and look at her kids.
Look at the man.
And she just put to bed through CS.

Don't laugh about this cos it isn't funny.

Yes at first, i will say the wife is looking for trouble but when u start listening to them, oh. U got to pity her and her kids.

If that video is taken to their igbo meeting, that man is 100% guilty and will be heavily fined.
He is out of job too.

The guy is just trying to play safe. He understands that women rules the would there.

The woman could injure herself and lie against him, even as the man tries to restrain himself.

With the video evidence, it'll be hard for such to happen. The man understands well the terrain he's, so all protocols not to go to jail and loose his life earnings have to be observed.

The reason for posting it online could be that the woman may have access to his phone and delete it or even destroy the phone.

Nigeria indebtedness is due to incompetency, looting, and extravagant care free attitude. I'm just sorry that we're already eating the future of the coming generation.

Have you imagined you father telling you the only inheritance he's giving you is poverty and indebtedness.

I'm sorry for this nation.

Please get you face mask and protect yourself.

Antoniosmile:
Please, I don't know if this is the right place to put this.

I stay in Benin and I just got a job on the island (lekki) in Lagos. I don't have a place to stay until I get paid to get my own accomodation. If anyone can assist me, I will be mostly grateful till I'm financially bouyant to take my place. It's very very urgent as I need to resume work on monday.

Ps: I'm a female.

Mods do the needful please.

How would you plan to get a place within a month as rents in Lekki is outrageously high? I could offer a temporary place for you at Abijo axis, which is just a few Bus stops from the main Ajah bus stop. But after a month you'll need to pay.

I think fasting constantly is a way out. I was neck deeper in it before until I begin to far frequently.
Don't take it lightly, it's demonic influence and I'll delay many things in your life if not addressed quickly.

Why it works is that an hungry man doesn't think of anything first then food. Prayers alone would still make your body active.

Get a fiancee that's godly. It goes a long way to help.

Why not return the money and directly ask her for your support? That'll be better because conscience doesn't lie, and it pricks till eternity.

The question is why are you changing the wedding date frequently. It seems to be a disregard to her and her family.
You should firstly think through a thing before you both reach a conclusion. From your analysis, it seems you are the one who dictates when things will happen, life does not work that way.
It's like having a contact with a person and you wake up one-day and say you've changed the terms without consulting those involved.
In the first announcement of the wedding date, maybe her families have spread the date to other family members, how would you want her family to begin to tell them again "please we've changed the wedding date". Doesn't it look childish? And you're considering to please your Mum to shift it again?
Please, before making any decisions, consult all who would be affected.
Court! This matter is adjourned ���

My simple question is, is it a guy that marries a lady, or the lady marries a guy?
A guy wooes a lady, the lady agrees to marry the guy.
So who marries who? In conclusion, is it the Yoruba guy that marries an Igbo girl,or it is the Igbo girl marries Yoruba guys?

Latoch:
My guy, free the babe jare.........but improve on your chatting skills. You must not initiate a chat with #how are you today# and bla bla, try to to be cocky and at the same time funny. cheers!

I'll like you put through in some ways to be catchy when chatting with a babe. Maybe I'm not fancy enough in my approach. Just some catchy lines

Tbagwell1:
Bro now she is outta of the country we rarely communicate now, when we do it just like we just getting to know each other, I complained recently and she said is because we aren't together bla bla. I am just keeping my cool 5 years no be beans but I can afford to walk away without looking back.

I have even tried deleting her number, I wonder why true caller kept resurfacing it over and over again.

latexxbro:
you have like 15?? Did she demand from you or you gave her willingly??Your chats might be boring... avoid asking those boring question..... admit even ask How are you again..

Yes. Even more than that. I only try to cut the cost. If I'm boring to her I think best is for her to bring up a topic and let's discuss. I'm open, want us to communicate but if she's not talking I'll be forced to do the talking alone.

Tbagwell1:
I am in almost similar situation, though we have been dating for 5 yrs plus. Sometimes I feel she no longer interested in the relationship again, but she will always come back giving one excuse or the other. I am kind of stuck with her.

Bro, experience seems the same as mine. I've actually left her but she'll come back. I once threatened her we break up, then she became remorseful and started behaving well. After 2 days, she went back to her default mode. In tired of that.

braimeddy:
My dear u re jst her side bf. She doesn't really care about u cos she has someone she might be dating. If u guys are living in the same town, try to be visiting her as often as possible. Then u will knw much abt her. It's possible she's not yet relaxed with u yet. Well u knows what u want from her, if u re really into her better tell her ur mind and wait for her reaction.

Thanks for this advice. I've told her already, get body language aligned with what you've just noted. She's not into me. Just flirting, and that's not what I want, it's a wife, not flirting.

dollyjoy:
What exactly is wrong with some guys? Must a girl spell it out before you get the message? She doesn't like you!!!

There is nothing as annoying as receiving messages or calls from a guy you do not dig. Uurg!

Thought I'm naive, been seeing the handwriting on the wall. Thanks. My problem is that if she doesn't hear from me, she'll call to ask why? Why should she be calling and disturbing when I decides not to call her in days?

Thought I'm naive, been seeing the handwriting on the wall. Thanks. My problem is that if she doesn't hear from me, she'll call to ask why? Why should she be calling and disturbing when I decides not to call her in days?

Hello great Nairalanders, I have this disturbing relationship ache that I wish I can get wise instructive advise on. I've been on with a lady for about 2 months now and things seems not to be going right. In this 2 months, our conversation hasn't been beyond mere friends. Examples are, how do you do? Have you eaten today? When I try to take things further she nags. I tried pushing things forward a bit but she isn't cut for that. Though when we had a date she finally accepted my proposal of going beyond friendship (now in a dating mode) but I tell you nothing had changed in our discussion mode. Let me give an example of how our discussion dovetails most of the time:
Me: how're you doing today?
Her: fine.
Me: (explained in full detail how my day went) by this time I've typed 10 lines on WhatsApp.
Her: ok.
Me: just tease me about how your day went?
Her: I've told you now. Good.
Me: you mean nothing really happened in the 24 hours?
Her: yes.
Her: good bye. We chat later.
I have tried to figure out if it's my fault why she isn't discussing with me, the response I got is I'm pestering her. I withdrew a bit to give a space for a while. After 5 days without getting any call from her, i called to ask why, her response was "nothing". I've complained about this and it seems I'm to pushy.
She hardly initiates conversation, when she does, it'll be "I just want to know if everything is ok". I'll respond by calling her back and explained fully talking on the phone more than 5 minutes, explaining my day to her, her response will be "ok".
Within this short period I've spent close to #15K for her. Mind you, no sex. I wouldn't even subscribe to it. Though the money isn't a problem to me. My concern is, from the look of things, would you say she's into me or just using me as a cash cow?