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CelebritiesRe: Yemi Sax And Shola Durojaiye's Traditional Marriage (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 12:30pm On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] Wishing them a happy married life! Post edited, because I had a better look at the photos![/color]
FamilyRe: Man Impregnates Wife’s Friend 3 Months After Wedding by GraceBestowed(f): 11:53am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] Nothing surprises me anymore! This is devastating, surely, for the woman, because the honeymoon is well and truly over!![/color]
RomanceRe: Romance Section - The Next Rated Award [ Please Vote Now - Live ] by GraceBestowed(f): 11:35am On Apr 15, 2013
[quote author=~vicky~]grace bestowed and sanb cheesy[/quote][color=#CD3700] Thanks, sweetie! (^_^) x[/color]
RomanceRe: Which Is Currently More Difficult To Get by GraceBestowed(f): 11:31am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] The most difficult 'feat' to achieve in Nigeria, and anywhere in this world is true love!
A person can be rich, yet miserable, because their life is completely empty.
A 'beautiful virgin' is human, and is capable of hurting you one way or another, or even walking away.
True love is something that 72 virgins, holding all the money in this world cannot buy!
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RomanceRe: What A WORLD!!! by GraceBestowed(f): 11:16am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700]ROTFLMBO re: 'most dangerous runs babe', and your topic 'What A World', you truly sound baffled.
Let me put it this way, a true born again 'church girl' will not settle for someone who does not have the fear of God in them. On the flip side, men (who are not born again) are reluctant to marry a woman that have not kissed, touched, or slept with.

A girl who is not born again will have other criteria that govern her choice for a spouse, and might not have a problem with intimacy before marriage.
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FamilyRe: How Can I Continue To Love My Wife by GraceBestowed(f): 11:06am On Apr 15, 2013
50calibre: They are not generalisations, there is substance to what I said. Will the kids fare better with a mechanical engineer dad or an illiterate mum? Is it better to allow the kids stay with a mum who would only sow seed of discord and her evil vices in them? What sort of upbringing is she going to give them, the type her parents gave her?

No I don't think so
[color=#CD3700] Thank you for not resorting to insults. Disagreeing without resorting to insults should be the norm, but isn't, so i appreciate your decorum.

I still believe that it would be vindictive to separate a loving mother from her children.
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PoliticsRe: Okonjo-Iweala Denies Pursuing Igbo Agenda Allegation by GraceBestowed(f): 10:30am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700]Honestly, the sooner we leave ethnic wars alone, the better! People are products of their environment, much more than their nature (Igbo, Yoruba, Hausa, Efik .. etc). We don't find it funny when other races judge us because of the colour of our skin, so why are we doing the same thing to each other?? [/color]
RomanceRe: Pls Advice by GraceBestowed(f): 9:10am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] A person that cannot, and did not, love you through your trying times does not deserve you when you're enjoying good times!

Please don't make the mistake of falling prey to a girl that is, obviously, materialistic. What has she done for her own life, and why is she expecting another human being to take care of her needs!?!

Please don't put her in the class of 'being there for me when I had nothing'; a girl in that class would drink garri with you, laugh about how the rain just beat the both of you when you were walking home, share her last N1000 with you, and generally make you feel secure in her love.
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RomanceRe: 20 Things Women Should Never Do: by GraceBestowed(f): 9:00am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] You got me laughing out this morning!! I agree most with the last point! [/color]
RomanceRe: Romance Section - The Next Rated Award [ Please Vote Now - Live ] by GraceBestowed(f): 8:55am On Apr 15, 2013
cdamsel: I vote adaobi123 & grace bestowed
[color=#CD3700] Thanks, your vote is appreciated! :-)[/color]
FashionRe: Annie Idibia's Outfit At MTV Base Party, Hot Or Not? by GraceBestowed(f): 8:52am On Apr 15, 2013
ogugua88: [size=13pt]Lol. She looks so different. She doesn't have that newlywed glow.[/size]
[color=#CD3700] I sooo agree with you! Maybe she was in a hurry to get ready, then that would explain the outfit.[/color]
FamilyRe: How Can I Continue To Love My Wife by GraceBestowed(f): 8:47am On Apr 15, 2013
50calibre: Nigeria is dysfunctional, with money you would get custody of the kids. Take your kids and go drop them with your people, they are better off there than with her.
[color=#CD3700] How can you, instantly, determine that her children would be better off without her!?! Granted, she's a handful, but that does not mean that she doesn't love her kids!!

A lot of the generalisations you've made are simply not fair, but your advice takes the cake.
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FashionRe: Annie Idibia's Outfit At MTV Base Party, Hot Or Not? by GraceBestowed(f): 8:39am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] ^^ LoL!! I tire! ^^

Meanwhile, she looks like an off duty babysitter! That outfit is not the business at all!
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Music/RadioRe: I Make Better-Music Than Chris-Brown - Drake by GraceBestowed(f):
[color=#CD3700] LoooL! All of this over one girl! Oh, and Chris Brown is beginning to look more like a patient than a healthy twenty-something year old! [/color]
FamilyRe: How Can I Continue To Love My Wife by GraceBestowed(f): 8:37am On Apr 15, 2013
[color=#CD3700] People can have successful, happy, marriages, I witness it everyday!

I wouldn't want to speak ill of your wife, but I feel for you; you, kinda, played a game that backfired. You need to try your hardest to work it out, and if it doesn't work out, do what's best for you, and what your conscience allows.

Nobody can tell you what to do, because no one else can live your life.
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RomanceRe: Romance Section: The NEXT Rated Award [ Nominations ] by GraceBestowed(f): 11:51pm On Apr 14, 2013
[color=#CD3700] Thanks guys, for even recognising talk more of nominating/voting for me!! Much appreciated! (^_^)[/color]
FamilyRe: 20-year-old Nigerian & His 65-year-old American Wife (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 12:00pm On Apr 14, 2013
[color=#CD3700] Shebi it's the trend!? Seeking for greener pastures.[/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:38pm On Apr 13, 2013
coogar: reports reaching me say the bride is from chicago. grin
[color=#CD3700]LOL, are you being for real? Stop pulling my legs! [/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:37pm On Apr 13, 2013
[quote author=uj_sizzle]1. Someone getting married to another woman is NOT an adulterous act.[/quote][color=#CD3700]He is still married to the first woman; therefore, not only is he a bigamist, he is also an adulterer.[/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:27pm On Apr 13, 2013
coogar: you never know - newbie could be an american citizen!
[color=#CD3700] LooooL!! Dude, is there something in your water!?! Makes sense, though! [/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:25pm On Apr 13, 2013
Paschal007: You need to changed your font j0r. A better font befitting a beautiful lady. Which 1 be american typewriter? huh
[color=#CD3700]Thank you for the compliment! iBlush (^_^) [/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:23pm On Apr 13, 2013
coogar: the boy is lying he was there.....

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the groom looks cool....he doesn't even look like someone that could pull this kind of scandal.
[color=#CD3700]In all honesty, I've learned never to take anyone at face value; human beings are capable of ANYTHING! [/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 11:08pm On Apr 13, 2013
coogar: ...or remain silent till 2015.
[color=#CD3700]LOOOL!! You people will not kill me!![/color]
FamilyRe: Wife Storms Church, Scatters Husband's Wedding To Another Lady (Pictures) by GraceBestowed(f): 10:56pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700]Saw this thread previously! This is beyond wicked, it's as simple as that! They even went ahead with the wedding ceremony, surely, the officiator should have stopped it (you know, ".. if anyone knows why these two should not be married .." and all)![/color]
EducationRe: Three ‘Missing’ Female-Undergraduates Found In Dubai by GraceBestowed(f): 10:29pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700] Ok! This is beyond ridiculous, and is unfair to their respective families! Being buried in an unmarked grave is never the aim, but with this kind of attitude, it's a possibility!![/color]
RomanceRe: What To Do? by GraceBestowed(f): 10:24pm On Apr 13, 2013
efun209990: true....i just though other qualities were more important for him beyond being intimate...but what you say makes a lot of sense
[color=#CD3700]If he truly respects you, and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he wouldn't want to make you compromise on your stance. Don't let anyone/thing cause you to lower your standards! If he walks, then he's made room for someone better to come in! [/color]
RomanceRe: What To Do? by GraceBestowed(f): 10:02pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700] What are the chances that he will stay after you let him have his way? The truth is that you don't know. It would be better to be heartbroken if he leaves you now, than to be heartbroken if he leaves after taking away from you the one thing you were protecting.[/color]
RomanceRe: Women Should Be Submissive With Their Husbands by GraceBestowed(f): 9:55pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700] This woman, whoever she is, is on point! Being submissive does not mean being enslaved, unfortunately, many people look at it that way. A man is the head of the household, and should be treated as such, with respect! Submitting is being his helper, listening, and bringing out the best in him. My two cents worth! [/color]
CelebritiesRe: Weird News: Man Marries Dead Girlfriend In Joint Funeral & Wedding Ceremony by GraceBestowed(f): 9:30pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700] What kind of morbid nonsense is this?? Brace yourself, people, this world is sinking into new lows!! [/color]
CelebritiesRe: Solomon Akiyesi's Wife Disrupts His Wedding To Pregnant Mistress?? by GraceBestowed(f): 9:01pm On Apr 13, 2013
[color=#CD3700]This is heartbreaking, to say the least! It seems as though the 'wedding' went ahead, even after his rightful wife threw a ruckus! [/color]
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adeboye: A Jet is Necessary For God's Work by GraceBestowed(f):
[color=#CD3700]Why people do not express their points of view without throwing derogatory statements left, right, and centre, will always baffle me. Keep it up, it tells *very well* of you!

My initial comment was made with some of the biggest pastors in mind. I kid you not, pastor Benny (for example) does travel like that, I am not exaggerating. For those of you who are unsure, ministers of God travel round the country, and (sometimes) world, to speak, preach, hold crusades, and evangelise.

Even more so, pastor Adeboye may need to be in different states in Nigeria within a short period of time, therefore having a reliable mode of transportation is necessary.
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RomanceRe: Romance Section: The NEXT Rated Award [ Nominations ] by GraceBestowed(f): 5:32pm On Apr 13, 2013
Eze Promoe: [color=crimson]I never knew you're also a Romancelander. I would have voted you. I've came across your posts on topics countless times and your posts are always sensible. Keep your flag flying smiley[/color]
[color=#CD3700] Aww! That's really sweet! Thanks. [/color]

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