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Crime / Re: Nhis Dishonours Remitta Proof Of Payment by Gratefulaheart: 8:22pm On Apr 13, 2021 |
micomails: Pls can I have your email pls. I no longer have access to the email address I used in opening this account. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Nhis Dishonours Remitta Proof Of Payment by Gratefulaheart: 11:56pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
micomails: Hello, trust you are doing great. Can I DM you pls |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Internships and Entry Level jobs In Nigeria by Gratefulaheart: 1:44pm On May 20, 2019 |
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Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 1:08pm On Dec 27, 2018 |
flyca:He eventually admitted yesterday. But blamed me for it. He also said that i am over reacting that "did i hear he impregnated anyone?" I feel he only admitted because of the burden of proof against him. Even though he knelt down to beg, i certainly feel he would not have stopped seeing the lady if he wasn't caught. I am so angry but looking at this children, i am just weak to take action. I don't want to involve family and when i mentioned counselling, he said okay. I am so heartbroken. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 7:52am On Dec 27, 2018 |
Thank you all for you time and advice. We have decided to go for counselling. Anyone knows any professional marriage counsellor im Lagos that you can recommend? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 3:28pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:OMG! Yetunde, i just took a second look at you peofile name. it's me. You introduced me to Mr Tunde. It's the same car they are using to carry women all around Lagos o. Egbami ke |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 2:38pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
eniolorunfe:This is what I am thinking - If we do stay together it will eat at me every day for the rest of my life. Things will never be the same again. I will never trust again and I will always be bitter about what he did. My head wants to explode right now. Human beings are wicked o. I wish i could share some of the chats here. He was already calling her "baby", someone that calls me by my real name. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 2:35pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Dyt: I don't know if this is his first time, as I'm not sure if i know this man anymore. The way he initially denied with so much anger that i was beginning to think may be he truly didn't do it makes me conclude he's a pro at this. He only ran out of luck this time. I have been so gullible. I feel like beating myself up. |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 2:04pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
eniolorunfe:I just got whatsapp screnshots. I have a serial cheat on my hands. I just confronted him with the chat and now he's trying to guilt trip me. He said i caused it. I am so done! 8 Likes |
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 7:08am On Dec 26, 2018 |
Terryindeed:Thank you for the advice. I just can't stop wondering why I wasn't enough for him. Yes things got a bit stressful sometimes, we have busy lives and young children, there has been arguments but we still had nice times and a healthy, good sex life. I'm one minute sobbing, then so angry. He's still denying! He woke me up during the night and said we should talk. I ignored him and then he started his sob story that the lady is lying against him. I am more upset about the fact that he's taking me for a fool. This is a man that is in a messy financial situation for the past months and barely meeting his financial responsibility in the home. I have been covering up in the home front. He sold off his car in June and have been driving mine (i bought with my money) around while i hop on bikes. He obviously was using my car to take another woman to a hotel and he still doesn't feel an iota of guilt about it. I am in a very tight corner and i can't think straight right now. All I can think about is our kids and how I don't want to deny them the right to grow up with their father. But i certainly can't continue in this marriage if he doesn't even respect me enough to admit what he did. 6 Likes |
Family / I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 8:30pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
I noticed he has been exchanging calls alot with a particular number on Whatsapp. So I asked him about it and he bacame defensive. He angrily asked for me to give him back his phone, and when i refused he forcefully collected it from me, twisting my fingers in the process. I later got my hand on his phone at a later time and was able to get the number of the person. I called and i received the shock of my life when the female who answered the call said he's her boy friend and they have been seeing for a while now. She admitted they have been having sex in a hotel, that my husband told her he isn't married. Thank God my call recorder was on. I have the qhole conversation stored on my phone. I was very calm although my conversation with the lady, wven though it's the hardest thing i have ever had to do. I confronted my husband and he denied it. I played the recorded call and guess what? He still denied! We have been married for 4 years with 2 kids. I feel so devastated and awful right now not knowing which way to turn. He's not apologizing or feeling remorseful. This is too much of a betrayal and I just don't know how we could ever get past this. I feel so betrayed and can't believe he would do this and not think of the impact it would have on me and our kids. I thought we were soulmates and would grown old together. I have been sobbing all day since i found out. Has anyone ever gone through this? What is the right way to handle this? Moderator* (Please no front page. Pls i beg of you 4 Likes 1 Share |
Business To Business / Re: Babat Cargo:Pre Order & we import Your Good from China and USA at $5/kg by Gratefulaheart: 7:51pm On Dec 01, 2017 |
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Technology Market / Re: Scuit: Shop & Ship From China, USA, Dubai & UK (Express, Cargo & Shipping) by Gratefulaheart: 10:12am On Aug 10, 2017 |
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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by Gratefulaheart: 5:29pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
FrankNetter: Quite interesting in here! Following ya. I might be visiting Chicago soon 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gratefulaheart: 9:33am On Feb 15, 2017 |
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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gratefulaheart: 9:53am On Feb 13, 2017 |
Flowerlady01:Hmmmm. Don't judge anyone except you have walked atleast a mile in their shoes. Other mamas here have told her what she did is wrong. Which ofcourse it is. But they used a better tone with empathy. We should learn to not castigate people because they bring up their personal issues to us. There are so many women who have done worse and didn't bring it here for you to be a judge. You don't know what she's going through. The least you could do is be nice. Except of course you are not a woman. Pheeeeeeww. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 5:10pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
MsJanez01: You want to stay at Intown and you want to share with a stranger? Pls my sister don't try it o. Even without sharing sef, the drama in ntown is enough. Not to talk of sharing with someone you don't know. And again it wouldn't be convenient when baby comes cos the bed in the double room is smaller than that of the single. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 5:11pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
Madam Ujoan, this matter have been overflogged! Please don't 'resurrect' it again. Let the thread progress with meaningful posts. Thanks 10 Likes |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 2:15pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
finegirlna:Babe let it go jare. Oya take this cup of thick milo 1 Like
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2016/2017 Chevening Scholarship Applicants. by Gratefulaheart: 2:03pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2016/2017 Chevening Scholarship Applicants. by Gratefulaheart: 1:35pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
Hi guys. Anyone got interview invite too? Just got mine few hours ago. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Call For Interview For The Nigeria Chevening Scholarships , 2017 - 2018 by Gratefulaheart: 1:32pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
urchpath:Hi. Was also invited. Have you booked your interview date? I am seeing 3rd-7th of April as available dates. I thought they said Interview ends in May? Will more dates be released soon? |
Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 12:13pm On Feb 01, 2017 |
finegirlna:No chills at all |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Access Bank Calling For Aptitude Test (entry-level) (2014) by Gratefulaheart: 11:49am On Feb 01, 2017 |
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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 4:06pm On Jan 31, 2017 |
Hi thermolady, congratulations! Pls I'd like to send you a PM. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Access Bank Calling For Aptitude Test (entry-level) (2014) by Gratefulaheart: 6:01pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Access Bank Calling For Aptitude Test (entry-level) (2014) by Gratefulaheart: 5:12pm On Jan 30, 2017 |
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Travel / Re: Give Birth In USA: Cost And Procedures Part 5 by Gratefulaheart: 7:08pm On Jan 28, 2017 |
LadyGuinivere:Huh! Where you hear this one? |
Career / Re: My Life As A Teacher. by Gratefulaheart: 10:39pm On Jan 25, 2017 |
Ok then! Thanks sis 1 Like |
Career / Re: My Life As A Teacher. by Gratefulaheart: 8:44pm On Jan 25, 2017 |
We eventually enrolled our LO to a school. They call their class 'Toddlers Class' (1-2yrs). Before we enrolled, we asked them about their daily routines for the kids and curriculum and they mentioned most of what you enumerated. But i just asked another parent in another school whose child is about the same age as mine and she told me her child brings homework home (colouring, art, et al). They don't give us homework at our school o Also what do you think about a school that doesn't give uniform to kids in their toddler class? The kids wear mufti. I'm beginning to think this is a glorified creche 1 Like |
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