Aphrodite007:


Ok.. now I understand. It’s the same with mine that is also 5 years but my BRP has spousal Leave To Enter.. not Leave to Remain.

Thanks so much for explaining. She will wait 5 years till she gets her ILR then.

I think your BRP will state leave to enter if you are coming in to the UK for the first time. However, if you renew within the UK, it will have Leave to remain on it. At least, that’s what I noticed with mine.

Ruthiegal:
Good evening experienced mamas in the house. I gave birth via cs on Monday and my child had to bottle fed with formula . But I’ve been trying to put him on my breast for 2 days now and he keeps rejecting my breast . I just end up giving him formula. Now my breast are so full and hard and very painful. It’s even leaking. But still he won’t suck. I really want to breastfeed him. What can I do. I tried pumping with electric bottle pump
Today but that thing is too slow . I need your expertise please

Haaa..... teamie, this was my exact situation yesterday night that I had to wake up and order a breast pump online. Thankfully, the swelling reduced this morning and the pain went away.

I wore a good supportive bra which I haven’t taken off except when I am going to bath and baby has been sucking as much as she can too.

I also massaged both breast with warm soapy water in circular motion when I was having my bath.

I don’t know if any of these was what helped as I am also a FTM

Other moms with experience will come in soon

Sorry, hang in there.... cos I totally understand the pain as I went through same which is only subsiding today

kokaiye:
Wow!!!! Atlast!!!! Ur joy is here....!!!!! I guess d pineapple works wonder 4 u lol ..... Congratulations dear... I am so happy 4 u ooo... Cnt wait 2 read ur BS... N tnx 4 openning d floor . Tiwa na ade ooo #Amin

Thank you
Thank you
Thank you darling
No pineapple didn’t do nothing for me ooo
Still trying to put together my BS
Madam is calling the shots and it’s just me and her for now so no time to write yet. I will post my BS as soon as I can

ANewMumIJNAmen:
Yaaay congratulations mama!! I've low-key been following your story!! I'm so happy for you. May God continue to bless and keep you and your baby, amen

Lol @low key following my story.

Thank you so much and amen to your prayers

beyedew:

Congrats sis and thank God for a wonderful post wedding gift.

Ruthiegal, how are you?

Thanks my dear.

Stepping in majestically as the latest graduate from the pregnancy thread.

Gave birth to my perfect princess at 23:36pm on Sunday 3/11/19

firstpregnancy:





zero nine zero , s6 4 four

Gotten

You can delete

Jeniluv:
Issa bumpy tuesday.....who's next?

Cappo cappo... looking good
Well done
Baby will be here soon

Still getting ready to type my BS

Issa long story but God is ever faithful

firstpregnancy:


Not yet o. The pain came and went back.

I don't know how to send or check PM

can you put me through.

You know what? Just leave your number here. I will take and you can delete it afterwards

Good morning Mamas
Thanks everyone for the love and congratulatory messages
I will be back to write my birth story. Still trying to get a hang of things. We didn’t get any sleep last night

God’s grace to the rest of my November teamie and other mamas of different teams

@firstpregnancy how are you? Is baby here yet? Have you responded to the pm that was sent to you ??

My e-family
My princess is here
Arrived 23:39 on the 3/11/19 which also happens to be our wedding anniversary

firstpregnancy:



Good Evening ma

Sorry darling. She will be in touch later today. She sent me a message that she will reach you today. Sorry about the delay

Ruthiegal:


We are ready o. I’ve been having this Menstrual cramp like pain since last night. It comes and goes . And I keep getting this discharge that’s off pink since Wednesday. I was at the hospital on Wednesday but after being checked, they said I wasn’t in Labour. I’m really not comfortable anymore. My edd is nov 4/6 though. So I’m just hoping . I don’t want to go to the hospital and they send me back home. I don’t even know what type of pain I’m supposed to expect. Although when the doctor checked me he said my cervix is still closed but a bit soft. Whatever that means. If I don’t go into Labour this new week we are entering , I’m telling the doctor to induce me by Friday on the 8th coz I’m officially tired and ready to sign out . The cramps are really painful when they come but I can still manage them. My next appointment is on Monday nov 4 so I’ll wait till then. I also feel as though I’m leaking water. I really don’t know to be honest

Hi Mama... you might need to insert a pad to monitor if you are leaking water.... you should be checking how quickly the pad gets wet, the smell and the colour. If indeed you are leaking water, please head to the hospital cos it means your membrane has ruptured so you will need to be monitored and if Labour does not kick in properly, they might have to induce cos of risk of infection to baby.

NB: don’t discard the pad, take it with you to the hospital cos that’s your only proof of water leakage and that’s part of what they need to decide on your management

firstpregnancy:
.


how pls .
Should I still type it out?

She will pm you.... hopefully tomorrow. She said she was busy today

firstpregnancy:


Yes . How do I send my number to you privately pls.?

Someone will be in touch with you so no need putting your number here

firstpregnancy:


Yes . How do I send my number to you privately pls.?

I am online you can drop it now, once I get it you can take it down

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:



;DAbeg no mind dat my moniker.


I pray make April be next two months

Haaa..... shift so that we November mamas can talk. Lol

@firstpregnancy, I am struggling to access the email I used for NL registration. I didn’t ignore you.

Is there any other means of contacting you?

TiffanyJ:
BA BA BA

My Princess made her grand entrance yesterday via emergency CS around 11pm. So I was told. Will confirm the time later. BS is on it's way

Congratulations Maama

mrking3:
Good morning beautiful people! God did it completely for my wife @Mbliz and my humble self yesterday. Our Beautiful princess Bernice made her grand enterance at exactly 5:58 pm yesterday. Her due date was between 11th and 19th November. We didnt see this coming! No active labour sign. When i noticed the contraction timing, i said to my wife its time! But she thought it was the usual false labour. She delivered successfully after 5 minutes of arriving at the hospital. She and Bernice are doing fine. I use my wife as a point of contact to every expectant mother that God will do it for you all. He will make it easy and there shall be no loss. And for everyone believing God for the fruit of the womb, keep faith and believe in God and God only! He will do yours at the appointed time. To November cappo, @jennyluv! Weldone and good job. I just did the birth announcement on behalf of my wife she will post the BS in a shortwhile. Thankyou! Thank you!!!

Congratulations to you and wifey
Glory to God for a successful 9months
mbliz has opened the floor for we November mamas
Extend our love to her and the little one

kokaiye:
hello teamie... Lucky u, u can eat pineapple but i cant due 2 my history of having ulcer .... Thou stil in my 36th weeks ooo... I wonder wat i can tk wen i am also counting down to 37th weeks without inviting triggering ulcer.... Is it only pineapple one can take?!

Oh.. sorry about the ulcer, please stay away from pineapple if it will aggravate it.

I hear raspberry tea helps and of course lots of other room activities. Over all, labour will start when baby is ready

Jeniluv:
Rushii rushii mummy,i can imagine oooo....the last weeks of pregnancy always seem to be the longest!!!Chai!It is well oooo...

Not to worry,baby will come at God's appointed time...

Yes oooo..... baby will come at the right time and I am so ready

November mamas how are we?
I am 36 weeks and 5 days today
Started taking pineapples today since there are some claims that it could help start labour
Let me try it and see if it works
I am ready for baby to come at 37weeks

Asasteve:

Present my cappo
She whom the cap fits oo
Edd 20th Feb. 2020
Sex:My baby closed legs, I was even asked to exercise up and down the stairs so that baby can be disturbed but baby still closed legs oo.
Nb: Cappo am not happy oo if you see me now eehhh my face no be here oo, dark pimpled big face and nose. Dh will sometimes say hey your then fine pointed nose don big pass my own oo, if nah so your face dey when I first met you I wouldn't have come close oo. Please is there any diy someone can do to at least fine small for face abeg. February is too far to be this ugly all the way.

Hahahahhah
Pregnancy eh... it’s well


My only suggestion is Make up! makeup! make up
Highlight and contour might cover up the growing nose a bit

tatacherie:

Thanks so much for checking on us ma
She's healing fast. The site has dried up, though still on meds. I'm much better too.
We are still in the heat of the case. Yet to find the culprit. I'll feed y'all tommorow on findings and next step
Thanks a lot

It is well dear
Stay strong

kokaiye:
congratulations dearie... May God watch over u n d baby.

No be me born oooo. I dey congratulate those that have given birth. The pushing ministry is still on my dear.... lol

rvpbae:
BA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My baby girl is here oh. Arrived at 2:04am 20/10. Edd was 22/10. 3.2kg, no tear. BS later.

Cc Gloryne

Yass.... BAs left right and centre!

Big congratulations darling
Welcome princess

biggal:
To God be the glory I gave birth on 18th October to a boy tru emergency cs.

October mums take note.

BS.

This pregnancy wasn't easy my edd was 11th.I had contractions for Luke 2,days on Tuesday I went to hospital they checked n said 2cm n am contracting I was admitted.

In d night I was given penta injection n I vomitted from 1am to morning I complained no one listened until I started feeling dizzy. God used the morning shift nurse to save me. She gave me drip n I started feeling better.

My ppl after that I was inserted with Mesop tab n the.contraction started in earnest from 3am wed till throughout Thursday. I lost strength. Later they gave me hit injection after checking it was 5cm. My ppl for almost 24hrs I stopped at 5cm but contraction was like 30secs.

I cried n wept n begged for cs. Just becis of their nonsense scheme at OBIO cottage they refused to book me for sc n said I shld pay deposit of 150k despite am on scheme. I paid n they wheeled me to theater n delivered my baby by 2am on Friday.

Hmmmmmm I hang boot 2is OK for.

Pls I want to take up the case against the hospital cos I see no benefit for d scheme. Becis of the prolonged labor my baby had issue n was taken to scibu. And I have to spend extra #50k for baby. Is it fair.

Meaning if I didn't raise d money then maybe both I n baby wouldn't make it.

In all thank God with me.
Still in hospital recuperating.

Other mothers don't fear pray n believe in God my case.is different.cos its.not ordinary.

God will see us through.

Congratulations and thank God all things went well and ended in praise eventually.


About taking up the case, did you read the terms of the scheme? Does it say that it covers CS in the event that a mother requires it

kokaiye:
feedbk will b grt.... Did a long walk 2day thou.

I ended up not stepping outside my door today. Bad weather plus I had a guest.... tomorrow is another day

Perra:
Mothers in the house, I greet o.

Pls join me thank God as hubby and I welcomed our son almost two weeks ago now. First issue and his conception was a miracle.

Pls mamas, I'm worried about the tear I received, being a first time mum and being that my baby was too big 4kg I received a tear down to my anus, ..in fact I received both vagina tear and the tear down to my anus .

Which brings me to my worries, its been almost two weeks and the tear/skin down to my anus has not started gluing back together. I'm healing and feeling less pain, .and the stitches have almost completely come off but that line down to my anus is still very much open.

Has anyone had this type of tear before? ..when can I expect it to glue back together? Does it ever glue back together? I'm just scared!

Pls oooo anyone?

Sounds like a 3rd degree tear.... should have been repaired/sutured. You might wanna go back there and report so it doesn’t heal like that.

kokaiye:
lol... Its lik me n u r on dis same table.... I want mine 2 come by 37th weeks... Dont even knw d kinda exercise i can engage mysef in dan walking.... Thou i do house chores but i think its not enough.... N baby movement doesnt allow me 2 walk long distance wen i walk 2 much i start hvin pelvic pains dt radiates 2 d back which mkz me end up lyin down on d bed 4 hrs 4 d pains 2 calm down.

I plan to check on YouTube for exercises myself. I did see one that had tons of positive feedback as to how it probably helped in kick starting labour. I will watch it first to be sure that I can do it before I start. I am also hoping to go on a very long walk as my body permits.

Eventually, babies will come when they are ready!

I want to start exercises that could potentially help kick start labour. I really want my baby to come by 37-38weeks