₦airaland Forum

luchishawn:
we have been dating for almost two years now.
I used to think he was the right one not until he sent me a text saying ' it is over'
I called him but he refused to pick up.
Maybe I offended him, so i sent him an apology text.
The next day, he sent me a message on my WhatsApp that i was not a good wife material.
Tried finding out his reason for the statement.. it took a while before he sent 'WHY DID YOU NOT USE THE OLD STEW TO MAKE JELLOF RICE?!'.
so that was why , he was annoyed..
first of all, there wasn't enough rice and I couldn't boil only half a cup.
when he read my message, he blocked me.
He even went further to inform his friends that i was no longer his gf�.
worst part, he paid me a visit unexpectedly and demanded that I should return all his money , he spent in our relationship.
I know it sounds awkward.
yeah, Christmas is almost here but I have been battling with heartbreaks.
should I go back and beg him?
or ignore him and move on?

help a sister abeg!

His reason is not cogent enough to break up with a lady you truly love and you actually intends to be with for ever.
That said,he still has a reason. Apologize to him, maybe that's what he wants. If he accepts your apology,move on with him,if he doesn't move on with your life.

Peace91:
Please can anyone explain to me, if its possible for someone to use your account number and sim card to withdraw money from your account. In a POS without your ATM?

No it's not possible.
If the person wants to buy something online,he needs your ATM,if he wants to do transfer on phone,he needs your son registered to your account and USSD password (Not ATM password). If the person wants to use internet transfer he needs your login details and password.
So no one can transfer money from your account by just knowing your account number and phone number

Thank God it happened in the midnight when the road was empty. Imagine if it was in the day,why are many Nigerian tankers destiny killers?

" People of the world,tell me what we're dying for,money money. People of the world,tell me what we're living for, money money"... Dr Dre- Money

She has dropped her Arabian billionaire boyfriend already? Na wao

Ranting of a broke ass nig*a . You didn't mention anything spectacular you are going through,just some crab issue money will take care of.
You are ignorant boy,if the only problem you have in life is finance,then you are one lucky dude because your problem can be resolved in a twinkling of an eye. Lack of money ca never be compared to lack of good health. Without health,you can't enjoy breathing or walking or eating or singing or nothing.
Yaradua has all the wealth of Nigeria at his disposal to get any medical help available in the world at any cost,he got it but it was useless. All the best doctors in the best hospital in the world couldn't help him.
A broke man can enjoy his meal,even look good,laugh,go where he wants but a sick man?

What if...what if he was innocent? His death can't be reversed.
Say No to jungle justice

DonDraper:
A lady was kidnapped along Rukpakulusi new layout beside the Anglican Church, Port-harcourt, on her way to church this morning. These are photos of her. She was taken away by 4 armed men in a Lexus with plate number CLA43JM.


Her name is Onyinye Whitney Ndukwe.


Apparently the license plate seems fake but that’s all the information available.


Please anyone with any information should contact the nearest police station.


Moderators should kindly move to Front Page to get the required attention of authorities, security agents and good citizens.


Please help!

Inside job.
Kidnappers don't kidnap randomly except they intercepted a car or bus on the highway. Apart from that,they usually know who their victim is,where he lives,works and how rich he or his family are.
Police should question her housemates or neighbor,Ex or current boyfriend, colleagues etc

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Abimbola2525:
A Traditional marriage between a Eggon girl and Igbo Boy goes bad over unresolved issues between relatives. [You'll see photos below]

The culture is mostly practiced predominately by Eggon- Christians, but respected by all clans. With variation from Clan to Clan, Family to Family.

In Lafia, Tudun Amba, an Eggon lady's traditional marriage which was supposed to unite people together, ended in shame.

Click on the link below to read more see pictures
https://www.examweapon.com/2020/11/traditional-wedding-goes-bad-as-misunderstanding-leads-to-damage-of-items.html

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Fake news,using a random picture to create sensational topics to draw traffic. No name of location or pictures of actual people in a traditional wedding settings. This is not the way to blog,you are just another unemployed assh old who sees blogging as a quick money route,but you gat a lot of surprises coming.

Gadahfi:
Good move
Even as a christian, there are so many irresponsible things I cannot condone

1. Deeper life and Chosen people shouting on with that their demonic microphone as early as 4,5 in the morning. I CONFRONTED ONE MYSELF. That is pure wickedness. Nigeria is stressful already now, you drag yourself to work in the morning, work like an elephant for a job that pays like an ant, you spend hours on Lagos traffic, sweat like a goat, you get home no light, the gutters are terrible you can’t breath fresh air, Lagos mosquitoes attack you like bokoharam, wahala left right and center and then when it seems like you are finally getting some sleep, you’d hear “REPENT OR DIE!!!”

2. Once I was living at Obalende, my neighbor won’t pray when everybody has left for em work in the morning,afternoon. As soon as it’s 12am you’re supposed to sleep, she’ll start telling the whole compound how her village people are so jobless that her success is what they are after. I went to bang her door and tell her I will get her arrested if I hear her stupid voice again. THIS IS SOMEONE THAT HAS BEEN JOBLESS SINCE GOD KNOWS WHEN. And has not made any efforts to do anything.

My question is, must we shout before God will hear us? Why are people like this?
Sometimes I feel like we should appreciate JEHOVA WITNESS pple oo, cuz to some extent they are more civil with the way they do things.

A building in Ketu Lagos, has 4, yes 4 Redeem churches on it. 4 parishes on a building. Why can’t they all come together and stand as one. Something is wrong somewhere.

I’m just pissed right now

Bloody liar, deeper life doesn't hold any program early in the morning as early as 4 am or 5 am,stop lying. Though I am sure they used speakers too during their Sunday and weekly services but not 4am or 5am.

Greatihex:
What do you think about the Depp and Amber case? Do you think she was actually abused?

Well this question is deep,I can't answer it outrightly.
But I know she exaggerated the whole issue to gain public sympathy,and she got it. The media jumped on it and ran with it as usual.
The video she had as evidence of domestic violence showed John throwing stuffs at home but didn't show him touching her.
She already had the media with her,intact John was dropped as a cast in the third installment of Fantastic Beast.
Women always have upper hand in cases like this. Imagine she cried on what interview like that, saying she was abused by John. People were sorry for her and were condemning John

No I haven't and never will. I believe criminals should pay for the choices they made to go into crime,but only after they have been declared by the court of law as guilty, having had opportunity to defend themselves.

Burna boy videos of just last year already caught up with all the old timers? Wake up me when any of them get to a billion views like 50cent - In da Club

I just remembered Johnny Depp and Amber Head right now,damn I feel for him. Spent fortune to get married and after a year it already crumbled.

Good. In Spartacus voice " We kill them All"

In the past 14 days I have traveled to Ilesha,Lokoja and recently Benin city. Whenever I am in the bus,I used to remember all the posts I do read on Nairaland about accident or kidnapping etc which always sends chiles through my body. Fear is bad meeen.
RIP to the lady,for the driver karma will do the rest

Hippocratic oath comes to mind. Wish them the best on their journey to good salary and giving children injections

Netflixng:
Since all the northerners are against other region countering insecurity in the north and are comfortable with the buhari administration.. please let's all join hands to spread comments across social media regarding insecurity in the north as fake news!

Since they do not appreciate the effort we re putting to get them out of the mess their ignorance has caused them! Let's help them remain there..

ABI how Una reason am?

What is wrong with you people? What kind of life are you actually living? Must be very terrible. I mean you decided to make a post and you started typing this trash. From when you started typing till you ended and pressed submit, nothing tinkles your emotions or brain cells that you shouldn't post this because of its stupidity? Geeeeeez.
Are some of you cursed with tribalism and hatred? A girl from the east just got married to El Rufia's son. She and her family and coming generations are made for life. While you carry hatred on your head but still selling fake Netflix account up and down.

chuksahamefule:
As a concerned Alumnus of the great Abia State University (ABSU) and bonafide indigene of Abia State, I have observed the recent goings on in my State as it relates to my Alma matter with great concern and trepidation.

It is no longer news that ABSU has been in the news for all the wrong reasons recently. It is clear to any discerning person that there is more to the shenanigans as it is already following the typical modus operandi of the failed politicians who have succeeded in pauperizing Abians and destroying virtually every aspect of the state.

Like everyone else I was surprised to see a letter trending on social media, which suggested that returning students of ABSU are to pay a Pandemic Prevention Fee of N15, 000.00 (Fifteen Thousand Naira) each. At first glance, it seemed to be a guise to extort the students, however, when some fellow Alumni and myself made further enquiries we were surprised to learn that the fee in question was unanimously agreed by the State Government and all the stakeholders in the school including the students and that this to enable the school meet the covid-19 guidelines for resumption issued by the Nigeria Universities Commission (NUC).

It is therefore clear that it was not an attempt by the Management to extort the students and I understand the Governor has graciously approved the cancellation of the levy and committed to providing the required funds to enable the school meet the covid-19 guidelines.

Despite the resolution of the above, there remains a sustained attack on the management of ABSU with the most ridiculous being an allegation that TETFUND Intervention funds to the school in the sum of N4bn has been diverted and misappropriated by the Institution’s Management.

Even without hearing from the Management of the School, any reasonably intelligent person can tell that such a diversion/misappropriation is impossible as TETFUND critically monitors the use and disbursements of their intervention funds and once there is any evidence or indication that same was not judiciously expended or where the projects are not satisfactorily executed, TETFUND blacklists the institution and ceases to release such interventions to it.

In the case of ABSU it is on record that the intervention funds to the institution has been on a steady increase each year due to the efforts and sagacity of the present Management. As a matter of fact, the allegation will only make sense if they are alleging TETFUND misappropriated or diverted the intervention funds they approved for ABSU.

In view of this reality, a lot of us who consider ourselves as stakeholders not only in ABSU but also in Abia State were shocked by the threat of Hon. Chijioke Chukwu (Member representing Bende North Constituency in the Abia State House of Assembly) that the ‘opposition’ in the State will stop all TETFUND assistance due to ABSU.

The threat by the “Honourable” and his understanding of how the TETFUND intervention approval and disbursement process are actually comical fit for the entertainment of persons who have had more than a few beers in a bar, however, it is something to be worried about considering it is emanating from a Member of the State House of Assembly who should know better.

I make bold to inform the “Honourable” that his ridiculous threat to petition TETFUND to stop all ‘assistance’ because of whatever grievances he may have or is harboring against the Management amounts to cutting off your nose to spite your face.

Is the “Honourable” truly from Abia State? If he is, whose interest is he serving? These questions are pertinent as virtually everyone in Abia State can testify that ABSU is the only tertiary institution working in Abia State and is a model for virtually all the Higher Institutions in the South – East.

I have no doubt in my mind that the Honourable is acting a script and I am sure that time will reveal his sinister plans.

I appeal to our politicians to face the rot in Abia State and fashion out solutions for them. Our ABSU is working and we the Alumni are proud of the giant strides that have been made by the present management, which is why Alumni are falling over themselves to contribute their quota to our alma matter.

Okechukwu Eke
Port Harcourt
okeyeke76@gmail.com

Now you know how it feels to be a victim of fake news. I am sure if a blogger here wakes up in his room and decided to write a complete lie about Tinubu or Osinbanjo or Buhari,I mean he just formed all the allegations on his head and post it here. You and the rest of your minions with pre meditated hatred towards certain Nigerians because of their political differences,you all will believe it immediately without even thinking for a seconds about the source or reliability of the fake news.
Fake news is bad and should be fought against by all. Period.

Op you are not a real niggarrr like some used to say,you didn't put...
Nas- Rap Music
In 1994, a 20 years old boy from the hood of Queens borough released his debut album that shook the rap music industry, not because of how many sales he had but because of the unprecedented intelligent imbibed in his lyrics. The album "illmatic" was and still the greatest rap album of all time.

We should stop throwing the world ' Hypocrisy' around anyhow, giving it meaning it doesn't entail. To me hypocrisy is teaching something but doing otherwise, preaching against something in public but doing it in your closet, standing up for something in the West,but rejecting it in the North.
So the fact that a man falls short of moral expectations doesn't mean he is a hypocrite,it means he is not perfect. But if he always carry these moral obligations on his head while others are present and presents himself as someone who meets these obligations always,whereas he breaks them in his closet,then he is a muther fuc king hypocrite.
You dig?

You made lots of sense. But that guy that spent all his savings on a wedding just because he had other sources of income is not wise to me.
I mean as a legitimate hustler who worked hard for his money and deprived myself of lots of things to save reasonably over the years,I will now spend it all to buy clothes,rent event center,feed others,many of whom I never knew before and will probably never meet again?

" Unapologetically black,the opposite of boja cat, we're ultra black".... Nas(Ultra Black).

Toshmoney:
Don’t come with an intention to scam!!

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EXLOVER:
Buhari Twitter comments section is the most useless comment section in world, all you will see is ifb or FF. When you go to other president page you will see intelligent write ups or argument.

It shows that our presido is clueless.

Yawns transfer of aggression. See painment of a boy over an election that's thousands of kilometres away. Cry me a river

Virgo01:
Perhaps this is one of the best analysis I have read about the happenings in the election.
Goodbye to Trump.
Trump was too much of a divisive figure.

Because it was written by a person who is educated in the real sense. A person who attended a functional University,who went through school and school went through him,not the kind of half baked graduates we have in Nigeria.