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Good day Nairalanders, it is with a sad heart I write this piece , the mother in law of my cousin is tormenting her, and it is affecting her both emotionally and physically.

My cousin has been married for one year and three months , she is yet to conceive and is medically healthy, but her mother in law is making her life miserable, for the last five month's her mother in law has been calling her in the midnight to shout at her to give her a grand child, she cannot report to her husband because it will cause a quarrel that might separate the son and mother and she will be called a witch and all blames will be pushed on her, my cousin refuse to eat anything and hardly speaks to anyone, her mother in law also constantly visits her to insult her , she tells my cousin that there is no barren woman in their family and she knows that she has aborted her womb and her time in the house will soon be up.

Please nairalanders what advice can I give to my cousin, because this lady is in pains .

All the girls that served in where I worked were all bleeped by many of the male staffs , I can give you their names if you think I am joking . I can also give you the place I work .

jorion:
Hmmmm. owerri and enugu girls dey claim for here. Hmmmmm. well, make I no talk anything.

so Enugu girls are saying they are expensive, ? Impossicant . Those girls are so cheap , ice cream and meat pie will make them spread their legs like Olympics. The only thing positive about them is that they are chatty .

Brojimmydada77:
Sharing the same experience. She gets upset each time I turn down an appointment with her due to the monetary demands

Appointment in where ?

Stupidity

zoedew:
You are mistaken my friend. Christianity is not a religion but a way of life. It’s your call to decide to be a Christian. God bless you.

Christianity is a religion, Your way of life is shaped by your personal experience not your religion, I choose what I become , they are millions of religions, traditionalism was believed to be the mainstay before Christianity was imported , as I said to you before , you are behaving like an extremist, you are forcing your will on me which means your religion is that which promotes follow or be an outcast , shame on you sir , read more !

zoedew:
You will care IN JESUS NAME! Jesus loves you!

this is why I said you are a religious extremist.

zoedew:
It remains valid that JESUS loves YOU!

I Dont care.

hatedisplace:
since he claims not to know about the drugs. Why did he take a picture of the yam before washing it?

please watch the video and stop spewing thrash.

zoedew:
The sacrifice of Jesus on the cross of Calvary will not be in vain upon your life. You are precious to God. #Jesuslovesyou

I pity you, when will you realise your identity.

zoedew:
Everyone will end up at a destination chosen. Go where you wanna go!

my destination is my grave , I have no part to partake in a judgmental fallacy.

zoedew:
Simply make a decision to accept or reject Jesus Christ and stop screaming extremism!#itsaboutyourchoice

I am my religion, common sense as an appeal , Mr man , you are still in the stage of learning, I am a master realist , I Dont follow the crowd.

zoedew:
You are like your father the devil bound for eternal damnation. #repentJesuslovesyou

wow, Mr man , why are you behaving like a religious extremist.

zoedew:
He is doing his duty as a minister in the employ of Satan The Devil. He will get rewarded in due time.

you are a nothing.

This man is right, its so funny when I see so many pastors shouting God will multiply your blessings if you pay your tithe, Oga, Na u be God? .

gypsey:
And if he didn't move out before then? this my tenant is owing 14 months rent Already.

14 months rent, that is criminal. Get a court order to evict him, give a copy to him, if he does not comply , involve the police, they will evict him immediately.

gypsey:
Bros i beg tell me how are you planning to evict him? i am fed up of one my tenants infact i am going to evict all of them i am not letting out my properties anymore! i am just gonna leave the property empty!

they have not paid this years rent, soo I Dont plan on collecting it, when he approaches me to pay, I will simply tell himci want to use the house by January.

gypsey:
they are pigs definitely! same thing with my properties, this one guy with more than 4 children messed my house up, owes me rent. when i first rented the flat to him he was single now he has five children and jobless! i am doing everthing i can to evict him even if it means killing him!

evict him fast oooo, haaaaa ,what rubbish, 4 children and jobless ontop person house,you no still pay rent.

Cachez:
Bro you are 101% right. I am presently experiencing the same with my ibo tenants here in Abuja. Some little maintenance that is not up #500 they would never fix. One broke his tap at his backyard and left it unresolved. The landlord of the adjacent compound had to come and inform the tenant when he noticed water gushing into his compound, yet the tenant refused to fix it. The landlord had to look for a way to get my number and informed me directly. Meanwhile the water meter reading has gone up because of the number of days this tap issue was left unattended to.

yours is even good, the Igbo tenants in my house broke their shower , since last year , it has not been fixed, I am just looking at the family because I Dont want to cause enmity in the compound, if I should start with them they will park out.

I dey bombard their line now

Lol , I remember two of my neighbors, they are both girls in a uni while I was also in a uni, dem can quarrel and fight and once them start na to dey separate them because dem go fit kill each other, one break bottle for one head for one fight.

Them wan close this thread so

Man city to win by two goals.

jojothegreat:
Back then I was still in kano state,
As a barrack boy, i can't count how many fights ave been involved in.
The last time was in 2015.
Some group of cultists, ganged up, beat and stabbed a young soldier in a party cus he was talking to a girl they claimed was their capon's girlfriend.
The story got to the streets and if you know barrack boys wella, we no dey hear word at all.
It took us weeks to plan a reprisal attack, studied the way these cultists move, their creeks and hideouts.
To cut long story short.
On this fateful day we attacked them with four different hilux, on their way to a party.. .... I can't call this fight tho.. cus we beat and flog nonsense comot for cultists body... At the end tho, two people were shot, their leader Didn't make it, after much loss of blood, he body was brought back to the barracks where he died on the way, the other dude managed to explain but was later caught in a hospital by sars.

Story was buried and never disclosed tho....
Since then...

you idiot !!!! Why did you do this .

Fight. ,No!!! But wait a minute , I Fought BECAUSE FIGHTING IS THE ONLY WAY TO GAIN RESPECT, ALL ANIMALS FIGHT FOR DOMINANCE ,IF YOU DONT FIGHT , YOU WILL NEVER BE RECOGNIZED .

my first real fight was with peter in js3 , I was still lanky and unwise, he was more matured, he was 18 while I was 15, he beat me so bad I was sore for weeks , he made fun of me that period , all the guys laughed at me but what pushed me to learn the act of fighting was when the girls also started laughing at me and saying things like "shut up, you that Dont have power" , it hurt me to the bone . During that js3 Holiday after JUNIOR CERT EXAM , I WENT TO LEARN HOW TO FIGHT PROFESSIONALLY , to avoid that scenario again in my life, in fact I didn't stop learning until I finished secondary school, on the last day of school , we always mingle , but peter wanted more than mingling , he wanted to make fun of me, and was pushing my head like a slave , I told him if he pushes me again, I will retaliate but he laughed and said me small boy , he pushed me again , I shouted at him to stop which drew attention, he told me to shut up and asked what I can do, he was going to palm me on my chest, I deflected his arm and gave him A POWERFUL BLOW ON HIS LEFT RIB CAGE WHICH SHATTERED IT, HE IMMEDIATELY HELD THAT SIDE OF HIS STOMACH, I PROCEEDED TO GIVE HIM A QUICK AND WELL PRECISIONED UPPER CUT TO HIS JAW, HE FAINTED FROM THE PAIN, HE WAS RUSHED TO THE HOSPITAL, I WAS GOING TO BE SUSPENDED AND EYE WITNESSES HELPED ME ESCAPE PUNISHMENT FROM SCHOOL AUTHORITY, I felt fulfilled that day even though my dad told me crawl the full street, it didn't hurt because I know I fulfilled my long desired achievement.

Most times when I sew guys treating their partner like trash ,I think to myself , this nigga must be an animal, but when I see what some girls are capable of, I just free the guys .

Lanceslot:
Its about time Luiz and Cahill need to rest for Rudiger and Christensen.

it still axes me how a confederation cup winner is on the bench when Cahill and luiz are playing.

2shure:
Go to skool
Get a fuckin degree
Lay low.
No
Na to go rent off k
Buy gen
Dey live like big man
Come gif am bele
D pickin dey alive
Bich baby mama dey alive
Dumb ass niggi dead.
See d fuckin sorrow he brought to his parents.
Must una live togeda
I once lived with a bich
I fukd her umlimited
She neva fought me one day
Neva stole from me
We kush together.
But today distance tore us apart
She was a bich
But a good bich
Me gifma heart to a woman
Na
Neva happening

Off k life dey sweet
If u stayed at bdpa
U know what i mean
Buh fuk it
Acting like a big man
Wen uour folks are constantly broke
Die mofocka

lol

Shiiiooor your body go hot today.

Ahhh Ebuka may thunder fire you, kia this guy was my next door neighbor but e be like say we dey stay for the same house, nothing wey I'm no dey borrow, from singlet to spoon to cream, and the funny thing is he comes home with girls almost everyday , to disturb the peace of the neighborhood , I suffer for this guy hand enhhh, so they I park comot from the area , so annoying.

Ironi:
You sound like a gentleman and not like a typical Nigerian man, or if you are a lady I'll love to hook up and show you some good time

lol guy , look at my gender.