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ufotunang:
The bad economy has frustrated the poilceman...so he puts his frustration on innocent citizens

And that is no excuse for his misconduct.

She will finally have access to the kids, no matter how long it will take.

Gra, gra don end.

E reach.

When people are less economically engaged, getting such numbers is not rocket science.

tiswell:
So this fine actress na single mother




Oh I get it now, she separated when the big god, his sexcellency chief Pita.Od*li came into the picture

Being a single parent is not a mental disorder.

I hope under him, the State will be better Policed.

Husband and wife matter....

donbachi:
You'all want traditions dat has to do with female circumcision abolished.but,not ready to abolish bride price,transport fare,abortions and entittlements.

Ashawo everywhere.

Let your family and kindred start the abolishment of bride price, once people notice that men pay nothing marrying your female relatives, it would inspire others to replicate such.

He was feeling invisible.

Very wicked. Hope a notable NGO facilitate his suing the wife and her ex- lover as they must financially compensate him even if it does not repay his emotional investment in that child.

fineboynl:
I have date upto 3 girls that lick soup. They will tell you they are feeling hungry but they will they either cook soup and find soup. They next still they lick it and eat meat in it and the next thing they will tell you the are ok now. Licking soup without swallow.

I sometimes do cook soup and consume all without swallow and it violates no law.

If her values don't align with yours, you very much know what to do rather than creating a thread!

There are men whose orientation are okay with a woman smoking shisha despite the health implications on both men and women, I believe she will fit better with such men.

VEXT:
Age has nothing to do with maturity....

We the single men of nigeria say no to evening newspaper,we can't wife evening newspaper..

But you can wife oyinbo in her 60s!

Bumped into a Nigerian guy in a shopping mall, who should be in his late 20s with his Caucasian grandma wife who was tattooed all over with a gangster vibe, I know say my brother don enter one chance in exchange of coming to Europe...if the guy try anyhow....na offing!

Nice one.

-Nairaland will no longer exist and almost all commenting on it will be long gone.

+Nigeria will become once upon a time...

-What constitutes a family, would evolve.

-Today's smartphones will become relics.

odinson1:
Another Nonsense feminist Agenda to rope men into your problems.

I wonder where you got your Statistics from.

So the reality of infertility being experienced by some men is a feminist agenda?

Displacement...your half-sister is your mum's soft target, redirecting her anger towards your father to the innocent girl who is the outcome of his infidelity.

Your dad, keeping silent as if he is a bystander has emboldened your mum to abuse her and that is cowardly from your father.

Contact those numbers already shared, so your half-sister can be taken away immediately from that toxic environment as it may escalate to your younger brothers taking turns to sexually abuse her and your mum would see nothing wrong in that.

She should be re-united with her mother's side of the family and your father regularly send to them her monthly upkeep allowances.

May their souls rest in peace.

Sad.

Nice write-up.

Mamayam:
Lol. I too resemble am.
You know, you need DNA test to move your kids abroad. If fit be wetin she dey avoid.

If she is going for example to the UK (which is more like the easiest to get admitted into) for her Doctoral studies, DNA tests is not required for the kids to go with her as what is required by UK Visa and Immigration is their birth certificates and letter of consent from both parents that they agree on the kids traveling.

Nice one.

Mamayam:
Go do DNA test for your children.

Do you father have your DNA test result?

JONNYSPUTE:
....If you are truly hurt then live him and come back to Nigeria.

Why is it that most Nigerian ladies find it difficult to divorce a wealthy proscumious husband?

If she leaves him, she still has a right to stay back in Canada and rebuild her life independently as a single mother and the man will mandatorily pay for their daughter's support....the man has more to lose as his reputation before all those who know him as a religious person would go south, he has to financially support a daughter he no longer lives under the same roof with but given just visitation rights and that would not make him a happy man

He is addicted to prostitutes and need the professional help of a sex addiction therapist.

efficiencie:
If he remained at home the beast of a wife will create the very conditions that the kids should not be witnessing. Imagine the kids watching their mom tear into their dad for flimsy reasons and imagine their dad being defensive trying not to go full blown violent against their mother and all this happening before the kids. Will the kids have a great upbringing in such a manner. The beast of a wife is obviously not beastly to her children but she is a beast to her husband. Hence the man needs to give her space and reshape his life first. He needs to heal spiritually, financially and mentally. After a long retreat he can return to see his wife and children and if the wife has moved on to the next victim he too can move on with his life. I hate divorces but sometimes it is horrible pill a person has to take to escape disaster.

If the wife is a beast, he should prove that in a law court and have the marriage dissolved as they work out on how to co- parent their children.

In such family setting, your first priority should be your 3 younger sisters (from your mum) , your step mother who is busy having children as if she is in competition with your mother that has already left, should figure out with your father on how to provide for the children they are busy having.

It is not your responsibility, it is theirs and don't allow your father to emotionally blackmail you to take up responsibilities that belongs to him and his wife.

efficiencie:
Well they are his kids. He is not fleeing from his kids he is fleeing from his wife who is weaponizing his kids against him. And if the lump sum happens to be 50million naira, just saying, even the kids will vindicate him and come to grips with the beast they have as a mother.

I guess you so much believe that money is only what children require from their fathers.

A man disappearing from his children' lives because of the mother of his children is a coward for abandoning his children to a beast as you want us to believe. If he as a man cannot confront the beast, is it the children he expects to do so?

Where he is running to, is he not going to be sexually involved with other women? Are those women he will get involved with outside his marriage, going to be saints

Sarmiz24:
What is dis one saying bayii again? Use Waec to enter UK school as Par UK na capital of Nigeria… do u even know what Waec stands for? I’m not sure they even accept that nonsense exam in SA self u are talking about UK… that nonsense exam na only west African countries abeg

You are the ignorant one here, UK universities accepts Credit in English language achieved in SSCE/GCE/NECO exams. I used my Credit grade in my SSCE like thousands of other Nigerians studying in the UK....so don't show off your ignorance with boldness.

CanadianNaija:
Who will watch the kids while their mum tries to settle into a new country and job hunt?
Why do you people give wicked advise like this to men, but y’all won’t do same to women.

She gets the nursing job while in Nigeria and the children stay with their father in Nigeria when she leaves for the UK then they and her husband join her months later.

Not expecting less.

tyup:
What if she did not pass IELTS and the other exams??

Y'all really do think relocating abroad esp to a country like UK coupled with expenses to cater for 2 or 3 kids is joke. Pls pity the poor man

What if she passes the IELTS and the other exams?

She goes first, work for some months to financially enable the family to come join her as they don't all have to travel at once.

When I lived in Coventry, I shared a 2 bedroom flat with a married Nigerian nurse who worked for a NHS Trust and also as a locum, saved for 5 months to facilitate her husband and their 2 children joining her in a 3 bedroom house and gotten a car before their arrival.

So I know what it means to relocate to the UK because I did it