Maybe you're that kind of brother that will promise heaven and earth, you finally come back and forget about your family & start spending for girls and strangers.
I'm not in support of this menace but there is a root cause of jealousy and it's personal. Solve that and live in peace with your family.
deltateam: You are wise. They are willing to make op responsible. Does op think its easy to marry. Some guys work for 5 years before they can marry. Now op is getting everything on a platter of gold. Anyway his village people are strong.
FuckThaMod: Marriage is not all about benefits oga..
Tell that to our forefathers and kings who use marriage as a tool to unite kingdoms. Marriage is meant to make you grow, it is a contract where both parties agree to help out each other for life. Don't ever forget that
The girl loves you. The mother cares for you. I'm sure they need nothing more from you than the happiness of their daughter. If you lose this love from the family, you will regret it a few years later. You are looking for a woman who won't add benefit to your life abi? Good luck looking for job in Nigeria.
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Adonko: Ok let me pour out mine on three fronts. Firstly ,when I was at the university, I was dating one babe from microbiology dept who was a year lower than me in school levels, I also had a strong pal who was also in her Dept but same level with me. It all happened that I travelled home for 3 days and . I came I never told babe but visited my pal who called me to come around and narrated everything playing between his cousin and bae ( who is a member of Aye and and from a different school), he was quite tall, he told me that my bae is even coming that evening and they will be going to the nite club together ...aaaah I almost died lol, I decided to catch her red handed cos his cousin went somewhere far, I quickly took his timberland boots and kept it outside and took his Aye overall and wore it( I am tall too) and deemed/switched the light to club light and lie down on the bed while my guy was sitting on the reading table.
Bae came as expected around 8pm, greeted my friend and ran to the bed straight telling the guy (which was me ) if he forgot they are going somewhere while rubbing his chest ( what pains me most is that is my bae that was doing the tripping), when I switched on the light cos I was holding the switched, she shouted as if she saw a ghost and quickly open her bra and put her breast in my mouth ( knowing fully well I liked her boobs so much) ... I just jeje remove her breast stood up uttered nothing and left.
It obvious you igbos hate the religion of islam and thats the major reason you hate the northerners and also the "Yoruba Muslims" that exist only among igbos. You guys are only disguising under tribe but deep inside, your hatred is for Islam. Funny enough, you guys can't survive in your region you still have to run to Lagos or north people you make a living.
Was Yar'Adua a Christian? Is Atiku a Christian? This has nothing to do with Islam, don't derail this thread with religion. I personally hate Buhari because of the way he romances terrorism.
fykes: the simple truth is because PMB is a tribal bigot!!! From his support and utterances for Boko Haram to his skewed brazen tribalism and bigotry since 2015 , it's obvious that he is both a religious and ethnic bigot not to mention his ineptitude in governance that has plunged d country backwards from the progress we all enjoyed under previous governments.
Buhari had an opportunity to be the greatest statesman in Nigeria after his tenure but he threw it away blinded by tribalism.. When he labelled a people 5%. It is and always has been d duty of the Victor to extend a hand of fellowship to the loser. He drew a line and an igbo man loves a challenge
Please copy this exact statement word for word and paste it in that ABOKI's facebook page. You are the only one who has explained my mind precisely. I'm happy to read this.
Obainoneandonly: naija guys don't tell their babes that they want to have sex beforehand. we just initiate it by smooching first then skirt and other wares later. Dats how we have been doing it and am sure that's wat bro Johnson did and he's been accused of rape. rape my foot. the girl is just angry dat he didnt help her out with her CV. Nothing like rape happened. it was consensual
So you are OK with that approach? Please know that you have rape tendencies. Potential rapist.
Lanretoye: boyfriend...rape...,I am not understanding.if na to collect money now,dem don send account.everytime buy me iPhone,baby buy me fendi.if na to bring pass once or 2x in a week,you go hear "is it food".
Shut up there mumu! Might your sister is about to be forced into sex, I pray the guy succeed so that you will know what it feels like to be violated. If she were my sister or daughter I'd be proud of her.
Johnnyessence: This suffering is enough; This suffering is enough ooo; This suffering is enough Jesus we don't want it anymore.... Kogi workers protest 40 months unpaid salary by Governor Yahaya Bello
whirlwind7: Una never see anything.... 3 years until El Rufai replaces Bubu. Then, you guys will realize that Bubu's evil is at kindergarten level compared with that midget.
Hasn't 2019 election thought you anything yet? Join SE and demand for either restructuring or total breakup of the county. That's the sanest move. Doesn't matter your ethnicity.
Bro, na igbo man you dey talk to o! We are taking power come 2023 and that's all or nothing!!!
doris00: Petrol said he subsequently reported the incident to the Divisional Police Officer, the military intelligence, the Criminal Investigation Bureau, the military police, head of the National Orientation Agency and his party, the PDP.
garfield1: This is a good testimony but as usual no strong proof.he needs voters and inec staffs to corroborate the story.infact,the accreditation details should expose what happens.but as usual its a waste.highest that can happen is for damboa lg results to be cancelled. But as a collation agent,he should have had details of the rigging during collation
megareal: Unfortunately for you, you are in direct contradiction to the man you support. Read his explanation, and then re read your submission. Beside you are chauvinistic, I don't know why a typical Nairaland male sees any contrary opinion as feminism. You guys are so afraid, for what I don't know. As far as I'm concerned, anyone who interpretes the Bible to suit his myopic reasoning or to massage his male ego teaches heresy.
Wrong quote. My apologies. Before you bring up contrary opinion, be sure it's your area of expertise. Don't argue bible when the only time you read it is when you open your app in church. Bye.
wacuc0: Men I support you. This man does not read bible like a teacher to guide a congregation of such multitude. Lets us look at the sixth day of creation. This is different from the creation of Adam and Eve, we have always misinterpreted this. Man or mankind in some translations was created on the sixth day. I quote : Genesis 1 26- 28. You will see "them" not him, you will see "male and female" not Adam. Be fruitful which means they are off different races and sexes and are allowed to marry among themselves.
"26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
When you come to chapter 2. You can now read about the making of Adam which is the man where Eve came out from,. If you read below Genesis 2:1 and 2. Creation was finished and God rested on the seventh day. Garden of Eden is a different event after creation. Planting of the garden and creation of Adam and Eve came after the seventh day God rested. Eve was a wife not ordinary woman during the sixth day of normal creation "Bone of my bone" Flesh of my flesh". This means there were other women but not his flesh. Remember Cain married another woman who was part of the original creation.
Genesis 2: 1-2 1. Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them.
2 And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made.
Dont be deceived by eloquent write ups. Chapter 1 is a summary of chapter 2. The first chapter talks about the whole creation story while chapter 2 breaks down the story in detail. Man was created first, after God saw that it was not good for man to be alone, he made woman out of man. A woman is subjected to man, she is his product. A man is the head of his home just as Christ is head of the church. God communicates with man, and man communicate to his family.
In the ways of God, all things are not created equal, there is hierarchy in the things of God, it is evident in the food chain, ecosystem, animal's social behavior and as described in revelations about heaven & God's throne. In essence, God loves orderliness. Two captains cannot stir a ship, one has to accept directions from the other. God bless his word.
megareal: Thank you. That's the personal revelation and truth I've held unto for a long time. A woman was not an afterthought. A woman was already in the plan for procreation and multiplication. I always think God saved the best for the last. He let Adam experience loneliness so he would appreciate his companion and understand just how valuable she was to him.
You feminists are only trying to massage your inflated ego. Genesis chapter one is a summary of creation story. Chapter 2 breaks down the story in detail. A woman is not a slave to a man, she is his assistant. The idea behind creating a woman is to complete a man. Just as a battery completes a phone. She gives life to the whole device called marriage and none can do without the other. Talking of the institution of marriage, man is to lead the home and takes full responsibility for the direction of the family. Please read your Bible thoroughly to avoid arguments that may make you seem ignorant.
chiedu7: I agree, the bible actually says that man is to love his wife.
Colossians 3:19 Husbands, LOVE YOUR WIVES, and BE NOT BITTER AGAINST THEM.
Infact the bible says mistreat ur wife and ur prayers are hindered
1 Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
May God bless his word and renew your oil. It's shameful to see that some other youth who don't read the Bible will come out and argue with Bible scholars. People don't mind their business, the think they're professionals in every field. Smh