₦airaland Forum

This is wonderful. It's good to go for what you want and not stay put in a place and wait for what wants you.
Dude is indeed handsome.

Evaberry:
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the sad thing about these two is the countless number of abortions she must have had after craze whatever pounded her to hell and back.. her pussy will be looking like lawd knows


I wonder why he would go for this dark skinned ugly bitch.

Mr man you are no longer a local tout this girl is a downgrade upgrade yourself

have sense na no matter how little.... you need someone with the complete package not these local razz yellow agbada woman

Are you for real?
May God forgives you.

majekdom2:
we lost it and that's why I tell people when they come with silly restructuring and diversification talk. We have a social/ mental problem that needs to be addressed first, if not it won't work.
@ bolded, broke is a status. You can choose to remain there or move beyond that status. Keep on with your work, stay focused, network and make friends with the right set of peeps and it will pass. It will pass in a moment. I have been there, it passed, the change came in a twinkling of an eye. You don't have to force yourself on any babe. It's only natural for them to rely on you for their needs. If anyone understand you can't provide and will still keep you, hold that person tight. It will happen bro

Thanks my brother.

In life, we all have our distinct race. Painted with different colours of life uncertainties is our batons of destinies. Unique for every man born into this world. Those that were lucky to have the good start from their birth and those who ran into rock in the beginning of life. Yet the saying that the end justifies the means hold true. To a Jonathan who never dreamt of becoming a president in 70s and to the sons of Abiolas who might have think they are born to be successful in life by the virtue of the stating line of their lives, one thing happens to them. "Life". Nope, it wasn't the intelligence and diligence of the Jonathan, neither is it the lack of it in the Abiolas that makes the differences in the latter stage of life. Life happens to them and this life always happens to us all.

A lady can chose to set standard for themselves. It's what they feel can guarantee their happiness.

But to label guys that go for financially 'sunk' girls as guys with low standard and self worth is stupidity. I'm sorry to use the s word

majekdom2:
we live in a sick society. We have a social problem. You are perceived successful by the car you drive and house you live in. We go to church so God can bless us to be rich. We go to school because we believe education is key to becoming rich. People become politicians because they want to be rich. Some people that are surviving will go abroad because they want to be rich, some will push drugs. We have internet fraudsters who could have survived without being fraudsters because they want to be rich. There is no other motivation in Nigeria other than the quest to become rich. A very big social problem that has affect our thought pattern.

My brother. You are speaking straight from my heart.

I was discussing with a friend sometimes ago. About the difference between our parent's lifetime and our own era. In their days, they take pride in being academically successful. They measure success by the number of life they've touched. They find pride in the title of their names. That's why the like of justice Oputa wouldn't want his son to be a musician because money isn't a measure of success to them.
Those were days we look toward the Woles, the Achebes and co for inspiration.
Our role models where the PN Okereke. But not anymore. Nowadays, we see the wizkids, Davidos, Hush puppies as more successful than the rest of the young guys who aren't financially successful yet.

One day we will come and blame our leaders. Leaders that were a product of this directionless society.

God help us sha...
For a broke guy like me, I will be rich one day doing what I know how to do. I however pray never to mingle with ladies with this kind of mentality.

RaggedyAnn:


I hope you don't. It would be a tragic fit.

Indeed.

God!! The whole marriage stuff is becoming increasingly scary to me from all I read on nairaland daily.

evexx1:
Well best of luck then. Smh

Amen o. Best of luck to you too.

RaggedyAnn:
I used Mike Adenuga because that's the example used by the person I quoted. (Was it you?). I don't know how you qualify intelligence. It is not the ability to speak good English or hold a conversation in politics or whatever. It's a capacity for aptitude. And a person who is successful at something must have mastered something to an excellent level. That shows intelligence.

I equate financial reward to successful enterprise. And successful enterprise is dependent on several variables (diligence, discipline, drive, etc) including intelligence.

But like I said in my earlier post (was it to you?) some people get rich by dubious means and that's not the class of men I'm referring to.

These characteristics you keep painting, do they guarantee good marital life?
The money, intelligence, diligence, discipline and co, do they transform into a happy home? What is marriage to you? Is it a business venture?


I pray I never meet someone with this mentality in life. To me, marriage is till death do us path no matter the circumstances, I wouldn't want to endure a hellish marital life because I made the wrong choice.

hibiscus76:
its a pity no one talks about Love anymore... marriage shouldn't be all about money oo OP..

Thanks dear.

I don't know why people feel one is less human for being broke. Even when I'm rich, I wouldn't want the type of this op for marriage. I don't pray I come across her type no matter the level of her wealth. If all rich girls have this kind of mentality, I better date broke girls.

Guys please read section 35 of the constitution of federal Republic of Nigeria.


The lawyer can not reject his case. It's against the ethics of a lawyer. It can be used to debar the lawyer.

Deseo:
Alright dear , I understand you and your dislike better now.

Are you an engineer?

I wish she is in my league and not yet married. I too love this woman.

Is restructuring not supposed to be one of the policies that help solve the problem of hunger and lost of job?



Politicians self.

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