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Crime › Re: 48-year-old Married Man Caught Raping A 6-year-old Girl In Lagos by gulfer: 9:49am On Nov 27, 2018
Osei Maxwell, NCAN please identify where this bEAST is from grin grin grin
He should be locked away forever. angry angry angry
Romance › Re: Handsome Groomsman At A Jos Wedding That Got People Talking by gulfer:
Bia OP, is this handsome meaning in your language huh huh huh

Romance › Re: This Picture Was Organized By The Japanese Neurologist by gulfer: 4:19pm On Nov 25, 2018
1, Tried it when I woke up and just confirmed now. cool cool cool
Politics › Re: Explaination Required For Buhari Right and Left Handed In The Picture by gulfer: 9:03am On Nov 25, 2018
cogbuagu:
We need an explanation here
Picture 1. Buhari left handed
Picture 2. Buhari right handed.
Haven't you heard of picture inversionhuh huh
Crime › Re: Collins Akila: Photos From Burial Of ESUT Student by gulfer: 5:01am On Nov 25, 2018
Which Kain reportage be this, this headline is something else angry angry angry
Crime › Re: Tolulope Abodunrin Commits Suicide After Suffering Depression by gulfer: 7:26pm On Nov 23, 2018
Some of the up and coming entrepreneurs especially those in finance ans SME mgt often take some risks that end up backfiring. I hope this is not an investment one south. RIP young lad embarassed embarassed embarassed
Politics › Re: National Assembly To Create 80 Universities, Polytechnics, Colleges Of Education by gulfer: 2:13pm On Nov 23, 2018
Which kain wahala be this angry angry angry

Culture › Re: Ex-ghanaian President, John Dramani Mahana Pays Courtesy Visit To Ooni Of Ife by gulfer: 1:42pm On Nov 23, 2018
One of the most important, if not the most important Obaship/Kingship in Nigeria cool cool cool cool
Sorry if this offends anyone.
Crime › Re: 30-Year-Old Man Who Specialises In Duping Bank Customers At ATM's, Arrested by gulfer: 6:46pm On Nov 22, 2018
OK, there's no ambiguity here for NCAN identification committee's intervention grin grin

Health › Re: Whatsapp Group (DIY) Do It Yourself (cure Staph, MRSA & Infections Naturally) by gulfer: 3:34pm On Nov 22, 2018
Why cant you share here?
Career › Re: Am I Cursed Or Just Unlucky? Please Advice Me!!! by gulfer: 3:28pm On Nov 22, 2018
Luck will smile on you one day cool cool cool cool
Education › Re: DELSU Searches Students After Murder Of Elozino Joshuana Ogege. Photos by gulfer: 3:08pm On Nov 22, 2018
This is thrashy security measure, was she killed in the school or outside the school huh huh huh Methink the school should have security bulletins shared on how to avoid falling prey and preach safety and security to the wayward girls especially those living off-campus. My one-kobo angry
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Convicted Of Killing An 18-year-old Boy In London (photo) by gulfer: 2:20pm On Nov 22, 2018
SweetBuns:
NCAN members have landed
There is one meme picture that resembles this man, who has ithuh huh huh
Sports › Re: Yakubu Ayegbeni Celebrates His 36th Birthday Today by gulfer: 2:06pm On Nov 22, 2018
Ok, see his junior brothers. grin grin grin

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Arrested In Cambodia For Overstaying Visa by gulfer: 9:54pm On Nov 21, 2018
Nigga wanted to be the pathfinder in Vietnam, but he now has to find his way back to Nigeria grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Fake Buhari Death Certificate Bishop Eze Orieke Posted (Photos) by gulfer: 9:46pm On Nov 21, 2018
NORSIYK:
This one strong o.......but check this pic below someone posted on the other thread...I think something is fishy
So Aisha couldn't have worn a heeled shoe abi, ori nta e o. huh huh
Celebrities › Re: Man Trends From Sharing Images Before And After An Accident - Photos by gulfer: 8:34pm On Nov 21, 2018
Hmmm
Crime › Re: Offa Robbery: Michael Adikwu Is Dead — Kwara Attorney General by gulfer: 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2018
What of Ayo Opadokun's son mentioned in connection with this robbery
Crime › Re: Zamfara, Borno, Cross River, And Lagos Top In Weekly Crime Reports by gulfer: 11:12am On Nov 21, 2018
Thrashy compilation, what about Rivers of Blood huh huh huh huh huh huh
Politics › Re: Jonathan Reveals Those Who Advised Him Not To Concede Defeat To Buhari In 2015 by gulfer: 8:51am On Nov 21, 2018
I know one of those who advised him not to conceed defeat grin grin grin grin

Travel › Re: Is There Still A Ban On Okada Activities In Lagos? by gulfer:
Lagos currently has no governor and is on autopilot. cool cool
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Arrested In India For Duping People Via Facebook by gulfer: 7:30pm On Nov 19, 2018
NCAN, disciplinary committee chaiman (South East) waiting pensively for names of the Nigerian cool cool huh cool

Health › Re: Girl Rushed To Hospital With Iron Hook In Her Eye. Graphic Photos by gulfer: 6:42pm On Nov 19, 2018
Oju lowo, happy for her shocked shocked shocked
Travel › Re: Lagos-Ibadan Railway: Work Starts On Lagos Roads - Photos by gulfer:
Chinese Bamboo Tree-COPIED and this is apt for the Nigerian Situation cool cool cool cool

I know it sounds a little out there but hear me out on this one. This is such a great parable. I don’t know if you’ve heard this story about the Chinese Bamboo Tree before now but this is one of those lessons that really sticks with you. The Chinese Bamboo Tree teaches us success lessons on patience, faith, perseverance, growth & development and most surprising of all… human potential!

The Story of The Chinese Bamboo Tree
Like any plant, growth of the Chinese Bamboo Tree requires nurturing – water, fertile soil, sunshine. In its first year, we see no visible signs of activity. In the second year, again, no growth above the soil. The third, the fourth, still nothing. Our patience is tested and we begin to wonder if our efforts (caring, water, etc.) will ever be rewarded.

And finally in the fifth year – behold, a miracle! We experience growth. And what growth it is! The Chinese Bamboo Tree grows 80 feet in just six weeks!

But let’s be serious, does the Chinese Bamboo Tree really grow 80 feet in six weeks? Did the Chinese Bamboo Tree lie dormant for four years only to grow exponentially in the fifth? Or, was the little tree growing underground, developing a root system strong enough to support its potential for outward growth in the fifth year and beyond? The answer is, of course, obvious. Had the tree not developed a strong unseen foundation it could not have sustained its life as it grew. The same principle is true for people. People, who patiently toil towards worthwhile dreams and goals, building strong character while overcoming adversity and challenge, grow the strong internal foundation to handle success, while get-rich- quickers and lottery winners usually are unable to sustain unearned sudden wealth.

Had the Chinese Bamboo Tree farmer dug up his little seed every year to see if it was growing, he would have stunted the Chinese Bamboo tree’s growth as surely as a caterpillar is doomed to a life on the ground if it is freed from its struggle inside a cocoon prematurely. The struggle in the cocoon is what gives the future butterfly the wing power to fly, just as tension against muscles as we exercise strengthen our muscles, while muscles left alone will soon atrophy.

The Story of The Human Potential Tree (aka You)
The Chinese Bamboo Tree is a perfect parable to our own experience with personal growth and change (whether we are working on ourselves or coaching others). It is never easy. It’s slow to show any progress. It’s frustrating and unrewarding at times. But it is sooooo worth it….especially if we can be patient and persistent.

This is the critical variable in attaining new skills – in developing ourselves and others. It is our ability to stay persistent even when we are unable to see any growth on the surface…. just like the Chinese Bamboo Tree.

The Challenge We Learn from the Chinese Bamboo Tree
Can we stay focused and continue to believe in what we are doing even when we don’t see immediate results? In a culture driven by instant gratification – this is our biggest challenge.

We often tell each other (and our children), remember to “Keep trying! and NEVER give up!” The change may be slow – even invisible at times – but suddenly, as in the case of the Chinese Bamboo Tree, we will surprise ourselves.

Keep your faith in this important work.

We live in a quick-fix society. We get frustrated if we have to wait more than 2 minutes for service or a stop light to change. We want instant solutions to every complex problem and every fractured relationship. In short – we want it all now! Maybe its time to reflect on an old, old poem by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow that is as true today as it was when he wrote it over 100 years ago:

“The heights by great men reached and kept
Were not attained by sudden flight,
But they, while their companions slept,
Toiled ever upward through the night.”

Final Lesson From The Chinese Bamboo Tree
Yet, all of this requires one thing – faith. The growers of the Chinese Bamboo Tree have faith that if they keep watering and fertilizing the ground, the tree will break through. Well, you must have the same kind of faith in your bamboo tree, whether it is to run a successful business, win a Pulitzer Prize, raise well-adjusted children, or what have you. You must have faith that if you keep making the calls, honing your craft, reading to your children, reaching out to your spouse or asking for donations, that you too will see rapid growth in the future.

This is the hard part for most of us. We get so excited about the idea that’s been planted inside of us that we simply can’t wait for it to blossom. Therefore, within days or weeks of the initial planting, we become discouraged and begin to second guess ourselves, or worse, quit.

Sometimes, in our doubt, we dig up our seed and plant it elsewhere, in hopes that it will quickly rise in more fertile ground. We see this very often in people who change jobs every year or so. We also see it in people who change organizations and even spouses in the pursuit of greener pastures. More often than not, these people are greatly disappointed when their Chinese bamboo tree doesn’t grow any faster in the new location.

Other times, people will water the ground for a time but then, quickly become discouraged. They start to wonder if it’s worth all of the effort. This is particularly true when they see their neighbors having success with other trees. They start to think, “What am I doing trying to grow a Chinese bamboo tree? If I had planted a lemon tree, I’d have a few lemons by now.” These are the people who return to their old jobs and their old ways. They walk away from their dream in exchange for a “sure thing.”

Sadly, what they fail to realize is that pursuing your dream is a sure thing if you just don’t give up. So long as you keep watering and fertilizing your dream, it will come to fruition, just like the Chinese Bamboo Tree. It may take weeks. It may take months. It may even take years, but eventually, the roots will take hold and your Chinese bamboo tree will grow. And when it does, it will grow in remarkable ways.

We’ve seen this happen so many times. Henry Ford had to water his Chinese Bamboo Tree through five business failures before he finally succeeded with the Ford Motor Company. Another great bamboo grower was the legendary jockey Eddie Arcaro. Arcaro lost his first 250 races as a jockey before going on to win 17 Triple Crown races and 554 stakes races for total purse earnings of more than $30 million.

Well, you have a Chinese Bamboo Tree inside of you just waiting to break through. So keep watering and believing and you too will be flying high before you know it.


Make life an adventure!
Nairaland General › Re: Answer This Quiz, win 5000 Naira! Quiz No. 2 by gulfer: 2:15pm On Nov 19, 2018
UzoamakaAmaka:
✓
Am I the winner grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Ladies Now Have A Habit Of Staring At Eligible Bachelors In Church by gulfer: 3:48pm On Nov 18, 2018
They are not looking at you but the fresos on the churchwall........ angry angry
Phones › Re: What Are The Best Fonts Out There? (Share Your Homescreen & Font Name) by gulfer: 8:08am On Nov 18, 2018
Booked

Nairaland General › Re: Answer This Quiz, win 5000 Naira! Quiz No. 2 by gulfer: 7:34pm On Nov 17, 2018
UzoamakaAmaka:
Tell me what LOVE is in 5 lines (Each FOUR words maximum). Best post gets 5000 NGN (9am Monday 19/11/2018) min. 66replies


Example:

LOVE is God
LOVE is being good
LOVE is not wicked
LOVE is a lover
LOVE is faithful


Reply to post.


The winner post must adhere to the theme of love, follow the rules and receive at least two indications of agreeability by observers.

Like I typed above, payment is on Monday at that time. The winner will be asked to provide their payment details.
Love is life's rule
Love is hope
Love is free
Love is fair
Love is ever HUMBLE
Crime › Re: The Woman Who Is Accused Of Fraud At Union Bank In Abuja Is Also A Pastor(photo) by gulfer: 5:37pm On Nov 16, 2018
Only she NOSE shocked shocked shocked shocked
Phones › Re: Let's Show Off Phones Home Screens by gulfer: 8:52am On Nov 16, 2018
Here's mua

Politics › Re: Atiku: Niger-Delta Can Have 100% Of Oil Revenues by gulfer:
Talking from two sides of his mouth grin grin grin grin

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