djon78:



My girl i was planning to marry slept over in my parents house, she was served food, when she finished, she didn't remove plate, in the morning woke up did nothing.

My parents never ever agreed for me to marry her, they said she wasn't raised well.
And I warned her to behave herself, but she said she no send.

You may say that the elders are overbearing, but they are right. We have so many women today who say they no send, but if you look deeper you will see serious character deficiency.

dingbang:
then you have a case then. Such girls you dont bring them again to your father's house.

dingbang:
lol.. Okay did you ask her to help you in the kitchen ?

ddjay:

Slight correction here, in the north to there Christians and Muslims, so it would favour the northern Muslims, 99.9%

greatnaija01:
dude to be able to know U were wrong and OWN up to it, mehn... YOU BE REAL MAN. I salute you.

BUT the issue is complex a little.
QUESTIONS that may make her not want to "try again" with u

1) Have you dealt with your insecurites and issues OR you miss her because she had a better way of COPING with you?

2) In the last two months, HAVE U MATURED psychologically? HAVE U stopped reacting childishly to things?

3) IF SHE GIVES YOU A SECOND CHANCE, what would you do differently that will ensure the FIRST break up does not repeat itself again?

4) Are you dating her with plans for the future or just to "KIP KIP" and see how it goes?

5) In what way would you help her HEAL and MOVE ON from the hurt you have caused her?

BRO, if you can critically answer these questions in YOUR HEART... you will get her back quickly.

SECURITY is very important to ladies in relationship o.

supaflex:
what u see is what u get.. but be prepared to wait... u wil wait and get tired... lets say like 3 weeks to a month of waiting... when dey eventually call u for pickup.. by den u wil even forget u orderd for something.

Souqwaqif:
Thank you all for both destructive and constructive opinions and counsels.Through your advise I have been able to discuss with her dad,and discovered he was already aware,but kept mute till I called him this afternoon and he was very happy that I reported the matter to him,he assured me he will caution her daughter but advised me not to use such demeaning words"disappointed and ashamed of her daughter " due to her poor dressing.Tho I apologized to him(father).But I still insist that I was angry because she has to do the needful or live her life with whomever is making her dress in such manner even after I bought good cloths for her.Although the dad told me he spent some money on her all these while I have been mute and will still remain mute until the needful is done,I immediately refunded the money back to him.I really appreciate all your good counsels and insults from the small minds but only God knows my heart that I won't like my woman to dress like a harlot and if she is not ready to apologize and change to be a good model to our daughter then two captains can not be in a ship.Thanks

seyigiggle:
eleyi le gan nio
this is deep mehn!

I have always advised guys, as much as possible, never train a lady in education, support only with advice!!! you are not her father.

my advice is simple but difficult.
First, let your kids know the situation, they are the only ones you owe explanations now. Children understands than we could imagine
Secondly, never stoop low to engage your ex wife in legal battle. she looks sophisticated than you, that's exactly what she wants
Thirdly, ensure you get if not custody, visitation period
Fourthly, Move on!!!

Even in marriage, expect the unexpected.

iTearHerToto:
You are just a weak and shallow minded fella allowing an ungrateful, misled, unapologetic, useless, Worthless, brainless, discombobulated, unfortunate, blood sucking, spastic, disrespectful DiickMonger to affect your precious life. Why

My chairman, take it easy on him and APC,���






Nonsense and APC

360degreess:
Hope one Nyamiri is not behind this?..Because those flat headed people can be dangerous... 4+4 next level is sure next Saturday by the grajce of God.