You need to be Man enough to tell her certain things.
crying on this platform will not solve the problems.
Tell her boldly if she is not ready to solve issues maturely, she should be out of your Life right away. by the time you start having children and behaving in such a manner, what will you both be teaching your children.

Posh2018:


Best advise so far.
6. Start planning your alternative. Things can get worse if she really is a slay.
7. Don't give more births if there is no evidence of change after 1st child. Easier to manage separation with less children.

Remember advise no 1. cut down on excesses and finances for cosmetics. Do most shopping yourself and keep ur gaze in the future without her (I pray not)
Wishing she changes before things go worse. They usually find themselves and form gangs. But less funding reduces the likelihood.

Thanks

You have a long way to go.
1. Start cutting the payments you give her, in other words start shopping Yourself.
2. Start investing your money in another means, she can't help you to grow rather she can make you poor.
3. You need to stand firm in some decisions if not you can't control her excesses.
4. You need to call your sponsor to advise her, or you need to talk to someone she revere so they can talk sense into her, failing to comply you may take some action she might not like.
5. Pray that God give you the grace to handle this with wisdom.

If you're outside Nigeria dey there ooooo, my brother finish with master self and it's 4 years now he his just patching with one private airline that doesn't pay, just do you licencing first.

Go for the Corolla, the second hand value is second to none, you will enjoy it.

potent5:
Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

Good advice,
in addition sit down with her and have a hardtalk of accepting the baby, tell your parents as well cos you both need to calm down and pray that all go well till the end.

Don't be deceived by the good offering of the new job, the company is yet to understand the intricacies of market forces that wil make them take a decision that will affect you at the long run, stick to the old job while looking for a stable and establish company, am talking base on experience, am yet to recover from the start up I had a good pay and good position till an unforeseen circumstances made us lost the job, am trying to recover from it, be careful.

The same way the scammed us with Buhari 12 million vote from the north, now all those 12 million vote are languishing in the hands of bandits, and Fulani terrorist.

Of recent Malaria free drugs are being given for children less than 6 years, but some wicked Nigerians have decided to start selling the drugs.

I stand with the Nanny, the nanny must be doing something special that you don't even do to your husband, accept reality and see her as your mother in-law, if your husband has accepted her as his mother in-law who are you not to. The nanny has found joy, allow her to enjoy.

Vicdgreat556:



Yes of course.. master of drugs I guess...that can never be disputed...

I'm sure you must be approaching Doc already..

it's only someone who mentally unsound that thinks that everyone is like him, go treat yourself

250k in one of the top notch hospital in Jos

Fahdiga:
I regret attending Madonna University Elele campus. What a glorified secondary school

you made yourself a slave instead of a master, not minding the difficulty we all went through, we are still master over others.

what is the credit load

treatise:
Lalong is sold out.

Under statement, use a better adjectives.

Lalong thinks he can do whatever he likes, after his tenure the best for him is to relocate to Daura, if not......

No 2 option is better off, Onitsha to Aliade is bad, but Enugu to Abakiliki is better off

Pls don't mind the use of English, help assist the victim.

An 8 year girl was rape in my area and the guy is on the run, these is the fourth case the culprit had be reported an nothing is done because the family is covering for the crime, anybody with idea about NGO's that assist rape victims to seek justice, the incident happened in Jos.

I just hope you are mentally sound, these you post these morning is unnecessary.

I have such bitter experience, I had to confront the devil herself.

YoungAncient1:
Supporting Chelsea is a huge consolation for being a Nigerian. If there was ever a doubt who rule Greater London, I think such debate have been settled.

Sure, were are those Arsenal fans.....

Very unfortunate that instablog is making it viral, I hope the person that posted it will not be stuck in something ordinary that he should have a walk over.

I can relate to your pains, am the first as well and am married, I had to pack out of the house to avoid crisis between my wife and my mum, now she is having bad feelings cos my lost job is back am stabilizating and I have kept a distance with her.

Good one Peter Obi, it's better on humanitarian ground than giving it to a priest as a gift who will larvish it.

Freddykrueger:
Governor with balls, just like Wike of Rivers State. I don't know what the other useful idiots called governors who together came up with this resolution are waiting for. September 1st is the day we will differentiate the Governors who are men from their wussy counterparts.

Unlike one Governor in Jos that is busy licking buhari ass and allowing Fulani to ruin havoc in Plateau

More pics

These Fulani terrorist were going to attack some some places but made their Waterloo, why should they pass through a wrong road.

FarinJini:
I don't know how the police works but would it be possible to report such a case as a missing person?

I thought of it. I hope I don't become a cash cow from them.

Emperor2020:
Hunger go wire am,he go com bck

The most annoying thing is that everyone in the family is a graduate, he his the last in the family, he failed his jamb and was caution , he has the opportunity of being sponsored in a private university but has blown the chances now.

Safyqueen:


I m very sorry for you. I can see you know nothing about national discuss. You are either a teenager or ill informed. If you think the problem of this world is Islam, then look for cure immediately because you have chronic islamaphobia

Be sorry for yourself and move on, I can't waste my time talking about national discuss with you, it's either you be a nepotistic person or a religious fanatic.