Failure is the foundation of success, and the means by which it is achieved. By : Lao Tzu
After Mama c left, Joy was left alone to observe the whole sitting room . She confessed to herself that the place was well furnished. Comfy black sofas were are different strategic positions. A were designed glass table was In the center of the room, with bunch of flowers in a flower vase on top of it. A big plasma TV was on the wall, there was a movie showing but no sound was emitting from it .She was still looking around before Mama c came and interrupted her.
Mama c : Joy, so tell me, u won go sleep like this abi you go bath first.
Joy : I won sleep like this.
Mama c : You sure?
Joy : Yes ma.
Mama c : OK, come make I show you where you go sleep, but before that one correction.
Joy : OK ma
Mama c : Abeg, I use God beg you, not use ma address me, I nor like am. U fit call me mama c, na that one dey give me joy.
Joy : OK o.
Mama : Good, ok follow me Mah show you where you go sleep.
Mama c led Joy to one of the furnished rooms in the house, then she left her alone, Joy looked around the room and it was in a very nice shape with a big family size bed in it. She then slept on the comfortable bed, which was pretty relaxing, coupled with tiredness and lack of sleep it didn't take long for her to fall into dream world.
It was around 8:33am when Joy woke up,it took her a little while for her to remember that she was in Mama c house. After arranging her thoughts, she got off the bed and decided to go to the living room When she got to the living room nobody was there, she decided to sit down and wait for mama c,maybe she wasn't up yet. She didn't sit down there for long, when she heard some noise coming from the dinning area, when she turned her head, she saw mama c sitting down I'm front of a large amount of weed poured on the table,she was busy wrapping it up in big quantities into different papers .
Parenting can be difficult but not insurmountable. It is popularly said that “There is a solution to every problem.” And so there are answers to your very questions as to why your teenage son or daughter appears to be rebellious.
You cannot give what you don't have. You must first love yourself before you can love someone else.
Love is beyond sex. Permit me to say that you've not tasted true love yet. You've been infatuated for a long time.
Another thing is this, work on your mind. It is quite dangerous for a lady to see guys as sex tools. I know someone who saw guys as a gender she could pick and drop at her disposal. She is still recovering from it today.
I can confidently tell you that you hate guys. I say so because of the effect it has left on you after the rape incident. The scare is still imprinted in your heart and it has taken a huge toll on you.
My final advice to you is this: Forgive your rapist Forgive and love yourself Appreciate who you are Open your heart to love Try not to engage in sex in your next relationship (because it seems that is where the problem lies) Choose to love and not lust and Be prayerful. Pray to God. Ask Him to give you the spirit of love.
You will be fine.
Missy30: Hello I decided to open a new account because I don't want my identity to be out there.
I am going to be 29 this year and I can say the last time I fell in love or have butterflies in my tummies towards the opposite sex was 10yrs ago. I don't fall in love easily, I would rather spend my time at work or calculate how to make more money, yes, I love sex, I can deceive a guy into a relationship but once we have sex, all that emotional yen yen yen feelings disappear fiaamm, I have tried to go into a relationship with 2 responsible naira landers but I just don't know how to love, my heart is cold, all I want is sex,after sex, I hate the guy like shit. My parents are on my neck to get married, but I don't want to because I might frustrate that innocent guy. Yes, I was raped when I was 10,but I still had relationships with 2 guys and I felt like I was in heaven,I am way over that rape abeg, God pls help me, I just want to know how it feels to be in love again even though Bobo will be break my heart , I don't mind. Or am I suffering from a medical condition
I agree with you....but it goes both ways if you ask me
abioduntin: 1. Laziness 2. Backbitting and gossip 3. Lack of care for the extended family 4. Disorderliness and dirtiness 5. Late preparation of meals 6. Pride etc
Thank you Kingpaul for giving out freely like you've done. I am amazed at how consistent you were. You delivered such a heart touching story with so much ease. God bless you.
Rose ended up with the man of her dreams. Alfa, your kind is rare.
You should listen attentively before you quote someone. If you followed the message, you'll hear him say this virus is 'demonic.'
He was only trying to say that the enemy which is the devil who knows the church is a place of refuge, is out to keep the church closed. In his message, he quoted from the book of John where Jesus told His disciples that they were cleansed by His words. In other words, when they people of God gather to hear the word of God, they are cleansed by the word of God(This is what the devil is against).
The Bishop in his midweek teaching last night encouraged the body of Christ to pray and went further to utter prophetic declarations, quoting from the scripture that the gates of hell shall not prevail against the church.
The word of God says, "In His presence there is fullness of Joy." When we gather together we ten thousands to flight. The word of God also says "Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God." Therefore, anything that would want to stop believers from gathering together is DEMONIC(COVID-19).