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[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155534#msg3155534 date=1227915094]Okay how is that not a sick thing to do?
What fool would treat women as options? What guy would do such nonsense?[/quote]the more options the better. gets to choose which one he feels he will be happiest with.

that should be a crime

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155505#msg3155505 date=1227914808]Lol! Oh okay
Vulnerable to what again?
We are very strong abeg[/quote]what if the guy is storing all the girls in the kolo so that he can compare them

pissin in my pants

women r vulnerabl

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155473#msg3155473 date=1227914281]He doesn't have to tell her everything. He just has to let her know that I do have exes. Apparently, she must have thought he was a virgin and had never had a girlfriend.[/quote]ROFLMAOPIMP

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155459#msg3155459 date=1227914034]OH PLEASE!
That's what I said. . . he should have let her know. She was forced to do it and she found it.
I'm not blaming him for that. . . I am blaming him for the DVDs.[/quote]why must he tell her everything about himself.  she might not be permanent; she could be a rebound.

Then again, show me a girl that doesn't have her complications.

yea yea, women are emotional wrecks. we already know that  

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155451#msg3155451 date=1227913861]i am not overlooking it. i would be more pissed off about that than the letters.
Apparently, she's just very different. But then the fact that she is more pissed by the love letters says she's just a very natural woman.[/quote]more like she's mentally challenged

[quote author=n-guage link=topic=201632.msg3155448#msg3155448 date=1227913841]I thank God I'm not the kind of guy that keeps records, shit, I barely know where my books are. The only records I keep are music records.

@topic, I'm not a female but I think the girl is blowing this waaaay out of proportion, she knew he had other girls before he had her. And seriously, I hate when girls snoop around, smelling your man's boxers is not whoa![/quote]yea
some girls are looking for excuses to cheat

ibkaye:
I agree, it's not like he stuck it up on his wall or something, in fact sha, the guy may have even forgotten it was there, the shoebox may have been old

yup.  if only j-girl understands like you   _{although, we both know the idiot didn't forget.  he was watching sex with her on the computer for crying out loud}

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155420#msg3155420 date=1227913619]Something triggered her finding the pictures carefully hidden. It was the fact that he was watching himself having sex with them.
First - she sees that. . . then she starts wondering if that's it.
Then she finds pictures hidden. If I were the girl, I would think that he's not over them yet. Why have dvds to remind you of how you're having sex with them and then why hide the pictures?

Wavemasta, thank you![/quote]the trigger is the computer incident.  but you said it yourself that women are only hurt by emotional cheating not physical ones, which really is not driving at any point.  the fact that you could overlook the sex aspect of it baffles me.

my dear, there's nothing wrong with keeping secrets while in an experimental relationship. they are not committed.

Missy B:
The important thing is you're getting the gist now!!

only because he didn't respect his current relationship.  not because he kept his shoebox.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155379#msg3155379 date=1227913180]Imagine!
You walk into your girl's house and the pic on her nightstand is her with her ex. Tell me you won't be jealous.
It's a matter of making someone feel comfortable.
Keep the memories and keep them well but let her know the memories are there so she won't feel you're hiding it from her.[/quote]that's not the case.  the pictures were carefully hidden in a shoebox stored in a location that was meant to be private.  the sassy girl was being an intruder

Missy B:
Talking about snooping:::::::::::
There's a stage a relationship attains and what you share becomes
commitment.At this point . . . You practically own each other if not legally.
Some women are not good in being careless with their treasures esp. when it includes
their partner._{I'm in no way saying a nosy girlfriend is best tho.}

ewuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!! no girlfriend owns her boyfriend, wtfreak  he can kick her aas to the curb at any given time.
it's just puppy love by a girl with a low self esteem.


the guy is a big idiot too.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155344#msg3155344 date=1227912796]That's the truth now!
Why are you not supporting the guy now? Tell me it's right for a man to do that abeg. . . make my day.[/quote]what's wrong with reliving memories from the past  

i agree the guy shouldn't have been watching their past soft porn

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=201632.msg3155314#msg3155314 date=1227912458]EXCUSE YOU?

Oh now i am in support of snooping.
Your friend has issues. . . . women are more upset about emotional cheating than physical ones. Therefore, they are more upset when you keep the memories than when you're watching the sex ones.[/quote]kai jgirl don talk another one today o.

o dang. mine has been paining like a mf lately.   last night was awful

Missy B:
Is this coming from you??
What fond memories?? Past is Past and let the present be.
Asking my man to get rid of certain things that makes me uncomfortable
shouldn't be a problem unless what we call a relationship is actually child's play.
Yes . . . . it has nufffin to do with maturity!!
_{Manner of approach matters and I know that!!}

you shouldn't have been snooping around in the first place.

talk about possessive women

lmao this is funny

ibkaye:
Can be very silly, though it goes both ways, both the girl and the boy, some people need to realise that they were not neccessarily the first person he/she has dated

exactly
getting rid of shoe boxes will not stop a habitual cheater from cheating

it is a sick choice
sarah palin agrees

shegirl71:
Yes she/he can get played.

i wonder how many men have played you

ibkaye:
Yeah, insecurity

Or obsession

It's normal, for some girls

especially the part where she threatens to break up with him.  how old is she   like 12? puppy love

naijababe:
Was halfway through my masters when i bought a home kit which was positive. Went to the doc who also confirmed the test. God lawd, i hated the entire nine months, u name it i had it, heartburn, sciatica, spat all over the place, insomnia horrible appetite and my craving was ice cubes (chewed them cubes like it was going out of fashion). I couldn't wait for the baby to pop only baby had other ideas so i was eventually induced 6 days after my EDD. Damn thing hurt like hell, i swore i wasn't doing to take epidural only my eyes cleared kia kia. Even now i still smile when i r'ber asking for epi and my hubby asked me if i was sure only i screamed back at him. Eventually, baby was getting tired and it was too late for a C-sec. So i had forceps delivery. Peeing and pooing were challenges but I had my mum-in-law with me. She was super, absolutely God sent. My daughter is 20 months old now and everytime i look into her angelic eyes i know it's all worth it

aww
it's funny those little creatures look like aliens when they first pop out, then they beautiful up in no time

it happens

smurf? why the hell are you cursing

insecurity

i found out i am a sex-addict

itse

t'ipapa t'ikuku lol