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Baby Jinx:
Ay yi yi! Renny ati Acid sha! E le she ke ma ja ni? Shei emo pe there is a thing line between love and. . . and everlasting, romeo and Julie love. Gbogbo circles ti ehn take us around yi, it's getting dizzingly dizzy ooh.

Eh let yourselves go and things will be a lot easier.

Come on! What do ya say?

Ki lon worry eleyi. You too should take your own advice. Release your inhibitions to me and I'll make sure you feel the rain at your feet. You better recognize.

[quote author=*Morenike link=topic=185781.msg2998990#msg2998990 date=1225079285]Sigh. Get ya man!

Na my mouth you wan clean, ur own nko?[/quote]Disappear to bed.

lol Jesus of Nazareth save my soul. It's okay, I love you too. Maybe one day God's angels will cleanse your foul mouth.

na you know wetin dey jealous you. i pray for that day i'll get to rinse that dirty mouth of yours with one nice ifoti. oloorun oshi. olofofo. and don't try to turn it around . . . i dey mind my own jeje before you opened that smelly mouth of yours twice to seek my attention. but i understand it's because you have missed me. keep living in denial.

why are we talking about the miami least? a team that's not even going to make the playoffs.

emi ni mad man? ori e yi. you are just jealous and bitter. get ur yukmouth to bed joh, useless thing.

you tongue should be sliced. you need home training.

that's probably because you are too flashy with your parents' money.

richo, your brothers are fools.

morenike, you better mind your own.

ol boy shut up jare let us hear word. go and read your slate or something.

Yeah I agree a little with that but it's not applicable to all cases. You know of women being abused right? Do you call that kind of dominance enjoyment? It wasn't too difficult to understand, i just wanted to know the context in which you were using it.

In BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism) it could be termed a form of enjoyment - I won't delve too much into that but I encourage you to read more on sadomasochism.  Maybe there's something masochistic about some women which makes them love pain?  Even to the extent of abuse.

Why does a man need a woman to build his ego? The way your counterparts on NL make it seem like there's really nothing more to women than sex and chores. That's what gets to me on NL.
I like a confident man with just the right amount of confidence. . . not when he makes it seem like there's no way you will exist without him. That's just plain stupid. My friends complain that I feed men with too much ego. . . it's not because I feel inferior to them. I just want them to know that I appreciate their presence in my life. The problem with this, however, is that they become too big-headed and before you know it, they start thinking "I can do much better than j-girl". I find this so hilarious because it's a stupid move on their part but helps me weed out those that are not strong enough to handle compliments from ladies. These are the type that cheat very easily. Men should know that we need them half as much as they need us.

Women who understand that men need their ego boosts will have an easier time dealing with men.  We don't open doors for you just to be nice, no. . . .no, we do it because we don't think you have the nerve to do it yourself.  These sorts of things score us brownie points with our ego.  Y'all are there as necessary supplements; the tools we need to carry out our missions.
Why are you so focused on our ego?  You should be more concerned about respecting your boyfriend, giving him love, ensuring his happiness.  If you do these things his ego will be massaged in the process so you need not worry.
I'm actually not surprised that you are fumbling with the thought that your men will abuse their position of authority, and I think it's because you have not been treating your men the way they should be treated.

I am not calling Nigerian men stupid. I am calling MOST of them misogynists!

It's usually scared women with abrasive personalities who think men are misogynists, but still we thank you for your thoughts.  We would also like you to know that most of you on the other side are overhyped washed-up volkwagens.  It's very rare to come across the likes of you that are Lamborhinis or Porsches.

Ever heard of a woman's fury? Try touching her nerves. . . just remember Eve, Bathsheba, and Delilah.   Unless a man really controls himself, women are his weakness. We build up your egos, we can take y'all down in a split sec.

A woman is his weakness if he allows it.  That usually happens with a man who's in love.  But I remember one strong warrior who chose to part with his weakness by feeding her to the dogs.  That option is always available when needed.  How quickly you forget most of you rubbish(es) on NL are like those disposable garbage bags: like them bags y'all are cheap, and secondly y'all are of no use when you fill up, so we just take you to the dumpster and replace you with another.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=170419.msg2926942#msg2926942 date=1223702098]Nl has good chics . . . yes. Make an effort to find out those who are nice. I'm telling you, it will be easier to find them here where you can easily track down their perceptions. I thought I recommended a couple of them to you. You should look into those. [/quote]You and your playful banters.  NL has good chicks, huh?/ . . . and, she forgot to mention that 90% of these [rare] so-called 'good chicks' on NL are young menopausal feminazis who pride themselves on being male bashing cunts.  A-40, take it from me, chicks on NL are suspect to waywardness and wowority.  Be even more careful of any girl recommended by j-girl.

Eating together is a way of bonding and trust plays a major role.I don't think any polygamous yourba family will feel comfortable eating together but its the norm in a typical hausa home.

I did say nevermind, lol. But since you have decided you want to explain it to me, what's the relationship between the bond and the trust - How does the trust develop from the bond? All you basically said is that trust plays a major role in bonding, which to me is an empty statement until you clarify it.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=170419.msg2915128#msg2915128 date=1223504185]Chei! I'll answer you one by one in different postsFeminism is a CULTURE that tries for sexual egalitarianism. Unfortunately, you guys have chosen to see this as a bad thing. Equality is something that goes as far back as the bible but these days, you guys have turned it to treating women like crap and telling us we're stupid.[/quote]Feminists like rolling the dice that their goal is to promote equality among the sexes, a.k.a "sexual egalitarianism" to be politically correct as you put it. Meanwhile, underneath that caucus the truth is that feminists have one goal in mind, and that goal is to crush men under their stilletos. Why else is it that almost everytime a feminist argues for her right to be treated equal, she quickly blames men for the problem faced by women in society?

blackspade:
Frustrated much? Most of John McCain's strong points revolve around foreign policy. He's 72 years old, he's been there and done that. However, he represents nothing more than the failed foreign policies of the last decade and he hasn't said anything to prove otherwise.

Do you honestly think that (for example) Iran's president Ahmadinejad or Venezuela's Chavez give two bleeps about whether the United States talks to them or not? Of course they don't, they'll carry on doing whatever they do, regardless of whether we sit down and at least try to talk to them or not. At the end of the day, it's our national security (along with our allies) at risk, not theirs.

What Barack Obama lacks in foreign policy experience, he more than makes up for in his intelligence, ability to learn (fast) and ability to listen. I honestly feel that Obama would be far more well received by the international community and would be in a better position to rebuild damaged relationships with our allies, along with possibly reducing the number of enemies we have. On the other hand, John McCain doesn't inspire me with much confidence. He strikes me as someone who would refuse to talk to a foreign leader for the most trivial of matters (i.e. a minor disagreement). During the debates, he barely looked at Barack Obama and even referred to him as "that one".

You are a typical antsy Obama idolizer. Whenever you hear the word 'Obama' your paranoia rises like a tide of waves. . . you jump out of your seat like a ball of balloon about to explode. Frustration has nothing to do with the statement I made and I stand corrected.  It's not like either of the two who assume the throne will instantaneously right the ship, so why should I care deeply enough to be frustrated?  I'm just a bit perturbed by the comments flowing out of the mouths of you and your fellow Obama worshippers, who believe that Obama's every move speaks of presidency: if he brushes his hair, they say he brushes like a president, if he yawns, they say he yawns like a president. 
Now, before you go into an in-depth defensive exlcusive about your reasons for Obama being a more suitable candidate, I think you should know that I didn't discredit his credentials.  All I said was, and I repeat, some people just need to find better reasons for voting for the dude.

In response to the rest of your post, and particularly your critique of McCain: I don't think I need to mention that I don't care much about your opinions of the guy, although I respect your opinions.  Your feelings are different from those of others.  The most glaring phrase in your post has been bolded above.  While you're voting because you feel--something called a hunch-- that Obama can repair the damaged relationship with your allies, others prefer McCain because he has significant experience on foreign policies that they would much rather rely on, than hearsay.

Lastly, I'm not looking to receive an array of kiss emoticons from Toyosi for this entry, but please (you and others) strap yourself tightly to a seat and don't be stripped of your common sense and ability to differentiate 2 from 1 because a black man is running for president. The guy ain't Jesus.

Politics indeed.

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[quote author=j-girl link=topic=170419.msg2910511#msg2910511 date=1223442547]Murder is a natural aura associated with femininity? What is that?[/quote]Was there something too difficult to understand or perceive about what I said?  I should have elaborated. You brought up the issue of "murdering them mercilessly", and I just felt that "murdering them mercilessly" shouldn't be seen as a bad thing.  The women being murdered mercilessly probably derive some sort of enjoyment from being murdered. 
Notice that I use the words "murder" and "dominance" interchangeably.

The picture on my profile has nothing to do with dominance. it's the picture of true romance. I like a man that can take charge WHEN I need him to take charge. Not one that uses me as a stepping stone to build his gigantic ego. I will never bow to a white man or a Nigerian man for that matter. I keep saying it over and over that I love SOME of my Nigerian sweethearts. You don't get the same treatment because you guys come in here bragging about how stupid us girls are. . . it's very annoying actually.
Nigerian men do not understand their women. They need to know how to make their women respect them.
Once again - if a man commands respect through his actions, he will get it.

The picture on your profile has everything to do with dominance.  We both know it, but like everything in nature, women love being in denial - so, I don't expect you to confess that the image on your profile is a representation of a man dominating the woman (who is clearly assuming the inferior position).  If you like to think it's romance so be it.

Moreover, there's nothing wrong with a man who uses you as a stepping stone to build his ego, as long as he's not being abusive to you.  Just think of it as you doing him a favor; it's not like you want to live with a man who lacks manly passion.  If you refuse to give him a chance to let loose of his ego you would be better off getting married to a womann instead. Give unto Caesar what is Caesar's: It's your duty as a woman and a wife to feed your man's ego and natural inclination to dominate, as instituted by the creator.

Meanwhile, doesn't your refusal to yield the throne of superiority to your man also violate your religious ethics?  your religion clearly states that the husband is the head of the household.  All things included, the wife is part of the household and we can conclude from this that he is also the head of the wife.  But I guess religion is not so big a deal to many of you feminists these days, right?

And finally, your accusation about us coming here to brag about Nigerian girls being stupid is actually more than preposterous because you are in here doing the same thing.  Pot calling the charcoal black.

A man is an embodiment of respect.  By their joysticks shall ye identify them.    I think this is the part that hurts you women the most.  You have a hard time accepting that a man gets to have the upper hand simply because of his gender. 
The day he's born to the earth (with that privates dangling between his legs) is the day you begin your murmurs. . . speaking under your breaths at the naming ceremony, saying, "oh great, another baby boy".  Why? Because he automatically instills a fear in the women who cross his path.

I don't mean to sound so condescending and egoistic.

_{please note that my views here do not reflect my personality in person. i am a kind gentle loving man.}

Sisikill:
First of all, How the heck are ya? Where have you been?

I'm good! Reaching for the stars, steadily climbing those lofty ass heights, and purusing my most important goals.


I didn't really care much for an explanation.  I asked the question out of boredom. Thanks anyway. . .
p.s.: Even if the gesture is coming from the offerer, the deed could be a bad one.  Haven't you seen those carefully crafted poison schemes in Naija films where the couples dined together but the wife managed to successfully kill her husband through poisoning his food?  there's only so much for trust i tell ya.  God is our only safety.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=170419.msg2910304#msg2910304 date=1223433639]LOL! I am not the defense secretary but y'all just murder them mercilessly.
They need someone who will not be swayed easily by you guys' disses.
I'm a feminist somewhat and every guy who's ever interacted with me on NL in the past, will know this. However, i am not a femi-NAZI. I still listen to my misogynistic rap music.
Y'all just need to lay off us a bit and I'll repay the favor. LOL![/quote]Maybe we murder them mercilessly because murder is a natural aura associated with femininity. I'm sure you know that women have an undeniable thirst for domination (look at the picture on your profile for one evidence of this). The fact remains, some of you enjoy dissing Naija men but will bow and worship any white man that knocks on your door. Why can't we get the same treatment? It's not like they are any better than Nigerian men are. They might be more tolerant, but they sure as heck don't understand you the way your fellow countrymen do.

You sound like an ass kisser.  I can't believe you can sit on your couch and spit such crap without even consulting your common sense before posting.

How does confidently seating on the couch translate into being a great president?  Are we now serving up the presidency on an ikoko platter, or what?  What next?  Does the way he sits on the shitter in the toilet make him a great president too?


Obama's defense teams are out in full force tonight.  The majority of you Obama lovers on nairaland amuse me.  Most of you didn't even know who Sarah Palin was, but decided to call her a 'bitch' for joining forces with McCain. I'm sure if 70% of you are asked to serve up some convincing rationales for shining Obama's ass, all you can come up with is that "he's black and a great speaker. . . . oh, and he signs autographs with his wife" .


Politics indeed.

sarcasm aside

sisikill, trust?
what's the correlation between trust and eating together?  you could argue that eating together is actually a display of distrust which stems from a suspicion that someone in the group is out to poison the rest.

That's bull . Speaking out on behalf of nl female members, as if they give a 'you know what'. Who crowned you the defense secretary of mrs. nairalands? Btw, I think you're actually seizing this opportunity to let everyone know that you are a feminist to the core. It's usually the feminists who bash men the way you have thus far.

Don't throw tranngirl under the bus because she disagrees with your views.

I also think the caliber of men you date are responsible for leaving you with these negative impressions you have about Nigerian men. Meaning you should consider upgrading your taste.

considering alcohol and cigarette cause more deaths than marijuana, it makes no sense that marijuana isn't legalized.

Considering alcohol and cigarettes are available in much larger quantities than ganja it makes total sense that they would cause more deaths.

Quotasyste, you are a brainless slowpoke. With the current state of affairs in Nigeria, what justice is served, and what progress is brought forth by "tracing" your problems back to Queen&King Elizabeth? Do you somehow hope to discover that some magic-juju hidden under the queen's sheets is the cause of Nigeria's turmoil today?

[quote author=plus_Queen link=topic=178854.msg2898958#msg2898958 date=1223247645]Her story proves that failure is [b]sometimes[/b]a thing of the mind not a product of our circumstances[/quote]And at times, there's only so much the mind can do under horrible circumstances.

These yeye baba arugbos! I guess finger-pointing is the action needed to solve Nigeria's problems.

Double dating kor, quadruple dating ni.  It's not like you girls are worth the damn hassle any-furcking-hoo.