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MsTom:
@H2O2,

Women have phobia for marriages too and the whole concept of it. They have phobia for the way they would be treated by the man, his family and friends. They have phobia about the future of the marriage they are going into. Funny, most women feel much worse than men when it comes to marriage. Your points on divorce and its aftermath can happen to either party. The problem esclate when one party tries to prove subborn. If the man has custody, he does worse than the woman. Havent you heard of men who tell their kids that their mother died whereas she was very much alive but was not allowed to see her kids by the man and his family? All these are the hurts caused by divorce not the system. No one wants to be reasonable during divorce hence the system steps in to create order. I have seen men who have custody of the kids and the woman only visits.

iphy42:
For the married ladies, lets be sincere, we control the home. Our husbands think they are in charge but a woman would always have her way if she's in dire need. She cud use nag ,pet control, stomach filling, bottom power etc to stretch the man to a point where he cant continue to say no

Now if God gives you an upper hand, what do you think wil happen to the man?

maedan:
Hmmn. Desperate for my attention. . . .

MsTom:
If you read my earlier post, you would conclude that I blame the women for the way they are being treated. Dont think that is a biases point of view. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Tell me,  how is the system flawed? A system that gives the custody of the child to one who is found fit to care for the child better- not necesarily the woman. A system that does not allow men to beat up a woman and ironically, vice versa. I have seen a woman locked up for beating her husband. Now, you think that women are not being exploited by men? even in the western world? You get the same kind of education but earn less that the men. You get laid off or contract cancelled cos you get pregnant ( using the employement at will crap). How is that not an exploitation by men. Back to marriage, most women go through hell in the hands of the men and of cos vice versa. but when couples get divorce, and the woman gets the custody, do you want the woman out of the home like they would in africa? Tell her and her kids to leave and fend for themselves (you and i know hundreds of people who grew up like that) while the man start a new life with another woman. Is that the kind of system that is not flawed?   You might say that why should the woman get the custody in most cases. It is cos they are deemed fit. If you are not biased here, you would agree with me that women take care of their kids better than another woman can. I might be wrong in reading from your own perspective but I would like to understand how the system is flawed in that perspective.

bawomolo:
wahala dey o, amare dunking over kevin garnett's fragile knees
for the sake of the eastern conference, the trade can't happen.

JeSoul:
Carry go jor you think you are safe? Kobe's knees, thumb, back will barely last till the playoffs.

Outstrip:
I remember Papa (Late Archbishop Benson Idahosa) said once that the Bible does not say what to do after you turn the other cheek. Basically you have the express right to beat the shege out of that person after you turn your cheek

justwise:
Online meeting is a starting point, you are not going to do everything online, its just a meeting place then you meet in person and see how it goes from there. You don't even know the behaviour of somebody u met in church let alone online.

kehnie:
val day was a memorable day for me.i was at home expecting my guy all day long he didnt show up till evening,by dat time i was already angry ,thought he had taken anoder woman out,anyway he pleaded and explain to me,then took me to d ozone cinema,we got home around 11pm,was relaxing on d coach wen he started kissing me,unknown to me,he had a ring in his mouthand he was kissing me wit the ring,i was sooooooooooooooo shocked,anyway to cut the long story short,dat was hw he propose to me sha.

spiderman:
falled ke?
na wao!!!

did u mean altitude or attitude? u know it could make sence both ways, one could understand why altitude could be an issue in a marriage, imagine the wife being taller. Now thats a marriage where altitude could just be a problem.

MsTom:
That is not true. It supports the innocent. Could be the man or the woman but most importantly, the kids. It only supports their believe that marriage is not by force.

sexybabes:
He did & pitched up @ 10pm, ddnt u read my post?
And now hez trying to make it up since and its still the beginning