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illicit:Thank you ![]() |
TheStoriesOfMan:Calm down Bayem would score. |
If united allow them score, it a complete disgrace. |
Whatvarw you even saying?🥺illicit: |
erico2k2:There is no romance without comfort and there is no comfort without real money. So, you have got none obviously. |
erico2k2:Eric read what I wrote above being romantic is the effort and thoughts ot money. Money is kto everything. |
You are the unromantic one obviously.erico2k2: |
I stated facts and not fictions. adecares: |
Mattswaggz:Who dey read na him serious, who pass exam na him know book. Nigerians with their double standards. |
But there is another funny side of dating in Nigeria that we should talk about: the Nigerian man you meet after collecting your number. 😂 Because sometimes, the problem was never getting the number. The real test begins after he gets it. You will meet the man who says, “I’m a very simple person. I don’t like spending unnecessarily.” Translation: romance must be powered by prayer. 😂 1. THE STINGY MAN He can afford it, but every outing suddenly becomes a financial audit. “Why don't we just sit at home?” “Food is expensive outside.” “Can you cook?” Sir, you invited her out. 😭 2. THE UNROMANTIC MAN You send him a beautiful message in the morning. “Good morning, my love ❤️. I hope you slept well.” His reply: “Morning.” That's all. You start wondering if you are dating a man or customer-care chatbot. 3. THE “I DON'T DO BIRTHDAY” MAN Your birthday comes and he says: “Happy birthday, dear. God bless you.” Meanwhile, he just bought himself a new phone three weeks ago. You ask about your gift and he says: “I'm the gift.” Brother, please. 😭😂 4. THE “COME TO MY HOUSE” MAN Every date invitation somehow leads to his house. Restaurant? No. Cinema? Too expensive. Beach? Too far. “Come over, let's just chill.” At some point, madam will start asking herself whether she is in a relationship or has been employed as a part-time visitor. 5. THE LOW-EFFORT ROMANTIC He wants all the benefits of a relationship but puts zero effort into maintaining it. No flowers. No thoughtful surprises. No planned dates. No random “I saw this and thought of you.” But when you complain, he says: “Women are too demanding these days.” Nobody asked you to buy a helicopter. Sometimes even a ₦2,000 thoughtful gesture can mean more than a ₦200,000 gift given without affection. 6. THE “MY EX DIDN'T ASK FOR THIS” MAN You ask for basic emotional effort and suddenly your request becomes unreasonable. “My ex never complained.” Maybe that's why she's your ex, sir. 😂 7. THE MAN WHO THINKS PROVIDING MONEY IS THE ENTIRE PERSONALITY Yes, financial responsibility matters. But money alone doesn't make someone romantic. A woman can appreciate a man who provides and still want affection, attention, communication, compliments, quality time and intentionality. Being financially responsible is not an excuse to be emotionally unavailable. 8. THE “I'M NOT A ROMANTIC PERSON” MAN Some men proudly announce this as if romance is a genetic condition. Bro, romance is not necessarily about expensive gifts. Learn your woman's love language. Listen to her. Remember important dates. Check on her. Plan something occasionally. Give her a genuine compliment. You don't need to become Shakespeare overnight. At the end of the day, women are not necessarily asking Nigerian men to spend their entire salaries on them. Most women simply want to feel considered, appreciated and intentionally loved. Because just as men should learn that collecting a woman's number doesn't mean she likes them, women also need to understand that a man's financial capacity, personality and approach to romance will differ. But please, Nigerian men... If you have money and you are still stingy, that's a character issue. And if you have little money but you are thoughtful, intentional and romantic, you can still make a woman feel special without bankrupting yourself. No be every romance matter require POS transfer. Sometimes na effort. 😂❤️ |
Thundafireseun:All of them in the picture and those that sent her out ALL have skeleton in their closet. |
But there is another funny side of dating in Nigeria that we should talk about: the Nigerian man you meet after collecting your number. 😂 Because sometimes, the problem was never getting the number. The real test begins after he gets it. You will meet the man who says, “I’m a very simple person. I don’t like spending unnecessarily.” Translation: romance must be powered by prayer. 😂 1. THE STINGY MAN He can afford it, but every outing suddenly becomes a financial audit. “Why don't we just sit at home?” “Food is expensive outside.” “Can you cook?” Sir, you invited her out. 😭 2. THE UNROMANTIC MAN You send him a beautiful message in the morning. “Good morning, my love ❤️. I hope you slept well.” His reply: “Morning.” That's all. You start wondering if you are dating a man or customer-care chatbot. 3. THE “I DON'T DO BIRTHDAY” MAN Your birthday comes and he says: “Happy birthday, dear. God bless you.” Meanwhile, he just bought himself a new phone three weeks ago. You ask about your gift and he says: “I'm the gift.” Brother, please. 😭😂 4. THE “COME TO MY HOUSE” MAN Every date invitation somehow leads to his house. Restaurant? No. Cinema? Too expensive. Beach? Too far. “Come over, let's just chill.” At some point, madam will start asking herself whether she is in a relationship or has been employed as a part-time visitor. 5. THE LOW-EFFORT ROMANTIC He wants all the benefits of a relationship but puts zero effort into maintaining it. No flowers. No thoughtful surprises. No planned dates. No random “I saw this and thought of you.” But when you complain, he says: “Women are too demanding these days.” Nobody asked you to buy a helicopter. Sometimes even a ₦2,000 thoughtful gesture can mean more than a ₦200,000 gift given without affection. 6. THE “MY EX DIDN'T ASK FOR THIS” MAN You ask for basic emotional effort and suddenly your request becomes unreasonable. “My ex never complained.” Maybe that's why she's your ex, sir. 😂 7. THE MAN WHO THINKS PROVIDING MONEY IS THE ENTIRE PERSONALITY Yes, financial responsibility matters. But money alone doesn't make someone romantic. A woman can appreciate a man who provides and still want affection, attention, communication, compliments, quality time and intentionality. Being financially responsible is not an excuse to be emotionally unavailable. 8. THE “I'M NOT A ROMANTIC PERSON” MAN Some men proudly announce this as if romance is a genetic condition. Bro, romance is not necessarily about expensive gifts. Learn your woman's love language. Listen to her. Remember important dates. Check on her. Plan something occasionally. Give her a genuine compliment. You don't need to become Shakespeare overnight. At the end of the day, women are not necessarily asking Nigerian men to spend their entire salaries on them. Most women simply want to feel considered, appreciated and intentionally loved. Because just as men should learn that collecting a woman's number doesn't mean she likes them, women also need to understand that a man's financial capacity, personality and approach to romance will differ. But please, Nigerian men... If you have money and you are still stingy, that's a character issue. And if you have little money but you are thoughtful, intentional and romantic, you can still make a woman feel special without bankrupting yourself. No be every romance matter require POS transfer. Sometimes na effort. 😂❤️ |
nairamaniac:Search for the monicker and the channelinj is on her profile |
FalseProphet1:Indeed you are false prophet |
AI will likely transform recruitment deeply, but I don’t think it will completely replace human recruiters. What we’re seeing now is more of a shift from manual-heavy hiring to AI-assisted hiring. AI is excellent at handling tasks that are repetitive, time-consuming, and data-heavy: Screening thousands of CVs in minutes Identifying keywords, qualifications, and experience patterns Ranking candidates based on job requirements Scheduling interviews automatically Sending follow-up communication to applicants Predicting candidate-job fit based on historical hiring data For companies receiving massive application volumes—like Google, Amazon, or Unilever—AI helps reduce recruitment bottlenecks significantly. But hiring is not purely a data exercise. There are critical areas where humans still matter: 1. Emotional intelligence A recruiter can assess attitude, communication style, confidence, and cultural fit in ways AI may struggle to fully understand. 2. Context matters Someone may have an unconventional career path, employment gap, or non-traditional experience that AI might wrongly reject. 3. Final decision-making Hiring decisions often involve team dynamics, leadership potential, negotiation, and judgment calls that require human insight. 4. Ethics and fairness AI systems can inherit bias from past hiring data. For example, if a company historically favored certain demographics or schools, the algorithm may unintentionally repeat those patterns. A well-known example is Amazon reportedly scrapping an internal AI recruiting tool after concerns that it showed bias against women applicants in technical roles. The future is likely hybrid recruitment: AI handles efficiency → sourcing, screening, scheduling, administrative tasks Humans handle decisions → interviews, relationship-building, negotiations, and final hiring choices Recruiters who adapt by learning how to work with AI tools such as LinkedIn Talent Solutions, Workday, HireVue, or Greenhouse may become even more valuable—not less. My view: AI won’t replace recruiters entirely. It will replace recruiters who refuse to evolve with technology. The strongest hiring systems will combine AI speed with human judgment. And from a job seeker’s perspective, this means candidates may need to optimize their resumes for both AI screening systems and human recruiters. Tauruai: |
Honestly, you raised something many people avoid saying out loud. Your argument about systems, family foundations, access, and environment is very real. In Nigeria especially, pretending everyone starts from the same line would be dishonest. Someone born into wealth in Lagos, with private education, networks, and exposure is clearly not fighting the same battle as someone born in a struggling rural community with poor schools and limited opportunities. That part is true. But I think where many people may push back is that your response can sound too mechanical—as though life is entirely a formula of structure + effort = success. And real life doesn’t always behave that neatly. We’ve seen people from wealthy homes lose everything through terrible decisions. We’ve also seen people from extremely poor backgrounds rise in ways that statistics would never predict. We’ve seen two people with similar qualifications apply for the same role—one gets an unexpected opportunity while the other keeps struggling. We’ve seen hardworking people do everything “right” and still face repeated setbacks that are difficult to explain purely through systems. That’s why many Nigerians lean into spiritual language—not always because they are lazy thinkers, but because life can sometimes feel bigger than what data alone explains. And to be fair, faith has helped many people survive seasons where logic offered no comfort. The problem begins when spirituality becomes an excuse for passivity: "It’s my village people." "God didn’t create me to prosper." "My destiny is suffering." That mindset can become dangerous because it removes agency. But there’s also danger in swinging too far in the opposite direction and dismissing the role faith plays in people’s lives. For many Nigerians, faith is not just explanation—it’s survival. It gives hope when institutions fail, when government systems collapse, and when effort doesn’t immediately produce results. Maybe the healthier balance is this: God may not be sitting in heaven assigning permanent poverty to some people and permanent wealth to others. But life is also not entirely controlled by human effort alone. There are structural realities. There are personal decisions. There is discipline. There is timing. There is community. And for many people, there is faith. All of these can interact. The real tragedy is when someone uses “God’s plan” to avoid responsibility. And the real arrogance is when someone who benefited from privilege acts like they are entirely self-made. Both perspectives miss the full picture. Sometimes people inherited opportunities. Sometimes people created opportunities. Sometimes people wasted opportunities. And sometimes people need both faith and strategy to move forward. That’s probably the more honest conversation. Dpsychologist: |
Are you able to get the details? Rrchrd: |
Love800:I believe it bad work man as they are not skilled enough, which boild down to the the person handling the job. |
highoctane:From lintel to foundation area, omo, I had to sell the property as that would a disaster waiting to happen in the near future. |
Adesarahshina:What's your location? That would determine the price |
Adesarahshina:Get a professional don't make the mistake I made, mine cracked from lintel down to foundation. |
Thank you 💕. |
Check there stats in this last 4 matches. Ezeego1: |
Of course not. There's surrogacy. |
Peace it been ages o! |
Delta state police should learn a thing or two here. |
The waiting, rejection and self doubt it not easy but you can try remote jobs on WhatsApp channel or check mjblinks thread on nairaland. |
Congratulations 🥳 to the Champion Arsenal as Westham is languishing at the bottom of the table and have no hope of coming up. |
Thank you. Passionnn: |
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Rhere’s some truth in the pressure many Nigerian men face especially with inflation, unemployment, family responsibilities, and the cultural expectation that a man must always “provide.” That pressure is very real. But I think this argument becomes unfair when it paints women as if they’re just sitting back doing nothing. A lot of Nigerian women are also carrying invisible burdens that men often overlook: They contribute financially in relationships too sometimes quietly. They cook, nurture, support emotionally, adjust careers for marriage, deal with pregnancy risks, childcare expectations, and in many cases still contribute to bills. Some women are paying their own transport, splitting dates, supporting struggling partners, and even helping men build from scratch but those stories rarely trend because outrage gets more attention. Also, we need to be honest that many men still tie their identity to being providers. Some insist on paying for everything because it makes them feel needed, then later become resentful about the very role they voluntarily embraced. And on the flip side, some women absolutely exploit men financially that conversation should happen too. “Billing culture” is real in some circles. But it’s not representative of all women. The bigger issue is that both genders are often dating with unhealthy scripts: Men are told: your worth is your wallet. Women are told: your beauty and presence are enough. Both ideas are flawed. Healthy relationships require mutual effort, but effort doesn’t always look identical. Sometimes a man may contribute more financially while a woman contributes more emotionally or domestically. In another relationship, both may split things equally. The key is whether both people genuinely feel valued. The real question shouldn’t be: “What am I getting from women?” It should be: “Am I in a relationship where effort, sacrifice, and care flow both ways?” Because there are women being used by emotionally unavailable men. And there are men being used by financially entitled women. Both experiences are valid. The solution is not gender wars — it’s choosing better partners, setting boundaries early, and refusing relationships built on entitlement from either side. |
[quote author=looseweight post=139329146][/quote]ads too much abeg |

Whatvarw you even saying?🥺
