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Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Men You Will Meet When They Ask You Out by Hamachi(op): 8:35pm On Sep 10
illicit:
Happy birthday to you
Thank you cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Sabah FK: UCL (4 - 0) On 10th September 2026 by Hamachi(f): 8:34pm On Sep 10
TheStoriesOfMan:
Update: Como one up.

Bayern still playing 0-0.

Disgusting scenes.
Calm down Bayem would score.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Sabah FK: UCL (4 - 0) On 10th September 2026 by Hamachi(f): 8:15pm On Sep 10
If united allow them score, it a complete disgrace.
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Men You Will Meet When They Ask You Out by Hamachi(op): 8:13pm On Sep 10
undecidedWhatvarw you even saying?🥺
illicit:
Do you do your bdays so that you can get gifts...?

If you get gift fine, if not then u gift yourself

That's all

Don't make it someone's responsibility
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by Hamachi(f): 8:12pm On Sep 10
erico2k2:
ahahaah I laugh in spanish,I am talking directly at you, so you will chose a man who takes you to Eko beach and cinema in GRA Ph than the guy who buys a rtn tkt to Vegas? Oh plzzzz, everyone wants a soft landing even us men. The only woman who does not care about your pocket at a stage in their life is the WIFE simple. At my level right now, if I say ok babes I am buying you a tkt we going away for your birthday then you turn around for me to give you 100K for your passport then your level is low. As you can see, both instances need money and more money. There is no romance without comfort and there is no comfort without real money.
There is no romance without comfort and there is no comfort without real money. So, you have got none obviously.
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by Hamachi(f): 6:39pm On Sep 10
erico2k2:
Stay there be deceiving yourself, Romantic without money equals dead end relationship ,you girls think one way us men think the others, in teh Nigerian context man just need to have money that all is sweet, buying of gifts to your woman and flying her to exotic location if you can afford it is termed Romantic by real women, if not plz tell me what is more romantic than that huh huh huh
Eric read what I wrote above being romantic is the effort and thoughts ot money. Money is kto everything.
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by Hamachi(f): 6:24pm On Sep 10
undecided You are the unromantic one obviously.
erico2k2:
All this nah plenty plenty talk, madam, there is one solution to all this busy body, MONEY, once you hear alert all this do not matter
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by Hamachi(f): 6:15pm On Sep 10
I stated facts and not fictions.
adecares:
Funny you 😂
I like your post though 😂
I hope "they" won't come for you sha 😂
Family › Re: Woman Banished By Ohafia Women For Sleeping With Husband’s Brother In Abia by Hamachi(f): 5:33pm On Sep 10
Mattswaggz:
exactly.....they could be 10x worst compared to her but na who dem catch be thief.
Who dey read na him serious, who pass exam na him know book. Nigerians with their double standards.
Romance › Different Nigerian Men You Will Meet When They Ask You Out by Hamachi(op): 5:32pm On Sep 10
But there is another funny side of dating in Nigeria that we should talk about: the Nigerian man you meet after collecting your number. 😂

Because sometimes, the problem was never getting the number. The real test begins after he gets it.

You will meet the man who says, “I’m a very simple person. I don’t like spending unnecessarily.”

Translation: romance must be powered by prayer. 😂

1. THE STINGY MAN

He can afford it, but every outing suddenly becomes a financial audit.

“Why don't we just sit at home?”

“Food is expensive outside.”

“Can you cook?”

Sir, you invited her out. 😭

2. THE UNROMANTIC MAN

You send him a beautiful message in the morning.

“Good morning, my love ❤️. I hope you slept well.”

His reply:

“Morning.”

That's all.

You start wondering if you are dating a man or customer-care chatbot.

3. THE “I DON'T DO BIRTHDAY” MAN

Your birthday comes and he says:

“Happy birthday, dear. God bless you.”

Meanwhile, he just bought himself a new phone three weeks ago.

You ask about your gift and he says:

“I'm the gift.”

Brother, please. 😭😂

4. THE “COME TO MY HOUSE” MAN

Every date invitation somehow leads to his house.

Restaurant? No.

Cinema? Too expensive.

Beach? Too far.

“Come over, let's just chill.”

At some point, madam will start asking herself whether she is in a relationship or has been employed as a part-time visitor.

5. THE LOW-EFFORT ROMANTIC

He wants all the benefits of a relationship but puts zero effort into maintaining it.

No flowers.

No thoughtful surprises.

No planned dates.

No random “I saw this and thought of you.”

But when you complain, he says:

“Women are too demanding these days.”

Nobody asked you to buy a helicopter. Sometimes even a ₦2,000 thoughtful gesture can mean more than a ₦200,000 gift given without affection.

6. THE “MY EX DIDN'T ASK FOR THIS” MAN

You ask for basic emotional effort and suddenly your request becomes unreasonable.

“My ex never complained.”

Maybe that's why she's your ex, sir. 😂

7. THE MAN WHO THINKS PROVIDING MONEY IS THE ENTIRE PERSONALITY

Yes, financial responsibility matters. But money alone doesn't make someone romantic.

A woman can appreciate a man who provides and still want affection, attention, communication, compliments, quality time and intentionality.

Being financially responsible is not an excuse to be emotionally unavailable.

8. THE “I'M NOT A ROMANTIC PERSON” MAN

Some men proudly announce this as if romance is a genetic condition.

Bro, romance is not necessarily about expensive gifts. Learn your woman's love language. Listen to her. Remember important dates. Check on her. Plan something occasionally. Give her a genuine compliment.

You don't need to become Shakespeare overnight.

At the end of the day, women are not necessarily asking Nigerian men to spend their entire salaries on them.

Most women simply want to feel considered, appreciated and intentionally loved.

Because just as men should learn that collecting a woman's number doesn't mean she likes them, women also need to understand that a man's financial capacity, personality and approach to romance will differ.

But please, Nigerian men...

If you have money and you are still stingy, that's a character issue.

And if you have little money but you are thoughtful, intentional and romantic, you can still make a woman feel special without bankrupting yourself.

No be every romance matter require POS transfer. Sometimes na effort. 😂❤️
Family › Re: Woman Banished By Ohafia Women For Sleeping With Husband’s Brother In Abia by Hamachi(f): 5:30pm On Sep 10
Thundafireseun:
Who has no sin should cast the first stone
All of them in the picture and those that sent her out ALL have skeleton in their closet.
Romance › Re: Different Nigerian Ladies You Will Meet When You Ask For Their Number by Hamachi(f): 5:21pm On Sep 10
But there is another funny side of dating in Nigeria that we should talk about: the Nigerian man you meet after collecting your number. 😂

Because sometimes, the problem was never getting the number. The real test begins after he gets it.

You will meet the man who says, “I’m a very simple person. I don’t like spending unnecessarily.”

Translation: romance must be powered by prayer. 😂

1. THE STINGY MAN

He can afford it, but every outing suddenly becomes a financial audit.

“Why don't we just sit at home?”

“Food is expensive outside.”

“Can you cook?”

Sir, you invited her out. 😭

2. THE UNROMANTIC MAN

You send him a beautiful message in the morning.

“Good morning, my love ❤️. I hope you slept well.”

His reply:

“Morning.”

That's all.

You start wondering if you are dating a man or customer-care chatbot.

3. THE “I DON'T DO BIRTHDAY” MAN

Your birthday comes and he says:

“Happy birthday, dear. God bless you.”

Meanwhile, he just bought himself a new phone three weeks ago.

You ask about your gift and he says:

“I'm the gift.”

Brother, please. 😭😂

4. THE “COME TO MY HOUSE” MAN

Every date invitation somehow leads to his house.

Restaurant? No.

Cinema? Too expensive.

Beach? Too far.

“Come over, let's just chill.”

At some point, madam will start asking herself whether she is in a relationship or has been employed as a part-time visitor.

5. THE LOW-EFFORT ROMANTIC

He wants all the benefits of a relationship but puts zero effort into maintaining it.

No flowers.

No thoughtful surprises.

No planned dates.

No random “I saw this and thought of you.”

But when you complain, he says:

“Women are too demanding these days.”

Nobody asked you to buy a helicopter. Sometimes even a ₦2,000 thoughtful gesture can mean more than a ₦200,000 gift given without affection.

6. THE “MY EX DIDN'T ASK FOR THIS” MAN

You ask for basic emotional effort and suddenly your request becomes unreasonable.

“My ex never complained.”

Maybe that's why she's your ex, sir. 😂

7. THE MAN WHO THINKS PROVIDING MONEY IS THE ENTIRE PERSONALITY

Yes, financial responsibility matters. But money alone doesn't make someone romantic.

A woman can appreciate a man who provides and still want affection, attention, communication, compliments, quality time and intentionality.

Being financially responsible is not an excuse to be emotionally unavailable.

8. THE “I'M NOT A ROMANTIC PERSON” MAN

Some men proudly announce this as if romance is a genetic condition.

Bro, romance is not necessarily about expensive gifts. Learn your woman's love language. Listen to her. Remember important dates. Check on her. Plan something occasionally. Give her a genuine compliment.

You don't need to become Shakespeare overnight.

At the end of the day, women are not necessarily asking Nigerian men to spend their entire salaries on them.

Most women simply want to feel considered, appreciated and intentionally loved.

Because just as men should learn that collecting a woman's number doesn't mean she likes them, women also need to understand that a man's financial capacity, personality and approach to romance will differ.

But please, Nigerian men...

If you have money and you are still stingy, that's a character issue.

And if you have little money but you are thoughtful, intentional and romantic, you can still make a woman feel special without bankrupting yourself.

No be every romance matter require POS transfer. Sometimes na effort. 😂❤️
Career › Re: Is Remote Job Hunting Becoming Too Exhausting? by Hamachi(f): 10:28pm On Sep 08
nairamaniac:
what's the name of the Whatsapp channel?
Search for the monicker and the channelinj is on her profile
Celebrities › Re: Miss Nollywood International Queen Hassana Ozohu Salisu Celebrates Her Manager, by Hamachi(f): 8:40am On May 12
FalseProphet1:
Her manager is sleeping with her, I see her having a child with him.

This I have seen.
Indeed you are false prophet
Career › Re: AI The Future Of Recruitment? by Hamachi(f): 8:39am On May 12
AI will likely transform recruitment deeply, but I don’t think it will completely replace human recruiters.

What we’re seeing now is more of a shift from manual-heavy hiring to AI-assisted hiring.

AI is excellent at handling tasks that are repetitive, time-consuming, and data-heavy:

Screening thousands of CVs in minutes

Identifying keywords, qualifications, and experience patterns

Ranking candidates based on job requirements

Scheduling interviews automatically

Sending follow-up communication to applicants

Predicting candidate-job fit based on historical hiring data


For companies receiving massive application volumes—like Google, Amazon, or Unilever—AI helps reduce recruitment bottlenecks significantly.

But hiring is not purely a data exercise.

There are critical areas where humans still matter:

1. Emotional intelligence
A recruiter can assess attitude, communication style, confidence, and cultural fit in ways AI may struggle to fully understand.

2. Context matters
Someone may have an unconventional career path, employment gap, or non-traditional experience that AI might wrongly reject.

3. Final decision-making
Hiring decisions often involve team dynamics, leadership potential, negotiation, and judgment calls that require human insight.

4. Ethics and fairness
AI systems can inherit bias from past hiring data. For example, if a company historically favored certain demographics or schools, the algorithm may unintentionally repeat those patterns.

A well-known example is Amazon reportedly scrapping an internal AI recruiting tool after concerns that it showed bias against women applicants in technical roles.

The future is likely hybrid recruitment:

AI handles efficiency → sourcing, screening, scheduling, administrative tasks
Humans handle decisions → interviews, relationship-building, negotiations, and final hiring choices

Recruiters who adapt by learning how to work with AI tools such as LinkedIn Talent Solutions, Workday, HireVue, or Greenhouse may become even more valuable—not less.

My view: AI won’t replace recruiters entirely. It will replace recruiters who refuse to evolve with technology. The strongest hiring systems will combine AI speed with human judgment.

And from a job seeker’s perspective, this means candidates may need to optimize their resumes for both AI screening systems and human recruiters.
Tauruai:
Lately, many companies are starting to use Artificial Intelligence in their hiring process. Instead of manually going through hundreds of resumes, AI systems are now helping to filter and shortlist candidates faster.

Some people say this is making hiring more efficient, while others feel it reduces the human touch in recruitment.

🤖 How AI is being used in recruitment
Resume screening and filtering
Matching candidates with job roles
Automating interview scheduling
Analyzing skills and experience patterns
Helping recruiters save time on repetitive tasks
⚖️ Pros
Faster hiring process
Less manual workload for HR teams
Better handling of large applicant volumes
More structured screening process
⚠️ Concerns
Risk of missing good candidates due to strict filtering
Less human judgment in early stages
Dependence on algorithms
Fairness and bias in AI systems
💭 Open Question

Do you think AI will completely replace manual recruitment in the future, or will it always need human involvement to make final decisions?
Christianity Etc › Re: Did God Create Some People To Never Lack? by Hamachi(f): 5:30pm On May 11
Honestly, you raised something many people avoid saying out loud.

Your argument about systems, family foundations, access, and environment is very real. In Nigeria especially, pretending everyone starts from the same line would be dishonest. Someone born into wealth in Lagos, with private education, networks, and exposure is clearly not fighting the same battle as someone born in a struggling rural community with poor schools and limited opportunities.

That part is true.

But I think where many people may push back is that your response can sound too mechanical—as though life is entirely a formula of structure + effort = success.

And real life doesn’t always behave that neatly.

We’ve seen people from wealthy homes lose everything through terrible decisions.

We’ve also seen people from extremely poor backgrounds rise in ways that statistics would never predict.

We’ve seen two people with similar qualifications apply for the same role—one gets an unexpected opportunity while the other keeps struggling.

We’ve seen hardworking people do everything “right” and still face repeated setbacks that are difficult to explain purely through systems.

That’s why many Nigerians lean into spiritual language—not always because they are lazy thinkers, but because life can sometimes feel bigger than what data alone explains.

And to be fair, faith has helped many people survive seasons where logic offered no comfort.

The problem begins when spirituality becomes an excuse for passivity:

"It’s my village people."
"God didn’t create me to prosper."
"My destiny is suffering."

That mindset can become dangerous because it removes agency.

But there’s also danger in swinging too far in the opposite direction and dismissing the role faith plays in people’s lives.

For many Nigerians, faith is not just explanation—it’s survival. It gives hope when institutions fail, when government systems collapse, and when effort doesn’t immediately produce results.

Maybe the healthier balance is this:

God may not be sitting in heaven assigning permanent poverty to some people and permanent wealth to others.

But life is also not entirely controlled by human effort alone.

There are structural realities.
There are personal decisions.
There is discipline.
There is timing.
There is community.
And for many people, there is faith.

All of these can interact.

The real tragedy is when someone uses “God’s plan” to avoid responsibility.

And the real arrogance is when someone who benefited from privilege acts like they are entirely self-made.

Both perspectives miss the full picture.

Sometimes people inherited opportunities.

Sometimes people created opportunities.

Sometimes people wasted opportunities.

And sometimes people need both faith and strategy to move forward.

That’s probably the more honest conversation.
Dpsychologist:
I’ve been thinking about something that gets said a lot, especially in conversations around money, struggle, and success in Nigeria.

You often hear people say:

“God created some people to never lack.”

It sounds comforting, especially when life is hard. It gives a simple explanation for why things are unequal. But the more you look at real life closely, the more that explanation starts to fall apart.

Because when you look around in places like Nigeria, the differences we see between people are very clear. Some people are born into stability, good education, and access. Others are born into environments where just surviving is already a struggle.

Now the question is, did God deliberately assign all of that at birth?

Or is something else going on?

If we are being honest, a big part of what shapes people’s outcomes is not just divine assignment, but also foundation.

Some people are simply starting from a place where someone before them already laid something down. Maybe it’s land. Maybe it’s education. Maybe it’s a business. Maybe it’s just connections built over time and that advantage did not appear randomly. It was built by effort, decisions, and sometimes sacrifice from earlier generations.

On the other hand, there are people who are also working hard, but they are starting from weaker foundations. Fewer opportunities, less structure, challenging environment and sometimes systems that are already stacked against them. So even if the effort is there, the outcome is slower or harder to see.

In moments like that, people often shift to spiritual explanations. Things like curses, attacks, my village people or “it’s just my destiny.”
This happens especially when someone is trying repeatedly and still not seeing results, it becomes easier to believe there is something beyond the physical blocking them.

But here is where I think we need to be careful.

If we believe in a loving God and that he is faithful and just, then the idea that He deliberately created some people to permanently suffer while others automatically succeed becomes difficult to reconcile. It raises questions that don’t have easy answers.

What makes more sense when we look at reality is that outcomes are shaped more by systems, environment, access, and decisions over time, rather than fixed divine favoritism.

In Nigeria specifically, this is even more obvious because opportunity is not evenly distributed. Where you are born, who you know, and what you are exposed to often has a huge impact on where you end up.

This does not mean prayer or faith is not important and it also does not mean effort does not matter. It just means we should be careful about replacing real-world causes with simple spiritual explanations that stop us from thinking deeper and working towards success.

Because once someone believes “this is just how God made it,” they stop asking questions, stop building, and stop looking for solutions.

But when you start to see that a lot of what we call destiny is actually shaped by structure and choices, your mindset changes. You start focusing more on what can be built, improved, or changed.

At the end of the day, what we are seeing is not random assignment. It is layered outcomes built over time and understanding that changes how you see life, responsibility, and even opportunity.

Happy Sunday Nairalanders. May be love of God be with you all.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Hotel Manager Needed by Hamachi(f): 5:23pm On May 11
Are you able to get the details?
Rrchrd:
Pls Where in Port harcourt ?
Properties › Re: Bricklayers Labor Charge For Lintel. by Hamachi(f): 5:13pm On May 11
Love800:
What led to the crack if i may ask?
I believe it bad work man as they are not skilled enough, which boild down to the the person handling the job.
Properties › Re: Bricklayers Labor Charge For Lintel. by Hamachi(f): 10:52am On May 11
highoctane:
It can happen to any building, as a result of not allowing the lintel concrete casting to cure at least 14 days maximum of 21 days.
From lintel to foundation area, omo, I had to sell the property as that would a disaster waiting to happen in the near future.
Properties › Re: Bricklayers Labor Charge For Lintel. by Hamachi(f): 9:56am On May 11
Adesarahshina:
An idea is what i just need, mayb a range of the current cost or so from someone that just recently did his own.. I'm in Lagos so i feel someone here should be able to help me.
What's your location? That would determine the price
Properties › Re: Bricklayers Labor Charge For Lintel. by Hamachi(f): 9:55am On May 11
Adesarahshina:
Hello all, please I'd like to be enlightened on the current charges of bricklayers for casting lintel.

The said building is 2 bedroom. I'm trying to have an idea of the current cost to guide me in negotiating with my bricklayer.

Thank you.
Get a professional don't make the mistake I made, mine cracked from lintel down to foundation.
Romance › Re: Ladies And The “pull Her Down” (phd) Syndrome by Hamachi(f): 4:13pm On May 10
Thank you 💕.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (0 - 1) On 10th May 2026 by Hamachi(f): 3:42pm On May 10
Check there stats in this last 4 matches.
Ezeego1:
lolz...who told you they have no hope of coming up?

they really nees three points today to survive relegation so beware
Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Get Married? by Hamachi(f): 3:42pm On May 10
Of course not. There's surrogacy.
Family › Re: 10 Critical Lessons From "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" by Hamachi(f): 3:41pm On May 10
Peace it been ages o!
Crime › Re: Ogun Police Arrest Two Suspects Over Illegal Firearm Possession by Hamachi(f): 3:38pm On May 10
Delta state police should learn a thing or two here.
Career › Re: Is Remote Job Hunting Becoming Too Exhausting? by Hamachi(f): 3:37pm On May 10
The waiting, rejection and self doubt it not easy but you can try remote jobs on WhatsApp channel or check mjblinks thread on nairaland.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (0 - 1) On 10th May 2026 by Hamachi(f): 3:32pm On May 10
Congratulations 🥳 to the Champion Arsenal as Westham is languishing at the bottom of the table and have no hope of coming up.
Romance › Re: Have Nigerian Men Lowered The Bar Too Much? by Hamachi(f): 6:08pm On May 08
Thank you.
Passionnn:
Very brilliant and Objective contribution.
Thank you.
Romance › Re: Have Nigerian Men Lowered The Bar Too Much? by Hamachi(f): 6:07pm On May 08
wink
correctguy101:
Nice one Hamachi
Romance › Re: Have Nigerian Men Lowered The Bar Too Much? by Hamachi(f): 8:25am On May 08
Rhere’s some truth in the pressure many Nigerian men face especially with inflation, unemployment, family responsibilities, and the cultural expectation that a man must always “provide.” That pressure is very real.

But I think this argument becomes unfair when it paints women as if they’re just sitting back doing nothing.

A lot of Nigerian women are also carrying invisible burdens that men often overlook:

They contribute financially in relationships too sometimes quietly. They cook, nurture, support emotionally, adjust careers for marriage, deal with pregnancy risks, childcare expectations, and in many cases still contribute to bills.

Some women are paying their own transport, splitting dates, supporting struggling partners, and even helping men build from scratch but those stories rarely trend because outrage gets more attention.

Also, we need to be honest that many men still tie their identity to being providers. Some insist on paying for everything because it makes them feel needed, then later become resentful about the very role they voluntarily embraced.

And on the flip side, some women absolutely exploit men financially that conversation should happen too. “Billing culture” is real in some circles. But it’s not representative of all women.

The bigger issue is that both genders are often dating with unhealthy scripts:

Men are told: your worth is your wallet.
Women are told: your beauty and presence are enough.

Both ideas are flawed.

Healthy relationships require mutual effort, but effort doesn’t always look identical.

Sometimes a man may contribute more financially while a woman contributes more emotionally or domestically. In another relationship, both may split things equally. The key is whether both people genuinely feel valued.

The real question shouldn’t be:

“What am I getting from women?”

It should be:

“Am I in a relationship where effort, sacrifice, and care flow both ways?”

Because there are women being used by emotionally unavailable men.
And there are men being used by financially entitled women.

Both experiences are valid.

The solution is not gender wars — it’s choosing better partners, setting boundaries early, and refusing relationships built on entitlement from either side.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bayern Munich Vs PSG: UCL ( - 1) On 6th May 2026 by Hamachi(f): 10:06am On May 07
[quote author=looseweight post=139329146][/quote]ads too much abeg

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