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olioxx:
You call it fake life, I laugh, there is a very huge difference between fake life and dressing well.
I just don’t know how to explain it, but you see as a man the way you dress tells a lot.
Imagine a young guy wearing a well ironed natural color senator and someone wearing a faded polo and jeans, both have the same IQ and both are going to meet a client or attending an interview or both are working a corporate job. Who will be rated more?

One lesson I learned some three years ago is, in the business world have allies and ensure that key people like you, one way to boost that likeability is your appearance.

I don’t know about your current stage in life, but please dress well. It is a spice that will make things work faster and better for you.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
The truth is that to enjoy remote job, one needs a very good laptop.

Good long lasting laptop battery
SSD instead HDD drives for the laptop
Laptop should have dedicated NVIDIA Graphics card.

RAM must be above 8gb. Anything less not acceptable.

Plus others like webcam, headphones e.t.c

EmperorIsaac:
It's chatgpt inspired...they have to deliver!

Zonefree:
Na every year una dey learn lesson

Samantha125:
I never did cohabited with my husband before getting married, I'd just visit and come back home.

I wasn't going to perform any full time wifely duties when I wasn't married and my family is against it.

DonMarkuzi:
I have done my findings and can categorically tell you that except from the leaders of the both houses, congressmen and Senators do not have 24 hours security attached to their office. They practice "Threat Assessment-Based Protection" once in a while.

Racheal45:
Yes I do
Which experience needed
Am good at operating laptop
I use a apple laptop
Can we talk via mail ?

DonMarkuzi:
Everybody should feel the heat. After all lawmakers in America don't go about with state security.

Racheal45:
Can you link me up to any remote job
I actually need 1

25 Lessons I Learnt in 2025

1. When you confirm that someone truly loves you, protect their heart.
Don’t betray genuine love. If the relationship can’t work, end it early—not with deception.
Some lovers are not weak; betrayal can awaken a part of them you can’t control.

2. Don’t depend on promises.
Treat promises as talk until they are delivered. Never pause your own journey waiting for someone else’s “bright future.”

3. Have a clear map for your life.
What do you want? Once you answer that, the paths ahead become obvious and distractions lose power.

4. Stop caring about public opinion.
People will mock and misunderstand you. Ignore the noise and stay faithful to your plan.

5. Seek truth relentlessly.
A heart committed to truth gains wisdom naturally. You won’t need constant external guidance.

6. Appreciate beauty.
Ugliness—whether in mindset, environment, or company—breeds negativity.
Surround yourself with beauty: nature, art, people, architecture.

7. Practice kindness.
It costs nothing, yet pays in ways you can’t measure.

8. Justice matters.
“Eye for an eye” isn’t about revenge—it’s about accountability. Forgiveness is noble, but it should come after consequences, not instead of them.

9. See the light in people.
Most people have value if you look closely.
But don’t waste your energy on the unrepentant fool.

10. Become valuable.
Value attracts opportunities and allies. It gives you leverage anywhere you go.

11. Never beg.
Not for food, not for money.
Begging chips away at dignity and kills creativity. Work—no matter how hard or dirty—strengthens you in ways begging never will.

12. Always stay optimistic.
Optimism is fuel. Pessimism slowly poisons your spirit and blinds you to opportunities.

13. Don’t isolate yourself.
Community is strength. Solutions, encouragement, and opportunities often come through people.

14. Give more than you receive.
Givers control the game. Just as lenders are above borrowers, givers stand above receivers.

15. Dress well and smell good.
Luxury is not cost—it’s presentation. You can look like quality without spending like royalty.

16. Life is long, but speed matters.
Resources are limited; early movers win.
Think like a strategist, act with urgency.

17. Avoid procrastination.
If it must be done, do it now. Tomorrow has destroyed more dreams than failure ever did.

18. Think in years, not days.
Long-term thinking helps you avoid short-term foolishness.
Ask: If I keep doing this for five years, who will I become?

19. Hope is not a strategy.
Work is.
Miracles are rare;
Consistent action is predictable.

20. Value people who value you.
Don’t invest in those who treat you like an option. Even money isn’t worth losing your dignity for.

21. Don’t just learn skills—learn leverageable skills.
Choose skills that create momentum, not skills that trap you.

22. Humans are manipulative—yourself included.
Understand the game.
Play it with integrity, but don’t be naïve.

23. Many secretly want you to fail.
Your failure validates their fears and insecurities. Use that silent pressure as fuel to succeed.

24. Don’t fear failure.
Failure is a teacher, not a grave.
Allow yourself to fall, learn, rise, and evolve.

25. Take care of your health and let your food be your medicine because if not, drugs/medicine would become your food

Drifter02:
Although I'm afraid I might die alone, nonetheless I still have to admit being single without any extra responsibilities- no kids, no wife - is one of the best things to keep happening to me.

I was talking to one babe just this evening.. telling her to come, I'll cook her indomie and buy her something soft and babe was smiling coyly and bro.. I was seeing the future and I didn't like it

The future of me getting the girl pregnant filled me with apprehension. Imagine, if the girl's pregnant and I had a kid on the way, I won't have no time for myself anymore, my soft life will no longer be soft, I'll always have to be worried about money, about not losing my job.. my happy life will now be sad and constantly apprehensive and all the ills that comes with having a girl pest on your life..

Omo.. married men, I'd like to say "I feel for you" but na lie.. because asides from enjoying constant puzi you knew what you were getting your asses into.. and I'm so glad I'm not you.. and in any case not all of you have money issues

Tohsynetita1:
Do you have any remote teaching job at hand?

essentialone:
From their name you would think their soul will be white. But it's opposite.

lavylilly:
Junior Account Officer Needed Urgently

We are seeking a Junior Account Officer to join our team immediately.

Requirements:

AAT qualification is mandatory
Experience working in a manufacturing organization is an added advantage
Must reside within the Egbeda area

How to Apply:
Qualified candidates should send their CV to Olumide at +234 702 539 9330.

karmaolu1:
Oboy. The girl come get certificate for virgin.

I must marry her, ‼️

Emmabyte:
Can we find one here

Tohsynetita1:
10 plot is more than 1 acre, it’s around an acre and half. But I am not talking about that, I am talking about acres , don’t you understand English? I said acres not acre . At least like 10 acres

Tohsynetita1:
Still small, from where I am, I don’t farm plot , I farm acres or hectares.
Then, with the distance to that place. It doesn’t worth it. I am in southwest, Oyo state.

Tohsynetita1:
Plots?
Too small to collaborate

Luckybelt:
How many businesses can give you 100% profit in 1 year

HiideaConsole:
Nice

I'm interested in learning productive things like that

So that as I stabilize my income, I can maximize the potentials through investments

Luckybelt:
How many businesses can give you 100% profit in 1 year