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Reminderz:
stories not new, next!
it will continue happening over and over again..

and btw, this just proves further that the redpill does not lie... reading through some of the stories, it validates some redpill sayings below:

1) never ignore red flags..
2) you can't negotiate genuine desire, you can't buy a woman's love.
3) women are moved by emotions and how they feel at the moment.
4) hypergamy doesn't care how long you've been together.. she will leave you when she has weighed her options...
5) do not be naive when it comes to the nature of women and what women are capable of before considering having a relationship with them...
6) never rely or trust any woman...
7) do what you want to do as a man, women will always whine..
8 ) trying to impress her might work for a short while, but will haunt you in the long run..
9) women know what they are doing...
10) always make sure the woman you're in a relationship with have something to lose...
11) women don't love men, she's only in the relationship for her selfish interests... she will be gone the moment the benefits cease...
12) women will cheat multiple times and pretend they've never flirt or seen another guy's dick but flare up violently the moment they catch you cheating...
13) women are natural actresses... always verify...
14) a woman's past matters, judge her by her past.. scrutinize her thoroughly!
15) save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

Speaking of red flag... Baaba my geh be cheating repeatedly and coming back begging and shedding tear, calls everyone to beg me for forgiveness.

But at the end of the day goes back to do the same thing. Most of all, even if you catch her red handed she will flare up in defense and deny the whole thing.

I finally found a way to dispose her. Did a hookup prank on her. I was surprised she didn't even flinch when the caller mentioned money for hookup, she immediately accepted and was preparing to show up.

Just imagine guys, this was the girl I thought I would finally get married to. Thank God for the 2 years of dating that made me know her true color.

Wetn come they pain me pass be say she's good with other aspects of things, but when it comes to men matter, I no fit trust her.

I had to serve her better breakfast before it's too late.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Nice one... You get sense, more wisdom to you

geedot:
When I found out Portable got more followers than Buju on IG, made me understand majority of Nigerian youths are not that wise, as I initially thought.

Bros calm down... Shey u no know say them they buy followers ??

Gossipninja:
Before Peter Obi decided to run for president, he was seen by all as the leader that will fix Nigeria if elected President.

Before Datti accepted to be Obi's VP, he was seen as an incorruptible politician.

What changed my people?

Don't allow any influencer to deceive you. They know that #ObiDatti023 will solve Nigeria's economic and equity problems but selfish interests won't allow them to support the ticket.

They will?? Please tell us how exactly

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

If at all you are going to forgive for the sake of marriage... You have to make her regret her actions for a while before opening your arms back.

Otherwise, she will take you for granted now and always.

sukkot:
and in your shortsight you dont understand that even people in canada esecially with your status as a refugee never have money. taxation is high and even thos earning 100k per annum cant save. people have lived and worked in canada for 20 years and cant show you 20 thousand dollars cash. so whats the point ? a wise man would collect the 40k. buy a house 25 million naira. put 10 million into business and use 5 million to travel and enjoy the world but he still has a home to return to. you will be in america with your status for 20 years you will still be renting and struggling and depressed. you have to use your head bro. money no dey abroad. its work and pay bills. i mean if thats the life you want. but me am taking the 40k. then i can buy my freedom which is a house. ow i can go and visit canada in leisure

Sounds like you are speaking from experience... And I totally agree. All these niggaz have been brainwashed so much that nothing you can tell them will sink in...

The Japa mentality don enter a lot of people's head. Even those wey go through study visa self no get joy last last.

To leave home country you must be calculative otherwise, you will regret it.

thegroomspa:
Thanks friends for your input....

I have made up my mind to quit, it's hard for me but I have to move on...

Looking for best subtle way to tell her...

It really hurts you may not understand...

I can understand how you feel broo... Something thou even a year is not enough to know a true color of some ladies ... However if you find out that your woman is playing foul around your friend it's an early signal you can't ignore... Bro take off ASAP

Lit... Just yesterday I went searching for Ebenezer Obey ( The man, the horse and his son)

And today I was listening to Sunny Ade while dancing in the kitchen.

atinga1:
I won't be surprised if its a Nigerian Bank that owns this.

No naa young guy like you

Ehismarkninetee:
Before you start to judge me, remember that the girl you are sleeping with now is also someone’s Ex. Well I cannot say I am totally in the right for sleeping with my friends Ex girl friend- They broke up 2 years ago.

So coincidentally she rented an apartment close to my house. As I was driving I saw her on the way I offered her a ride and that was how it started. That same evening she called me that she is coming to know my house and I accepted. When she came I noticed she was giving me the green light. I took the opportunity and slept with her so good.

Now she cannot get enough from me. She asked if we could date officially. I told her it will be difficult since she was the one who broke up with my friend. I will not lie to myself I have developed feelings for here. And I think I will give Love a chance.

You did really bad in getting down with your friends ex. It doesn't make any sense. There's no honor in such act.

Can you boldly tell your friend such thing happened?

Put your self in your friends shoe, how would you feel?

If such has even happened, ain't you ashamed of yourself, not to even think of you imagining loving such kind girl.

What fucking love?? She f**k ur guy, and she they f**k you RN, you they reason love??

You probably never see p***y before, naa why u no they think straight.

Oga free that geh .... Enough of the rubbish uv done already.

PresidObi:
And this is a PDP state

Atiku will be so shocked by what he will see in 2023.

Atiku can only win North east.

Tinubu can only win South west

Peter Obi will confidently win South south, south east, North central, then grab 40% from South west, 25% from North west and 20% from North east.

Peter Obi and Yusuf Datti Baba Ahmed of LP has won the election.

You no like winners chapel

: ok Big man Big problem

AderonkeOlaniyi:
We Yoruba youths stand on the mandate of Peter Obi, whether in the rain or in the sun!!!

You and who

Gwan2:
Trust me, the choice of Tinubu candidate for VP is the ice breaker for me and a lot of people, regardless whether he hide the candidate till the eve of election…I will switch to the next alternative candidate if the VP doesn’t meet my criteria. That’s even when I decide to go with APC

FOR NOW, I have not still decided who to peg my vote to…still researching and fact finding.

Senior man, pitch your tent with APC the winning team. No time sitting on the fence.

Alusiizizi:
A question that I've considered many times and to be truthful eating out is a little cheaper per meal than cooking at home.

Home cooking(one meal indomie):
********************************
Power-oil; #120
indomie(3 packs): #240
Kerosene/Gas: #50 per meal or thereabout.
Pepper: #50
Maggi: #30
Eggs: #200(2 eggs)
************************* Total: #690

Eating out(one meal indomie at typical food is ready):
*********************************************
indomie(3 packs): #100
Eggs: #200(2 eggs)
************************* Total: #500

Incorrect bro... The best way cooking at home will pay up is buying your food stuffs in bulk. Not in pieces. E.g indomie 1 cartoon for a month.

FlyingKing:
I'm having problem with my Google ads even Facebook is just keep suspending my ads account. Can anyone help. Please help an upcoming digital marketing novice. Thanks

Chat me up on WhatsApp

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

Run for your life then

I wore native with cap to my last interview on a typical Monday, although the working environment is kinda political in nature... It didn't matter in the end xus I came out best among other candidates who were on suit.

Unfortunately these people came up with a shitty salary negotiation at the end.

Had to reject their offer.

23 hrs daily, here in Lugbe - Abuja, except when there is rain fall.

23 hrs daily, here in Lugbe - Abuja, except where there is rain fall.

You are welcome...

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TIDDOLL:
Please i need an advice on travelling for an Interview with this Real estate company.
"Business Executive"

who's got information about them, help a brother.

You go share flyer tire, business executive my foot. A terrible experience for me when I had to travel from one state to another to attend their interview
In the name of same business executive. Chai man don suffer . I thought it was an indoor role.

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Make your choice now that you know. Good luck.

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No matter the kind of course u study in Nigeria. If you don't have a natural talent, Pls get a hands on skills or a digital skills along side bcus being a graduate in Nigeria doesn't guarantee employment or meaningful secured earning.

Entrepreneurship is the new way out of poverty as it is. Our educational system is just a format, it doesn't teach u survival in real time , besides its full stacked with theories that helps no one in the long term.

midolian:


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The atikulators no get PVC or they are under aged ... naa online their voting might they.

Where are the PDP wailers ... them no tell una say election is not won online ??, ooh una no hear ... abeg leean me ayone ... ayam not atikulated.

dingbang:
This kyn epistle. Soon I will start charging people for reading their posts

sharaap there ... lazy type

dingbang:
This kyn epistle. Soon I will start charging people for reading their posts

sharaap there ... lazy type

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kennygee:
Fathia Balogun for the win. Class and grace.

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