sinero:


Uncle, elections are over. Burundi your hatred and concentrate on Nigeria's progress. By the way, which prophet told you those 2 you mentioned would have been better?

I tire ooh... Like say Obi naa magicians... Him go just enter and in twinkle of an eye all economic issues are gone. The highest level of delusion I have seen.

I can bet that it would have been worse for him, that guy naa bus boy. Shey him get the mind to make the hard call like President Tinubu, for this nation wey strong men full every where.

I can tell for free that OBI does not have what it takes to rule this nation. His people are just ruled by emotions and tribal line.

I said what I said.

Ajiswaggs:
Everywhere red oo…… I hope something is done right quickly. Everything is now fucking expensive.

Big fat lie... Anyways who send you go eatery??

Here are the why's

1. Proximity to the main central commercial hub
2. Largest economy in Nigeria
3. A coastal city
4. Investment inclined, naa Lagos the money they!
5. Ease of doing business

Meanwhile, let United States do whatever they like... We on top of our own economic policies in Nigeria. Is that OK sir ?? 🙄

SpatialKing:


And so?

Is Lagos economy bigger than New York?

How come all the USA headquarters are not moved to New York or Texas...


Why do we have oil and gas corporations HQ in Lagos instead of Nigeria delta region?

Says who??.. Do you even know that the Lagos economy alone is equivalent to about 30 out of 36 states in Nigeria combined

No they talk wetn u no know... Saying Lagos is just a state like any other is an insult, and a total disrespect to it's name.

SpatialKing:
Move Ministry of Petroleum mdas to Niger Delta region..

Lagos is just a state like any other state in Nigeria

President Tinubu is not here to play...

This I have known since day one.

For Nigeria to move forward... All sectors needs to be fixed.

As far as I am concerned this is not a well organized military operation... Except it happened in an impromptu way.


You can not allow terrorists go on the run. The military operation should have encircled the territory where the bandits are capture/terminated.

In all let's give kudos to them, because it's not easy. They are the unsung Heroes.

pocohantas:
I agree. I am not thrilled by men that claim they can cook scatter. Cook enough to survive and keep shut. All the muscle God gave you, you want to use it to be cutting onions and waterleaf?

Go and learn how to code or fly an aeroplane.
Then I will be impressed.

I can cook, I can cook. Next thing you see them adding thyme inside okra soup.

Which man offend you like this.
🤔😂😂

Jewessgratitud3:


https://fb.watch/oSsq3J79wF/?mibextid=ZbWKwL

OP you don talk finish naa, you say American and Idoma... Remind me how much is a Dollar to Naira as we speak

Them no be mate naa...

brutustech:

Oohk, I am waiting for 17

This is self slavery... I know cleaners that earns 40 to 60k and above. Switch base if you love yourself.

yaseer111:
Good morning all Nairalanders!


The title seems funny, right? Well, na reality. I received my salary yesterday in the evening 7pm or thereabouts but before 6am this morning it has finished.

Na only 5cups of rice, 3cups of garri and 2cups of beans with grandnut oil i bought the money don finish. No even for Maggi and sugar can you imagine? This Life no balance shaa

Some private companies are slave masters they don't care about minimum wage na only nlc dey make noise.

JASONjnr:
I don't know him ......

Baad belle spotted

TANID:
the Next Thing Na ta ta ta ta ta ta ta

you don they maad aswerr

chatinent:
Nigerian mentality tho. So na by cooking dem dey know good manners?

Dey play

Silentgroper:
Depends.. If they ask ... Bt offering it, nah her dad would be so mad at me..

... I'm already drowned in euphoria from d sound of dat.. . There is no stopping it..

May not be mad ... It just only depends on how you come in to the matter. You must appear in the matter without abrupt interruption, show concern and compassion. All you need to do is tell the carpenter that it's fine, u will take charge of the settlement.

And if there are pple over there. Excuse the mechanic out by your self without embarrassing the dad, settle with the carpenter and let him go from there. It's all about applying wisdom.

As a matter of fact... Settling the matter should never come as an embarasment or annoyance for matured in-laws... Afterall ur their son-in-law and it's one good opportunity to show how capable and sensitive to situation you are.

immortalcrown:
A first-time visitor as a girl the guy's parents already know as their son's fiancee or as a girlfriend unknown to the parents?

If his parents already know her as his fiancée before the first visit, the girl should join the boy's mother in the kitchen. But if his mother insists on doing the cooking alone, the girl should not insist on participating in the task.

The poster left out some necessary details. Commenters above me failed to asked for those details. Na so una dey answer questions or judge matters wey una no understand. The commenters above sound as if all first-time visitors are the same. Who the girl is to both the boy and his parents determines what is advisable for her to do. Some first-time visitors are more familiar or connected than regular visitors. Do not base your judgement on the fact that she is visiting for the first time.

Exactly... If she's known to be a fiancee before her first visit, it's a good thing to volunteer to help. First impression at first time. No CAP

#700 Lagos

I bet that if Atiku loose out at supreme court... Then politically he will be ousted forever, he will definitely regret not taking heed... All of this to slander the character of President Tinubu??

Okay... We are watching in 3D.

ravensckar:
Una don start with una lies abi? Una no dey tire ni?

30k for contributory gift & Charity? Just talk sey na money wey you take dey bang Hoe.losho monthly.

30K for clothing? So, you buy clothes for your wife & children monthly? Bros, lie no go kill you.

Medicals 15k monthly? Shey you be Sickle Cell patient ni (apologies to all sickle cell carriers).

In summary, you want us to believe that you only save 10% of your monthly earnings? Na him be sey you no suppose to open mouth insult any government official because you too aren't great at managing resources.

Mind you, I also have a family of 4 (myself, my wife & two kids) and we no dey spend reach half of wetin you type there. Make una suffery suffery dey lie for public forum. You guys will keep scaring the fresh & upcoming graduates into thinking that they won't survive.

Haba?

Can you please share how you expendit on monthly basis to what earning rate and what city... Let's learn from your prudency. Thanks in advance.

flexyrule:
Lol

Reno is a goat.

All the words he put up there are English words. The bible wasn't written in English, rather, it was written in Greek, Biblical Hebrew and Biblical Aramaic.

Reno feeds on attention. And this is one of his usual schemes.

How many Greek version do we see today... A lot of truth are hidden.

Seek the truth bro.

EkelediliBuhari:
Let’s agree this is my story….

Pardon my long write up but I needed to get a perspective from a fresh eye/mind. I’m married for 3 years now with 2infants.

Am I overthinking or does my wife have other plans?

My dad is an established accountant with over 3 decades of experience at the highest level of his occupation in 2 multinationals. He is now retired and consults. Presently, he lives a day at a times cos he barely has plans for his firm (he is over 70 and doesn’t have anybody he’s training his my mom).

I have a good career earning almost a million monthly with side gigs that keeps me liquid (meeting all my family’s basic needs). Monthly upkeep of 200k mainly for feeding while I pay utilities and still bring out cash (no fixed amount) from time to time. Presently am setting up a firm for contracting and consultancy.

My wife is a caterer (she loves cooking and baking) whom I have supported over the years. She has gotten much better and I have invested in her business. Presently she has all the basic requirements for her work and she works from home. We live in a 4 bed and converted one to her studio (fully furnished - AC tables shelves etc).

Over the years I have encouraged her to focus on entrepreneurship. This will give her total control of her time. This way the kids get her attention while she handles business which I hope to one day retire into. I make sure she doesn’t contribute her personal funds to the home as I advise her to save for rain days. I have encouraged her to work closely with my dad to earn experience as they share same profession hopefully take over the firm in time while I groom mine for which she is the major shareholder (I’m not even a shareholder).

Overall, do not look for a 9-5 like me, let’s grow a business.

However, she applies for jobs here and there. Just this morning she woke up as early as 4:30am applying for a customer service position and had to wake me up to correct her cover note.

At this point I feel like giving up on her. I feel she just wants to have a paying Job for whatever reason. But I know know the downsides; no time for the kids, 40-80% of income goes on expenses, work stress, regrets - now you can’t quit because you have to prove you can do it.

Am I being unreasonable telling her not to work and focus on developing her business skills?

NB: I have never discouraged her in her business rather encouraged/ advised and funded.

Modified: for those insisting I let her be, how do we plan our future if we share separate visions?? When has working ever made anyone rich??

If she gets an IOC opportunity I’ll definitely support tho, but these are not the toes she’s applying for 100k -300k

She's not seeing the bigger picture... You have to convince her more. She's probably being carried away by some of the 9 - 5 societal norm.

Let her feel the rubble of 9 to 5 a bit. So long as she's still conscious of the required attention for the family. Afterwards, she settle back into owning a business of her own.

Moreso, I feel she may not be engaged enough with the cake stuff, she's not satisfied with what is coming forth. If that's the case, then you want to invest more in her business, and this has to go beyond and above. The cake business needs more promotion, and growth.

Ask questions and finds anwers bro. Assume nothing.

DenreleDave:


Exactly.... Same thing happened to me and I regretted voting Peter obi

After he lost, they started insulting all Yorubas and when we talk, they forget they we were chanting obidents together and quickly isolate me all bcox I'm Yoruba.. I felt so bad, many yorubas like me campaigned for obi but when he lost, dey reject us and say shebi our brother don win.

It is well

Shey uv now learnt your lessons... Eni a wi fun Oba jeo gbo.

imelseda:
We're curious to know where the majority of Nairalanders stand on this. Do you still find yourself using Facebook regularly, or have you moved on to other platforms?

Share your insights on whether Facebook remains a valuable part of your online interactions, or if you've embraced alternatives. Let's engage in a thoughtful discussion about our evolving relationship with this iconic social media platform. Your perspective matters, so join the conversation and let us know: Do you still use Facebook?

I don't.

TAGS: Social Media Shift, Digital Detox Debate, Life Beyond Facebook, Social Networking Evolution, Online Connections Reflect

YES... Visit Facebook everyday

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

If after warning him about 3 times maximum. Report him immediately, otherwise, he may rape you, tell lies or do something bad against you. He is evil to even want to sleep with his brothers wife in his brothers lifetime.

Therefore, to report him, remember you must have a credible evidence to proof, bcuz your husband may find it hard to believe. My 50 Cents.

OmoOgunOriginal:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/07/catalytic-converters-how-mechanics-dealers-panel-beaters-are-ripping-off-car-owners/

This is an eye 👀 opener.

WriterNig:


☠ Wagner mercenary chief, Yevgeny Prigozhin, has claimed that a Russian rocket attack killed scores of his fighters, vowing to take “revenge” in an unprecedented escalation of infighting among Russia’s elite.

In a series of extraordinary audio messages released late on Friday, Prigozhin appeared to declare war on the 🇷🇺 Russian military leadership.

@War Translated tweeted;


Video || GB News || The Guardian

US wouldn't mind to use divide & rule to conquer Russia. I can perceive US signature there.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

I would say you did introduction quite to early... Till date you've not even realize whom you are about to marry. I mean why would my woman be entertaining another guy up to that level, even if it's dating we are dating, talk more of after introduction. That's absurd. Unacceptable.

Be careful she might be cheating on you already. Its either you or the guy. She should choose ASAP. No tolerate rubbish and then regret it for the rest of your life.

PS: This is a red flag. If you must go on, Ensure you clear your doubts. Very important.

Found a fantasy chat on how much fuckery she had with a guy the last time they met.

It was so so disappointing.

Angelfrost:


Calm the fvck down Egbon!

Checking the phone 24-7 would never have prevented acts of Infidelity!

That would only make the person smart enough to hide his secrets better! Abi na only phone dem dey hide such things??!

Were people not cheating recklessly before the advent of Phones??!

If there is no trust or love in a relationship, constant monitoring will not change that...! It will make it worse!

It better be checked, Incase break up need to happen fast, you never know if you are the side chick or side guy. Only a CAWORD can not dare to seek the truth.

Mcslize:


In this era, it's hard to find a faithful girl. They will finally fall if a particular guy keeps pushing and being all witty with them.

While they might not want to leave their present boyfriend, they will like to experience something different. That's when they will end up falling woefully.

Forget all those eye service wannabe girls who will form holy saint. Don't be fooled by those eye servicers. When a good opportunity presents itself, they will end up disappointing the guy who trust them so much.

I swear, this I have witnessed. I couldn't believe it.

Reminderz:
stories not new, next!
it will continue happening over and over again..

and btw, this just proves further that the redpill does not lie... reading through some of the stories, it validates some redpill sayings below:

1) never ignore red flags..
2) you can't negotiate genuine desire, you can't buy a woman's love.
3) women are moved by emotions and how they feel at the moment.
4) hypergamy doesn't care how long you've been together.. she will leave you when she has weighed her options...
5) do not be naive when it comes to the nature of women and what women are capable of before considering having a relationship with them...
6) never rely or trust any woman...
7) do what you want to do as a man, women will always whine..
8 ) trying to impress her might work for a short while, but will haunt you in the long run..
9) women know what they are doing...
10) always make sure the woman you're in a relationship with have something to lose...
11) women don't love men, she's only in the relationship for her selfish interests... she will be gone the moment the benefits cease...
12) women will cheat multiple times and pretend they've never flirt or seen another guy's dick but flare up violently the moment they catch you cheating...
13) women are natural actresses... always verify...
14) a woman's past matters, judge her by her past.. scrutinize her thoroughly!
15) save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

Speaking of red flag... Baaba my geh be cheating repeatedly and coming back begging and shedding tear, calls everyone to beg me for forgiveness.

But at the end of the day goes back to do the same thing. Most of all, even if you catch her red handed she will flare up in defense and deny the whole thing.

I finally found a way to dispose her. Did a hookup prank on her. I was surprised she didn't even flinch when the caller mentioned money for hookup, she immediately accepted and was preparing to show up.

Just imagine guys, this was the girl I thought I would finally get married to. Thank God for the 2 years of dating that made me know her true color.

Wetn come they pain me pass be say she's good with other aspects of things, but when it comes to men matter, I no fit trust her.

I had to serve her better breakfast before it's too late.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Nice one... You get sense, more wisdom to you

geedot:
When I found out Portable got more followers than Buju on IG, made me understand majority of Nigerian youths are not that wise, as I initially thought.

Bros calm down... Shey u no know say them they buy followers ??