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^^^^^ you dig.... where have you been?

20. Call a spade a spade: Do not lie, women can handle the truth!



since when?

If any guy here obeys this, it is either you would end your life single, not getting any or everyday hot quarrel

lets call a spade a spade, women rather love lies.

please tell us how people that love fake hair, lashes, fake face (padding with mary k et all), fake boobs, fake a33, fake height and general fake living would ever wano hear the truth?!

here is your Slogan: Women, Life is Fake!

LETS SEE HOW WOMEN CAN REALLY HANDLE THE TRUTH NOW....

when i do understand the logic behind dis show, id roll back and comment

until den, one

lynpetra: GOSH suya pepper don enter my nose ;DLMFAO

^^^
i RODF and LMFAO the very first time i saw that on fb

and we have been cuddling!

especially the opp s3x cos those soft mounds feels dreaming!

NOB KEMI: Stale

ArrrrrrrHHHHHH!

love truely grow out of proximity?

that guys has a title : chief manipulator of the Order of the Niger!

combining military gyration with political quagmire to sublime heights.

him and all the old bones must be removed b4 true fresh air can be felt in 9ja!

the hope we got is that life fizzle off all...no man lives forever

'all things are expedient but not all things are lawful'....Paul speaking

taking a tab to church isnt bad at all, in fact, you can achieve alot with it n tech savvy guys like us couldnt do without.

on the other hand, it comes with its short comings too:

basically

Distraction: it can distract both you and the people sitting next to you; the bright LCD light is ever eye catching to those sitting by. it can also distract you because you might just remember you forgot to send that important mail, then right there, you scribble the mail away while the msg is on going. a lot of types of distraction it comes with out there.

and secondly, theft....it can be stolen,,,,not every1 is in church with the right motives..drop it on the sit while you praying your heart out, and the next thing, it is gone...vanished


all all forms of electronic devices are not allowed in my church. must be turned off.

the only way is the old rugged bible way !

you either come with yours or verses are displayed on the huge TV/Projector screens....

cool!

as much as all the above listed are cogent,

he gave us a brain so we could let him a lil rest too.

many of our prayers are actually things we can sit and think solutions to( all these signs shall follow them that bliv: healing, living healthy, binding and casting devils, raising the dead, thinking out solutions like he did when faced with feeding 5k with 3 loafs of bread and 2 fishes-he did not pray, only gave thanks. even raising lazarus from the dead, no prayer, only thanks...because he was conscious of who he is)

a lot of payers are not answered because we are too lazy to task our brains and think:

no father would be happy his son keeps coming to him whenever he needs cold juice when he could just walk up to the fridge, open it and get himself a glass.


that is how Christians behave... God has given us all things thru Christ but we keep going to him to beg same of him. Annoying .... he cant but watch us

NOB KEMI: Olofo!

it's sunday gee, loosen up a bit and laugh it off would you?

it's dah jokes' section

Nomski0: What about lies told by Nigerian men

POC:

Men dont lie: boys do

Revolva: fool.i said top 8 lies...ok..read well b4 u post....

ouch!

breath easy gee, after that, i demand an unreserved apology: cos that was said on a lighter note

lol!

blame it on "different content management Systems!'

ositadima1: Can u luv someone and yet not be sexually attracted to them? I have a close friend I like her company and personality, but, I don't feel physical attraction for her, keep getting mixed feelings.

Love has different flavours and shades...

the kinda love you feel for her is not the r/ship ( lover ) kinda luv, it is the family member kinda luv.

you love your sisters, but ofcos you aint attracted to them sexually, hope dah helps

what a misleading info....what has a dating/hook up site got to do with Modelling?

i should quickly say great minds dont let set backs weigh them down.

that people fly and crash does not mean we shouldnt fly no more.

the world would not grind to a halt even if the sky should fall.

you wondering why i'm waxing lyrical?

well, i did have a brooding session while lbm went on break....and i am currently into other ventures( online still) and two are particularly paying promptly.

for a while now, i have been collecting when due, and because of LBM experience, decided to sow and reap alone.

but up till now, i still get alot of mails from people wanting to sign up with lbm( which i usually discourage them from). and compassion'z got the better of me

how can i keep quiet and watch-on as people struggle everyday for a living ?

it is on this note therefore, i would reveal 1 out of the mediums i currently enjoy. i would reveal one because it involves very very low risks( financially), takes very little of your time and climbing up the hierarchy is very easy.




i need to know how many are interested before i open the thread.....do indicate if you are.

Regards

Don

@ossy

it wasnt suppose to drift thus. this came about because of some unscrupulous elements whose greed was sky tall

@obaobirin

so it should have been but with the info i got on hand now, payment would be determined by how much your head up line got in returns from 'PETER' if you dig.

add ours?

but you said 8 now... and you rightly listed 8, why should we add more?

the truth would always somehow, ball out.

16 whole years! when even their bones would have decayed!

if this is true, let the unraveling drama begin: name names, lay blames and take the guilty to the hanger.

dis is how we do

no much talks,,, congrats United!

“Why don’t we do this more often? I love sex and I particularly enjoy it with my husband but getting started is just the problem,” exclaimed one wife after a counselling session in my office. Another woman said, “It’s strange, but whenever we do make love, we always look at each other afterward and say“, Hey, that was terrific. Why don’t we do this more often? Why don’t we?

Many married couples say that once things get rolling in sexually, they have no trouble responding to a sexual trip and escapade. But a couple’s inability to get started sexually is the greatest single cause of sexual infrequency and sexless marriage.

As much as many couples desire sex to be a “sudden inspiration,” impressive passionate, sex mostly happens in marriage when couples make initiating sex a conscious decision. Many couples have realised that while waiting endlessly for the time of feeling sexy, they usually are not feeling all that sexy until when they decide to have sex.

But “getting started” is only half the problem in most marriages. There’s also the question of who starts the initiation. Let’s look at the case of Bidemi and Lucky.

During the first seven years of Bidemi and Lucky’s marriage, Lucky had always initiated sex and five out of ten times, Bidemi had willingly acceded. But one evening, after a party, Bidemi reached under the bedcovers and began to caress her husband.

“He just pushed my hand away,” Bidemi recalled with obvious pain and resentment. “He told me I was drunk and he did not want to make love when I was like that. That my normal self would refuse sex and when he insists he wants it, I will always accuse him of raping me under the marriage law.”

Lucky cut in. “I told you that I simply wasn’t in the mood, I don’t want your ‘wahala’ and I don’t want to pretend about it after all, you always refuse and say you don’t want to pretend about it. Why is my refusal painful now? This is what I go through day in day out since we have been married.”

This escalated into cold war. Bidemi was angry, and she began to pay Lucky back with his own coin. The next time he initiated sex, she begged off, saying that she was not in the mood. She refused again the next time, and the next. Lucky, humiliated, stopped initiating sex altogether. They had not made love in four years.

Bidemi and Lucky are on a very dangerous game of sexual relationship, which has lasted for years, one partner does not want sex because the other does; refusing sex becomes a power play: “If you can say no, so can I.” This is typical of many marriages.

Many spouses never initiate sex anymore because they regard one or two refusals as total rejection and denial, but sometimes, our partners may not be in the mood for sex, so sexual refusal should not be seen as rejection. The rejecting partner should always provide a ‘substitute other day’. If you have to refuse your partner, let there be a sincere tenable reason genuinely accepted by the person refused and a promise for a make up.

Lucky’s refusal of Bidemi’s advance, however, involved more than a passing mood; it is rooted deeply in cumulative rejections that has transcended into frustration and resentment. When he pushed his wife’s hand away, he was saying, loud and clear I have been discouraged and disconnected.

While Bidemi has only responded sometimes to her husband’s advance only when she wanted, she is now so confused how to rectify things. She realised that there had been a serious sexual imbalance in her 7-year- old marriage and it wasn’t fair because her husband now plays ‘the external league’. I tried to show Bidemi that all along, she had been only a willing accomplice who has ignorantly taken her husband for granted and she has always had the power to refuse even when the man begs on his kneel. But once she too starts initiating sex, he also refuses.

Because Lucky and Bidemi both wanted their marriage to work, I urged them to sincerely consider themselves and consciously give sex another chance even when either of them is not in the mood, or either of them has been unfaithful.

I knew that their accumulated anger was preventing them both from turning themselves on. I asked them to try the talking-touching exercise. Talking-touching is important; it connects partners and enables them to experience the long lost pleasure. Let your bodies make friends first. You can talk about the good old days. Once we allow ourselves to feel our partner’s heart-caressing speech and touching, it is difficult to stay adamant and angry. When we relax under a loving caress, frequencies of sex are rebirthed.


http://www.punchng.com/entertainment/sex-sexuality/sex-happens-everywhere-except-in-marriage/

the bolded brought her back to her senses obviously....

@ambrosini593

how about we take one after the other?

just keep marking,

dont invest( buy markers) nor introduce people again for now.

@understand101:

Please get something straight, LBM was started with good intentions( and they were doing just fine, paying salaries when due): make men independent. some elements obviously came on board and sowed tears among the wheat. discredited the cooperation and hence the ish we've been having.



if i may advise you b4 you go taking rash steps, the workers in that office you are referring to obviously are people struggling to make ends meet. just like you. also, do know that, that office is meant to pay april salaries yet.
dont make ppl lose that.

....it is a network as you do well know.

sleek!

this is the way it should be. family first

solidbroda: From ur comment, it is deduceable that you are a fisherman.

thank you .... but i'd rather be a unique fisherman than flow along with d diadem.

there is not nothing worse than a man who do not know his own preferences rather concur with the rest of the world.

^^^^^ money is hardly a reason here( childish talk)

the only thing that brings boredom is when you guys are not best of friends.

this is what keeps marriage going after so many years. it is what gives a r/ship spice.

roll on hay, pelt each other with pastry; even in silence, boredom is kept at bay.

date a friend indeed and you wouldnt remember there lies such a word in the dic

i'd rather have an imposing collections and not all these toy looking rides.

i love them huge and intimidating not some rides that hugs the road so close i'd have to lower and squeeze myself into.

just ma preference.


nonetheless, nice collections C