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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDDON: 2:32pm On Aug 30, 2023
IconicR:
E choke abi
Choken't it?

The fact remains that all the affairs of life operate on set rules(laws).

Disobey the law of electrical energy and get burned, gloss over the law of floatation and drown.

The world of women is no exception

One.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by HARDDON: 2:23pm On Aug 30, 2023
IconicR:
Redpill is a lie, that's the reason you no longer see the people that started this thread here.

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Politics / Re: Leadership: List Of Alpha Males & Beta Males On Nairaland by HARDDON: 11:21pm On Aug 08, 2023
NLCreator:
Alpha Males are natural leaders while Beta Males are followers. Alpha Males are intelligent, confident, assertive, honest and principled. In my opinion, below is a list of Alpha and Beta Males On Nairaland.


LIST OF ALPHA MALES

1. Seun Osewa
2. Omenka.
3. Arrewa
4. Lalasticlala.
5. Fergie001
6. Ubunja
7. QuotaSystem
8. HARDDON
9. Explorer.
10. Karlifate


LIST OF BETA MALES

1. iLegend
2. Seunmsg
3. Mynd44
4. Helinues.
5. naijapips04
6. Garfied1
7. GloriousGbola
8. DonroxyII
9. MANNABBQGRILS
10. naptu2

Just passing-by πŸ˜‚
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:20pm On Aug 08, 2023
Jewelprince41:

Wow!!!!
Time runs fast ,today makes it one year this thread's telegram group has been opened and harddon no one gree show up
Harddon try ooooo
***lafffs** runnss outtt

Hello JP,
Time really flies
keep an eye out.

We will kick off with some freebies soon.
Phone worthy πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:26am On Jun 19, 2023
Jewelprince41:
WOOW
so after discovering dis thread in 2020, reading pg 1-100 for up to 5 times ,I finally decide to take the pain of reading dis thread again from pg 1 - 279 .....I started last year December 2022 ,and am finally through despite everything ( deprived sleep, mockery from friends and relative of always looking phone etc) thank God
Mah start going thru d screenshots, jotting down key points,rehearse and going to d field to practice, hopefully am gona get results
But ehmm .....Boss Harddon I would lyk u to show up na in DAT telegram group oo, so u would walk me by hand in dis my balling practising adventure or is dre any other way I can reach out to you
Thanks
I remain
Your upcoming baller(wana take d baton from where u would stop ) Thanks again


cool cool cool

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:13pm On May 05, 2023
Jewelprince41:
@ Harddon where art thou
Pls remember the telegram group u opened oooo
Ur young ballers are there waiting for u to guide us in the balling light
When shall thou start ;DD
#Thanks

Pray tell, where does the wind wake from?

A ship built for the seas must sail, high tides and waves notwithstanding

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Politics / Re: Jarus' Forecast Of 2023 Presidential Election by HARDDON: 11:03am On Feb 13, 2023
Flawed forecast based on outdated knowledge.

Just one question: Why do you think the projected turn out is going to be unprecedented?
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:13pm On Oct 12, 2022
Telegram234:

Boss the link is not working

https ://

/

+tsr8R5


CymDk2NjI0


as usual, remove all spaces

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:52am On Sep 16, 2022
powerhouse3:
Harddon the link is not opening

Can you please just open a real telegram page and we can add up

https: //

/+ tsr8R5

CymDk2NjI0
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:49am On Sep 16, 2022
austine4real:



Oga mi hardon please don't abandoned this beautiful thread o


I've been ur follower since 2016


The number of years we've been together should allay your worries bro

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:32pm On Sep 15, 2022
Hi!

We await your royal arrival on DATING DRILL telegram's page.

Copy and paste the link on your browser's address bar , remove all the spaces and come have a realtime up close session with me


https :

//t. me / +tsr8R5

CymDk2NjI0


Soon, we'd set sail.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:21pm On Aug 22, 2022
temi4fash:


It's not going..


here, try this new one

https ://

t. me / +tsr8R5

CymDk2NjI0
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:12am On Aug 20, 2022
temi4fash:


Is the + included

Sure. Everything except the spaces
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:40pm On Aug 19, 2022
Obnoxious2001:

Link is expired.

Drop your telegram handle or create a channel that we can easily search and join then from there to the group.

My opinion anyway

New one ;

https: //

t. me/ +tsr8R5

CymDk2NjI0


remember to copy paste on your browser and remove all spaces
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:17pm On Aug 18, 2022
Obnoxious2001:

Link has expired


https : //

t. me/ +tsr8R5

CymDk2NjI0


Hi, here is a new one.... see you guys soon.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:45am On Aug 14, 2022
Mirabeldubbin1:
The invite link has expired.

https ://

t. me/

+ tsr8R5C

ymDk2NjI0


Aiit, try this new one
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:37pm On Aug 13, 2022
HARDDON:



here go.

https ://
t. me/

+tsr8R5Cy

mDk2NjI0

....

We await your arrival on DATING DRILL telegram's page.

Copy and paste the link on your browser's address bar , remove all the spaces and join me
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:17pm On Aug 13, 2022
HARDDON:



here go.

https ://
t. me/

+tsr8R5Cy

mDk2NjI0

....


copy, paste it on your address bar and remove the spaces before hitting enter.

Come join me realtime, up, close and personal on telegram!

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:39pm On Aug 04, 2022
had to break it down with spaces ....


copy, paste it on your address bar and remove the spaces before hitting enter

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:31pm On Aug 04, 2022
Uzomacharles:



I just created one recently but I'm gonna close it right away..

Please drop the link the DATING DRILL so we can locate it as fast as possible...

WE really need it...


HAPPY NEW MONTH BOSS


here go.

https ://
t. me/

+tsr8R5Cy

mDk2NjI0

....

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:00pm On Aug 01, 2022
Hello Everyone!

Welcome to August!
A month of new beginnings....


I think the telegram group is a good way to kick start August because it's real time.

So, rush over to telegram and search for DATING DRILL.

I will update it with rules and what you should expect to enjoy as a member when we've had a good number.


Once in there, say hello and introduce yourself.

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Got A High Paying Job by HARDDON: 10:42am On Jun 03, 2022
julie90:
I have been working for this company for two years. In December 2021, there was a change in management, a new manager was assigned to my Department. Before the change in management, I applied for some jobs in November 2021 but I didn't get any response.

Things between my new manager and I developed really quickly (he is not married and he is 10 years older than me). Although we have been working together, when he became the new manager we started dating. it was mutual, it wasn't like he forced me. We liked each other and we started dating in March 2022. We kept things professional in the office. Nobody in the office knows about this even till now.

Those companies I applied to in November 2021 reached out to me for an interview. I got two offers at the same time. Both offers come with great pay (similar to what my boyfriend currently earns) and a significant boost to my career. I spoke to my boyfriend about it and being my boss he told me to reject both offers, he told me he would be able to cater for my needs that the only commitment he has now is paying for his house and once he is done paying for it, he would have more money to take care of me and I didn't need a job where they would pay me what he's currently earning and be in a role similar to his.

I told him it's not the money but it would be about moving up the ladder in my career. These are offers people do not have, now I have two, he is asking me to reject them. He told me even if I have to move the only offer I should take is the one close to the company where we work which has a lower pay compared to the second offer. I told him I would go with the second offer which has more opportunities for me. Both offers are in the same state although my preferred offer is a bit far from where I live but it is still a reasonable location to commute everyday. At one point he told me, I was too ambitious and I took it as a compliment.

I noticed he changed since then, he informed the company management that I was leaving and we began the handover process, I noticed he changed after we had the discussion about me accepting the second offer but I thought it was about him missing me. May 31 was my last day and I noticed few days to my last day he was acting strange so I asked him what the matter was. He said he doesn't feel anything for me and we should stop seeing each other.

This is a man that was really excited when we were dating, all of a sudden doesn't feel anything for me because I got a high paying job? Is it wrong for a woman to be ambitious? When has it become a crime for a woman to aim high in her career? My role will still be to support him. I have never been rude to him and I am not going to be rude to him because we now earn the same salary. I really like him and I feel disappointed that he could act this way.

Is it now a crime for a woman to be ambitious?

Jules?
Don't take this at face value; the major reason he is acting up is this: Jealousy. He met you at work and where you are to resume duty, you are going to work under/meet better paid guys over there. Besides, it's a very, very young relationship.

He fears he is on the verge of losing you and that is why he suggested that you should take the one closer so that he can still keep an eye on you, pop in once in a while and protect/mark his territory.

I don't think this is really about money nor about your ambition babes.

What you need to do is reassure him if you truly care about him. Show him where your loyalty lies. Let him feel it that nothing can change the way you feel about him.

Emotions can blind guys most times that they begin to think with your hearts instead of their heads (figuratively) especially when they seem not to have a grip on their gurls. So, he thought to himself, 'it's better I break up with her now, than she acting up and breaking up with me later' because she'd found a better dude, hence his unfortunate statement.

However, I must say that from your tone, it wasn't really a h_2_h conversation you guys had.
First one was to inform him, threw him off balance. Second one was to lay across your decision and you stuck to your guns. You haven't even assumed your new role, and he has no say in his woman's affairs? Common now, Jukes. embarassed

That is not the way you should have gone about this.
Boss lady, you simply robbed him of his balls and made him feel handicapped.

Hopefully, you see things the way they really are and find a way to resolve this before you assume your new duty and things spiral out of proportion.

Ok, bye.

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Romance / Re: Please Help! Should I Attend The Wedding Or Not? by HARDDON: 1:14pm On Jun 02, 2022
Dora, you are a lady and can easily figure out why your very close cuz is keeping his distance from you.

I can tell that your mind has worked out the 'reason' but you probably don't want to believe it.

Ladies don't like sharing their man's attention and pocket.

Could it be.... No, the reason couldn't be the person that just invited us to the bash.

Whatever you do, don't make a fool of yourself by attending that wedding without the man of the house invite.
Even if he does invite you, would you really attend considering....??

Sense Pill

A man without his own mind is not worth the pair in-between his legs.

Ok, lunch time is over, bye.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:31pm On May 20, 2022

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Nairaland / General / Re: Seun Vs Ubunja ? by HARDDON: 1:15pm On May 20, 2022
seanwilliam:
Pansophist
CaveAdullam
Ubu .nja
Under. cover
Martine. z09 ( martinez39)
Harddon
Seatrad.e (logobenz)
Ibim.e
Openheav.en19
Slawo.mirr
Chewb.acca
Fransc.hang
mengoingther.eway
franch.asng
Nwaamai.kpe
malignant.guest

Those are the people I go through their posts first thing in the morning when I log in to nairaland ..
They should be the most followed on nairaland tbh..
There’s no how you will fail if you follow these guys posts and act in accordance..


Their posts cut across business, relationships , politics , travels , finance, religion and life nuggets generally


I'm highly flattered Sean but I'm glad I could shine a little light in this dark yet very sexy world.

Because, in the final analysis, it is not the amount of wealth you accumulate nor how long you live that counts but rather the lives you touched positively while on earth you tread
)My Life's Tagline)


Erm, btw, op's computation piqued my interest, had to run a check and found out that he was wide off the mark.

a page of followers (FS) contains 64 persons.
I just checked and realized I got 13 (FS) pages
Do the maths. wink

Ok, lunch time is over .

Bye.
Romance / Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by HARDDON: 2:06pm On May 11, 2022
Zanzibar1:
I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.

There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me.
She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.

I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her .
She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.

I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.

Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.

I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.

Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart

Be very, VERY careful, too many red flags and learn to trust your intuition.

A chick that will grow into a c0ck, can be spotted the very day it was hatched. Wolf in sheep clothing.

A word, they say, is enough....

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Car Talk / Re: Is It A Must For Private Car Owner To Have Road Worthiness? by HARDDON: 5:43pm On Mar 29, 2022
Car Road worthiness when the Roads are not even Worthy of our Cars.
angry

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:57pm On Mar 27, 2022
PeterWilly:
Good day Harddon.
I collected a girl's number from a friend.
And here is our chat.
I need a witty response to her last statement


starting a convo, with a total stranger that you got her contact from a friend, with just a bland hello, hi, how are you and the likes is a total turn off.

It shows you just jumped on the thread ...

this is not a cheap drug store where you can get quick fix doses. You'd keep coming back ....

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:48pm On Mar 15, 2022
lakesidepapa:


Good morning HARDDON BABA, Pls how do i get across to you? do you run special courses or have an ebook, stuffs like that?

My heart bleeds everytime I think about this; the fact that I had to put all my one-on-one, 20-to-1, realtime sessions on hold though I haven't reached my set target number of guys yet.
Moments I not only impacted nutty knowledge but learned also from guys from all works of life!

As much as I try to, my table keeps getting full by the day and I can't organise special sessions again.

Hopefully, this thread and my blog, that has been crying for fresh juice even with all the funds we've been paying to keep it alive, can suffice for now.

I am cooking something though.... wink

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 2:03pm On Mar 15, 2022
Gabe427:
then I bumped into this thread since around 2020...it didnt strike me then till I'm seeing it almost7 years apart and the man HARDDON is still replying

I made a promise at the very beginning....

and a man's word should be his bond. wink

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Romance / Re: Lady Tattoos Her Boyfriend Face On Her Buttock. Photos And Video. by HARDDON: 1:12pm On Mar 04, 2022
Amuroba:
cheesy The face looks like Harddon's

cheesy cheesy grin

The tattoo artist is a pure pervert though.
Just look at how he is using style to spank n make it wave grin


Ok, I was not here.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 3:24pm On Feb 19, 2022
Jewelprince41:

so how do I learn it na

You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

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