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Haroldjunior:Sure thing. However, I hope they will still be available by then. |
Op, you approached this sensitive topic wrongly and woke her defensive mechanism up. Now it will take some doing before you really dig up the core intents of her heart. here is the deal from sporadic sampling of ladies' views on this topic: 1. Ladies feel alot of men are beginning to dwell so much on how much they earn and always try to direct them on how to spend same. They hate this. 2. A lady who really loves you would contribute to the home. You need not force it on them. 3. They would rather contribute between 10-30% of their income to the home and be left to spend the remaining how they deem fit( this part is what gets to them when guys bring talks like this up. it means he wants to Lord it over them and their finance). Now that you have put the cart before the horse and even went, however wrongly, to sample opinions which you still sheepishly told her about, and have giving her stand more fuel, more gut, going forward, kindly ignore approaching this topic like you did. Rather, silently find out if she is free handed. Create situations that would demand her letting something out of her purse for you. Watch how she gives in church , check if she pays her tithe, give to orphanages/people etc. If she is a natural giver, you have no worries, go right ahead and wify her. But if she is tight fisted, errrm, need I say more? Use this my ever sure test Income/Expenditure Template , seek her opinion and listen intently to her responses to the first 3. Chances are that ladies who are selfish would have a bone to bear with these: Out of the 100% income Tithe 10% Save 10% Give 10% (parents, orphanages, promotes God's kingdom etc) Invest 40% live on 30%. May the good God direct your paths on this journey that even your own parents have failed you. |
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firestar:Oops! Fstar! She didn't then. However, we just got 7 heathy wonder pups with massive paws! |
microbian:No biggie but first, you must establish whether or not this your female friend has hidden feelings for you. if she doesn't, she can easily sell you to her friend and help you win her easily with some secrets she would reveal to you. though as a lion, I prefer fresh kills, not scavenged ones( you dig?) if she does have feelings for you, it is a mission impossible because she would make sure she scuttle any move you try to make and bad mouth you b4 her friend. How would you know if she does have secret feelings for you? very easy, always pop up convos about her friend. What she is like( character), shower her with different compliments( height, complexion, bum, bo0bs, gait , aura, voice, and any other thing). If your friend always answer these questions and take pleasure in your raining compliments on her friend, that is a sign she would naturally help you on the journey, however, if she always tries to change the topic, turn moody, or ignore your statements or lash out, well, you need no soothe Sayer further.... Secondly, you must not ask for the friend's number without completing step one above. Show interest first. Don't be a duck on heat and ask for number when you haven't shown interest. it will make things harder. Your friend might tell you to hang on so she can confirm from/inform her friend first. When she is on this mission, she would try to make her friend recall who you are and the fact that you like her. This is where her friend would ask her questions like, 'what is he like?' and all sorts of weird questions. When she sends the number, you must not assume, wrongly, that you are half way home. Wear your sassy and funny well blended hat. Well, it's almost lunch time ![]() Ok, bye |
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This is not just an American election, it is one that would determine alot of things across the world going forward. Go Trump. The other world can't outrun this our world. |
well articulated. Lives lost must not be in vain. The steam must not fizzle out through the lil clog called curfew. We are at that point... no amount of detraction can deviate this will. We either wisely restructure or .... you know the alternative. First line of the constitution says ," we the people of the federal republic..." how can some military men, sit in the comfort of their bedroom sipping fura de nunu, speak for and on behalf of more than 200 million people and make it binding on everyone? The time has come.... |
“ I want to sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think. ” ― Rumi |
In the end only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. ” ― Anonymous |
The secret of success is hidden in your daily agenda. Success is not accidental, it comes from a daily discipline and how you trade your Earth's only currency - Time __James C Maxwell in Making Today Count |
Think, act , talk and conduct yourself like the person you want to become __ James C. Maxwell in Making Today Count |
The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook __Wlliam James |
Thazard:You got it wrong bro. The road side talk was a sarcastic one. it means you should NEVER try that. Reading the thread, ofcourse , would put that into perspective as you did descover. |
Holumhidey:it is not the boisterous waters around the ship that sinks it, rather it is the one that gets in. What you are afraid of is actually afraid of you. Fear is false evidence appearing real and thanks to its mind maiming grip, the graveyard holds the title of the richest place on earth. If I may burst your bubbles, the very pretty ones are the most lonely ones. They could make do with a lil fun away from the usual, everyday boring norms of average guys. However, from your write-up, I can tell that you lack self confidence. You should work on that first. Because a confident soul rarely gets stunned by beauty, he knows that HE is the most beaYOUtiful and the best thing to happen to anyone he meets. Visit our blog(to work on your confidence) and read this thread to have a bird's eye view on what to say and how to say it to magnitize attention. NB: a guy like me is ignoring her calls and messages and treating her like trash somewhere. Don't get it twisted. |
Life isn't about getting and having, it is about giving and being ______Kelvin Kruse You don't become rich by taking but by giving ______David Ibiyeomie this is one secret of the rich( set up foundations to touch humanity and give to charity) and value books( knowledge and new innovative/creative information) but the poor mind, that don't know the secret to wealth keeps going around begging, seeking from whom they might collect and not having regards for knowledge. Jesus, in Luke 4:18 said; The Spirit of the Lord is upon me because he has annoited me to PREACH the Gospel to the POOR, he has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captive, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised . from the above verse, what the poor really needs is quality information that can help him come out of poverty, not arms. So go for knowledge at all cost and by all means. The only proof of love is giving. For God so LOVED the world, he GAVE his ONLY (most precious) begotten Son Jesus. _____David Ibiyeomie |
...in essense? Do things normal guys can't do where pretty ladies are. Say things they are afraid to say and look posh while saying/doing em. You are too endowed to be a nice as3 guy and Life's too short to be a wussbag. |
Thazard:You seem to be very good at narration. There is nothing to access from the situation bro. You think she hasn't sensed you? from a mile out, she has. Read the thread and learn how to make fun of gurls you fancy and pelt them with attractive pebbles before u stop her one day and start professing road side love. |
Highbeepeeh:I do hope this is not the way you chat with anybody let alone gurls? Now, I want you to write in normal English and spell out all your words. You can't be wearing flip flops coupled with denim jeans and still garnish all that with bad abbreviations. Mbanu |
Spikesman:did you just refer to me as Hardin? ![]() You liked her and ASKED her out. Yea? Ofcos you did. And she used one of their default mode responses when they kinda like you but aint attracted to you yet or when they ain't sure if you are for real or just want to shunt between meeting and getting down. From her follow up response about getting upset when you flirt with others, it is obvious she just needed a lil assurance from you, guess you didn't make joke of such airs, ramp up your attractive revs and you just left her in a state of limbo. The lil light you sparked in her heart died the moment you were out of sight and she found someone more interesting during the lockdown. Most gurls are bored now and spend alot of time with guys that brings fun. not hello ha guys. if she is ignoring you at this time in history, I must say you are really boring. If I were you, immediately I ignored her for a month, I'm never going back there until she reaches out(which I would usually ignore at first) or until we meet again in school and she hellos. Why would you tell her you would call and didn't till a week after? That is totally wrong. always be a man of your words. Or better still, you should have told her to call by 7am in the morning. Bliv u me, she would have. Going forward, DONT call her again. Let her return your call. Read up the thread to know how to spin an engaging convo but first, what do you really want with her? that would dictate your choice of words and how the convo wud flow. NB: a guy who hasn't signed his signatures all over a gurl's heart nor replaced her red blood cells with his blue ones have no business ghosting her. it is to his disservice. Rich Regards, Don. |
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