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Haroldjunior:
I'd love to get a male, but let me give them some time till they're a bit older.

Sure thing.

However, I hope they will still be available by then.

Op, you approached this sensitive topic wrongly and woke her defensive mechanism up.
Now it will take some doing before you really dig up the core intents of her heart.


here is the deal from sporadic sampling of ladies' views on this topic:

1. Ladies feel alot of men are beginning to dwell so much on how much they earn and always try to direct them on how to spend same. They hate this.

2. A lady who really loves you would contribute to the home. You need not force it on them.

3. They would rather contribute between 10-30% of their income to the home and be left to spend the remaining how they deem fit( this part is what gets to them when guys bring talks like this up. it means he wants to Lord it over them and their finance).


Now that you have put the cart before the horse and even went, however wrongly, to sample opinions which you still sheepishly told her about, and have giving her stand more fuel, more gut, going forward, kindly ignore approaching this topic like you did.

Rather, silently find out if she is free handed. Create situations that would demand her letting something out of her purse for you. Watch how she gives in church , check if she pays her tithe, give to orphanages/people etc.
If she is a natural giver, you have no worries, go right ahead and wify her.

But if she is tight fisted, errrm, need I say more?

Use this my ever sure test Income/Expenditure Template , seek her opinion and listen intently to her responses to the first 3. Chances are that ladies who are selfish would have a bone to bear with these:

Out of the 100% income
Tithe 10%
Save 10%
Give 10% (parents, orphanages, promotes God's kingdom etc)
Invest 40%
live on 30%.


May the good God direct your paths on this journey that even your own parents have failed you.

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microbian:
Yeah...I was in a particular place with my guys, where we were supposed to stay for like four days, I met this lady who is a friend to a female friend of mine but we are not that close. On the first day, it was just normal Hi, I didn't have the chance to engage her in a convo and I never wanted to act desperate or force things on the first day, thinking we were still gonna be together for a few days more but unfortunately I and my guys left the next day. I have not gotten the digits of this babe yet because I delayed it. My question is can I ask this female friend to send me her friend's contact?? Is it gonna appear somehow because I have gotten no familiarity with this her friend other than the hi I said to her on the first day?

No biggie
but first, you must establish whether or not this your female friend has hidden feelings for you. if she doesn't, she can easily sell you to her friend and help you win her easily with some secrets she would reveal to you. though as a lion, I prefer fresh kills, not scavenged ones( you dig?)

if she does have feelings for you, it is a mission impossible because she would make sure she scuttle any move you try to make and bad mouth you b4 her friend.

How would you know if she does have secret feelings for you? very easy, always pop up convos about her friend. What she is like( character), shower her with different compliments( height, complexion, bum, bo0bs, gait , aura, voice, and any other thing).

If your friend always answer these questions and take pleasure in your raining compliments on her friend, that is a sign she would naturally help you on the journey, however, if she always tries to change the topic, turn moody, or ignore your statements or lash out, well, you need no soothe Sayer further....

Secondly, you must not ask for the friend's number without completing step one above.
Show interest first. Don't be a duck on heat and ask for number when you haven't shown interest. it will make things harder.

Your friend might tell you to hang on so she can confirm from/inform her friend first.
When she is on this mission, she would try to make her friend recall who you are and the fact that you like her.
This is where her friend would ask her questions like, 'what is he like?' and all sorts of weird questions.


When she sends the number, you must not assume, wrongly, that you are half way home.
Wear your sassy and funny well blended hat.



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Happy Sunday!!!!

Soon we roll!

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Harddon
Stanliwis

This is not just an American election, it is one that would determine alot of things across the world going forward.

Go Trump.

The other world can't outrun this our world.

well articulated.

Lives lost must not be in vain.
The steam must not fizzle out through the lil clog called curfew.

We are at that point... no amount of detraction can deviate this will.

We either wisely restructure or .... you know the alternative.


First line of the constitution says ," we the people of the federal republic..."

how can some military men, sit in the comfort of their bedroom sipping fura de nunu, speak for and on behalf of more than 200 million people and make it binding on everyone?

The time has come....

“ I want to sing like the birds sing, not worrying about who hears or what they think. ” ― Rumi

In the end only three things matter: how much you loved, how gently you lived, and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. ” ― Anonymous

The secret of success is hidden in your daily agenda.

Success is not accidental, it comes from a daily discipline and how you trade your Earth's only currency - Time

__James C Maxwell in Making Today Count

Think, act , talk and conduct yourself like the person you want to become
__ James C. Maxwell in Making Today Count

The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook __Wlliam James

Thazard:


Actually I have read from page 1-9 and Harddon said telling a girl you love her would get you in friend zone and now he's saying we should make fun of them before professing road side love.

I'm really confused!

You got it wrong bro.

The road side talk was a sarcastic one.

it means you should NEVER try that. Reading the thread, ofcourse , would put that into perspective as you did descover.

Holumhidey:
Pls there is this girl i like, i wanna go meet her and have a conversation with her but she's so pretty and looks like those girls that can fool or look down on a guy without much effort. We are going to see again on tuesday and i wanna talk to her; i dont know where to start from or what to say

it is not the boisterous waters around the ship that sinks it, rather it is the one that gets in.

What you are afraid of is actually afraid of you.

Fear is false evidence appearing real and thanks to its mind maiming grip, the graveyard holds the title of the richest place on earth.

If I may burst your bubbles, the very pretty ones are the most lonely ones. They could make do with a lil fun away from the usual, everyday boring norms of average guys.

However, from your write-up, I can tell that you lack self confidence. You should work on that first. Because a confident soul rarely gets stunned by beauty, he knows that HE is the most beaYOUtiful and the best thing to happen to anyone he meets.

Visit our blog(to work on your confidence) and read this thread to have a bird's eye view on what to say and how to say it to magnitize attention.


NB: a guy like me is ignoring her calls and messages and treating her like trash somewhere.
Don't get it twisted.

Life isn't about getting and having, it is about giving and being ______Kelvin Kruse


You don't become rich by taking but by giving ______David Ibiyeomie

this is one secret of the rich( set up foundations to touch humanity and give to charity) and value books( knowledge and new innovative/creative information)

but the poor mind, that don't know the secret to wealth keeps going around begging, seeking from whom they might collect and not having regards for knowledge.

Jesus, in Luke 4:18 said; The Spirit of the Lord is upon me because he has annoited me to PREACH the Gospel to the POOR, he has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captive, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised .

from the above verse, what the poor really needs is quality information that can help him come out of poverty, not arms. So go for knowledge at all cost and by all means.




The only proof of love is giving. For God so LOVED the world, he GAVE his ONLY (most precious) begotten Son Jesus.

_____David Ibiyeomie

...in essense?
Do things normal guys can't do where pretty ladies are.

Say things they are afraid to say and look posh while saying/doing em.


You are too endowed to be a nice as3 guy and
Life's too short to be a wussbag.

Thazard:
Hi guys,

There's this girl I'm crushing on and I think she likes me.we stay in the same area,she lives close to friend's house but we have never talked to each other.She's one or two years older than I am or we are probably agemates.I used to crush on her sister until I found she has a boyfriend.She and her sister are the indoors type of girls (girls that are mostly indoors) and they live with their mum.

She has stared at me few times and immediately turned her face away.Anytime we walk opposite each other, she would face down and we would pass each other,then she would lift her face up.Most times,I choose to pass through my friend's house so I could see her and my wish usually come true.But we are always walking opposite each other.All the time we pass each other, I've never looked back at her.I tried doing it most times but my neck would never agree to turn back and stare.I don't know why this happens at all.


Today, I passed through my friend's house but didn't see her and when I was coming back she came out of their compound, looked at me and went to the store on my street to buy something (that's where she usually buy her stuffs).


There's no way I could met up with her.beside,if I walked close to her, what am I even going to say? I don't even know if she's crushing on me too.I wouldn't like to do something stupid because this would be my second time approaching a lady.

She got to the store, left there and went down the road (direction of my house) and she turned back when she had gotten to the compound before mine.She switched from the right side of the road to the left, walked past me.This evening, I was at a shop I and my friends usually relax.She and her sister were are going to throw dustbin and they passed me.I was staring at her, don't know if she's staring too because the road wasn't illuminated but I caught her sister looking at me when they were going and when they came back.

N.B: I'm a good guy, don't chase girls at all no matter how beautiful they are.

I know these details aren't enough but guys what can you access from the situation?


CC;Harddon


NevetsIbot

You seem to be very good at narration.

There is nothing to access from the situation bro.
You think she hasn't sensed you? from a mile out, she has.

Read the thread and learn how to make fun of gurls you fancy and pelt them with attractive pebbles before u stop her one day and start professing road side love.

Highbeepeeh:
My grtngz goez to all d boss in da game

i myt post my stry twice, cos am usin a java phne, datz Y am abbreviating it. Am stil an hustler.

dz gal jst aryv 2 my area last mnth. She haz seen me most on slipperz and tore cloth.
tho i do toast ladz bt am always scard and i wil end up spkin gibberish. Bt a story abt hw galz brok some SIMP guys heart made me sign my heart 2 bcom a player.

dz gal 4rm my findin wrks in a bank. As a player i already list d gals i want 2 enter their heart, and she's among tho she luks more older dan me(I NO CARE), wic means she already have experience and i hav never be in any rltnship b4.

i walked up 2 her 2day when she's coming bk 4rm wrk in my slipperz as usual, mind u av complimentd her 2wks bk dat she lukz bwtful.

tho she walks briskly(maybe shit want commot 4rm her yansh) then i also walks faster behind her

OUR CONVERSATION GOES LIKE THIS(SHE'S WALKING FAST WHILE AM TALKING 4RM BEHIND)

ME: SISTER GUD EVENING

HER:GUD EVENING (NOT LOUD ENOF, DEN I CAPITALISE ON IT)

I do hope this is not the way you chat with anybody let alone gurls?

Now, I want you to write in normal English and spell out all your words.

You can't be wearing flip flops coupled with denim jeans and still garnish all that with bad abbreviations.

Mbanu

Spikesman:
Hello Hardin.
I want to share my experience with this girl...we met in school started talking , vibed well and she was always around almost all the time cos we receive lectures together .

I like her and she said she likes me a lot too buh she isn't ready for a relationship yet ..another time she said she is confused about her feelings that falling for someone is always hard but if I don't talk to her and flirt with another girl she would be upset ..buh we were still cool talked a lot .
during the lockdown we kinda lost our vibe ..she does not reply as fast as she usually did doesn't reply my calls too..I got vexed and left her message on read for a month. later I tried texting
her but no reply only for me to call her and she's acting like nothing happened I tried settling the beef buh she said she was not angry with me and gave some lame excuses I ended the call ...called the next day ..we talked well.
I later found this thread, noted my earlier mistakes ..she called like a week later I didn't pick.. she called some days later I picked buh was sleepy so I just told her I would call t
he next day I didn't call until like a week after buh she did not pick. called some days ago..which is like a week from my last call she did not pick either ...please harddon tell me my wrongs I wanna learn from them...I think she likes me buh I haven't won her over to the extent that she would be head over heels for me..shey you get

did you just refer to me as Hardin?

You liked her and ASKED her out. Yea? Ofcos you did.
And she used one of their default mode responses when they kinda like you but aint attracted to you yet or when they ain't sure if you are for real or just want to shunt between meeting and getting down.


From her follow up response about getting upset when you flirt with others, it is obvious she just needed a lil assurance from you, guess you didn't make joke of such airs, ramp up your attractive revs and you just left her in a state of limbo. The lil light you sparked in her heart died the moment you were out of sight and she found someone more interesting during the lockdown.
Most gurls are bored now and spend alot of time with guys that brings fun. not hello ha guys. if she is ignoring you at this time in history, I must say you are really boring.

If I were you, immediately I ignored her for a month, I'm never going back there until she reaches out(which I would usually ignore at first) or until we meet again in school and she hellos.

Why would you tell her you would call and didn't till a week after? That is totally wrong. always be a man of your words. Or better still, you should have told her to call by 7am in the morning. Bliv u me, she would have.

Going forward, DONT call her again. Let her return your call.
Read up the thread to know how to spin an engaging convo but first, what do you really want with her? that would dictate your choice of words and how the convo wud flow.

NB: a guy who hasn't signed his signatures all over a gurl's heart nor replaced her red blood cells with his blue ones have no business ghosting her. it is to his disservice.

Rich Regards,
Don.

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MickeyJB:
Yo Bosses

There's this girl I approached and we actually had rapport.... Buh she suddenly started forming.. Probably because I didn't give her enough attention and of course she had other guys at legs begging. . I ignored her for about 2 weeks.. Recently she has been trying to get closer buh I always dismiss her with a few straight answers..

Fast forward to a yesterday, I saw her and told her to call me which she did once buh I ignored it.. I then sent her a text in the morning saying some rubbish and asked her to call me by 8pm... She did... Buh something happened.. I actually went BLANK Everything I knew vanished from my medulla and I was just there saying words that didn't connect
I hung up... Only for me to call her again and tell her we should meet the next day.. And she was like all the timing and everything was just for me to tell her we should meet the next day...

Buh I realized that was a lame move So bosses my balls are at stake.. What should a brother do?

@ emphasized, pro move. deflate her pseudo ego, shoot up your price and watch her strive to please you which she has been trying to do but you've been a very witless and planless somebody.

How can you tell someone to call and have nothing to say?
Or if you ain't confident with calls( because as I stated in some pages earlier, calling compared to chatting demands alot of wits , sendless, wisdom, mastery of words and deft confidence.) , why didn't you tell her to chat you up rather? You had all options opened to you but you witlessly decided to choose the one you ain't comfy with.

I don't know your response to her complaint about meeting.
The boss response I would have given is ; "ofcos not, I just realised you don't seem comfortable on calls, you tend to lose your breath when u hear my voice, so I decided to make it easy for you...."

BUT the BIG QUESTION IS, WHAT DO YOU WANT WITH HER? WHAT IS YOUR PLAN?


I would suggest you create attraction with chats first b4 anything else. right now, u losing it.
Your chats should be all about making fun of her, answering her questions in witty ways and playing up your price the more. Nothing else.