while other nations are celebrating space exploration, Nigeria is celebrating the fact that a rocket passed though its air space.
She is perfecting the acts of borrowing and making pencils.


What a monumental failure

AngelicDamsel:
It is spiritual.
If Trump lose his second term, America will be swallowed up by China. Trump is the only obstacle to China's world dominance.

I love Trump!

it's much more deeper than just China.

And if you recall how he won the election, it's glaring that divie finger was involved.

Martinez39s:
JONNY
SPUTE, emm aodet, Omar 09, CAPSLO CKED, GreatRe seacher1, Zabiboy, ilege ndd, HARDDON, Ubu nja, etc.

Welcome to a new month.

You are doing well!

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futurevizi:


Hello sir HARDDON , please I would want to know the solution to this.. It has happened to me with several gals.. I just forget them..
But it's happening to me with someone I really dig ..
I think her reserve psychology got me..
I even make a mistake of apologizing for my absence..
How can I correct this error..
I know she still dig me from her little actions and word..
Sir Harddon.. I await your answer..

Very simple;
First off, you have to really define what you want, if it isn't worth the stress, you abandon the idea.
If it is, there are a couple of ways you can do that and still retain your balls without apologizing.


One way to do this is through your proposing RE-AQUINTANCE.
Eg.

let's refresh this, forget that we met before.

me: Hi, name is Don, may I meet you? ( yea, I know this is too average, but it's perfect for situations like this)

her: I'm ..... ( smiling)

next line must be a Line of note from your knowledge of her or about yourself. Must make her rodfl.

Convo must be lively from here on.
Give her a fake number ....

You can take if from there, can't you?

Mogajunior:
My only and major regret is that I didn't bleep enough pussy back then yet I still graduated with a third class degree.

Op do not make the same mistake.

Didn't enjoy on earth, yet still went to hell! Ouch!

“ Knock, And He'll open the door. Vanish, And He'll make you shine like the sun. Fall, And He'll raise you to the heavens. Become nothing, And He'll turn you into everything. ” ― Rumi

At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent. ” ― Barbara Bush

Aiit, on a serious note,

Gone are the days when the stomach( food ) and s3x are the best ways to a man's heart.

both of these come very cheap in this Data age.

You have a clue to your question in the statement you made about his friends; creative people and those that add value to his life as he does theirs.

What value can you add to his life? what creative, moneymaking idea can you drop? What quality social network can you introduce him to?


if you throw yourself at him or seduce him as most would advise, he most likely would start ignoring you(I speak from experience).
A friendzoned girl shouldn't be making advances. you are in our space for other reasons.

we see through lil girlish manoeuvres easily. those of us without principles wud just satisfy her curiosity( you dig?) and activate withdrawal processes before her bf-claiming fangs starts sprouting.

'the cooker!' brahahaha

Redwater666:

I'm not courageous enough to do this and I'll be risking everything.. if i get rejected i might never have the guts to stand before him in my life anymore.. what are my chances..? i think it's 20%..

I fear this will further complicate things... i know the Kind of person he is, my best bet is he'll start ignoring me and then ghost me if i make such a move... he's very good psychologist.. Any move i make he already knows how it'll end. Do you have ideas on how i can sustain this friendship instead? i was thinking: cooking for him and delivering it to him every weekends?

pastie:
Good day my elders in the game, there was a lady close to my area who I later know to be my sister friend, we have been chatting like lovers for the past week.. Actually I was the one always initiating the chat, she couldn't start a convo even for once. I requested to see her after much pressure she finally agreed for me to visit her ... Note... She's the indoor type which I discovered from my sister. Right I have decided to shun her for the pass four days but I noticed her missing me through her status.. She even ask of me from my sister..
I'm thinking of the right step to take now
Pls excuse my grammar
Cc: harddon, zabiboy,trailblazer93, majormofor etc

What were you thinking pressuring a girl to see you?
What were you doing going to visit a girl at her place?

JhayJoe:
Please i need advice
How do you further the relationship with a girl from being friends ??

How did the friendship start?

bennyflipy:
Nice thread, I need advice here. there's this girl I met online recently and we got talking chats and calls (I like her). We talk almost on a daily basis for long periods, I've not asked her out because I always feel reluctant doing that(Not my thing, at times I usually think if I have a problem there).
fast forward to yesterday she wake me up with a call at about 7:20am we talked for a while, we then chatted in the afternoon, towards evening around 5:06pm she called we spoke for some few minutes, she ended the call to attend to something (because they buried a child in their house yesterday). Some few minutes later she called but I didn't answer (something told me not to pick up the call) 30minutes later she called again, I didn't pick up. I waited for like 1 hour before I called back but she switched off her phone, few minutes later I called again and she answered the call and starting ranting I didn't answer her call bla bla, I told her I was not close to the phone, that's a lie that just choose to ignore her calls.
I then told her she misses me alot that's why, I told her i will make it up to her, she said I want to bribe her that she doesn't accept bribe, but I should promise not to do that again, I said okay. in the middle of the call I told her I visited my family home and my mum wants to have a word with me, if I'm done with Mumsy I'll call her back.
Which I didn't, but she later called later that night.
N.B: She always calls me big head and the most stubborn person she has ever met.
Please what is it that is wrong I'm doing

Promise not to do what? Not live your life and always answer her calls because she pays your Bills?
And you said okay? That means you agreed that you were actually ignoring her calls?
First , you let her get away with ranting, then you agreed with her that you lied about your not been close to the phone . Dude!
It is from little issues like these men hand over their balls unwittingly.

Secondly, You don't make it up to anybody because u didn't take their call. You were indisposed. Simple as that.


Next time, it is either you lie and stick to it or don't bother at all.
Just change the topic in a funny way. When she goes braaaaa, interject with, " I can just imagine that your tiny nose twitching now...'

Things are bright. Just don't let your balls down by yielding to manipulations.

brandon180:
As I was trolling down from one of my usual evening walks..I immediately observed this fine wine in front of me..as I was contemplating if to make a move or not.. and my brave telling me it's not good to make a move from behind, I just lost it.
I want to ask is it ok to approach a Nigerian girl from behind?

Most times we get stuffed with rules we forget to just live.

We forget the most important rule of all: You!
Your ability to deploy quick wit and sign your signature across hearts in an unforgettable way.

Are you suggesting we should let go everytime because the angle is not right?

What you are worried about is O'level knowledge.
A'level is more about the contents of your character....

Direction of approach is inconsequential to a guy that gets his onion.

You dig?

ignorance is a desease.

Hopefully, someday, they would come to their senses and realise, however cruely, that the sun does not shine out of ladies' bu77s!


SENSE PILL:
in the final analysis, Your Balls is all you got. Protect it.

IamPlato:
DJ give Me the Following Songs




Harddon: Bop daddy by Falz


Oya na

Rozz:
see what a grown man is doing because of ordinary sex. mtcheww

ordinary s3x huh?

Alright, hope when he goes seeking it somewhere else, hope it will still maintain this ordinary status?

albertatrina:
men take their dïcks too seriously

as women take money matter too seriously.

smh at all the parochial replies from them female folks.

A young family don't need undue interference from some fam members.

And the guy has no idea what it means to live alone and pay his own bills, furnish his own crib.

It would take a lot to adjust.

She shouldn't make that mistake to marry him first.

sammyj490:


But bro i don't see anything wrong with dating a single mother, especially when i really love her this much, truth be told i someone had told me i would end up dating a single mother would have rejected it, but bro the feeling came naturally and i really want it to stay....God knows if i attain my goals today i can marry her tomorrow... and moreover she's still in her early 20's...the pregnancy was planned for but it came as a blessing even tho the baby's father deserted her, she picked herself up

Smh!

SENSE PILL:

Nothing is worse than an ignorant boy (man) in Love second only to an illiterate with a bag full of money.


As much as I would just love to walk on by, let me point out a few red flags to those who can see through;

1. Single momma (that kept you on a waiting queue and you assume you've been promoted to bf, but you are still very much on the side queue).

And to think that a refurbished and repainted vehicle is taking a brand new and super ride to the cleaners because of new colours, beats the imagination.

Used cars have resale value?

Mr waiter, what an epitome of perseverance !

2. She bought you, however, cheaply. Might I ask you a question? How was she getting the money she was sending to you? did you bother to ask? she manipulated you into line.

3. A gurl that really cared about you as you do about her wouldn't dissuade you from relocating. Heck she would move the motion first.

Just look at the lame excuse of you guys getting bored with each other.

She needed you out of the way so she can practice trade.

4. She kept breaking up because you were always up in her face. not giving her breathing space to roll wild.


5. as a mutured man , you kept apologizing to keep the peace? even though she is the one taking you for a sexy manipulative ride? How so matured you are indeed!

here is the deal, she breaks up so she can get you off her backs, have reason to ignore your calls and messages, and be free to run some shows unfettered.

Then, after she is done, she takes your call, you turn around, act the matured MAN and apologize to her for riding/having her forest weeded on your behalf for money. oh dear heavens.

6. YOU LOVE HER SO MUCH AND SHE KNOWS IT. this right here, is your undoing. if she was as good as you paint her, go ask her WHY her baby daddy left. whatever she tells you, believe the opposite.

7. you tell her everything, good boy, and she tells you nothing?!!!!! And you ofcourse avoid probing further , even though you have alot of doubts, because she always flair up when you ask her stuff about herself or she ignores your questions and changes the topic right?

You havent been dating for a year now, you have been DATING YOURSELF ....

8. You don't keep quiet when she friendzons guys because you don't want to come across as jealous, you keep quiet because she has you in her pocket, at her whims and caprices. The truth is bitter.
As mush as you would love to scream at her for as much as giving her number out in the first place, you know u can't. she has been financing your acounts.

Fresh graduate with no source of income, rolling with such a beauty-spoilt-brat of a single momma is a crazy cognac.

9. she is not your best friend buddy, do you even know what that term means?

10. here is the deal, your friends know what's up and have advised you, but you are too blinded by infatuations and the fact that she rides so well, to see that she is simply manipulating your poor heart and life.
Should you ignore voice of reason and marry this agent .... You would know what hell-on-earth-feels like.

SENSE PILL
Love is the package that lust is delivered and the ribbons are quickly untied.


The worse set of ladies to roll with are those that know they are beautiful and they wear it as hats.

And unrepentant baby mamas.

here you are, unlearned about the web of women yet having as a cognac, a mixture of these two deadly weapons, in one sexy soul.

My advise? I know you wouldn't take it

but I'd say it anyways,


Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


then invest your time in studying those links on my signature.

Thank me later.

Anazp:
Hello Guys

Can you marry a 40 year old woman? A lot of guys always want to marry a woman in her early 20s. What are the disadvantages of marrying a woman who's 40 years old? Any advantages?

Thanks

be very careful if you are thinking of such....

Unless, you are lead divinely or don't mind being a sugarboy husby.

Have Weird sense of humour, twist conversations with fun laced with push and pull effects.


Pull crazy, fun and unexpected stunts on them in public.


Drop a surprise love notes/poems, surprise dinner/vacation, have surprise gifts delivered with a sexy note. Deliver a note with direction to some treasure hunt.

Have hydrogen balloon dinner.

Reduce the amount of love confessions, rather show it.

Endless list.

Ok, bye

Yaguyda:
harddon abeg I need una input.

usually, I'd simply walk on by when I see mentions such as this because;

SENSE PILL:

Only average boys rave after cheap vjay and cast their souls for a taste in the process.



However, I branched because I wanted to demystify that her statement: "attracted to" yet not having "romantic feelings for"...


this is what it means;
'you are a wild soul with a weird sense of humour, spontaneous and breathtaking.
Yes, we can go wild wild west with no strings attached'

Or

I can see thru you that you ain't here for commitments. sure, I'm cool with JUST having fun with NO FEELINGS.


Pay as you roll, preferably.

This anomaly has exposed the ineptitude of those on the coridoors of power.

Great leaders are not known in times of prosperity, progress and calm but in times of war, plagues and turbulence.

They are known in times when nature pokes at the intelligence of men.

Times when the worth of their balls is called to question.

PrecioussB:
Why is it that older men love to pursue Young girls?

Especially old African men. It is disgusting how they are interested in girls that are old enough to be their daughter.

I have had a lot of old and successful guys ask me out but I always say no thanks.

It is scary, these perverts need to find women their own age. Has this happen to anyone?

To answer your question, let me paint you a real life picture. A circle that had been going on for generations no end.

Guys and gurls are never intellectually/socially age mates even if they are of same age.
The gurl matures faster mentally and has men on her tail immediately she starts growing those curves, b00bs n b00ties. Talking to and relating with guys that are way older and getting all those attention, automatically matures their mentality.
While the guy of same age bracket is still figuring out how to brush his teeth and wash his briefs she is already rolling with matured minds, even cleaning their accounts.

Then they gain admission into some university, while he is worrying about his books and how to feed, she is getting all manners of gifts and favours ( both in acedemics; from lecturers, to all manners of guys).

if the guy doesn't top up his airtime n subscribe to data bundles, he is left high and dry. if he doesn't plan his money well for the semester, he wud starve.

But she can basically go months without using her pocket money from her parents for any of those. there are magas on steady roll for that. even if she doesn't want, they still push over and roll over themselves to have her.

All this while, in school, the guy could hardly afford to feed himself let alone bear the burden of a GF. he was all alone.
The girl he managed to connect with turned him to an assignment and exams bf.
Another one of his age mate he tried to talk to, after washing him down with looks, ignored him, called her friend to come and witness "This small boy" trying to insult her.

The guys that couldn't stand this kinda insult nor let the university fun pass them by, joined all manners of things so they can at least get some. Alot got killed, rusticated or maimed.


Then they graduate, before NYSC is over, she has broken a couple of hearts, wrecked some, eaten tons into the future of others while they were left licking their injuries, yet another bigger boy rolls by and marries her.

However, the guy, jolted to real life realities by the sudden stop to his small allowance from home and job hustle after NYSC, has no where to go but to squat with his friends until he got a small paying job and moved to a one room face-me-i-slap-you apartment.

He struggled until he finally made it, by then he was already 45years.
Now he has the money, gurls came drooling. but most of them( working class and jobless ones) were coming for his money. leeches.

What does he do? He recalls how those big boys kept coming to spoil undergrads during his school days. stealing guy's gurls and making gurls disrespect them. Time to pay back and have his pound of flesh.
he stoop low and prefers the naive ones in universities that would always wano oppress other students because they are dating a guy with a sleek ride. Those that 5k gift is like 1million to. Those that their brains and bodies have not been wired crazy.
Fresh blloods with innocent looks garnished with pecky b00bs. And the circle continues....

If you were in their shoes, would you do any better?

Nature is not fair to guys.


#Bythewayyouareveryluckyourboobsaresmall
#andyouarenotlightincomplexion
#Iwouldhavemadeyoumine

The Way of the Superior Men ( In absolute control of Jrod) .... Reduced her to a piece of pork without as much as moving a fine muscle

Read and Extrapolate.....


YOUR WIFE IS NOT AS GOOD IN BED AS I AM

He was having his evening beverage

That's when she joined him.

"Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down.

"I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her.

" Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said.

"I am a married man" he told her.

"Fight all you want, but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him.

"You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off.

"Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage, then lifting up her skirt, just a bit.

"If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a grown man, you think all that consumes my mind is sex? And for your information, my wife is actually great in bed" he told her.

"How will you know unless you do me. Try me tonight. Let's drive in your black car to a romantic hotel, I promise you a night you will never forget" she told him.

"You know what you are? You are lazy? A lazy woman" he told her, then took a sip of his beverage.

"How dare you call me lazy?! I am a high flying educated woman. Any man would give anything to have me" she said.

"Fair enough. But would you give anything to make a man?" He asked.

"What do you mean?" She questioned.

"You look at me and find me attractive. Yet you disrespect the woman behind who I am, you want me to cheat on my wife, the woman behind my attractiveness" said he.

He drank a sip and continued, "My wife is responsible for the man in me that you want today. When I had little, my wife believed in me. These suits you see me wearing, are my wife's idea. I ask for her advice on what to wear.

My success has come to pass because she prays for me and puts up with my demanding work hours. She corrects me and moulds me and that has moulded my character.

The Range Rover you see me outside driving that you fancy, I bought that with my wife. She and I invested to buy our house. I look attractive and pleasant, because she treats me well and gives me peace.

And now you want to have the man that she made out of me and dishonour her? You want to have the man that she has built for years? You are lazy."

Silence.

"I see you turning down the single men who want you and yet you want me, a man that another woman has made? No, it doesn't work like that.

Find your own single man, believe in him, pray for him, support him, nurture him and mould him to be the attractive man you want him to be.

You women have a nurturing and helping gift. Activate your gift.

My wife has been busy building me and I will not leave her for a woman who has nothing to offer, but her sexiness.

So if you may excuse me, I need to drive home and take my wife on a date. She deserves the best" he said as he stood up and drank a last sip.

He reached in his wallet and placed K200 on the table.

"Have yourself a drink as you think about your life and how you'll stop being lazy and find a single man you can build. My generous wife and I have paid for the drink" he said.

He walked away as she looked on; her lower jaw dropping in shock, "I thought that this world was void of principled men, I just met one," the diva reasoned as she sobered up, nodding her head.

"This guy just schooled me. In 20 minutes this smart guy has taught me the most valuable lesson which I've never found in any one of the three prestigious Universities I've attended. *How to find, invest in and make my own husband*I need to find my own husband" she thought to herself as the gentleman sped off in his waiting Range Rover.

*A Recommended Therapy for All married men* �
And for those singles who are too self-centered to think beyond themselves and their physical endowments.

#YOUR MARRIAGE MUST WORK�!!!
*ADVOCATE F


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yetunsbay:
bro, ve spent on this lady. Is this not a loss

I knew it.

brandon180:

Don sequel to this threadhttps://www.nairaland.com/4737417/acts-books-how-read-faster which I just encountered this morning..am very much interested in the books because I want to know how to read faster with better retention, so if you will please help with the links to download the recommended books or If you have em soft copies I could drop my mail .
Gracias amigos..

simply go to pdfdrive dot com , search for the names and download away.

Whether you are a student, career person or entrepreneur, that site is a massive resource...

Rich Regards
Don

yetunsbay:
There is this lady we hv been dating for like a month now...we are both in love no doubt in which I exercise things within my power to contempt her.

The contention now is that she is a- V....... anytime I request for us having fun she decline rather says till wedding night. The fact is man can't wait till that time..

How do i manipulate based on her free will to enjoy her playstore. Pls bosses kindly assist asap

That is all you really came for, isnt it?

JhayJoe:
Please what's the link to the blog

on my signature w w w . datingdrill dot com

New updates just dropped hot on datingdrill's blog

If you have shyness/social anxiety issues, rush over there now, read up and take the balls task seriously.

T3ndrils:
Why do I have this gut feeling that this is harddon's other account??

E dey obvious sef... Don..hezzy

No!!! I know him not.

Why would I have an alternate account on my own thread?

The only time I did that was at the beginning of this thread when antispam bot banned me and I did come out to let everybody know then.


@all, kindly note that HARDDON is the only account I operate with... To avoid stories that touch.

lanibi:
harddon are his mentors.


Btw, op is probably trying to indirectly tell us he knows how to clone WhatsApp.

you have to do much more than this to get my attention.

Aiit, Bye.