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Romance / Re: Guess Who I Jam For Gym Today? (pics) by HARDDON: 1:08am On Aug 23, 2021
Iamdbull:

Na so e easy reach

You have no idea.

With someone like her with the pseudo 'fame',

First move

1. Deflate her ego by acting like you DONT know her.

immediately you do that,
you mess her mental system up. While she's struggling and wondering how come you don't know her, you throw a fun punch line either with making fun of her confused state, or throw some wine.


If you fail to do that, she'd see you as a fan(ouch!)

"Hey, you look started, is this your first time of meeting a fine ass dude? "

2. Act like you are in a hurry.

3. give her your card after the LON or give her your phone....

4. be gone

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:53pm On Aug 08, 2021
JmyNigaa:
Was a boring texter till I found this thread.
Met this Girl late last month and I’ve been doing the regular WHAT QUESTIONS but after I started this thread.

Me: (commenting on her WhatsApp post)I’m sure you dressed to kill today but you rather chose to show us just your head. Where’s the rest of your body??

Her: Lol
Her:you want to see?
Me: No... I’ve lost the interest to see the pictures.
But, If you tell me you’ll be available to join me on a stroll this week, then you can show me the pictures now.

Her: ok
Her: What stroll

Me: Not a special stroll in particular. I normally do that at evenings when I feel bored at home with a friend but she’s currently out of the state. Just walk and talk basically.

Her: OK so when do u want it?
Her: I will join you
Me : I’ll check my schedule and tell you [b][/b]

There are better ways you could have responded when she asked if you want to see her;
Yours truly rarely respond to questions like this with a YES or a NO. you shouldn't either. They Are too SUBJECTIVE for my liking and do not help me achieve anything.

Rather, think up responses that heighten your mystery, makes fun of her or her question.

So, let's hear some better lines. other than the wack NO.
You should know that that NO, is a vibe killer. she is cool not to have ignored you.

btw,

Sleek! @emphasized
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 5:49pm On Aug 08, 2021
Haylel:

Aiiishhhh... The Drills aside, I come back to this thread often to simply read your writings again. If there is one thing i would really want from you, it's your way of words.
Did you consciously develop it? How can i learn this beautiful art?

There are seeds you come fashioned with and you never realize until you bury your brain in diverse rich books, great articles from magazines/newspapers, and especially quality novels.
You find yourself deriving joy from well woven words, highlighting and jotting sleek lines, idioms, proverbs, great sayings and writing down strange words in a jotter (so that you can look them up in a dictionary later and write their meaning across them). Movies , books or wherever; you become so sensitive to words.

The more you repeat this process, original words/Iines connect in your mind and you started writing them down. At first, one liner, then two until you realize one day, that you could write original bars without blinking. You could flow peoms without poking your mind.

There were days, you will be in the rest-room, with soap all over your fine form and then some beautiful bars/words/sounds come flowing. You relished them greatly and hoped to jot them down immediately you are done, little did you know that, like great ideas, when words flow like wine, you must pause your life and give them flesh by jotting them down, if not, by the time you get done washing, they would develop wings and fly off forever.
I was caught, unfortunately, painfully, a couple of time off guard like this. I racked my brains to the point of splitting tears. And till this very day, they never visited again. Not in that fine form.
I learned from my pains; now, I would run out of the bath to jot down lines or voice-activate my recorder and record melodies that decides to visit in my awkward hour.
I would wake up from sleep and do the same. Words, songs, ideas, notwithstanding.

Effortlessly, you began writing pieces, a little longer than every other person, and read your piece over and over again, not just to correct the structure/grammar, but to soak in their beauty.

10 years later, you return to them and find out that they still speak cooly like you wrote them yesterday.

Finally, you come to terms with the special seed and you consciously feed it. Read more, take up remote jobs that can help promote it, carry out research, write books, set up blogs and socials, all for to horn it.

Hopefully, I have been able to answer you succinctly.

Ok, Bye.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 8:57pm On Jul 15, 2021
Canberra55:
BabaDonPro long time senior man. Baba I have a suggestion for you on how you can potentially turn all these your women knowledge into a money making avenue: SOCIAL MEDIA.


Hi, I'm all ears
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:48pm On Jul 07, 2021
[quote author=Haylel /quote]
The idea of calling days later to send that I-have-a life-of-my-own-and-i'm-not-a-desperate-wuss message to a girl is fairly ineffective.

Why behave like every other predictable, average guy out there? Create my own paths. that is the summary of everything I have up in here.
Besides, that advice was for newbies that just discovered this light and are still in the process of building their mental muscles.
If a guy can read facial/body expressions, see through their words, the world is his oyster! However, isn't that a little too much, too soon for a Neophyte? He needs to think, gather his thoughts with points of discussion before plunging in wink

Who you met two days ago is not the same person you meet today. We all have a lot going on in our lives, rev on while the iron is hot . Guys like us create our favours
.
cool

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:37pm On Jul 07, 2021
SENSE PILL
The heart was made, above all things, to share. No ish there.

The battle is how/who you let it share with

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:35pm On Jul 07, 2021
A man whose diction is usually fluent and fluid does not stammer for fun!

wink

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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 9:09pm On Jun 27, 2021
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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 7:02pm On Jun 26, 2021
just
toyeoye:


I'd take care of this dog...what's the price? Location is Abuja

just 120k

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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 8:30pm On Jun 21, 2021
Wanted to keep her, but my programs changed.

One lucky person to grab this.

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Sports / Re: Chelsea and Man City Preparing Exit From Super League by HARDDON: 7:22pm On Apr 20, 2021
I think the aim has been achieved: pump in more money into clubs UEFA.

Maybe, ESL was just a decoy

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:32pm On Apr 20, 2021
Jesterinjay:
should i call it words of wisdom ?

anything but theories.
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 12:29pm On Apr 20, 2021
Fatherkennel794:


bro hardon this your datingdrill.com is not going through

check that pics below
shey the website na fake??

the pics no gree upload

Site is up and running
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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:48pm On Apr 19, 2021
Fatherkennel794:
hello Hardon

how can I start a chat with a girl on her business Instagram page, then from there to her personal page then she giving me her number
This is the only one that caught my fancy and we haven't treated before.

Show skills and sways in her craft. give her constructive critism and how she can better same.
But first, walk through the door effortlessly by becoming her customer, while at it, be funky weird. that is Your LON here. don't chat with her like every regular customer out their. her number would drop without much ado.




how can I brief talk with a girl I met on the road walking and then collect her phone number instantly

how can I make a girl fall in love with me on chat

pls enlighten me

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 7:35pm On Apr 19, 2021
Jesterinjay:
Harddon ur theory worked i just tried it out with one still learning tho bt .... Till then

Theories? lol

You call yours truly's compact body of knowledge from the school of life and refined practical experiences from books' postulations, theories?
Alright.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 2:16am On Apr 18, 2021
Haylel:

I have blazed through the write-ups of many sages and I have diligently studied the books of many masters. I know not which to blame - my ability to comprehend or the fact that no one has truly demystified the route to the treasure which I seek.
I have blasting openers, skilled in the ways of keeping conversation going and demonstrating value, mastered the craft of humor and the cunny art of flirting, yet CREATING EMOTIONAL CONNECTION IS ROCKET SCIENCE TO ME.

That's because the more you get entangled in this lane, without having your wit and wisdom with you always, the more dead to emotions you would become.

Everything becomes mechanical and you seek diligently to be in utter control and always deploy one plot from the robot making rule books. you've conditioned the brain to overule the heart/emotions at every given time.
As we all know, maybe not all, and as I've stated within this space earlier, when the head rules, heart is relegated to the background and everything would be hollow and scientific. this is why pick up artists live lonely , soulful lives at their prime having mistaken potential wives as objects of passionate pleasures, used and dump same alone their very boring journey. for no matter how prepared, the body of a 50years' old slut must give in. age is no respecter of persons, creed or colour.

However, when the heart rules, emotions bubbles, jrod might wano hold sway, you lose control, mumu switch is prevalent and wanton waste, on the laps of a wanting woman, is inevitable ( all these are at a tangent n contrary to your conditioning by the books). herein lies the bane of your existence.

The crux of the matter is finding a balance between head and heart. knowing when to switch in a blink without much fuss.
He who has mastered this act has mastered his life.

You need not strive much to emotionally connect. if, as you said, you are sleek with keeping a convo and pelting the heart of a lady with fun pebbles, when you meet a lady that got vibes, emotions would naturally gyrate the more you spend time together.



@All,

Learning is good, reading awesome. but they must all be subjected to the filters encoded in our genes.
Learn to weed out thrash n file treasures. because no matter what, weed and wheats would always get harvested together.

Rich Regards,
D.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 1:51am On Apr 18, 2021
Mrlcredible:
met one last week, after I got her number I then called her two days later and she didn't pick up, I just jejely delete her number commot for my phone so in case she calls back I then save it back unfortunately she didn't call and that's how she got myself out of my contact list.
before I met redpill I was the simp that would disturb ladies with calls but now my heart and ego is longer than third mainland bridge

how you get the number determine alot going forward.... some release their number so you can just get off their backs, after that they wudnt take your calls. some are torn btw two. some would luv to take but their current bf was around while you were calling or were in a position they cudnt honestly take calls. some want you to massage their ego a lil by calling a lil more. find out how serious you are. if you didn't call more, well they classify you as not serious.

however, theere are those that expectantly wait for your call. if you did set the mood right.



If you didn't set the mood right and afix a LON b4 bowing out, you are nothing but one of them regular guys she meets on a daily.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 11:01pm On Apr 10, 2021
SENSE PILL
Though men think it not, Relationship is nothing but a business venture to Ladies.
they are mostly in for what they would get, NOT GIVE.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 10:59pm On Apr 10, 2021
Oh dating drill, thou the light in the dark web of men's wailing world.

With eyes wide open, accounts bleeds
mind freeze
Resources waste
Upon nothing but the v between some cleft
From the whims of jrod
Men wail

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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2021
Dc4life:
Hi, still available?

sure. You reached out already, yea?

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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 11:22am On Apr 04, 2021
HARDDON:
cool

@driand

sorry but that female is gone....

this male on the right looks exactly like that female.
Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 10:45am On Apr 04, 2021
driand:
this particular one, how old? Sex? Location? Price?

3months+ . Female ( though both the males are all slant and long coat ). PH . 120k.

Males 100k
Pets / Re: Advice Needed:i Need A Dog For Security Purposes by HARDDON: 8:12pm On Apr 03, 2021
therealMcCain:


What makes it my best bet

their parents have intimidating sizes; very large and are trained security duo though very loyal and family friendly but can take a bullet to defend their owners.

Even these lil ones started barking at 2months and their big bones are tell tales they would grow into large terror.

Besides, they are purebreed, slant and long coat.
Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 1:18pm On Apr 03, 2021
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Pets / Re: Advice Needed:i Need A Dog For Security Purposes by HARDDON: 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2021
therealMcCain:
Hello to the House

Please I need a Dog for security purposes, I have kids so I dont need something extremely aggressive.

I do need a VERY large intimidating looking dog, one whose Barking sound will scare folks away. I am inclined to buying a GSD.

So what will the house recommend

Lastly, for learning purposes, some Dogs go as high as 350k-500k while same breed goes for 150-200k

What's the difference other than the physical looks

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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 9:34pm On Apr 02, 2021
cool

Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 2:58pm On Mar 31, 2021
1 female left 2males

Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 4:55pm On Mar 29, 2021
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Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 1:20pm On Mar 28, 2021
Happy Sunday fam
Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 11:10am On Mar 27, 2021
just 3 left

Pets / Re: Premium GSD Puppies For New Homes by HARDDON: 9:59am On Mar 26, 2021
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