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HARDDON:
To overcome this, practice is the best answer .

1) Write down 10 places u usually meet/interact with ladies

2) think up and write down 10 diff chat up lines that r witty , go over them n memorize d best five. Use them when u r wit dem ladies, receptionist, attendants, call agents. dese r all gud practice targets cos they r paid to attend to d public n treat u nice, so ride that tide n let d witty n fun u out!

Call Mtn , etisalat , radio station ( those gurls have nice voices ) lines n just throw ur lines....

Eg , u call, she picks with dis their accent n u say wow, ur voice is sleek, r u trying to impress me wit it? She wud be thrown off balance , don't wait for her response just say: well u got to try harder.... Or u say , oops, she quiet, yea I know, I have that effect on ladies! He he he

When u call customer care n a guy picks, drop n call back(lol)
If a lady picks, say; u just drain my credit while i was talking to my gf why? R u jelos, now I want to continue the call, oya borrow me some credit if u ain't jelos!



3) u can also write d general ones we have here down n practice them.

janefrances01:
no be only you, the commentator is even confusing me with the -ish

MissJoy29:
Chai!

So happy!

MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Hello Bosses in the house ... my roommate told me that a girl in his dept told him that she likes me ... and she told him to find out if i like her too .. he has given me her number ...

How do i go about her cos she is very cute ..

Harddon
DavidTheGeek
2dice01

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 14:

PLAYERS vs MEN....The Duel

Now that we hv outlined who a player is, lets check out the Qualities of men. Real men

While at it, Let's correct d notion; Age dont make no man. Neither do Beards.

It is the content of his chatacter, the clairvoyance of his mind n an astute eye to read, analyse n respond to external stimulus succinctly, that makes him worth his balls.


Sense Pill

He is man because he is himself always. Dont need to lie to impress nor frame to seduce.
It is not d lenght of his D1ck nor the depth of his wealth but the size of his balls and brains.

He is a man because he cares enuf to know n knows enough to care.

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

JixNation:
I'm supporting Croatia because of that milf and Modric.

johnnyn1:
You tell me

johnnyn1:
Thanks
Modified

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1b. NEVER GIVE A LADY COMPLETE SEAT IN YOUR LIFE

Over Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt.

I say,

SENSE PILL

with ladies, Familiarity kills attraction!


She is not your friend( forget the conventional talks about your lover being your best friend), she is not your sister.
You are in a CEO / manager bond. You would plan together, laugh together, have fun, visit places but everybody should know their place.


So let fly off the handle the notion and innate desire to make her as comfortable with you as possible; only in convo.


SENSE PILL

A man must have the deft touch of a good listener, skills to nudge talks from her.

SENSE PILL

Never get to the "see finish " stage with your rose. For from such, a lot of "husbands of the house" have been reduced to nothing but gate guys.

Dataspider:
This is important. But how does one prevent over familiarity with his ROSE? What are the things we can do to keep put her on the edge while dating?

grateful236:
OK.. Thank you. HARDDON please help me out and expatiate

HARDDON:
DRILL NUGGET 22

How To Date Right

1b. NEVER GIVE A LADY COMPLETE SEAT IN YOUR LIFE

Over Familiarity, they say, breeds contempt.

I say,

SENSE PILL

with ladies, Familiarity kills attraction!


She is not your friend( forget the conventional talks about your lover being your best friend), she is not your sister.
You are in an CEO / manager bond. You would plan together, laugh together, have fun, visit places but everybody should know their place.


So let fly off the handle the notion and innate desire to make her as comfortable with you as possible; only in convo.


SENSE PILL

A man must have the deft touch of a good listener, skills to nudge talks from her.

SENSE PILL

Never get to the "see finish " stage with your rose. For from such, a lot of "husbands of the house" have been reduced to nothing but gate guys.

HARDDON:
How To Date Right

Never Get Serious



If you so choose to do this, THIS BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE IS GETTING SERIOUS. Only average guys do that. In fact, that is the default mode of guys generally when they feel they've found someone worth it.
*Getting serious means you begin to get conscious around her, you begin to ditch all that you have learnt here. Because you would feel that these drills only apply to hooking new ones. You begin to question the fact why you would need to fun jab your OWN GURL.
Why you need to constantly put her on edge. why you can't spend on her unfettered, run her errands unrestricted, love her with reckless abandon and just let the wimp back on main stream. And here now, you let your heart open, Jrod rule and your brains fall out gallantly.


WARNINGS:

Never Get Serious

Getting serious breeds tension, you lose your control, jealousy creeps in; you just wano monitor all her activities, she gains full sit in your life, reverse the roles and puts you on edge, you might lose it a couple of times and raise your voice, even flex a lil muscles at her to stamp your pseudo authority, then she withdraws- mono syllables responses, lack of calls, ignores your call, makes the r/ship lose its initial spark and you effectively lose your balls.

Sense Pill
Logical things are boring and senseless to ladies.

BestDude:
. She was the one that gave her number from here and even initiated the calls....

Hykis:
Hw do u tell a girl u love her?..remember!!! To avoid givin out ur ball, u don't tell her directly...

So i need to knw, hw?

absky5:
So, there's this girl in my department that I'm in love with and I asked her out but her response has only been "I can't date my course mate" I tried convincing her otherwise but it all prove abortive. Tried forgetting her also but it's like pouring petrol into a burning fire cos I keep on having feelings for her in a daily basis..... Is there any tactics or trick to use in getting her.... cc HARDDON

greenhulk:
or all these rubbish follow come that come with phones.

Oyindidi:
I know why I said that my brother. Its his duty to do it.

palmshots:
Sir Harddon....I had been an adherent follower of this thread tho silently..I need a serious help to this critical matter as it determines where my relationship is gonno swing in coming days..my girlfriend(Rose) dis homely chick..she broke up with me on a very bad note as it was due to somethings I said to her cuz she got me angry...I tried to initiate contact once to talk things out she's aving none of it @ all to talk to me..but I've been able to maintain some no contact with her for some days now although she's cool with talking to my friend (guy)..so d last time they talked she said we wud settle it on dat very day..pls the thing is I know she wudnt want to come n initiate d convo tho I wudnt mind doing it as far as I wudnt loose my balls in d process..I have been in charge right from start till we broke up..pls how best to get her back in dis case n not loose my balls now dat I'm very sure she wanna talk...tho I've gat some flowers but she's worth it...I await ur reply soonest sir