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ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Darlingme:
Some people already planned in their heart never to pay back. The country is hard. Everyone knows, but someone who could go extra mile to help you at your time of need, deserve your faithfulness in paying back.

You sounds as if, it's our responsibility to call them, pampered them, worship them, begged them in order to help them pay back.

Classic lines from someone who borrows like me and never pays others back. Na we be this.

Classic lines from someone who borrows like me and never pays others back. Na we be this.

ceevee2003:
meat and fish cheap for your side? You fit dey waybill to me o. Anyway, I suppose that will be a bit cheaper.

elkharpone:
Still Available

Modupeola94:
Help! what can be done to a dog that maggot is coming out from it. Thanks

TheDemola:
There is a video circulating online about a lady bragging to her ex-boyfriend after sleeping with his father. Apparently the ex-boyfriend jilted the lady and in retaliation, the lady slept with his father as pay back. What's the world turning to?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kesVX7oETiQ

https://www.instagram.com/p/CUryr96gcPC/?utm_medium=copy_link

akoniyong:
BOOSTER FOREIGN FOOD

akoniyong:
Good Day Nairalanders..

Pictures below is my 3 Month old female Caucasian. her energy level is very very weak,. at times, when she's even walking, she fall. she cant even jump out of the cage by herself without falling. she likes doing most of her play lying down. how can i correct this please. to even walk with her on chains, its a no no for her. any recommendations please.

see her picture and short video below.

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lalasticlala

Mercychen:
Na grammar you still dey speak.

When your so called pet decides to eat you because you refused to feed it, you'll know scores.

egorov:
I have two male and a female accidentally cross bred dogs for sale.

The cane about as a result of copulation between a pitbull (female) and a boerboel (male).
They are 9weeks old now and I'm letting go for a very cheap price of 35k each
Location is Ibadan.

07060661172

einsteine:
You are conflating these loan apps with legal lenders such as Carbon (10-30% monthly interest rate) who have legal licenses and deposit taking capacity.


Investors don't place funds with these particular ones. They don't even have licenses with the CBN. These are fly by the night Chinese hustlers bringing in money from China and Hong Kong to lend at huge interest rates. Even if just half of their customers pay up, they will still make profits which is repatriated regularly to China through black market Forex purchases. I won't be surprised if the source of the money is from the Chinese triads.

raymondhillmimi:
She needed the money like her life depends on it, you need to see begging! The deadline was the following day and it was a golden opportunity that might not come in a long time. If I didn’t help her I would have been unhappy if she missed that opportunity which am fully aware of. But the crazy part is how she now see it like am disturbing her, this is someone I care about like we talk multiple times a day. Now I call and she won’t call back, I know she might be running around for the funds and thinking am calling to ask for my money. I have decided to not call her for a while and watch is she will come up with the money or part of it or keep acting dumb then that’s when I will show my madness.

JayTripz:
Omoooooo!!!

scammers Everywhere....

When dem don use 10m naira carry 2 odd Ajax, Man United, Bayern Munich to Win for home Pepper eye de worry Dem now..Dem de see double.... Anybody Dem see for road nai de hold Dem money

My guy nor mind them Jare....block number,go buy Cold malt drink...

DoggoneDogg:
Upgrade your circle ogbeni.
Avoid interacting with poor people so you won't be getting such again.

Darlingme:
Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts?
You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious.
On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back.
Have you ever been in this kind of situation?
How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmNFHNyHUEU

raymondhillmimi:
Omo, humans are something else. Borrowed a friend a lot of money oh, very close friend! She said she would pay back in 2 months, it’s more than 2 months now but I already considered a grace period of 2 weeks because I know say she fit no fit pay at the exact time. The grace period don almost pass self, the worse is she is not returning my calls. Normal call of how are you doing na wahala.

If you can’t pay as when due why not say it than hiding, I really value our friendship and wish I can get my money back without any issues between us. This is not an amount I can forget else I would have, it’s more than a million and I only gave her that much because I don check her pocket and she fit pay. But if she doesn’t then we go drag am wela.

Darlingme:
Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts?
You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious.
On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back.
Have you ever been in this kind of situation?
How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmNFHNyHUEU

IyareOseiwe:
8months

ChopBellefull:
Dangote no dey ever sponsor anyone..