₦airaland Forum

Phraences:
I have a problem with the bolded. Even Jesus said in the Lord's prayer "Forgive us our trespasses as we....". This your mentality is what makes a lot of Christians including Pastors commit so many sins ON PURPOSE in the world today.

I really like this question

Let me tell you this the pastor's who sin most of them don't even believe in my mindset.
See we need to understand Jesus like Paul did, Jesus said that while he was still alive then men where still slaves to sin.
When Jesus was crucified he was a sacrifice to wash our sins away even the sins we have yet to commit, So that when we believe in him we receive that forgiveness by proxy.
Just like Isaiah said as the bronze serpent was lifted up(and all those who looked upon it were saved from the poison) so will the son of man be lifted up so all who believe in him may be saved.

But here is the interesting part what I have mentioned is the grace of forgiveness given to us but we only received that grace when we believe in Jesus. And to believe in Jesus is to act like him, Love others like he did, So if you love others you can't bear a heart to hurt others, so if you can't love others you don't truly believe in Jesus.
And those pastor's you mentioned who do various atrocities if they really love others they won't do that, so they don't have the knowledge of what it means to believe in Jesus.

You know Jesus told us faith, hope and love are vital, but Love is the greatest of them all, that's cause you cannot believe in Jesus without loving others, the moment you love your fellow humans like you do yourself your sins are as good as done.

All the good virtues of the earth (peace, joy, hope, grace) all all born from love

Bro I feel you, after reading Paul's words I feel Paul even though never meeting Jesus is one of the pet who really understood him.

Zzor:
I grew up mostly in the church, I was that child participating in several church activities, I loved God and Godly activities but ever since I grew up into a full grown woman, it has been a battle for me between worldly activities and Godly activities, I always feel dragged, like the devil is after me and also God wants to use me. I always encounter problems each time I go weird and worldly but always run back to God, my life has been like this for long now. I want God to take full charge of me, I'm so down and confused. Happy Sunday to you all

See Zzor what is righteousness, it's not how pure you are or how holy you are we are all humans and we are meant to sin, but here is the interesting fact when we believe in Jesus all that sin is Gone and you can no longer sin, that means all the sin you have committed or will commit is already forgiven as long as you believe in God with all your heart. The thing devil use to drag us away from God is making us feel we are sinners and giving us a kind of guilt that we are so tainted that God won't answer our prayers, But caption this as long as you believe in Jesus you cannot sin cause all sin has been taken away from you at the cross of Calvary. no matter what you do wrong or backslide continue praying and feel forgiven cause God knows we can't be perfect and he is counting our righteousness as how strong we believe in him.
Look at David and Abraham they fvcked up like countless times, they were not among the holy of holies nor among the great prophets, but God acknowledged these men cause after they fvcked up they came back to him. So don't feel too tainted or feel you have sinned too much, Just Go back to God he has long forgiven you before you even ask
Have a good day

Djdeebrain:
I have this kind of mind that when ever i see a lady or a beautiful woman My pastors wives inclussive i pictured them naked. Please how do i overcome this sinful acts. Admin please help.

What is sin? When Jesus told us that when we look at a woman lustfully you have committed adultery in your hearts what did he mean? See that verse was directed when the Pharisees talked about fornication, and what he meant was that man was not made perfect and man can never be perfect no matter how hard you try, and only God can ever make us perfect, so accept the fact that we were made with such urges and forgive yourself, as long as you believe in God you cannot possibly sin as you are no longer bound by any law.

Kestolove:
Do you get erection when you see them?

Why is that necessary, do you want to picture his pubes too

That's cause you stalk them and send creepy messages,

Zzor:
It's tiring,haba since secondary school

Asin eh they deserve an award

Men don't have standards they are attracted to anything with a hole, so if a lady should make up it's now for your sake, you overestimate yourself OP

ePoster:
To begin with, Nigerian men don't even have standard.

As long as they prioritise sex, nothing changes.

Imagine someone creating a thread, calling out Nigerian women for their poor hygiene...

Nigerian man: I was about to have sex with a beautiful lady... the moment she took off her undies, the smell down there nearly knocked me out!

ePoster: Did you still have sex with her?!

Nigerian man: Yes! I used a condom...

ePoster:



As for the money for sex ish...most Nigerian men are leeches.

The fact that they feel fly when compared to their female counterparts in this country baffles me!

Is the pathetic scenario of a slave maltreating another... but bends down to lick the ass of his foreign master.


https://www.nairaland.com/6271173/nigeria-man-kneels-down-beg.

This is just like mentioned, some men complain about ladies a lot yet they still behave like children when it comes lady affairs

Xixtie:
I do not depend on these struggling broke-asses let alone being called lazy by some set of animals who don't even have a penny in their accounts to start with.
I am self-made, same with my sisters.
Most of these lots who call Ladies lazy are simply using their mothers and sisters as templates to judge.
People from other households do things differently.

Pls this isn't a gender based war always try to read deeply into the contents, I never said all women are lazy, I was justifying majority of ladies don't give it their all cause man have made it so they have no reason to. If you are a made woman yourself that would be something priceless cause it had to take determination

Ilegend can I join you

Ok I know it has been a trend about ladies being lazy, broke and having nothing to offer except sex. But the main reason for this kind of behavior is men themselves,
A lady has grown up to the mentality that guys are as dumb as to buy anything just to impress and have sex with them, without having to do any work, it's like walking down the road and people offering you money for you to get an orgasm, every normal person without a strong determination (80% of humans) would pick this and especially in a country like Nigeria where you have to work very hard to make it so don't blame them if they take the easy way out, cause you guys basically handed it to them on a platter of gold.
If we want our ladies to actually work hard to achieve some goals we have to stop behaving like average men and set high standards. But can guys really stop following their testereone feuled instincts? Depending on the answer you know why ladies act so lazy.
So when you a lady who worked her way to the top(especially cute ones), you know that took determination

Yes it is

Guys our culture and various religion puts a great deal of value on virginity,
Virginity is a sign of purity and it shows that that lady has kept herself from illict sexual acts and is well deserving of marriage.
-So guys what are your thoughts on marrying a non-virgin lady. Are they supposed to be eligible candidates for marriage
-Do you think Guys also have to be virgins before marriage?
-

nzehvictor2016:
Boss no be ipob they kill ooo,get sense nah

I suspected only fulani are that stupid

OyigboUpdate:
Oyigbo is hell for us. This IPOB guys are causing mayhem. If u pass mbano camp if they catch u and you cant speak Igbo language six geet u go. I bribed them with 1k and prove to them am an Igbo man before I could pass.
Thank God for the military in Oyigbo at the moment thank God.

Notasyouthink you're needed here.
Wike is compensating heroes what is your leader doing with una contributions

I thought it was herdsmen and fulani killing people i didn't know it was the IPOB my misconception

Arrewa:
#oyigboMassacre

It’s too early and too soon to forget innocent northern Muslims that were murdered in cold blood & burnt into ashes in the south.

I hope we never forget these innocent people whose crime is being Muslims & being in the wrong location.

They attacked trucks conveying produce to the south... Kill the custodians and burn the trailers.

No media house reported It cos they're Hausa Muslims.


This will never be swept under the carpet.

Justice must be served!

Una no dey kill christains for north, how this one concern us

SurefireFashion:
What abt nigeria

If victims parents are poor they go free
If victim is a boy he gets yabbed and perpetrators go free.
If parents are rich then we can talk of brutal punishment

He committed no crime, stop abusing police power

Cutehector:
If you know you will be cheating on your wife, better be wearing iron pant that is locked when sleeping and hide the key.

I am not planning on getting married nor would i dare cheat but does this exist, or where can i get one

Sameazy15:
I do nt think so , i sometimes heard abt it before,i pray one pretty lady also rape me

You nor well i pray 8 grandma's would rape you for 6hrs den you would know how it feels

WrittyWritter:
U better reverse dat prayer..d painful time about guys getting raped is dat dey don't get my attention at all..and many are ashamed to talk..people hardly take dem seriously...Dey will be like 'U are a man na'...D truth is dat d ratio of women getting sexual abused to men is almost d same..

Exactly the shame is very depressing.
A family relation of mine(i wont specify) i was older than him with two yrs i was 15 he was 13, the guy was very scared of his sis and anytime i asked him he always brushed it off, i later found out that his sis was sexually molesting him, like she plays with his dick and blows him and if he refused she gives him a beating, i knew but pretended not to know for a long time which is the worse choice i have ever done in my life, i later told their parents and they were angry and i don't know what happened to her but she wasn't living with them anymore.

The second case was in my former area where a girl wad beat up and arrested for raping her 9yrs old brother repeatedly, she said it wad because she did not have a boyfriend and she wanted sex.

This kinda rape and sexual molestation occurs to younger boys who are living with demonic sisters, cousins or aunts, protect your male child too there can be monsters even among women.

Cutehector:
If you know you will be cheating on your wife, better be wearing iron pant that is locked when sleeping and hide the key.

Even the ones who don't cheat still get their dicks chopped off, women are devils

AfroKnight:
Why are you scared? Is your girlfriend violent?

I haven't had a girlfriend since that incident having one is like living with a serial killer

Ok someone i knew had his dick chopped off and killed by his wife the guy did not cheat on her, he wasn't a rapist i still don't know why, After doing a research i found out that things like this happen almost weekly and almost every month we get arrests based on this. Since this incident i have had a hard time sleeping when am in the same house with a lady even my family i have been scared, i found out that in research that women normally do this to show dominance over men. I don't know why ladies do this or why other ladies support them, or why its common in movies. But it's very terrifying and i can't stay in the same place with a lady without being cautious or falling asleep.

slimjohn2k5:
Why did u invite her when u don't have the time to pay her the needed attention. I do not support the accusation but u would have apologized to her.

He owes her no apology, besides girls act like sex is them doing guys a favor so he didn't touch her she should be happy its just her toxic feminine ego acting up

This gay ass mofo again

jawalis:
You are perverted. That’s all I can say.

Exactly a lady can't just stay in buss without being stripped naked by imaginations of peverts

Must you keep copying what guys are doing, let me bet 2-3yrs from now your toto go fit swallow car, the write up dosent even classify as a misseducation, poor excuse for an Ubunja copycat

Iyoocartel:
Iyooooooo cartel

I pity my Nigerian brothers who still have anything serious to do with Nigerian ladies. They are the most lazy set of people in the world and they got the biggest entitlement mentality ever with an extremely black heart. You hardly hear of news of a man maltreating a kid or any of his house help but our Nigerian ladies can't even live with their husband own blood sister kids or husband relatives because of their evil mind and stupid entitlement mentality.
A man will struggle to put himself in a certain high class position and along the line of trying to set up his fellow brothers who were with him when he had nothing,a certain lucifer will appear from somewhere and change his mind to stop assisting his family members and only focus on her and her immediate family and the guy is likely to comply na when money finish the stupid guys eyes dey clear.
All they know how to do is eat like glutton, with stomach starting to pop out like Geepee tank, make irrelevant arguments about bb9ja and Korea movies, share sex from hotel to hotel and taking pictures everywhere like they paid for it and posting it on whatsapp with a stupid caption claiming to be a boss lady. No plans, no goals, no nothing. Just bunch of liabilities looking for a stupid guy to shoulder her and her family problems. I pity any guy who's currently in that hook,40% of your life is already gone.

I pity Nigerian guys who still get serious or his thinking of settling down with a Nigerian girl especially the ones from the low and middle class family.
Guys are getting wise everyday that's the reason for the high count of evening newspaper all over nairaland and the country
Just invite them over,login and logout and pass the liability to the next unlucky guy on the queue

I don't know how your quote relates to this topic, but ladies were made to be like this whether naija or not

As foolish men continue to rape people, Foolish women try to kill their children and step children, what a world we live in.

Immunity04:
Not Surprised, they just want to cover-up this man, no student in his right senses will speak up. The dreaded lecturer's cartel are up to it again.
The most painful part is that the VC is a woman she has failed the Female gender... Please nobody should quote me

Speaking up as a student means you wont graduate. They said sex for grade laws were being passed but why isn't it implemented.