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Marriage is an achievement among ladies cause they have little time In their prime,but for guys it's when they are ready to rest after all the steamy escapades

We'll females are the weaker sex(no offense this is not gender war based) have a more evil mind that's why they can easily be inhibited.

Forget that shit I think most of them form it and it would look real if it's a lady cause a man shaking like that would just be weird

Nah I would prefer 10yrs-15yrs older if I ever change my mind to date anyone, cause older ladies get less attention from men so they hardly cheat, they are matured and devoted

He should love his mother more than anything until he has kids after kids take priority, wife isn't on the priority list.

Your mom and kids are your blood your wife isn't she can cheat on or leave you at anytime

virginprincess:
Guys like this are not much in my life because they are not much in nigeria, you rarely see such guys now.

They are when they are in their 18s-22s but after girls use their poor hearts as rags they turn to average Nigerian guys. That's why I just totally have up on relationships cause I don't want to be the former or the later

millionboi2:
juju

OscarJaden:
she has used kayanmata on him

I thought it was juju too until I found from his brother that he has a history of being like this

virginprincess:
Is love na, he is not stupid! seriously i which such kind of guys can come my way, though i won't treat him badly, instead i will love and cherish him like he does to me.

Guys like this are many in your life they are just stuck in the friend zone....

There is this guy that just moved in last 3months in my school apartment, he is just so weak, he has a girlfriend who shouts for him and treats him like crap, she has slapped him more than 2times in my presence and yet he spends every dime on her, she is doing run and he is aware of it, I don't really know why some men can take shit like this, I was thinking he was under a spell but later I found out from his bro that he is just plain stupid.

Bro trust no lady, any lady you are dating just have it in the back of your mind that she is cheating, except you decide to live a a fairy tale world that says happily ever after

Really sorry for this was it cancer or something else

Ok, but same person will be paying money for sex who are you decieving

Firstandonly:
I think she is worth it just that I've never spend big on a girl before.

Never invest in a lady, invest on yourself I can bet one million it would end in tears

How does that matter, does she think marriage is now one big favor to chioma, chioma is getting the cash that's all she needs

Told me to tell some dangerous men he was not around when he was inside I was lucky I wasn't beaten to pulp

ZIINI:
You wey you no fûck Olosho wetin do you
Abi your life don destroy nii

Well am not condemning you(I may have done worse), I don't believe any choice is wrong or right just that we bear the consequences of those choices, but consider the risks of std and the risk of dying during a sex romp

auntyTania:
I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend. She has some bad attitude like disdaining me sometimes and while I was telling her how that attitude is bad, things happened and I ended up telling her to get out and hung up the phone. She blocked me immediately (WhatsApp and phone probably) and later unblocked me when I was having my birthday. She didn't send any birthday wishes. Ever since she has unblocked me, I just keep getting provoked every day by day.

The thing is I droped a complaint on this forum a while back and I was told to ghost her for sometime to reset her brain to default. Now, I want to ask if I should continue ghosting her now that she has unblocked me. I'm having a difficult time with it because I keep getting more angry as the day go buy and I just feel like blasting her with words she'll never forget... I just feel like fire right now.

Should I continue ghosting her or should I bomblast her? I just dey vex like mad.

If you have problem with someone better not be with that person, just ghost her forever and don't ever talk to her, for both your sakes cause from the last line you seem to have a bit of anger issues.

fati2001:
GO HUG TRANSFORMER.


EVERYDAY COMPLAIN ABOUT CHILDISH THING YOU GUYS CALLED RELATIONSHIP.

The day you post a sensible comment I would do Thanksgiving

Lastmankc:
Why is it nairalander's that any time you asked a Nigeria babe out,The next month always becomes her birthday.
I have experienced this from three ladies now.
I just hope this not hasty generalization.

Well the what if next month was really their birthday

I want a bunny

Brownpeanut:
Lol smash and grab. She could have waited forever, but she tried her luck and it worked. It's risky tho. Imagine if the guy rejected her. I can't stand that kind of shame.

That's why she should have done it in private

I don't understand this thread at all poorly written

Ikennamurphy:
Okay, I was only concerned about her being lonely

I know, but she would be a bit lonely but she has her children around

ZIINI:
But I fûck Olosho yesterday night till this morning
Nothing do me na
God really saved me then
Rip to the boy anyways

And you still have the God's to say this, you are destroying your life

Ikennamurphy:
Did your mom later remarried?

Lol, no and why? She was done with men at that point

SweetCunt97:
But while you guys were together and having sex you grew rich, so how come she the cause? She committed adultery?

Personally the nonsense that pained me in this ur story is the bullshiit about being fragile and unable to learn or work.. Like wtf.

Best you go for a divorce not all marriages are meant to be. In ur case you simply ignored a very bad boil and it festered.

Who knows if the kids are yours sef

Exactly he should leave, the fact is a wife or husband that can cheat on his/her spouse would keep cheating and never change. There is a high chance the kids aren't his(but let's not blame the kids here they are innocent), and it's better to leave having one parent is better than having a useless parent. I don't like people like the op that take shit like this

Sixfeetbelle:
You guys have no shame!

See how happily you all are championing a male gold digger. But if the case was reversed, insults upon insults would have filled this airspace by now. Tuehh!

This is the second time you are generalizing all men like this, you should always ask me the question what if it was a female gold digger, have you seen me insulting a female gold digger before?, Always ask before looping everyone in the same basket.
As for gold diggers both male and female I have no problems with them, cause the old man/woman knows deep down why the young guy or lady is marrying them, and since they know there is no need to call that gold digging anymore, pls always ask my opinion next time am not some gender bigot.

Perfectsouth:
As I type this, it's with tears in my eyes.. I am pained, they've done everything bad to me.. Sincerely, I don't deserve this ill treatment have gotten from this family...
It is gonna be a very long read but I know you will learn a thing or two from this..
I might not be able to touch everything but if you feel there is something I need to share and I didn't, point it out and I will shed more light on it....

This may seems a bit lengthy but you should learn one or two lessons from it..
I come from a not broken not memded marriage same as my wife but hers was worse than mine..
My father used to be a rich man. When car dealing was very lucrative, he was a top notch car dealer in akure.. So along the line, he started fornicating. His was on another level, he always take them abroad to sleep with, shop for them and do every every.. We are five in my family, I being the first born..
I had to train myself through university with photography with the help of my mum too. I remember when I was looking for project money, one of my father's wife, the one that went to give birth in Dubai just came back and they were doing naming ceremony.. I could remember I was in the rain with my mum and they were pointing at us, though we couldn't hear what they were saying.. How did I raise my project money? Sponsoring 5 kids wasn't an easy task since 3 of us was in the university. So I went with my to her work place, she was a nurse so we collected all the aprons used during immunization and washed them.. Then I also hustled to complete the money...
It was a very rough and tough life but all along, we didn't even seem like someone who has a father..

Let me jump to the reason for this thread..
I vowed never to allow whatever happened in my family happen to me in the future..
I met my wife when I was in 200 level.. I was 23 and she was 21..

Cc royalroy

Pls you have to leave your wife if it's for the sake of the kids leaving her is better for them let me tell you she can never change no amount of prayer can do that.
See my mom and dad had this kind of situation but reversed and my mom kept staying and praying hoping he would change (for more than 18yrs) when she realised he was too far gone(just like your wife in this case, she left and it was the best choice she ever made I was so happy when she left and I wish she did it sooner. Take your children and flee from her use your evidence in court, As for the kids having one parent is better than having a useless parent that can't keep his/her privates in, trust me I learnt first hand.
And lastly I can bet 100k that one or both children are not yours. But please please I beg you leave that marriage.

techmalldotcom:
Na jubilation For the guy_

Asin eh he can finally have that cash all to himself

zinny377:
Haba!

Lol I was just saying what I thought na

Let them just marry they must have already had sex