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Family › Re: Men, Avoid Women Over 30. Their Fertility Level Is Incredibly Low by Hathor5(f): 11:38am On Sep 11, 2023
NoToPile:
Una don start again.

This thread funny fa..


My Friend who will be 35 this year just came to visit the husband who is based in Naija this past December, she's not been around for quite some time, she returned back to base some weeks later.


She had a baby girl last week.

One visit ooo, she carry something back to the abroad.
smiley cheesy

I know a lady who has been trying since her mid 20s. Got pregnant with the help of fertility clinics two times. Didn`t carry any pregnancy to term. Is now in her 30s still trying.

Another one, has been trying since her 20s, 4 miscarriages until a healthy baby boy was born in her mid 30s.

I was a dionosaur when I got pregnant. grin I thought we would have to try forever. One shot was enough. grin

All these google doctors will make you freeze your eggs at 16. grin
Family › Re: Men, Avoid Women Over 30. Their Fertility Level Is Incredibly Low by Hathor5(f): 8:35am On Sep 11, 2023
ravensckar:
My brother, tell me wetin you dey drink make I order am for you. Better sense dey your head. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Women this, women that, it is becoming annoying. Some guys have spent their youthful days fvcking different girls (and contracting infection in the process), some spent their youthful days smoking and injesting all kinds of drugs. After getting married, they begin to blame the innocent ladies for their lack of children forgetting that fertility is a two-way thing.


All these trash talks about 30 years old women is unbecoming. It's not a crime for a lady to be over 30 years of age, make una rest abeg. Some 20 something ladies are committing atrocities that even 40 years old women don't have the guts to commit. Personally, I can't date any lady that is immature talk less of marrying one. My wife was in her late 20s (close to 30) when we met and today we're still married. To the glory of God, we have 2 kids together and we've been living happilly ever after.

Make una rest abeg.
You have spoken very well. I would even advise my own daughters to wait till their late 20s early 30s until they take the responisbility upon themselves to raise kids.
Family › Re: Hope Reunites With His Mother 7 Years After He Was Branded A Witch & Left To Die by Hathor5(f): 8:12am On Sep 08, 2023
Seeing the pictures from the day when the Danish lady found him breaks my heart again and again and again.
Family › Re: Apart From Money, What Else? by Hathor5(f): 8:06am On Sep 08, 2023
Gandhi didn`t have money and properties and yet his influence was and legacy still is remarkable.
Family › Re: Dilemma Of A Single Mom by Hathor5(f): 10:15am On Sep 01, 2023
Do you trust the guy you have met? Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with him? Do you trust he will be good to your daughter? Has he got kids of his own? Where do they live? Can you accept them as your own? How do you think life will be when you have kids with him? Will he treat your daughter like his own?

Family dynamics can be complicated especially if there are already kids from previous relationships. I would recommend you to read about the experiences of others and then truthfully answer yourself if you are up to the challenge of a blended family.

Forget about the kids get polluted in the West nonsense. There are many very well brought up kids here. The answers to the questions above should determine your next steps.

Since you are very insecure about what to do next, take your time and don`t rush it.
Family › Re: Redefinition Of The Concept Of Marriage by Hathor5(f): 9:14am On Sep 01, 2023
All the women you know are jobless?
Family › Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hathor5(f): 7:48pm On Aug 22, 2023
Emily22:
All she said is trash, a man came back home, entered kitchen, started beating you , broke your phone without anything triggering it.


I am sure she must have insulted the living daylight out of the man. Now she is playing the pity card.
A man came home drunk after his wife went to work, took care of the kids and the house. I don`t feel sorry for him. He should have stayed longer where he was to sober up. He is of no use to anyone outside.
Family › Re: The Guilt Of Locking My Husband Up For Two Days by Hathor5(f): 7:45pm On Aug 22, 2023
thesicilian:
A man can feed his family for years and no one will hear about it. He's often proud to bear the responsibility. But the moment a woman starts bearing the responsibility, all hell must break loose, sooner or later
And he will also keep quiet when his wife refuses to do anything at home and instead goes out to drink and smoke. Stop deceiving yourself.
Family › Re: It Is Better To Be In An Abusive Marriage Than.... by Hathor5(f): 7:16am On Aug 15, 2023
Fishbrain who doesn`t know how to respect herself. I pity her future children.
Family › Re: Is This The Right Or Wrong Decision? by Hathor5(f): 8:22am On Jul 31, 2023
If something like this is enough for him to break off an engangement instead of working it out, he will be looking for a wife for a very long time.

Her behavior was indeed selfish but nobody is perfect.
Family › Re: Are Physical Attributes So Important? by Hathor5(f): 4:08pm On Jul 30, 2023
He has a wife but your problem is his height. I see ...

Is his first wife ok with you in the picture?
Family › Re: Why Do Marriage Of Uneducated Couples Last Longer Than The Educated Ones? by Hathor5(f): 1:43pm On Jul 21, 2023
Unfortunately, I could not find any data for Nigeria but a quick google search will show you that in Western countries the divorce rate is higher for the poor, uneducated and unskilled.
Family › Re: The Trans Agenda And What It’s About: by Hathor5(f): 12:42pm On Jul 07, 2023
bukatyne:
When I say don't include the Bible in your nonsense, I seem harsh.

If you really understand the verses you quoted, you will not have made the mistake of doing so.

1. That passage talk about two people: the Pharisee who said he was not like certain sinners. Some passages say he wasn't a sinner etc. Can you point anywhere on this thread I spoke about my righteousness? cheesy

2. The Tax Collector prayed 'God be merciful to me a sinner' and he went home justified.

Buttressing on the Tax Collector, did you read that he repented of his sin in sorrow? Have the LGBTQ~ community repented of their sin & I claimed they would not be forgiven? I remember clearly stating that God would forgive them if they repent some pages back. How does the Tax Collector's actions tie in to your actions on this thread?

A. He acknowledged he was a sinner; do you and others think LGBTQ~ is a sin? If yes, why are you supporting them to carry on and talking about their 'rights' to exist publicly in the society when your concern as a Christian should be showing them they are sinners?

B. He acknowledged only God can save him: Do you believe in God? Do you believe in a God that has condemned the LGBTQ~ community? Do you believe the LGBTQ community need salvation from their evil ways from God?

C. He prayed to God for forgiveness: Has the LGBTQ~ community & their fans prayed for forgiveness? If yes, has anyone stated they would not be forgiven? Have you spotted anyone ready to repent and prayed with them or led them to Christ?

Has anyone of you the LGBTQ~ community fans on this thread taken steps A - C outlined? Or you just copied and pasted the passage without understanding to say 'got ya Bukatyne'? cheesy

Just steer clear of the Bible when supporting your shenanigans, it is not hard. Once the Bible is out of the way, you can support anything easily.



Even God who created heaven and earth rested in the 7th day which is the Sabbath. Do you realize that actually working day in day out without rest is a curse and an undesirable state in the Bible? I am sure you don't cheesy
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

Matt.7 Verses 3 to 5
Family › Re: The Trans Agenda And What It’s About: by Hathor5(f): 6:37am On Jul 07, 2023
Also Bukatyne

There is no resting in the feminine in the Bible but a Christian wife works from dusk till dawn. wink
Family › Re: The Trans Agenda And What It’s About: by Hathor5(f): 6:35am On Jul 07, 2023
Bukatyne

This here is for you.

9 He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt: 10 “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed[a] thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’ 13 But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ 14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Luke 18:9-14

There are those who are clean in their own eyes
but are not washed of their filth. Proverbs 30:12
Family › Re: The Trans Agenda And What It’s About: by Hathor5(f): 9:31pm On Jul 05, 2023
Cococandy, I just logged in because of you. I salute you and bow to you my lady. I admire your patience, openness and tolerance.

I wish I had the time to type more with regards to the topic but I don`t. All I can say for now is that it`s not surprising that people condemn what they don`t understand. It`s been like that since time immemorial. However, it is sickening to read the rhetoric about hellfire and sin and pit of hell when it was their Jesus who found a totally different approach to those stigmatized, the outcast of his own time. Anyway, I can`t go into detail but I am grateful you don`t let anyone, no matter how many, silence your voice. You are my hero. kiss
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 5:55am On Jun 13, 2023
onumadu:
So the Scandinavian and other European WOMEN that conduct sex tourism in Africa are culturally and socially same as African men?
I asked a question earlier: Are there no men in Scandinavia?
Why would women spend money to go to Africa to have sex, when they have men in their own countries (where culture is the same)?
See your logic?
Because they can`t afford to buy poor young men in their countries. Come on! Everyone knows it. Same reason white men go to poor countries for sex tourism.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 5:54am On Jun 13, 2023
cococandy:
There’s no physiological divide between races when it comes to sexuality. Are you kidding me?
What a twist to the story. grin
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 12:39pm On Jun 11, 2023
Belafonte:
I no be winch na. I'm as soft as Agege bread grin. However, I think I've acquired the knack of knowing when to take her serious and when not to grin cheesy. So not all headaches are headaches as far as I'm concerned tongue
grin
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 9:40pm On Jun 10, 2023
Belafonte:
I'm not playing anecdotes above research but I know the term research has been bastardized. It doesn't carry the weight it used to because of the agendas it supports. However, I'm not going to underestimate women either, if that makes sense grin cheesy. I deal with you guys like yall are sweet snakes, with extreme caution
Fair enough but if next time Lady Belafonte brings up migraine or back pain or stress and fatigue, cut her some slack and give her the benefit of the doubt before you take it personal. cheesy
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 9:38pm On Jun 10, 2023
Brandiebird:
This is a C&P job of some wack website. If you accessed the actual study, you’d see the sample group, their demographics, and how the study was conducted. The original study could have used white, rich, undergraduates from some university in the USA and so it reflects that small sample and could not be generalised to the wider population.

Women don’t have sex to have sex like men do, instead they have sex to bond. A woman with more than one sexual partner at a time would cause her more problems mentally than it would a man. Being a healthy woman is enough! There is power in femininity.
Wack website? grin This is THE ATLANTIC. One of the oldest newspapers in the US.

The article cites several studies from Britain, Finland and Germany among others. How you came up with the above I can`t explain but in your quest to sound smart you have proven intellectual laziness.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 9:37pm On Jun 10, 2023
wagzy37:
You’re wrong and it’s not even close. As living species, the aim for existence is survival and reproduction. And RESEARCH shows that human species have innate animalistic tendencies when limits are pushed.
If you don’t understand what I just stated there, it simply means that every one is capable of anything. It is what guarantees them survival and successful propagation of their seeds that becomes reality. Reality has also shown that a woman having multiple men is not optimal.
You have just contradicted yourself. I won`t take the time to explain it and allow you to believe whatver you choose to.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 5:50pm On Jun 10, 2023
Belafonte:
From experience I'd say quite the opposite. Ever heard of post nut clarity? grin

We don't even get tired, as soon as we but we men would naturally say bye bye grin grin. Na society make us dey form responsible men.

One think I've observe with surveys is that people seldom answer them with facts, especially these types for some weird reason
Experience and personal observations vs. research. smiley
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 1:12pm On Jun 10, 2023
wagzy37:
You just brought out an article. Put it in context. How many of those relationships stood the test of time? Almost none! Why? Women are not built like that.
A woman’s innate aim for a companion is security and provision. Societal constructs exist, but not sustainable.

We aren’t operating on should, could and would scenarios. Reality favors a man having multiple women. Not the same for women.

Have multiple partners and see how your own friends will call you a hoe
Research contradicts your opinion and you may not like it but it is what it is, research.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 1:11pm On Jun 10, 2023
Belafonte:
The truth is everyone gets tired of having the same experiences after a while. The lustre wears off and it gets old, naturally there's a craving for some excitement again.

The difference is with men, séx is almost meaningless. We can sleep with a woman we despise if she's pretty or sexy enough, eg, many men don't like Toke Makinwa but they would have raging hard ons for her and bang her senseless.
On the other hand, with women there's generally a high level of emotionality and sentimentality involved which can spell doom for any relationship she's in. Mostly only damaged women who can no longer pair bond have meaningless séx.

Abeg hand done dey pain me. Make I stop here
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According to the article women get tired faster.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 1:11pm On Jun 10, 2023
Jman06:
I don't even agree that a man should take care of financial needs of a healthy woman in a monogamous setting let alone in a polyandrous one.

Both genders should work and take care of their personal needs. If children are involved, then both parents should contribute to their upkeeps. That's the trend in modern feminism.
Whatever works for you, go for it.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 1:10pm On Jun 10, 2023
talented321:
You are free do whatever you wish is your fucking life. Go and marry twenty men, sex starve woman but claiming feminism
No need to be angry. Life is too short. wink
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 1:10pm On Jun 10, 2023
Vision101:
@Hathor5

No, she will marry several men and they still will be taking care of her financially. I think that`s better. ;


@me
Whichever way you want the woman to win. What happened to "what a man can do a woman can also do" You want equal right but not equal responsibility.
You got it all wrong. What a man can, do a woman can do better.

More rights, no responsibilities. wink
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 4:46am On Jun 09, 2023
Belafonte:
Totally agree. Most men would want to deny this though
Really? I was surprised when I stumbled upon it.
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 4:46am On Jun 09, 2023
Vision101:
When a man marries more than one wife he takes responsibility for their up keep. Will the woman that has two or more husbands take responsibility for their up keep? Oya feminists answer
No, she will marry several men and they still will be taking care of her financially. I think that`s better. wink
Family › Re: Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 10:09am On Jun 08, 2023
pocohantas:
You want them to kill you?
I will go into exile if I must. grin
Family › Women Aren`t Hardwired For Monogamy by Hathor5(op): 10:03am On Jun 08, 2023
Please don`t kill the messenger. cheesy

"The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.
By Wednesday Martin

(...) Marta Meana of the University of Nevada at Las Vegas spelled it out simply in an interview with me at the annual Society for Sex Therapy and Research conference in 2017. “Long-term relationships are tough on desire, and particularly on female desire,” she said. I was startled by her assertion, which contradicted just about everything I’d internalized over the years about who and how women are sexually. Somehow I, along with nearly everyone else I knew, was stuck on the idea that women are in it for the cuddles as much as the orgasms, and—besides—actually require emotional connection and familiarity to thrive sexually, whereas men chafe against the strictures of monogamy.

But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies.

“Moving In With Your Boyfriend Can Kill Your Sex Drive” was how Newsweek distilled a 2017 study of more than 11,500 British adults aged 16 to 74. It found that for “women only, lack of interest in sex was higher among those in a relationship of over one year in duration,” and that “women living with a partner were more likely to lack interest in sex than those in other relationship categories.” A 2012 study of 170 men and women aged 18 to 25 who were in relationships of up to nine years similarly found that women’s sexual desire, but not men’s, “was significantly and negatively predicted by relationship duration after controlling for age, relationship satisfaction, and sexual satisfaction.” Two oft-cited German longitudinal studies, published in 2002 and 2006, show female desire dropping dramatically over 90 months, while men’s holds relatively steady. (Tellingly, women who didn’t live with their partners were spared this amusement-park-ride-like drop—perhaps because they were making an end run around overfamiliarity.) And a Finnish seven-year study of more than 2,100 women, published in 2016, revealed that women’s sexual desire varied depending on relationship status: Those in the same relationship over the study period reported less desire, arousal, and satisfaction. Annika Gunst, one of the study’s co-authors, told me that she and her colleagues initially suspected this might be related to having kids. But when the researchers controlled for that variable, it turned out to have no impact. (...)"

https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2019/02/women-get-bored-sex-long-term-relationships/582736/

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