₦airaland Forum

Samantha123:
Okay, then give your suggestion.

And where did I say he must leave his home

Samantha123:
I'm not a man and I'm definitely not married, but as a woman, I think the man should give her silent treatment and pretend that she's not even present in the house.

Eat out and come home only to sleep until she acknowledges her wrongs.

And I think that it'll also depends on the kind of event she went to.

Samantha123:
And how will giving his wife silent treatment affect the kids when the both of them will be talking to them

Samantha123:
I'm not a man and I'm definitely not married, but as a woman, I think the man should give her silent treatment and pretend that she's not even present in the house.

Eat out and come home only to sleep until she acknowledges her wrongs.

And I think that it'll also depends on the kind of event she went to.

Rechargeam247:
Scenario:

You have a good marriage, you pamper and take care of your wife, family and responsibilities.

On this particular day, your wife wanted to travel for an event, you asked her not to go for this particular event, kindly note, she is very social and travels a lot, you allow her, give her the freedom she needs.

Now, she ignored you and travelled, what can you do to express your displeasure, get her to apologise and avoid a repetition of such?

Creative solutions aside sex or money should be proferred

Married men and women only*

To the women, if you were the woman in this scenario, what can your husband do to get you to apologise and make you not repeat such?

Magnoliaa:
Hathorrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ❤

Happy new year, babes!

Where have you been?

I've missed you.

daylay7:
We are talking about marriage not bf and gf. As far as I know, marriage is complicated. If you say she should get it outside from someone who is clean and smell good, then, there is no marriage anymore. Is that what you are talking about?

bukatyne:
@bold:

What is your incentive for having child 7 and continuing in the marriage after all you listed?

Why did you think that having a boy child would change him? Did he tell you that his issue with you was a lack of a boy child?

Why do you think a husband who cheats and is inconsiderate would change when all you have done is continue with chores, child care and more babies (aka rewarding his bad behavior)?

Have you seen a child stop throwing tantrums when he/she knows that is the sure way to get treats?

IMHO, there is no difference between 7 & 8 kids. Also, I am anti-abortion in such instance so I say birth the baby & tie your womb thereafter.

Your problem is not the pregnancy; it is the lifestyle you and the current 7 are living. Now, you have at least five girls in your care that you are teaching that it is ok to be disrespected.

daylay7:
Personal hygiene is good and should be encourage but you can't be in support of a woman who starves her husband for months because of that.
If her husband is not getting it from her, he might get it outside.

Also, if her husband refuses to have his bath after talking to him, then she is not doing it right.

daylay7:
DO you know that konji is a bastard?

taiwoowiat:
If you want money from your husband, give him money first.

Wisdom

Belafonte:
Isn't a man also lucky to have a woman understand what he goes through in being the leader of the home? Hmm

Belafonte:
You can care for the kids adequately without depriving your spouse if attention and affection and prioritizing the kids over them. Of course, women proritise the kids to the detriment of the husband, and while some husbands accept to play second fiddle others seek the need for affection and attention elsewhere

pocohantas:
Tell him to divorce her. He is better alone. Marriage doesn’t benefit men.

Oh poor men!!!

Marriage is so non-beneficial to them that they can’t even be widowers for a year. They would quickly remarry.

Marriage doesn’t benefit them, that is why they marry 2,3,4,5 wives.

Chai! This nonsense marriage sha.

Belafonte:
Like I said, mother and wife relationships are vastly different. But I'm sure you know this, you're married after all

BTW, statistically, the moment a woman has children, her husband is already abandoned while she focuses on her kids. The numerous married men in Nigeria will tell you this. The reason most of these women stay oin their marriages is for economic sustenace.

bukatyne:


If you read the OP, you would think all women do in marriages is have sex and get pregnant.

Maybe that's what their mothers did.

Because I don't know how someone grew in/saw a functional and loving home and still say women/men do nothing/contribute in marriages.

Acidosis:
Lol. Very strange.

I believe most of them know the truth but they hate to admit this truth, openly.


I don't think any sane person would conclude that women benefit more in the typical Nigerian marriage setting. Same marriages we see everyday? The way I dey pity some married women ehn, but it's quite understandable why many women would want a marriage anyway.

Women sacrifice time, put their health and lives on the line, go for the lowest and most pitiable jobs just to create time for, more often than not, an unappreciative guy. Many will have to cook for the rest of their lives and no they won't get paid for it. There's so much more. A woman with 3 kids, for example, have practically sacrificed at least 8 years of her life on pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing (while also making money o), and throughout these years, the man does nothing but contribute money.

A man will drop 50k for the month and thinks he has done the woman a favour... Ahahaha! The easiest thing to contribute to a marriage is money.

cococandy:
And y’all better respect it. Because talking as if it’s JUST pregnancy tries to minimize the fact that it’s life she’s giving to the world.

If all she did was get pregnant and have kids, she’s already done more than you have or can do. regardless of how much money you make. If you doubt it, use your money to mold a human being inside of you.

End of!

Kingsnairaland:
Russia is so successful in this war that Ukraine authorities had to flood a city to prevent Russia military from taking it on time...


God bless putin God bless mother Russia.

baralatie:
It is disgusting to read what the West has been reporting about this Russian Ukraine war!

ademidedavid:
Seriously??

Some cum and when it's so sweet, some will reach organism just like a man releasing and they become weak to even continue the escapades