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Kobojunkie:
I am not screaming selfish, just submitting to the fact that it is indeed selfish. That is all. This should be objective and not subjective in anyway.

Kobojunkie:
So, you will only adopt if I adopt? Is that it?

Kobojunkie:
Selfish then!

Kobojunkie:
So, must the woman experience this 8 times when she can maybe do it 4 times and then adopt the remaining 4 out of 8 kids she yearns to have?

MrBrownJay1:
and i would even tell my kids (as we arrive at our destination):" kids dont hate daddy, thats what happens when you work hard in life, you get rewards like that... and at the end, no big deal as we all arrived at our destination at the same time"

MrBrownJay1:
IMHO there is nothing wrong if your husband/wife get a special treatment frm a company while you guys dont. just because you guys are a family doesnt mean you need to receive the exact same treatment ALL THE TIME. sometimes you get freebies and thats ok, be happy for your partner and let them enjoy the freeby (instead of suddenly being jealous of your partner expecting him/her to refuse the freeby)

what you wrote above would be as crazy as saying that, because your husband drive a luxury car, you too as his wife MUST drive a luxury car.

MrBrownJay1:
you lady, have never flown 1st class long haul.... but most importantly, when your husband goes to work everyday, you are cool with him being away from you (for hours), abi?!

PrimadonnaO:
Well, I can imagine how it's different. Because what you've said is the exact reason I'd love to have at least one child borne by me.

However, for couples who have been waiting for years without any child, it's already become a possibility that they may never be able to carry a child under their heart and see their grandparents in those kids, so rather than lose it all, why not adopt, and pour heart soul & love into that child?

The only thing that would ever be missing is the blood component.

Moreover, it's not written anywhere that after you adopt, you'll never be able to bear your own biological child.

I pray that the man I marry would let us adopt a child no matter how many of our blood we have.

MrBrownJay1:
i see nothing wrong in the act, especially if he is the one paying for all the family tickets.

many people dont know that, if the husband is a frequent flyer, he will easily be upgraded to1st class (thanks to all the points he got) while his family might not get that same upgrade.... and as much as they are all travelling together, who could pass on a 1st class upgrade (especially on a long haul flight)?

pocohantas:
Hathor nne! Long time!!

pocohantas:
Normal look o. Women enjoyment too dey pain them. You needed to have seen them wailing on that thread. For a set that claim not to benefit from marriage, I am always shocked at how much they wail.



Na only them fit tell us because the tears dey always shock me.

And you see that claim of men knacking up to 200yrs. If it is indeed true, why do they see Regina and Ned, then go on to ask if he can satisfy her? Shebi men can knack until they are fossils? Why bother about the sexual lives of young women married to ancestors. They tell too much lies to make themselves feel good.

Mmirinma:
Refusing to have kids because of career [b]in my opinion [b] is selfish. Imagine everyone decides not to have kids, humans will be endangered or even extinct in the near future.

1Sharon:
Yes. Let those dead women come and tell us what they wore to their funeral. They tempt men to sin then complain about rape from the great beyond.

cococandy:
Between us it’s clear who was raised in a condition where beating wives and mothers is considered normal and a sign of family leadership. That’s why you can’t understand why anyone would have something to say against that. Your damaged parents raised a damaged man who goes online and advocates for more violence on the women in their family.

You should be embarrassed

cococandy:
I know your father dog-walked your mom in the streets that’s why you are okay with his comments and upset with me for rightfully insulting him.

Go and console your mom.

wunmi590:
😀

When my daughter was 1year plus anytime she wants to urinate, she will just do it on her body, with small small spank on her body, she correct herself...

She's now 2years, anytime she wants to do her thing, she quickly run to her potty and finish the job there, inact she won't allow you to he her pull and wear her pant back, she will wear it properly herself....

cococandy:
They are making it about permission because it’s not really about grown ups coordinating themselves to run a family together . It’s about treating the women like kids whose husbands can act like their parents and decide if they are allowed to leave the house and where they can or can’t go.

Magnoliaa:
Amazon has shared some screenshots.

And that YouTube video addressed it too.

Saintmary:
Don't mind them,


They will make a woman spend the rest of her life paying for 3 minutes of sex that she didn't even get an orgasm from, coming online to run their gutter mouths is the height of it!

Who will blame those women aborting pregnancies on a steady? Hian

Magnoliaa:
Lemme mention Cococandy, Hathor5, and CHoccolaTE here.

I am GLEEFULLY eager to read their takes.

I wish I know some other feminist monikers off the top of my head easily to cc here lol.

cococandy:
Unfortunately I don’t have twitter. Are there screenshots?

Saintmary:
There is an increase in single Moms, but there is no increase in numbers of single and deadbeat dads, because those women impregnated themselves abi?


Your celebrity role models, your uncles and fathers are roaming round the country leaving behind thousands of women to cater for children all by themselves.


Your redpill gangs are going the baby mama way.


Yet somehow, those women are your problems?




They don't deserve to be loved because they are taking up the responsibility of two people?


Ah, I remember, you said those children are a distraction for you, right?



Say amen to my prayers this morning:

May God remove "distractions" of children from your life, may you never hear the cry of that "distraction" in your household


May you marry a woman that will never be able to "distract" you with children.


May your household be neat and void of those "distractions" for as long as you are alive.


May the Angels bringing those "distractions" always avoid your household.


May God repay you for the hatred you have shown all aye this morning. Every woman you have brought pain to, may your pains be returned double on your head.



Say Amen.

cococandy:
Don’t disappear on us again

Klass99 happy new year. May the new year bring all the wonderful things bring to you

Klass99:
Noliaa happy new year to you too, I've been on holiday I'm just seeing this. I wish you and other fun pinkpillers Coco, Poco, FK, FF & AT, a year filled with delightful surprises and life changing opportunities. That new year message is from GTB but I like it, I'm feeling it and I wish you ladies the same thing because I want it for myself too.

Pocohantas, I see you started the year gbas gboing with a certain someone. Your diary entry of 1st January was shared with me and I have been LMAO since reading it, the thing na turn by turn, e don reach your turn now. Season 2 of Paranoia Madness has begun or is it Season 3? . Please don't mind me it's just interesting how the same BS keeps playing out with the same person, over and over again.

FF is short for Farfalla and AT for Amazontopaz, in case of any confusion. AT another season of Big Brother is fast approaching, please do all you can to ensure a Nigerian wins, harass pinkpillers into voting if you need to. South Africa's xenophobia has really put me off in recent years. Hathor5 it's good to see you girl, I hope you and yours are good?

I wanted to make just one post so I had to mention all of you here. I hope to see you ladies again by January 2024, God willing.

Gadafii:
you guys used Rita Dominic and Genevieve Nnaji as an examples of successful woman that doesn’t need to get married, they are both married now

Oloni on Twitter preached againts men, she got engaged last month, no matter how long these women lie to themselves about not needing to get married to a man or even have a son for him even outside of wedlock, reality will still hit them hard in the face when the time comes