Rebelutionary: Ofcourse it doesnt! It is all shades of wrong but like @spicymimi said it is one thing to dress like this and it is another thiing to wear this to computer village...
The question is would one rather step out and go back home with one's sanity and dignity intact or would one rather engage in street squabbles with a fellow who has nothing to lose?
It is unfortunate that the laws which should deal with ilks such a this won't be applied and it is left for ladies to do needful to protect themselves and this situation dress fittingly!
If this is the case then Victoria should use her voice to call the law makers and law enforcement agencies to execute the law instead of trying to get cheap likes.
Grandmeister: Even abroad women take care of their shit...every street smart woman abroad or not knows to avoid dark lonely alleyways...women abroad are advised to learn martial arts and to have pepper sprays tucked away in their bags or pockets..it’s basic preventative measures.
Abroad men who were caught on camera doing what these men did would be condemned, legally persecuted and fined. I can go out now dressed like this lady and the same thing won't happen to me here in broad daylight. Different worlds. See where you are. Not a sane environment and the responses here reflect it.
Grandmeister: Sentiments sentiments...tsk tsk. Even in the USA the bastion of modern day civilization there’s still rape cases! There are still criminals and murders in that country. Yes I am a man living in Nigeria and yet I go out of my way to take care and protect my shit( and that includes my life and property). Criminals will always abound as long as mankind is imperfect. Sentiments won’t do you any good.
Are you telling me who lives abroad that the situation for women abroad is as bad as the situation for women living in Nigeria? And you dare to call me sentimental? Oh the irony!
Petyprincess: Aww so cute See as i dey sound like ambulance lol If i should tell my mum i wan to have cat as a pet she go carry me go church tomorrow say i need deliverance Let me just be awwing here nd i should end here lol
You should get a cat. Get one from the shelter. Get them when they are 6 months old. They are still small but less work and less destruction. You will love it. And on average male cats are more cuddly. Make sure they have been sterilized and have all the vaccines needed. They will be very grateful that you saved them from life in a shelter.
pocohantas: Babe! I once went somewhere to buy something and the woman didn’t have it in her shop. She told her sales boys to take me to their warehouse behind. I told her I won’t follow them. The guys were embarrassed, but who cares...
You did well to protect yourself. Next day we would read 'why did she follow them if she didn't want to be raped' on NL?
Do you know what frustrates me the most? The fact that the situation can be so much better for everyone with some changes in the mentality of people. It's possible because I live in a place where I feel and am very safe. There is never a 100% risk-free society but the difference is like between heaven and hell.
Swingate: Thank you for your very nice input, firstly I must ask you something. Don’t you think if the governor of Lagos state and the president after seeing this video, come out to condemn it and instruct the law enforcement agencies to do something about it we will see changes ? If we don’t condemn this act as we should the right way then we might be sending the wrong message to those touts who will copy this idiot and harass more women in the name of dressing. Freedom is been able to do what is good for you without fear of harassment. Ladies are different from men and we don’t expect them to dress like men. Unless the government come out with a dress code for women nobody has the right to tell them what to wear. I think Victoria should use her popularity to call on the authorities to act rather than this.
I wanted to type 100 bottles of whatever you like to drink but I deleted it because you may choose a very expensive drink.
Now it's this pink dress that got them going, next time it will be a pair of jeans. Whether we like the dress or not, and personally I don't, the act of slapping her butt is wrong, not her fashion faux pas, which from her perspective is not even a faux pas.
Men should also realize that a woman can choose to look seductive for one male, which does not mean that she wants the attention or harassment of all males. Look away if you can't deal with it. How difficult can it be?
Seeing people justify what is clearly wrong makes me lose hope that things can turn to be better in this country. Let people complain about politicians. With this mentality they have the politicians they deserve.
Petyprincess: They eat what you eat or they have their special food?
They have their own cat food but they get raw meat too once or twice a week. They don't come near me when I am eating. They know no amount of begging will help them so they have given up on it but as soon as I enter the kitchen they will be begging.
pocohantas: The irony. I love how they tell us to beware of them. Not like I don’t know before sha. I deal with them with EXTREME caution.
I swear I can't take them seriously. It's just not possible. With the excuses they give even less. It's not nature that made them so, it's their effed up mentality. I can tell because I have the comparison between them and men of other nationalities.
saaphiere: Living life this way heals some sicknesses like rheumatism.
The body apparatus needs to be moved to remain healthy. Some people suffer back pains because they spend too much time sitting due to the nature of their job.
After cooking i was expecting to see leftover, but none... Taste great
Thanks.
I have eaten calamari many times but in some restaurants they were too much like gum and I didn't like it. I also prefer them when after cooking they are fried a little or from the barbecue.
Positioning oneself to judge, speaks volume don't You think so?
Everyone assess (passes judgement on) the attractiveness of another human being. It happens automatically within seconds. And I am not pretending not to see them, I wish I would see more attractive men of all ages but the reality is that you give your gender way too much credit. As if men become more attractive the older they get. Most of you don't. Look around and be honest with yourself. Not only do you grow bellies, the struggles you go through show too. And since many of you refuse to work on other inner qualities, there is not much to adore and admire. Sorry but that's the bitter truth.
starbuck: It's normal here around my vicinity, most restaurants use igbo(weed) to prep their foods... I have never patronised any of them but people who did confirm that the food is always heavenly